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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Painful sex...

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28 June 2009 (F)

- Whenever I have sex, if the guy goes in deep I get a really sharp pain, is there something wrong with me? Do I need to worry about this and is there anything I can do to help the pain?... (40 words)

My sisters act like my mother!

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister is eighteen, and I am fifteen. When I got into my teenage years, my sister kind of took on the role of being my mother. Nobody asked her do so, as I do have a mother who is ALIVE and who I live with. My sister constantly lectures me about, school and sex, and my b... (355 words)

I know it might seem that my ego is just wounded but I know there's something that isn't adding up! Any suggestions?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I split up with my boyfriend of 2 years recently. I have a child and he was great with her. Before we dated, he claimed he was very open with his emotions but it couldn't have been further from the truth. He clammed up at any mention of emotions and I found him cold at times. ... (219 words)

I don't think he is completely over her and it worries me...

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ok so me and my boyfriend have been together about a year now...the problem is i am utterly jealous of his ex girlfriend. they don't speak anymore... it ended on bad terms but i still find that i compare myself to her. I have seen photographs of her and compare u... (205 words)

Is it just the attention from another male that makes me feel well?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is going to sound horrible.. and I already feel like I know the responses I will recieve.. but here I go. Long story short, my friend and I went out drinking one nite.. met sum guys, talked for about 3 hours and the one guy and I made out for a bit. At the end of the nite ... (319 words)

When is the right time to ask someone out?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Girls are you more likely to say "yes" to go out on a date with a guy if you two talk a few times before he asks you, or if he just comes up to you and asks you out on a date? I wanted to ask a girl out today but we only talked once before and i ended up not asking her becau... (95 words)

I'm really confused as to whether I'm bisexual or not...

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heyx i am a girl with morals, for example, want to wait to have sex until marriage or at least until i am properly in love. Though i do so many things which go completely against this, like i watch porn and masturabate with my hairbrush. Does this mean that i won't be able to ... (171 words)

Is this betrayal?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister and husband are separated, I think I've fallen for him and in the past he has told me he feels the same is this wrong? Is it betrayal?... (31 words)

I can't believe the dream I had!!!

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28 June 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Hi, this is about a disturbing sexual dream, I wonder if it happened to anybody, I still can't even believe it. So I dreamed I had the wildest erotic sex with my husband father, who is close to 90. And It was so dirty, when I woke up. I almost felt guilty, because it was so v... (111 words)

Did I do the right thing giving him an ultimatum? How do you think he will react?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this man two years ago for 5 months and was utterly in love with him. We had an amazing connection, unlike anything I've felt before or since. We ended it because he had just come out of a serious relationship (he was engaged), which had ended badly, he was depressed ... (423 words)

What would you do? How would you handle this situation?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A man fancies you. The man pursues you, a lot. You fancy him. You enjoy the attention and you go out with him. He tells you he loves you and has never felt this way before. You fall for him, you talk about the future. Then one day - literally out of the blue he announces ... (164 words)

Husband's been exchanging emails and planning a holiday with another guy! I think he could be gay. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was checking my emails this week (well, actually our emails, we have a shared email address, e.g. johnandjane at yourdomain.com) and got an email entitled "RE:Holidays" Nothing odd about that, you might say. I was expecting the content of it to be about our holiday booked a... (306 words)

How can a guy get over someone so easily? I broke up with him seven months ago and I'm still not over him!

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it so f**king easy for guys to get over their ex-girlfriends!? My ex and I broke up seven months ago after a two year relationship and I'm still not over him! He tells me he has only about a 5% emotional connection to me now and that infuriates me because that makes me ... (200 words)

How can I cope with my partner working long hours?

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28 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hi aunts and uncles im looking for a bit of advice from people with experiance of this. My fiance works A LOT he often does 12-14 hour days which means i barely see him. i usually feel him climb into the bed in the middle of the night. i know hes at work (not cheating or... (253 words)

Brothers friend just won't take no for an answer! What can I do to make him quit?

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28 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey Aunts, Well I really need help with this fast,my twin brothers best friend is madly in love with me and i dont like him back but i also dont want to distroy my brothers friendship.Also im in a new relationship with a really special guy that im head over heels fo... (245 words)

Lesbian sex does not feel that good to me... is something wrong?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay... I am bisexual and i have a girlfriend, I stayed the night with her last night and we had sex. i am a virgin when it comes to guys and it was my first time having sex with a girl. i gave her oral and she liked it... then she gave me oral but i didnt feel that much ... (107 words)

Am I getting the feelings too soon or am I getting feelings mixed up?

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28 June 2009 (M)

- I need a bit of help the girl I am with at the moment I dont know how long we have been together but i know when i told her i still liked her on the 3rd of april 2009 (I have been attracted to her since college, she started in september 2004 and we have tried to get th... (225 words)

Am I the ONE for him?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I been with this guy for a year now, and we also just had our first kid on april 2nd. So it wasn't that much longer after we got together that i got pregnant. okay. He wasn't ready for kids, i wasn't on the pill and it feels alot better without a condom. When he was 16 he ... (205 words)

Is she just not ready for commitment?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met this girl and have known her for almost 2 months, from the start we just hit things off, and when i spent time with her, i had the greatest time of my life... she didn't tell me right away, but i found out that she had recently gotten out of a 3 year off and on ... (834 words)

I am 18 and don't know anything about sex, please help!

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am too shy to ask this but I really need help, well I am 18 years old, female and I don't know anything about sex because no one around me seems to wanna educate me sexually. Can everybody please explain to me what to do the first night you lose your virginity? I really ... (75 words)

I need your advice bad!!! My boyfriend got another girl pregnant, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, well this is going to be long, but here it goes. A couple of days ago my boyfriend confessed that he indeed cheated on me with a girl and that she is claiming now that she is pregnant with his baby. The girl he cheated on me with was with her live in boyfriend for a ... (706 words)

How do I lose weight quickly and healthily?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me. I want to lose 1-2 stone in about 2 months because I'm going to college soon and want to be confident by the time I get there. Does anyone know how I can lose it quickly and healthily? I am already keeping my calorie intake to 1200 per day and doing exercises ... (69 words)

Do LDR's work? Want to get with a guy but he's moving in September!

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I just wondered what you all thought of relationships through university, or college etc. Do these relationships tend to work? The reason I ask is because I like a guy [who likes me back] and we would like to start a relationship, but the thing is he is moving to univer... (209 words)

How can I handle my four year old? He's uncontrollable!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i'm a single mom with an unrully four year old who seem to be as controlling, and disrespectful than a rebelled teenager. The child yells at me, throws things at me, and ignores me when I say no. I try to put boundaries but completely goes over it. Can anyone please t... (65 words)

Tempted to lose my virginity to a married man. Do I or don't I?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am an unmarried virgin girl.For the last two years iam in friendship with a married man. He is asking me for sex and to spend 3 nights with him. He says that it will not affect my future marriage. I am tempted to have sex with him. What should i do?... (57 words)

Ex is with another guy but wants to get back with me. Should I wait and say nothing or convince her to get back with me?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated my ex for almost 2 years. I still love her to death, but as soon as we broke up, she started rebounding with someone who clearly is no good for her. To make a long story short, she said she wants to try again when her current relationship ends, whenever that may be. She ... (252 words)

Does anyone know how I can turn myself on to please him normally?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've always been turned on easily and been willing to try almost everything except for blow jobs. The first month my husband and I were dating I was more that willing to give him blow jobs and swallow as much as he wanted (he never forced me or held my head down). After that ... (268 words)

Am I just homesick?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically i wanna know if this is homesick or not. I moved in with my bf about 3 months ago. I have never lived away from home before. Since i've been here i have experienced my first ever late period, my first ever panic attack and been rushed into hospital for the worst il... (297 words)

I'm hurt and confused...

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, lets make this short as possible and understandable! i am a young woman with a 4 year old beautiful baby girl that i love more than everything. i lived a very hard life in the short time I've been on this earth, bad bad childhood, i never had a mother really and my father ... (728 words)

Do I subtly flirt with him or tell him outright that I like him?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What should I do. There is this guy i'm friends with, and i've liked him for a long time, i think about him often. But i don't know what to do, i have been ignoring my feelings hoping they would go away as i'm quite shy n stuff, but they haven't, if anything they've gotten ... (142 words)

Should I take this pill?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and about to go on yaz for irregular periods and to get a clearer face because of my breakouts and im still not sure if i should use it i heard that alot of people get mood swings and terrible break out wich i dont need anymore breaking out and depression and all they ... (106 words)

I'm puzzled by her "wanting to protect me from her"

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok recently I started talking to this woman. I find her very charming and funny. but some things about what she says to me have me a little confused. She tells me she likes me and we talk about dating but the other day her tone nearly did a 180. she now keeps telling me she ... (187 words)

I'm soooo confused, what do these feelings mean?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello elders, im sophie, i have come to you because I am feeling so down and i just don't know what i want any more. Two years ago when i was 15 i fell in love with a boy called grant. our relationship was amasing, and he was most definately my first love. from the moment i... (333 words)

Getting to know someone...

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl I've been interested in for over a month now. I think she is probably within my range and everything, but the real problem I'm having is the "getting to know you" stage. See, school does not get back in session until late August. While we were in school, I nev... (178 words)

Not bleeding when having sex...

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had sex 7 times before, and i did not bleed. But 6 months since the last time i had sex, my current boyfriend fingers me. He has done it before in the past, but recently since he has used 2 fingers and goes deep, i have bled. It now stings when i use the toilet. I kno it ... (106 words)

What advice should I give to my friend who doesn't know where she stands?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey! My best friend is 'seeing' a guy. She really likes him but he gives her mixed signals. They have gone on about 10 dates over 2 months. and i think after about 3 dates you know weither you want to be boyfriend and girlfriend and comiit or just stop seeing them. But he i... (288 words)

Advice needed! I cheated on my boyfriend with my best friend.

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, i am a junior in high school. My ex-boyfriend and i have been on and off for a little over a year now. (we've only been "off" for about 2 months over all) We started going out in February of this year again. We became isolated from our friends and others, remainin... (448 words)

Is he the happiest man???

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey friends, plz tell me is he the most happiest man? I came in contact with a married man. He invited me for sex but I refused. He is a very rich man. Happily married with a good wife, has a son and a daughter. He can get any girl he wants. He sleeps with every beautifu... (118 words)

How do I get over her 100%?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I don’t really know where to start. About 8 months ago my girlfriend (of 2 years) broke up with me. We got into a rut and started to argue etc. Since we broke up it’s been clear we both have feelings for each other as we nearly got back together a few times. However it’s ... (233 words)

It tears me up inside knowing he has had many sexual partners.

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now and have just moved in together. The problem is that the more I fall for him the more it tears me up to know that he has had many sexual partners. Since the move, I have found (written) indications of other women in his ... (280 words)

I have been out of the dating game slightly too long, any advice?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I really like this guy and I met him through work, about 6 times in 4 months. He found out that i have a dog and he has two dogs and has told me where he walks them. also everytime i try to go as the work meeting between the two of us has finished, he starts to make small talk ... (128 words)

Is slating about her boyfriend to me a sign that she likes me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

28 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I like this girl, she's real cute and all and i'm getting the vibe that she likes me too. She's not single but she was telling me that her boyfriend is an 'insensitive p***k'. How should I take this?Is she saying this because she likes me and would rather be with me? Or is s... (95 words)

Having an affair with a married man and don't know what to do. I just want to be happy!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am sitting here with a very heavy heart . I have fallen for a married man and don't know what to do . To be honest I'm not sure if you'd say I was " in love " with him .... but very much " in like " . We have been friends on and off for years but have been having a ... (371 words)

Not heard from him since I turned down sex, but I still want him. What should I do?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 14 year old girl. I live in a conservative middle eastern country where I cannot talk to anyone about this problem I have, so I have to confide in an internet site as a last resort. I have had a crush on this guy since the beginning of the year. First we became g... (615 words)

My guy best friend has a girlfriend, I don't know where this jealousy is coming from!

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bestfriend of 10 years has a girlfriend now. I always had a boyfriend but up until the guy im wit i never thought of anything serious. He is the only boy i trust with no doubts and the only person who can bring a smile on my face at the worst of times. Now at the same time ... (157 words)

Where can I get the Pill from?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for 7 months n we've decided we want to take things further the only problem is he alergic to latex so ive decided to go on the pill.. but im not sure were to get it from.. and how id go about it .. if any one could plese help mee ? xx ... (61 words)

Update: Tempted to go back to my cheating husband...

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28 June 2009 (F)

age - Hi this is an update to a post i wrote on the 18th may please help me. I did leave my h/b and i am living in a womens refuge now for a month iam finding it very hard to stay away from my husband he promises me he will never cheat on me ever or lie again he wants to live th... (285 words)

Any tips on how to get closer to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5655 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello :) Okay so today I hung out with one of my best guy friend (guy number one), and he said he really liked me. I do like him, but I also like another guy a lot more (guy number 2). I told him this, and he was completely fine with it :) I feel as if I lead him on. Did I do... (101 words)

What is the emigration procedure? Anyone any idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

28 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, when I am about 19 I have been thinking about emigrating to America and I was just wondering if there is any documentation type of stuff that I would have to fill in? ... (35 words)

How do you have sex with another girl? Any useful tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old and a lesbian. We have done all the kissing aspects but want to move it onto the next level... sex. We have talked it through and are positive about it, we've searched the net but can't find anything! How do you have sex with another girl and have you got ... (60 words)

I still to this day don't believe him but I love him too much to leave him

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner went on holiday last year with his mates and I was a few months pregnant (we didn't know when he booked It). We'd only been with each other a few months before I got pregnant. When he got back I could tell straight away that something was up as he walked In the room... (220 words)

Lost love... how to get it back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

28 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone this is my first time seeking help over the net. Lately I have been running out of answers and solutions. This is my love story. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 3 years and 11 months. At the beginning of our relationship everything was fine, we ... (875 words)

Do you think my partner swings both ways?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my partner have been with each other for a year and a half and have just had a baby together. When he Is on his own at home he always goes on a certain shemale website. I've looked on there and I was nearly sick, I've said in jest to him that I think he swings both way... (130 words)

Can my woman ever forgive me?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for over 2 and a half years now in what has been a very loving relationship for most of the time. However last year she told me she had fallen pregnant and I was so deeply upset and mad at myself for letting it happen I didn't know what to do. ... (268 words)

My partner is stalking me and I'm really scared for my safety.

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really dont know what to do. About 3 years ago my partner started popping up in places he shouldnt have been like my cousins house - I'd never taken him there. Soon after this I noticed a group of people -mainly men in their 40's and 50's following me everywhere I went - ... (619 words)

All the guys I date get too serious with me when all I wanna do is have a bit of fun! How can I stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I'm 14..gonna be a sophomore. I can't seem to figure out why every guy I date "falls in love" with me. I mean I'm still young and I don't wanna get all serious with anyone but every guy I date about a week later theyre like I think I really love you..and I'm like uhhh ... (85 words)

I want him back but he has a girlfriend. Do I wait until he's single or move on?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well this is a long story but ill try to keep it short well when i was younger i always had this guy wanting to be with me. i was scared of love when i was younger and hurt him. now that I'm older i completely with out a doubt love him with all me heart, but the thing is he lo... (355 words)

I fell in love with a guy who is my long lost brother and I had no idea about it! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - you might think this is a bit weird but i feel so down! about 14 months ago i was in a nighclub with my girl friends, we had a really good night, and i pulled lol, i met this really funny, drop dead gorgeous guy! and we got on really well. we went in to this same night club for ... (798 words)

Differing sex drives are becoming a problem in my marriage

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 8 years and have three kids. My husband is a sex addict, he wants to have sex everyday, but me on the hand don't have the urge to have sex, now it is creating a problem. What should I do? I need help.... (51 words)

Can you really still be friends after saying the "L" word?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

28 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been friends with a girl for sometime. Then one day I decided to tell her about the feelings i had for her. don't get me wrong we are (were?) friends. I told her because it was eating me up inside and getting worse each day, and i was hoping it would make thing... (330 words)

Tried everything but can't seem to shift this weight! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, its not relationship advice i want, and i dunno weather i should be asking on here. but im really gettin frustrrated now! im 17, and im just over 14 stone, im a size 14 clothes, 36DD boobs and im fat. i hate it! ive tried every diet going, im not really a sweet person, id ... (300 words)

After giving my ex another chance I found that he HAD been cheating, and is still texting other girls. Advice needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my finance left me after 4 years in march. I had been down in the dumps for awhile due to finances and job issues. he said that I was depressed to much and he will always love me but he was not in love with me anymore. He leaves that night I dont talk to him for a month. i ... (611 words)

Is it my fault that I couldn't maintain an erection?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Lost my virginity last nite. I could not sustain an erection while inside her. i felt as though the condom started to slip at times due to this. I may have been the virgin in the situation, but she wasn't much for foreplay (wouldn't let me go down, wouldn't give any) and had to ... (135 words)

Did my hymen break the first time? After two attempts it's still excruciatingly painful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm hoping you lot can help settle my mind about this. I had sex yesterday for the first time, but i'm unsure if my hymen broke or not. When he went inside me, the pain was excruciating... he had to pull out several times because i was almost crying in agony. Anyway, ... (164 words)

Budgeted birthday gift ideas?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some ideas as to what to get my boyfriend for his birthday. He will be 36 years old. I asked him what he wanted and he said that he has everything he wants which I think is great but doesn't help me! What do you get the man who says he has everything he wants? He ... (169 words)

Shocked by my fathers reaction, is he being selfish and not care about my mother at all?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My mother and I had a big row recently and she ran out of the house saying she couldn't cope anymore and wouldn't be coming back. I was horrified by my Dad's detachment of it all. He had a weird grin on his face and was saying how it had mucked up his plans to do DIY that ... (233 words)

Good friends but I think we could be something more. What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey so yeah i posted on here a few days ago about a guy who i've known since primary school and we've talked ever since in high school wasn't so much but i used to like him in primary but silly crushes and then high school but he used to hang around with guys who used to sort ... (420 words)

He told me he wants to be with me, but not yet as he has a lot on. Do you think he's seeing other girls?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating this guy for 9 months. We are around each other practically everyday. If not, then we're always on the phone together. I really care about this guy and he knows it because it shows, plus I tell him. He tells me he really cares for me as well and could really ... (151 words)

Is she serious about me or not? She never seems to make time for me

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry it’s long. I’m trying to figure out the situation I’m in. I started dating a girl since a week ago… sort of. We’re both in college (I’m going to be a senior starting this fall, and she will be a sophomore). I had a crush on her for a couple months, then about a two ... (616 words)

His ex is still in the picture but assures me nothing's going on. Does anyone else think this is odd?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok im pregnent and due middles of jan and been with my guy for 6 months anyway, he still has a close relationship with one of his ex the one before me and i no they talk on the phone everyday, should this be wrong that they still talk and see each other i no nothigs happenin... (178 words)

He only has sex with me when he's drunk. What's going on?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fella and I have sex only when he’s drunk and I’m beginning to wonder if he’s gay. He’s a lovely guy, but makes no attempt to touch me when he’s sober. We don’t kiss, cuddle or hold hands. Some nights we sit and watch TV at either ends of the settee with no contact ... (217 words)

Mixed feelings about my ex's problems. Why is he turning to me for help?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - can anyone teach me how to fight depression? I am so depressed right now, i dont know why..i dont understand how i feel. my ex informed me days ago that he is in trouble with the girl he left me for. i don't know..maybe they broke up. the thing is, i am devastated again ... (181 words)

How can I make sex more enjoyable for her?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, lemme just cut to the chase. When me and my GF have sex, I usualy give her a clitiral orgasm before the penetration, so to speak. But I feel like i wanna do something more... special to her, so i searched the net about the G-spot, about where to find it, how to find it, ... (150 words)

He continues to break my heart but I need to see him to get closure. What should I say / do?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im so lost to where all i can do is cry and i never wanna leave my house... so i had just turned fifteen and i used to bowl. Well there was this guy there the night leage had come back around and the minute i saw him i fell head over heals...we dated and had sex..he ... (824 words)

How do I tell my neighbour that I like her? I'm scared of being rejected!

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hello i am 13 a really small age but i am in love she is my neighbor she dosent know me well but we are friends she thinks that i am the best boy in the area now the problem is that i wanna tell her that i like her but if she says no will she tell this to her mother or pa... (142 words)

Lost libido after the menopause and his porn addiction is making it worse. What do I do?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age - I'm practically a newlywed, less then 2 yrs. This our 3rd. We are 48 and 56. We met online and it was a whirlwind. Here is the problem. I've menopaused and lost most of my libido. My husband, who is a gorgeous man, is prescibed meds that cause ed. He is addicted to porn and... (159 words)

I'm torn between my fiance and my best friend. What should I do?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my fiance when i was 16 (i'm 23 now), we hit it off straight away. we knew we would be good together. after 5 years of being together he asked me to marry him, i said yes. we were very happy and wanted to spend our lives together, we have now been together for nearly 7 ... (377 words)

A woman scorned -- is she ever gonna leave me alone?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Well im in a situation, i had a married woman at work who wanted to have an affair with me. I was very attracted to her and it took alot of resisting on my part to get away. She wouldnt let go, she wouldnt stop playing "games" with me at work. I tried to get away/end th... (325 words)

Boyfriend threw a chair across the room!! What do I do?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 3 years just threw a chair across the room because he got mad that I was questioning him about an online account he has. We live together now for 6 months and in the entire 3 years he has NEVER throw anything, let alone a chair!!! It's 2 in the morning and we ... (155 words)

Is she playing some game, or am I pushing too hard?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Question for the girls. What games do girls play and why do they do it. I have this girl who gives me an impression that she's game but when I act on it, she doesn't seem keen and doesn't initiate or start anything unless I do. This is extremely frustrating and was wonderin... (73 words)

Not Pregnant and No Period... Stress, Insomnia, Travel, etc...

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm writing this because I am stressed, and I need some reassurance. So my last period was around April 18th. It is now almost July, and I still don't have a period. I've dealth with a lot of different things since my last period. My first stressor woud have been exams. ... (422 words)

Partner is celibate for religious reasons. Should I wait for him or leave?

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28 June 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I was dating this guy that i was totally in love with and he told me that he just wanted to be friends. Now he has said that he regrets breaking things off with me so we have been dating again for about a week now... But he has told me that he is not comfortalble having sex ... (169 words)

Had a threesome with friends, afraid I'm falling in love

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just had a threesome with 2 of my best friends who are engaged to each other. I thought I could be ok with it, but now I'm finding that I have strong feelings toward him. He's made it quite clear that he has no interest in leaving his partner, but I just can't stop thinking ... (145 words)

My jealousy is getting in the way of relationships! How do I deal with it?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a jealousy problem and I shouldn't be jealous because I have no reason to be... Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with it? I mean its starting to get out of control and I realized that tonight lol Because I made an ass out of myself tonight, my mom now knows ... (64 words)

I'm soon to be married but met someone online and now I'm confused!

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am soon to be married to my boyfriend of 4 years. Things are great between us that's why we decided that it's time to take our relationship to the next level. He's a seaman and although our times together are limited, he makes sure to call me 1-3 times a week. Until I met ... (97 words)

Why do good people always get hurt in relationships?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So why is it that good people always get hurt in relationships? Why is it that when you really are good, caring, honest, and above all loyal to another person you always get screwed over in the end? I have (and not to brag but) been told before by people quite often that I am ... (269 words)

I want him to notice but then feel guilty when he does!

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28 June 2009 (?) age 26-29 - hi my ex and me just broke it off and i wanna kiss him when i see him yet i dont i want to flirt (u know show a little clevage) and he notices then i feel really guilty about it if anyone knows why this is happening plz tell me luv you all ... (56 words)

What the hell is her ex trying to accomplish?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriends ex told her that he likes her. They were together maybe 2 months and nothing serious. We're together 7 now. He told her 2 weeks ago or so. Recently then, he was talking to her friend and said to her "i want to tell her again incase she forgot" - what the hell? ... (379 words)

After we are intimate I feel guilty and ashamed

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 years old and have a serious boyfriend for the first time. My problem is that, I feel very guilty after being intimate with my boyfriend of 5 months. We are very sure that we do not want to have sex before marriage. But, we do kiss or indulge in heavy petting everytime ... (180 words)

How do I ask her to move to a different country?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm Scottish and my girl is American. We met five years ago when she studied for three years at the university I am now a graduate from. We've been together for four years and eight months, over a year and bit's of that being long-distance. In my opinion, we have the best ... (230 words)

I was really bitchy when I broke up with him and now know I made a mistake

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys..sooo there's this guy (guy 1)...I've dated him before but only as a rebound. This was about this time last year..i broke up with him in the bitchiest way possible cuz I got the other guy (guy 2) back..that year I realized that guy 2 was a total waste of time. I ... (116 words)

I told her what she tried on made her look like a fat pig

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend dragged me to the mall to go shopping with her (it was really boaring). We were there for probably an hour of her trying stuff on. She tried this dress that made her look fat when she asked me what I thought about it. I said it made her look like a fat pig. She ... (121 words)

Is it normal to be attracted to your boyfriend's friend?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend of 6 months whom i love and he loves me back , thing is lately i have found myself a bit attracted to a friend of mine , that friend i have known for 3 months only and we have hell alot in common and i understand him when we talk and vice versa , i never ... (162 words)

His g/f flirted with me, now he's mad

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend, his girlfriend and me went to a bar (my girlfriend was out of town that night). We were drinking a lot and his girlfriend was flirting with me in front of him. We later went in the dance floor and starting dancing. My friend is highly p*ss at us (mainly at me) ... (69 words)

I can't trust him but do I really want to start over?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age - My husband had sex with a women that we were couples friends with over 20 years ago. I did not know of the one night stand at the time. She would not go on with the affair. But my husband admits that he lusted for her for another 10 years. During this time our sex life ... (192 words)

Should I call it off or try and resolve this relationship?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ive been with my girfriend for 4yrs nearly she we met one night kissed it went from there with txting meeting up kissing more etc come prom as neither of us openly had said we wanted a relationship she made out with as many guys as should could playing a game with her mates.. i ... (484 words)

Does anybody know what it's like to not have any light at the end of the tunnel?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm so not a computer person, and I've probably only been on one other chat room in my life, I'm so lost - everthing is just such a mess. I've been tech married for 18 yrs. my husb is bipolar depressive and well maintained on meds - but has also been sober for 22 yrs. so lots ... (579 words)

So many half-commitments! Why can't she just tell me ...yes or no?

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28 June 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Hello. My girlfriend and I broke up a few months ago. I admit, as I did to her recently, that I realize that the way I was acting was kind of abusive towards her. Actually, I made a huge mistake and did and said something when she was leaving me that I regret. I never hit her, ... (438 words)

He was feeling a bit "nostalgic" indeed!

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28 June 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I had dated a guy about five years ago - Our relationship lasted about 1 year. We were very passionate and I felt like we got along well and had a lot in common. Well we broke up eventually and he met someone new about 4 years ago. I told him I really was in love with him and ... (197 words)

Am I overstepping where I shouldn't?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for almost 7 years, and things are lovely. We have a great relationship. In the last 3 years we have moved and changed our circle of friends. My best friend (other than my husband) is a very gay man. There is no attraction other than what ... (306 words)

Is it wrong to be with a married career military father?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. My question is a career military man with a young daughter a horrible idea? Ok here's the scenerior.... Let's call him brian. Well brian and I met on myspace and became friends he lives an hour away. We've known each other for about a year now. I really like him he's a ... (152 words)

A few questions for the ladies out there...

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have two questions for you girls! 1. When you say about yourself you were complicated. What do you really think about yourself? 2. You say to your partner after 4 months: 'I am open for a serious relation ship now.' or 'I am open fore a more serious... (94 words)

Do I go after this girl or not? She's taken!

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - there is this girl at school i realy like it but she dont no but she is taken and i dont fink she will say yes to me even if she is single but i dont know wot shood i do ???... (42 words)

Penis size: Small, big, or average?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - im 13 and im worried if my penis is average for my age or under average it 3-4 inches flop and on eceration its 5-6 inches is this average or below average or over average... (35 words)

The girl I like is with another guy, should I accept that I'm second best or continue to persue her?

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28 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There's a girl that I like. We met over the internet, and have been chatting for the past 2 months. We get on really well and have a lot of common interests. We even arranged to go on a date earlier in the month, but the plan fell through. Now it turns out that there's another ... (147 words)

Addicted to Sudafed and not sure what to do. Anyone else been in this situation?

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28 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm needing a little advice before I go to the doctor. I'd say it has been about 2 years now that I have been taking Sudafed Nasal Spray. I take it at least once every week and sometimes as much as 4 times a week. I take it before I go to bed as my nose gets so stu... (185 words)