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Threesome? But it could cause some serious problems!

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Question - (16 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 June 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'll try to make this short, but it's really confusing...

I dated Amber in college. The sex was great, but we had nothing else in common, so we had a fuckbuddy deal. During that time she started dating my best friend Blaine. Amber and Blaine got married the next year. I was the best man.

After I moved away, I met Cindy. She was a great girl and we got engaged. During our engagement, I went back home. I met Blaine, Amber, and Diane (their neighbor) for dinner. The ladies asked if I wanted to fuck them. I said yes. We went into bedroom, and I ate Amber out. Blaine sat in the corner masturbating. His wife moaned that I was better than her husband. Then Diane got under and sucked me. I fucked Amber doggy style and Blaine looked so pathetic, I mocked him. Blaine asked Diane to give him a blowjob, but she refused. He got pissed. After Amber came, I did Diane as well. Blaine wanted to call it off at that point, but we were having fun, so I kicked Blaine out of his own house (I was too horny to think at this point). Amber, Diane and I continued our orgy; we woke up on the front lawn the next morning. That's when I found Diane was married, and her husband had been out of town.

Needless to say, Blaine and I were not on good terms for a long time after this. Cindy and I got married. Amber ended up divorcing Blaine. He caught us in bed together at a hotel. My wife found out about the affair too. She doesn't know that Amber used to be married to my best friend. I was scared to lose her, so I didn't say anything. Looking back on it, I should have. Anyway, we agreed to work on the marriage and we went to counseling. I have been faithful to Cindy for the past fourteen months.

I met up with Blaine again. He blames me for wrecking his marriage. I accept that I was partly to blame. He went through hell afterwards, and I wasn't there for him. Recently, he asked to sleep with Cindy. He feels this will even the score. This one is tough for me. On the one hand, I think it will be good. I know Cindy is still mad at me about straying. She told me she is tempted to cheat on me. I pitched the theoretical idea of a threesome with another guy; she seemed excited. It seems like it would kill two birds with one stone. On the other hand, it could just make things worse. What should I do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2009):

I can not believe you would consider lenting your wife out like a whore- hell why dont you get paid for it!!! she was not in on it when it all started and shouldnt be expected to even up your score!!! i think friends should share but this is gone way way out there

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2009):

Go for it! Your friend deserves some closure, man. He was probably expecting some action until you took it all. But be honest with your wife. Let her know what happened and tell her you love her. Then say your friend wants to fuck her. She will probably be flattered but you should talk to her about this. Threesome you can see how good your wife is in bed. Open up your marriage to make more honesty with experimentation. HAVE FUN!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009):

well since you have totally no respect for anyone (your good friend Blaine included) maybe you should just return the favour. i fact i know you will. after all sanctity of marriage is a never heard of concept to you.

plse next time do not include all your sex details. this is not a porn site, i think we all get the message - you are sexually corrupted, will fuck anyone and everyone, the sactity of marriage means nothing to you. you cheated numerous time, messed up your best friends marriage, damaged your own. and so forth.

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