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female
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writes:riight this is quite long and weird.i've been texting this guy we'll call him Rwell i've been texting R for a few daus he recently found me again on facebook i added him a few years ago on myspace.so anyways we got talking we been texting.so today we were texting he was trying to get me to go to his house after work so i was just like no.i said what kind of girl do you take me for?so he said average kind.anyways i said well i'm not an easy girl he said i gathered that yonks ago!i said how then? he said replies on msn and texting the other day i'm not going more specific.so i then text and said what you up to today?he then replied got to fix sisters car see mates and go to work why are you texting me then if you don't fancy me and don't plan on meeting me?so i replied i never said that? which i never did.so he text back saying i'm not looking for a girlfriend at the moment sorry so up to you if you want to text?so by this time i am confused so he then replied to me being confused saying you've misunderstood just explaing to you i don't want anything more than friends with benefits nothing to do with what i think you want from me...now i apologise this is so long.but question is why was he that bothered that if i didn't fancy him?and i told him i never even said i wanted to be his girlfriend.he's just text me now saying he don't understand what im on about and he doesn't see the point in us speaking if we're not going to meet why text a stranger for the sake of texting.so i replied i would meet you but i ain't being your little slut to fullfill your needs.but why was he THAT bothered by me not fancying him if he wasn't interested?
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reader, GabiLC  +, writes (16 June 2009):
 I believe you hurt his ego. This guy doesn't want to have any relations with a girl who doesn't even feel anything for him; that would make him feel as if he were whoring himself out, even if he doesn't want anything more than but friends with benefits. But I commend you for standing up for what you believe in about not wanting to be a slut. Many girls would just give in to keep someone from disliking them. I hope this helps.
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