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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does it sound to you as if he likes me or is it shyness with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My crush knows I like him and I think he does too but I'm not too sure.. He's shown interest before and I gave him little notes saying hi before and then since then he and his friends just kept looking back at me and smiling.. he's tried coming up to talk to me but chickened ... (277 words)

How do I leave my husband, a serial adulterer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age - How do people get brave enough to break up the family unit? It has been years of serial adultery (which I didn't realize until 5 years ago). All the children are now grown up. I have Multiple Sclerosis but I am keeping physically fit and go to the gym (even though he thinks it ... (80 words)

Problems with my best guy friend! He's ignoring me now..help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Things have got complicated with my best guy friend. We have been friends for 5 years and met at university. It all began with me liking him and flirting when we were out at partys and kissing (nothing more). However he got together with my friend which really upset me (they ... (413 words)

Husband can't get an erection! What causes this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) age - Hello, My husband lost his erection about a year ago. We can't make love, because he can't hold it. Do you know how to find out what is causing this? I would like to hear as much opinion as possible even if it's just one word. How do you find out, if its physical, or emotion... (80 words)

I don't think he's in love with me! Should I even care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 he's 31 we've been married 3 years now. we haven't had sex in over a year, we kiss hello and he helps me around the house and stuff we don't talk much unless it's house or bills related. I suspect that he's seeing someone and when i asked him once he said yeah and he ... (170 words)

Why won't he throw out these momentos from his past relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What is everyone's opinion about a partner who holds onto things from their previous relationships? My boyfriend has a picture of his ex girlfriend and in it she's naked. It's an artsy sort of pic, and she is all blurred out, but still. Also, he has an old vibrator of hers (oh ... (126 words)

Am I wrong to exclude her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I told my friend I was going to a social event this weekend. She asked if I wanted her to go with me and I made a joke about her cramping my style as I am going with 2 men friends. They asked me and they dont know her and I'm just a bit conscious that as she is old enough to be ... (111 words)

Dating on the phone for a year and she won't meet me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi,well me and my girlfriend have been dating over the phone for a year now.and i belive we fell in love and from the bottom of my heart i truly love this girl she is everything i have ever wanted.but the biggest problem is the fact she wont meet me.her prevous relationship was ... (200 words)

Break up because of no sex?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - If your girlfriend doesn't have sex with you is it a valid reason to break up with her after you have tried communication?... (23 words)

He doesn't want to tell his mates that we are dating!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I was just wonderinig you see my boyfreind is really nice and everything i still love him and that. i just find one problem he doesn't want me to tell any of his mates that we are going out! this doesn't really bother me except when i see them and they ask who i am going ... (75 words)

If he cared wouldn't he say something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Today i was on the bus and my friend wasn't on so I was quiet the whole ride home. My old guy friend who I'm not talking to because he was ignoring me. Today he had his feet faced in my direction and he was looking at me. Do you think he might care that I'm ignoring me? But if ... (134 words)

Is the grass really greener on the other side? Or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met my girlfriend when i was 16, we are now both 20 now and have been together for four years. Over the last four years both of our personalities have changed, mainly that I now enjoy going out drinking and clubbing whilst I am young wheras her ideal night would be in front ... (214 words)

Is he interested or is he just friendly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently started talked to a guy online. He goes to my university but I've never actually met him. We just have mutual friends. Anyways.. we talked all last weekend through messages on facebook. Just sorta 'getting to know you' stuff. He then asked for my number and said ... (180 words)

This guy will NOT come crawling back!

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11 June 2009 (M)

age - after ending a 4 yrs relationship which was aweful we have had no contact for 3 months now. she was abusive, selfish, rude, disrepectful. but it ended with us both mad and leaving. if she ever text me and ask how im doing i will never reply, but what if i ever run into her( ... (128 words)

What should I do about my married man dilemma?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Im desperately in need of some advice on my situation which I know may be a familiar one. I met a married man, who's 12 yrs older than me (I'm 35) just over 2 years ago, we clicked straight away and have fallen in love and our relationship is'nt just about sex and... (331 words)

I don't know how I am going to survive without seeing my teacher!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been madly in love with my teacher for a year, and I still am! But now school is all coming to end and i wont see him as much, I dont know what I am going to do without him? I miss him over weekends, and have been during exam leave! I really dont know how I am going to ... (95 words)

Is this just a "man crush"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - Ok im going to try and keep this as short and simple as possible. I am a 28 year old guy, i am straight but ive been having strange feelings for my male boss. I really cant work out whether its gay feelings that i am feeling for him or if its a "man-crush"! I really don... (213 words)

He's not my teacher anymore but I cannot stop thinking about him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey ... I wrote on here about a year ago that I was leaving my school and couldn't imagine being without my class teacher who was my rock during my last 2 years of high school. I went through a huge depression and he was absolutly fantastic - supporting me, guiding me and a... (263 words)

I came home and my husband was gone!! I'm shocked and feeling lost!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My Husband and I have been married almost two years now. Two days ago I came home from work and he was gone. He only took some clothes and our dog from the backyard. He didn't leave a note and he hasn't called me to even say why he left or if he's coming back. I have no idea ... (195 words)

Experiencing teenage stress problems just trying to grow up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been on a roller coaster sense starting high school. I have had friend problems guy problems and of course more. Last december I got to the point that I felt so alone I cried every night. I have never had problems with making friends and get anlong with many people, ... (423 words)

If I forgive my ex and take him back, my parents will hate me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, ok I don't know what to do. I broke up with my bf of almost 3yrs. about a month ago. He liked to "joke" but I called it verbal abuse because I didn't like being called fatty or stupid. He has a temper but has never hit me, he punches walls tho and yells. He also ... (680 words)

Six months is long time for him to be gone. I'm making myself ill just worrying about it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. i am 20 and he is 22. we have a very good relationship, we enjoy each others company and make each other very happy. however there is one problem... at the end of this year he is thinking of going away with his sister s... (392 words)

Can I get him back? Do men change their opinion on somebody?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there! First of all thanks for the answer I can have :) I have known this guy for 2 months already, we went out at the beggining for a couple of days (have sex, being public together) and after a week of being intimate he dissapear. From time to time we chatted over the... (258 words)

Does her comment mean that she's studied my face and committed it to memory? Your thoughts and feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - am 20 years of age and cute too. there is this girl of abt 17 who was just sitting in front of me during our class examinations and for the 1st time am seeing her.i just opened up a chat just asking some questions about herself and where she comes from.after that i then told ... (176 words)

He doesn't send loving texts in between visits, am I making too much of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in an LDR for almost a year and a half, we see each other every two weeks and when we are together its great. We travel to each others homes to split the travelling between us. when we are not together, we text each other a few times each day and speak on the pho... (272 words)

I need advice and help with the contraceptive implant.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunt's and Uncles :) I have currently had my implant in since September, so nearly 9 months now. And ever since I came on I didn't come off again until February. I came back on again in April and still haven't come off again. So 7 months on and 2 months off :( I got ... (210 words)

What can I do to make boys like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey xx Im a typical teenage girl. And ever since I started secondary school I have been reallly open about everything and sometimes I feel I am too open about things and make boys feel uncomfortable. I laugh a lot and always talk to boys. I like a boy.. but he tends to go fo... (117 words)

I'm feeling a little bored in my relationship. He doesn't want to go out and party, I do....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feeling a little bored in my relationship. I do love my boyfriend, we've been together 6 months. He's 27 and I'm 25, although I would say he acts older and I act younger - yet we work well and can be mature/immature when needs be! So his friends are all pretty grown up ... (180 words)

He's great in all aspects except he never contacts me, and I feel I'm doing all the work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks. Im 21 and he's 28. We live 30miles from each other. We've known each other for years and after breaking up from my horrible ex, we've made a go of things. He is amazing....when he's happy. He's kind, considerate, goo... (111 words)

What do I do if they go out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - the one i love, the one i would die for is now in love with my best friend, and my best friend is in love with him. iam so upset she says to me on msn that iam selfish and a sl_t. shes the one selfish i am so in love with him and after every thing we have done together she ... (94 words)

Question about morals in today's world!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. Would I be right in saying that if a man and a woman fancy each other and are exposed to each other for sustained periods of time (i.e. months/years at work) then basically they are going to sleep together regardless of whether or not one or other has children/is married - ... (66 words)

I'm too scared to take a pregnancy test, I don't know what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up about 3 weeks ago i am 16 very soon and he's 17 in a few months. The last time we had sex was when we were going out and now im 22 days late. I haven't told him as he has just gone on holiday and i didn't want to ruin it for him and it might ... (145 words)

Should I put my foot down or am I overreacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 34 weeks pregnant and I have been married for 7 months. My husband, however, is still visiting a dating site and contacting the women on there. He does let them know that he is married, but he wants them to send him messages and pictures. I only just found out about this ... (134 words)

Girlfriend kissed another guy, please help me get over it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I'm with my girlfriend of 7 months at her house, and this other guy that has been bothering my her for the best part of 2 years starts to text her. My girlfriend tells me that the texts have gotten alot worse during the past 2 weeks. These texts are pretty much dirty ... (831 words)

When did you start dating / when were you allowed to start dating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy! I was just wondering, what age did you start dating/were allowed to date?? Because I have had a crush on the same boy (we are both 15) for a few years now, but my mum said that even sixth formers (16-18yrs)only have a boy/girlfriend for a 'fashion statemen... (73 words)

Why did she show me a photo of her and her boyfriend kissing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently talked to my ex on facebook and she showed me a picture of her kissing her new boyfriend. Why did she do that ? It's not necessary and she knew it all along that would hurt me. I'm over her I think but I'm jealous that she has a new boyfriend but I'm still single and ... (145 words)

I love him so much but there are bedroom problems!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend so much, but we're having a bit of problem in the bedroom. We, or rather I, am having two issues, our sex life has become monotonous and it's not great anyway. Firstly, he's so vanilla with regards to sex I'm not sure what to do to spice it up and stuff; i... (289 words)

How do you break up with someone when you know it will crush them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you break up with someone when you know it will crush them? I care deeply about my bf but I can't handle our relationship any more. The problems between us I can't see getting resolved and I just have to get out. But how!? I don't have it in me to do things that ... (124 words)

I feel like he couldn't care less if I was in his life or not

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im in a long distance relationship with a man i met 4 years ago.We agreed tha text messages and calls were ok and we'd c eachother when we can. Lately i feel like he couldnt care less if i was in his life or not.I seem to be makin morn effort with the txts than him and when i ... (149 words)

If I'm so great then why don't I have a boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i am 14 i have never had a boyfriend never been kissed i know i must sound like a proppa geek But i dont get it i get loads of attention from boys when i walk down the streets or when i am out with a group of freinds they shout somthing like "get your tits out" and if... (165 words)

Broken my hymen or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey x I started my periods last year i was lyk one of the late starters but i used pads all the time and last nite i thought i would use tampax compak and well i put it is and by a mistake i dont know how i did it but i left one of the plastic covers in with the cotton wool thi... (118 words)

Talking to 2 guys on the bus..confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In august when school started i started talking to this guy i met on the bus everything was going good. Than 4 months later i started to like this guy in my class so since ive been talking to that first guy for 4 months i didnt think that we were going anywhere so i started ... (235 words)

What approach should we use in talking to our daughter about dating/sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - We need advice about our 15 yo daughter, sex, and questions she's asking us. Our daughter is 15 1/2 and we told her she could start dating this summer as long as her grades her good. She is a really good kid, and always has almost all 'A's and maybe a 'B' or two. We're just ... (564 words)

She was an escort and posed for nude photos

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a sweet, wonderful woman for two and a half years now. She's smart, beautiful, incredibly gentle and kind. I love her a lot and believe she loves me too. I even considered asking her to marry me. Recently however, she confessed to me that she posed for nu... (249 words)

He made a bet to take my virginity, I found out and hit him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

11 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My `boyfriend` is 23 and im 17 I recently gave my ``boyfriend`` my virginity (we both wanted it). Well I fonud out he made a bet with his friends that he could have get me drunk and have sex with me on his birthday. I was so mad that I punched him (I have some anger probl... (68 words)

We want to meet up but can't figure out how to do it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - theres this boy i love to peices and he loves me back and i really want to date him but i dont think it will work out beacuase we would never see each other as he lives far away we have tried thinking of was to meet up but nothing seams to be in reach ... we both want to meet ... (119 words)

Has she been leading me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. Just a quick question. After months of e-mails and Instant Messaging but little face to face interaction at work (at her request - in case people should 'talk' about them - but there was a very flirtatious meeting in the library!) she finally sends him some chocolate via ... (128 words)

Am I in the wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone give me any ideas or tips? My eyes have been on a guy for severl months now. The one night back at the club everytime he got out of his seat he would move it closer to me when he would sit back down. By the end of the night his whole right body was against mine. Two ... (238 words)

Clueless at relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5639 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Back Again: This is the low down: For a 6 months now I have been attracted to a female coworker (I am Female) She is married and I am single. We have shared alot of intense looks and she always does thing to get me to look at her like puts her back straight -and combs he... (488 words)

Was I a fool to sleep with him after just a month?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Can you advise please. i am separated for 4 months now and i met a guy beginning of may, not my usually type so i reckon that was a good omen. Anyhow we have met a few times, he makes me laugh and we generally get along very well. Only thing is i has sex with h... (310 words)

He snapped at me so now I'm not calling him..he's not calling me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone My boyfriend was away the whole of last weekend and I called him on a Saturday night and he told me he was with friends, they were in a noisy place, I understood that. He said he will call back when his in a quieter place, I waited for the call but he never cal... (228 words)

He's ordered kinky sex toys and I don't know how to react

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In two weeks time its my boyfriends birthday.... We are going away for the weekend, as this was planned in the beginning of the year already.... My fear is, yesterday was browsing for shoes on the internet i noticed in the history he was on a sex toy site.... He order the most ... (105 words)

Will I know that he's taken our relationship to the next level if he doesn't tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so for the last year i have been in a causal relationship with a guy that is divorced, his wife left him 3 years ago.... It has not been a easy relationship as is hard for him to trust another female. I have been doing some research on how to read a males mind or rather ... (166 words)

Why did she pause and get nervous just telling me her name?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

Why is he still lying to me about the contact he has with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why my man is still lying to me about having any contact with his ex? When I was living in the project a sexy man was living in front off me with his woman, but he always use to be watching me like he like to see me. He started calling me and we use to talk for hours wantin... (494 words)

I want to make a change! I'm ready to move on, but am I being selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it time to move on!!! I need help, 8 years going and i find myself in a rut that i just cant get out of... I have been with a guy now for 8 years , we have had several problems but nothing i could not deal with. i was so motivated with life. motivated in helpin... (606 words)

He's so nice sometimes but then I feel like he couldn't care less about me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, i seriously need help and everyones opinion on this great or small because it's all i think about. I have loved this boy for 3 years, i have never said anything to make him aware of this but in year 10 we drunkenly slept together...i know this was wrong, ... (462 words)

I thought he liked me, was I too naive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy at a party. We got drunk and made out. Next he asked me for a movie and since then we have been seeing each other on and off and chatting over IM. We never got intimate again though he asked me to spend a night at his place once (his intentions weren't clear). ... (211 words)

He's Going through depression and taking it out on me in horrific ways

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Not sure what to do, with the man I thought I wanted to marry but he's been going through a stint of depression and has been taking it out on me in horrific ways. He acknowledges this, and is profusely apologetic - and on his good days, when it's clear that he has a higher ... (538 words)

I don't know if I just want some attention or a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago. We both cheated on each other, so it was pretty obvious the relationship was pointless as we were both into other people. The guy i cheated with is a good friend of mine and i have really strong feelings for him. The thing is i ... (259 words)

He says someone is trying to set him up

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Boy friend trouble. please help I am so lost and confused. I am 28 years old and I am dating a 49 year old man.? I have been dating this guy for the past 4 months. Last week I broke it off with him because he was always wanting to spend time with his friends and not me. and ... (223 words)

After 10 years still can't orgasm from sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been sexually active for over 10 years now and I am still not able to orgasm thru intercourse. I do it each time I receive oral sex but not when I make love. It is very furstrating because men think that I am not enjoying it because I don't cum. It happened only 1 time a ... (78 words)

Making love vs having sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age - I met a man at a party four weeks ago and we slept together on our first date. He is a lovely lovely man and wants to take me on holiday in September so is a bit full on bit too soon but I dont mind because I have been looking for someone to look after me for a long time, ... (139 words)

Girls lose their virginity without having sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - is it true that girls loss their virginity with out having sex? my girl friend with whom i studied high school have no virginity and told she never dated with anyone before me.and now we are living in different worlds and about to get married with her and bring her where i ... (70 words)

Nagging suspicion that my fiance is cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I always have a nagging suspicion my fiance is cheating. Only talks on phone and texts when I'm not around never do I see her use her phone but she always needs minutes. Her days are spent on myspace cause she works nights. She gets angry if I walk in the room while shes on ... (68 words)

I' told I have it all yet I'm dissatisfied

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 35 year old married man with 2 children, one 4 and one 6months old. I am told by my peers that i have it all. I have the good career, i have the beautiful wife, the big house, 2 great kids, good friends yet i remain unsatisfied with what i have. Im not desperatley ... (1271 words)

I'm at my wit's end, please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boy friend going on a year now. And i love him and care for him dearly. The only thing is, is that he is suffocating me. He wont even let me talk to another man, and if we are out and he see's some guy talking to me he will cuss them out and most the time ... (267 words)

Constantly having sexual dreams about other men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend 6 months, but i'm constantly having sexual dreams about other men. What I don't understand is why? I've never even contemplated being with anyone else, in fact, the thought of it makes me feel sick. So why is it I keep having these dreams? ... (58 words)

All he talked about at first is hooking up with me! Now he wants to make out...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this guy i dated three years ago and we started talking again this year at first all he talked about is hooking up with me but im only 14. He wants to get back together and he said when he talked about hooking up b4 now to this day he said were alot mature now but its ... (89 words)

Drugs, sex, and its a real mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I'm gonna begin by saying that in others eyes and views, what me and my boyfriend have would seem like a fairy tale come true. I wish it was that easy. I am 26, he is turning 30 in a cpl. wks., we met when I was 16, and he was my very 1st love, and 1st ... (925 words)

Am I becoming bi-sexual?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For all of my life, i've been strongly attracted to guys, so i've always considered myself "straight". But recently, some things happened: I became really close friends with a tomboy-- she dresses like a guy but is actually emotionally like a girl. she may look like a guy ... (191 words)

Why is he always asking for sex now?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok about 2 months ago I meet this really sweet guy. We started seeing each other, and he would text me everyday and we were hanging out nearly every second day. This went on for about 2 weeks. Then he started only texting me every second day, and I hadn't seen him for a month. ... (433 words)

I don't like it when he touches me and I don't want sex!

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating this guy A (27) but only because I was pressured into it. See, I live with him (We have seperate rooms). We've been together for about 3 weeks. He says he loves me, and keeps talking about our future together. I feel very uncomfortable when he touches me or even if ... (165 words)

There's more to life than men! What can I do to refocus?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone give me any suggestions for things I can do to make me feel more positive about my life. I'm very lucky in a lot of ways with my family and friends but I've been used in relationships over the last few years, especially by someone married that I got caught up in and ... (155 words)

Why doesn't he last that long?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about 5 months and well he doesnt last that long. Sometimes he doesnt even last a mintue and i cant go that fast cause the faster i go, the faster he cums. I have told my friends about it and they said for the first couple of ... (87 words)

Should I have sex at 13?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i want to have sex with my boyfriend and he wants to as well but we r only 13 is it ok if we did?... (25 words)

Will the sperm die instantly when he dipped it in the water?

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11 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i got a question from my friend here. my friend wit his girl was messing around. Using his left hand, he fingers his girl friend and he while masturbaiting on the right, using his right hand. then my friend came and putted his semen and sperm on his right hand. then he quickly ... (208 words)

We had the worse fight, do I break up with him?

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11 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I keep telling my boyfriend not grope me in certain place because I don't like it but he won't listen. Well one day I was at his house (he's 22 and I'm 16) and we were making out he started touching my chesty bits. I kept telling him to stop but he just ignoring me. So I pushed ... (130 words)

I'm 17 and a virgin. Is it true older women are attracted to young men?

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11 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and a virgin.I'm looking to lose my virginity and heard that MILFs are very suitable for and attracted to the average young man.Is this true? I am overweight and not very socially experienced with women and quite anxious hence my virginity. Will this greatly affe... (122 words)

She breaks up over text and asks me to be her best friend, should I...?

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11 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so I was dating this girl for a little while we fell for each other pretty quickly, even before we started dating people knew we were made for each other. So then suddenly she text breaks up with me. But she wants me to be her "best friend". My problem is I am not sure ... (76 words)

Will she ever like me or will I always be in the friend zone?

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11 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i was talking to this girl who just broke up to her boyfriend and we became good friends. i started to like her but i didn't know if she liked me. her and i would talk on the phone for hours! we would go to the movies and i would always pay for her. she would always order ... (140 words)

Is it weird to hook up with girls if you're straight?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it weird if you wanna see what its like to hook up with a girl and have a little fun.. If you know your straight and never would be bi or a lesbien ... (34 words)

My mum won't let me get my hair cut!

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i really want to cut my hair but my mum wont let me. it's waist length now and it's not really practical for when i have to do lab work. my mum is a religious fanatic and refuses to let me have a hair cut. its not like i want it really short, just like a V-shaped cut...what ... (68 words)

He wooed me but now he seems to be distancing himself

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear readers, I'm a 36 year old female in a 2 year relationship with a 40 year old male. The only reason we are together is because he persued me and I eventually fell hook line and sinker for him! The first year I was showered in flattering texts that wooed me to no end. Omg I ... (753 words)

Is my ex messing with me?

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11 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my ex and I broke up about 2 months ago after a 9 month tumultuous relationship. A week after we broke up I moved out of our apartment. As I moved out our apartment she requested that we stay friends. I really didn't want to but being that we still share a lease I agreed. 6 ... (295 words)

How long to move past the initial dating stage?

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11 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a question primarily for those in their late 20's and older. How many dates/how long does it take for things to move past the initial dating stage to something more? ... (33 words)

I just can't trust my boyfriend

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok me and my boyfriend have been together for 14 months and we've always had trust problems that's led us to breaking up twice, and he's getting really mad saying that i really can't trust him,and i don't know why i still can't stop worrying, just now i'm upset and don't know ... (116 words)

Should I pursue a relationship with an older man?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i'm 21 years old and a 43 year old man is interested in me. I like him because he is the opposite of me. We have nothing in common duh!. We have already kissed and It was nice. I am not naive to the fact that it is just about sex but should I pursue this? I am just really ... (70 words)

My childhood love is now married, help!

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 20 yrs old and im dating my best friend for ever. We have been friends for 10 years already when we were younger he asked me if i wanted to be his girlfriend i said no because i was way too crazy for him and i knew i would hurt him. i left for two years made my life and when ... (158 words)

Parents don't approve. How can I make them like my friends?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there! my friend and i have been hanging out with some friends of ours who live 20 min away and im 16 and she is 14, and well the oldest guy there is 18 and he is the driver, and then the rest is 15,17,14,and 15. and there is one girl who is 15 so the rest are guys. ... (292 words)

He was leaving his wife, but found out she needs an operation

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - we r both married, both 30yrs, been dating for one year, love each other, want build a family togethr and move on with our lives. i am separated, he is going thru separation now moving stuff out and all. last week his wife got news that she needs immediate surgery that may ... (139 words)

We're both shy...now what do I do?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - at school there is this guy i like and hes really really quiet. And maybe a couple of days ago i requested him on myspace lol n i sent him a message saying we should hang out sometime so he just read it n denied me so i figured rejected right...sooooooo now he stares a lot n ... (199 words)

I'm afraid to meet him in the RW because I don't find him physically attractive

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m on an online dating website and recently responded to an email from a guy who lives locally. He was very nice and down to earth in his email and unlike the rest of emails I get he didn’t ask for a photo (I don’t have one on my profile) but asked questions about me. We’ve so ... (434 words)

He isn't ready to be with me but I like him so much!

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well.....i have a crush on Miguel n I told him that i liked him and he didnt say anything to me...k so the next day he starts sending me text messages n i respond I started talking about pop and then he said that its bad for you n i told him yeah i know...okay so then he tells ... (204 words)

I like a guy my best friend used to date

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well i like this guy and he likes me but we can't be together cause he was recently with my best friend and when they broke he started to say bad things about her so she doesn't like him.she knows he likes me but she doesn't know i like him i really want to be with him what ... (61 words)

Old flame seems to have a hold on me

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently found the very first guy i dated on myspace. sent him a short hello message. he responded in a very suprised way, asking wat took me sooo long to find on there. he mentioned he had tried to locate me but was unsucessful. him and i dated when we were 15 then three ... (225 words)

Are these same-sex fantasies normal for someone who's hetro?

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11 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to randomly switch sexual orientations against your will after 20 years of being a genuine heterosexual? I've been kinda paranoid about this because i've begun to have quite a bit of gay fantasies lately, and they interrupt my hetero fantasies and they make me ... (228 words)

I told her she could kiss other guys, and she did..is it cheating?

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11 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I went on a 4 month trip to Europe without my girlfriend of 5 years. Before I left we decided to stay together, but during the trip we spoke on the phone and I told her that I didn't care if she kissed somebody as long as it was just a kiss. I don't know why I said this, I ... (416 words)

On and off several times, but he has my heart

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11 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - So I was dating this guy off and on for about three years now. Lets start from the beginning.... Me and him at first weren't really connecting so we broke up. But when we got back together after a few times of trying, we started to have a connection. We laughed, hung out, and ... (179 words)

Scared to go too far into relationships

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i was raped wen i was 6 and now i keep jumping from guy to guy before we do anything at all ive not even done oral now ive got together with my mate n weve been going out for about a year now and he wants to take it further but i cant seem to and ive not told anyone about ... (86 words)

B/f into tranny sex..is he really gay?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I had been dating my boyfriend for about 6 months now. All this while, we only had sex like 3-4 times and he never ejacuates. He is also not into showing his affection like kissing or hugging. Lately, I found out that he is into tranny porn and checking out tranny on CL. We ... (84 words)

Posing for naked pictures

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would really like to send my boyfriend naked pictures of me but I don't know how I should pose. If anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it..... (30 words)

Could he have become too attached too quickly?

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11 June 2009 (F)

- I am wondering if you think that my bf has gotten too attached to me too quickly? We have been going out for 3 weeks and we talk every day and see each other about every 2nd day. Hes written me a poem, and says he doesnt think he could live without me. He calls me his gir... (266 words)

I gave him an ultimatum that I don't want to be FWB anymore

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11 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so, last week I told my exboyfriend that he had to choose, I said "If you want friendship we can do that, if you want a relationship we can do that, if you want to not talk to me at all, we can do that, but I can't do this FWB's thing anymore." I got an answer of, "We will ... (232 words)

I think she should move on, what do you think?

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11 June 2009 (M)

age - My sister in law has been divorced from her disfunctial ex- husband for 8 years. She has been dating a Doctor who takes care of his daughter after his ex wife had to be put into alcohol rehab hospital for years. His life revolves arround his daughter--who he took to Paris for ... (103 words)

If I go to the doctor with this, could my parents get in trouble? I'm very worried.

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 25 and an inbread. my dads my mums uncle, she got sent to ireland to live when she was thirteen and ended up with him and had my brother when she was 17 and me when she was 21. nothing seems wrong with us but i did have a misscarrage 5 years ago and since then its been in my ... (180 words)

Will it hurt when I have sex, even when I can stick my finger inside?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So if i can stick my fingers in my vagina does that mean that I don't have a hymen anymore? I just wanna know cause im so scared that it's gonna hurt when i have sex. Thanx ... (41 words)

Lacking in communication, sexless marriage, what should I do?

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11 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 37 year old man. I have been married for 8 years with one 3 year old girl. My question revolves around sex. for the last few years i am lucky to get lucky once every 3 months to 6 months, and then i have to almost beg for it. when i try and talk about it with her i ... (370 words)

She has cheated on me several times, yet I am unsure if I should leave or not

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11 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunties, My girlfriend of 7 months and I had a good day today, we had sex 3 times, and then she goes home. About a few minutes ago, We started fighting because of the past. She has cheated on me 4 times, and 3 times it was nothing more then a kiss. Each time she was too ... (156 words)

How can I break up with him?

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i need to let this guy down as i dont feel for him what he feels for me. We have been dating for a bit and are kind of offical at the moment, but i need to break it off before he gets hurt, as i know he really likes me a lot. but i never had to do this before, can anyo... (91 words)

We're broken up, but the thought of him with another kills me

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11 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My Boyfriend and I have recently broken up due to his depression. He saids he loves me still and we still chat and he has told me I can move on if I need too but he would like to see what happens down the track when he sorts himself out.... He hasn't slept with anyone but could ... (114 words)

Is she having an "emotional affair?"

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11 June 2009 (M)

age - This is what is going on: She speaks and stares at me all of the time. She sometimes flirts with me. She sometimes sticks her tongue out at me. She sometimes pretends that she is upset. She doesn’t come directly at me and tell what her intentions are. She says that we are ... (202 words)