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writes:Anwar and I met in high school back in 1998-1999. We always had a crush on eachother. We lost contact after high school although I never stopped thinking about him. 9 1/2 years later, I ran into an friend/ old classmate oh his and she gladly gave me his phonenumber. Anwar and I clicked instantly, we fell in love, he really does love me and he's happy we were back in each other's lives. The only problem was, before Anwar came back in the picture, my previous BF (Mike) and I broke up. Mike lied constantly, stood me up, he infected me with an STD and blamed it on me. He made me cry knowing how much I loved him. I couldn't concentrate on Anwar after while because I still had pain. I told Anwar everything about Mike and the stress and pain I was going through and he understood, but I couldn't be with Anwar anymore because I still could'nt deal with the pain. So I ran away from Anwar. Anwar sees a princess/ angel when he looks at me. Its been a whole year and I want Anwar back. I've tried offering him out to dinner and he'd refuse. He will talk and text me but he told me in so many words that he think I may do it again. I love him so much and I am through with my past. I wanna do all the things that Anwar and talked about. I think he moved back in with the mother of his kids though. I've pured my heart out through text's, I tried calling, I sent him a flower and card. I texted him not to please give up on "US". A couple of weeks ago, I received a text in the middle of the night Anwar telling me he still thinks of me all the time, and I told him I love him very much, he said the same... I've prayed to God, I don't know what else to do. I rather have him than $100million. This man has always been there for me, never dissapointed me and I let my past hurt our relationship. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT TO DO
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): 'I think he moved back in with the mother of his kids though" I think you should resepct his relationship with this woman, in fact he has kids, let him be a full time daddy to his children. let him have a normal relationship and release him. yes, plse release him. you had your season with him , it was not meant to be. now let him move on and he has. plse stop chasing him, you will mess him up again. at least give him a chance of happiness with this woman, and let him be happy with his kids. be unselfish once in your life, and plse let him be. it is not right that you are trying to steal this man from the mother of his children. let them be a family and plse stop interfering. plse do the right thing here at stop all contact with this man. he is taken. plse go and find someone else. you do not love him, you just want what you can't have. and remember you did not want him. he has moved on and has made his life with this other woman so plse stop trying to break this family up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): Sadly dear its not that simple. But I will tell you that so far everything seems to be going good. I know good is a tough word to use at the moment given the past and present events, and often more than enough, man and woman have the worst timing with each other when it comes to relationships. I thought you had lost him but I happy to see he let his guard down and opened his heart to you again. You should be VERY grateful for this. Seems like you are trying your very best...don't smother him too much coz he may be the one to run away. He is prolly thinking of the situation and what to do now since he is texting you in the middle of the night so those are good odds for you. The fact he said he still thinks of you, Im sure you felt so happy you melted and sank through the cracks in your floor. But keep in mind that you did hurt him in a bad way and he is taking all of this into consideration. When you talk to him don't give him empty promises...speak from your heart and be gentle with your words. In the end...it is his choice to make :( I hope you don't give up and I hope you are really done with the past...if you find yourself acting on the past again feel free to give us a buzz. Good luck to you , and all the best, rooting for you both to find each other again.
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