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I want to put a label on my sexuality

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Question - (16 June 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay im a 16 year old girl in 10th grade and i know that i like guys but sometimes i get a feeling of attraction to girls and i just dont know if i am bisexual or really what sexuallity i have so i was wondering how you know if you are bisexual because im pretty sure i am but i just dont know anyways ive talked to some of my friends who are gay and bisexual and asked how they knew that they were gay and bisexual and they said that they didnt know they just knew so im hoping that u can give me some advice on how i can tell if i am gay or bisexual. please help me i am very very very very confused!!!!!!!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

why label your self as " straight , gay bi or what ever . be a loving person treat the people you love with respect and you cant go wrong. lots of young women fancy other young women its a normal part of growing up my girlfriend slept with about 5 girls when she was at uni and she loved it so much . its normaly to fancy diffrent types. Accept your a human and go with the flow

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009):

You're a bit young to be worried about all that. Shouldn't you be doing homework in school or join the girl scouts instead of thinking about being a fast girl before you grow up? But you are who you are. If you're that serious about your sexuality, then listen to everyone else, and try it. Or just simply go with the opposite sex like it should be in the first place.

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A female reader, Danii-N-Dale United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2009):

Danii-N-Dale agony auntHey

im bisexual and im not confused at all

i knew when my friend hit on me and i kissed her back

I really enjoyed it as i felt somthing which is hard to exsplain.

Anyway ever since then ive been with boys and girls

but what id advise you to do is date a girl and mabey kiss her and see how u feel about it :))

Follow what you think is best and find out your sexuality

Message me if u need to chat further

Good luck

-Danielle xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009):

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hey thanks for the advice and i would try and fallow it its just that i know no girls who wouldnt freak out on me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009):

Well people this age are often confused about their sexuality, the only thing I can suggest is try dating a girl and a guy (not at the same time obviously :P) And see what happens from there in terms of how you feel about your sexuality?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009):

okay hunn, im bisexual and have been since i was 16...

if you feel ur really bi? than just try going out with a girl.. thats what i did. at the time i was really confused about my sexuality, and best friend set me up on a date with a gurl... just make sure its some one who goes to another school and other neighborhood.... ive been bi since. now im 20 and i love my girlfriend

good luck

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