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writes:I've been seeing a guy for just over a year now. He's sweet, he's caring and he's different from any other guy I've dated.I've told him that I love him on numerous occassions but he never says anything back? It didn't bother me at first, but its starting to get me down a little. He's never had a relationship before and I realise that its all new to him, but he doesn't seem to realise that it hurts me a little when he doesn't say a word.Am I being pathetic? or is this relationship going nowhere? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura M  +, writes (16 June 2009):
heyy i just had to voice my opinion on this one!! Ok so i had been going out with this amazing guy for 6 months when i realized that i loved him, i even told my friends how obsessed i was. Then one day, we were sitting together and i hadnt ever told him that i loved him and he blurts out..'i love u'..well it hit me pretty hard, i cared so much for him and was in shock so much that i couldn't tell him i loved him back, i was just quite and it really broke his heart, i could see it on his face. but the thing is i couldnt express this.. i was fine saying it to anyone but him.. i reckon he does love you, he just cares so much or finds it really hard to just reply..maybe when he does eventually say it..you will realise he really does mean it :) best of luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): You just have to understand that maybe he'd rather not say he loves you until he really means it.
Keep telling him you love him. That way he knows how you feel. Just give him a chance to figure out how he feels about you. If you ask me I think it's good that he'd rather say nothing than disrespect you by lying to you. Don't ask him to say it just because you want to hear it.
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