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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Aaargh, I don't know what to do!

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29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been single for about 6 months. I really like a male friend, and have done for ages. We get on really well and share loads of interests and I really fancy him - however he's got a girlfriend so I'll never let him know I feel like this and have resigned myself to the ... (301 words)

How can I get close to him when the only way we can communicate is by email or over the phone?

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29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please, please help me! This might end up being long but I'll try my very best to make it short without missing important details (however important they may be...) My ex and I have this "mutual" friend. Mutual in the sense that whilst we were together, the three of us used... (352 words)

9 Months... No "I Love You" Yet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When has it been too long after "I love you" should have been said? I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and we have not said it yet. I'm starting to feel it and I think he does too. I have never said it to anyone before. Anyone, I dated that this. I'd really like for him ... (68 words)

Do I listen to my aunt or do I follow my heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok on vacation i met a close friends brother that is now staying with her at first glance i liked him alot.then days went by ididnt see him well one day we had a bbq and he was there well all my cuzins their gfs a friend his sister him and i decided to go out.we did had a good ... (156 words)

Will what I did make him worry more? I don't want to lose him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys :) Well, basically, I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we've been going really strong so far. I have two problems that I hope you can help me with: - I have an anxiety disorder which means I get panick attacks. This anxiety disorder also has a link with depr... (301 words)

Is there something still here worth saving?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I had a huge moment of weakness, I was working off of 8 hours of sleep total for the last 5 days. I went to first text my girlfriend no answer which was weird. I started to worry something happend she was out of town on work. I then called no answer no return call. I had orderd ... (512 words)

Is it okay to feel this way?

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29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - pls tell me if it is ok to feel this. my relationship had been through ups and downs that even led me to the hospital. my parents were totally against it and they were imposing someone on me whom i hate. well i got to convince them through a hard time then recently tey had an u... (123 words)

Can a guy tell if a girl is a virgin during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, Okay i was just wondering when having sex can guys tell if the girl is a virgin? Would they feel any different? Thanks :)... (28 words)

Are we two freaks or do other couples act this way?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We do have kids. My wife has always been more on the conservative side. I have always hoped that she would try to open up more sexually with me. Try new things etc. but was afraid to ask. One night, after having some drinks, I h... (456 words)

I'm having trouble managing my income with 4 kids! Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have 4 kids and no help!!! I was praying one day that the father of my two little ones would just leave me alone, he has had a drug problem for the entire 7 years and has ruined my life we have been together, finally I came home one day and he was gone. He was arrested for... (236 words)

How do you just fall out of love with someone? I'm baffled...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a long distance relationship for nearly a year, and it has been going massively strong. She has sent me letters telling me she cant wait to start a new life with me, im the one, we went through much to be with each other, and now theres only 1 month left until ... (337 words)

Do girls ejaculate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Do girls ejaculate? and how, does ejaculation fluid "squirt" ?... (10 words)

Should I end it with the older guy and find love with a guy my own age? Opinions please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known my boyfriend for 4 yrs and we've been a couple and living together for 3yrs... so here's the Deal...He's twice my age: I'm 21 he's 44. We haven't talked about it with our families yet...but they practically pretty much already know since we've been living here... (928 words)

Wouldn't he make more of an effort if he was really interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i met this guy two months ago and we really hit it off and i think i am falling for him big time. The only problem is i am not sure how he feels about me now, i had sex with him after a few dates (about one month after meeting him) I feel he is losing interest in me. He ... (193 words)

I don't trust him because he "hid" from another girl he dated before he met me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Something has been really on my mind lately and i just can't shake it. I have been dating my boyfriend for well over a year now, but i have had a problem for most of that time. It must have been on our second/third date (and my birthday) in March 2008. He took me for a lo... (427 words)

Can I ever get out of this tangled mess he created?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there. I'm a 29-year-old married man with 2 kids. I've been having an affair with my father-in-law for the past month in secret. He instigated this affair, and I agreed to it - we were both drunk at the time watching a game of soccer on the telly. At first it was g... (241 words)

Would it be terrible if I kept this as a secret? I don't want to hurt my friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend broke up with me and two days later I went out with my friend (I'll call her Jill). We went to this party and my ex boyfriend's best friend(I'll call him Pete) was there. He just happens to be Jill's secret crush. I started dating my ex right after Jill and ... (253 words)

She cheated, broke up with me, and I'm still hung up on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my situation is very complicated. I dated this girl for about a year and two months. I found out she was still talking to an old boyfriend and that she cheated on me. I thought she was the woman I was gonna marry, and even though she did me wrong and I can't stand her sight, ... (214 words)

Settle for friends, or just break it off completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend dated almost 2 years. I am going to be a senior while he is going to college 4 hours away. We had a relationship that was based on our friendship, because we had fun together all the time. We hung-out a lot! We really never got in fights. So it was a ... (158 words)

I can't seem to get into a relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I'm 23, in a good job, enjoying life generally. However, the one thing that I can't seem to get is a relationship. Some women seem to think I'm a gay man just because I'm sensitive, kind and caring - however, it's my personality and that's the way I naturally am. How can I... (285 words)

Sister and husband moved in with family and its a real mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My problem is family related, my sister recently moved back home with her 4 kids and her unemployed lazy husband , i still stay here at home with my parents , she's been back for about 2 months now, i guess i'm thinking of moving as soon as i get a permanent job, cause i don't ... (273 words)

I've been married for 11 years to the wrong man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for eleven years to the wrong man. I love my husband as a friend but am not in love and I don't think I have ever been. I knew the day we got married and he called me a bitch before walking down the isle I was making a huge mistake. We have had some fun ... (302 words)

How do I get my daughter to respect herself more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) age - How can help my daughter,to respect herself more? I see, she would do anything for getting a friend, including flattering and favors. I see she has some really nasty ''mean girls'' friend, who would never approve her,and she is endlessly running after them. It makes me sad to ... (140 words)

Why is he acting this way? Why now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, sorry about the long post. I have some questions and can't keep it inside any longer.... I am a secretly gay guy. About 4 years ago I met this guy and I developed a MAJOR crush on him. I was not sure if he would like me. Anyways became the best of buddies and we hung out ... (551 words)

My feelings don't match my thoughts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a year long relationship with a wonderful girl and we're about to move in together. She is gorgeous, brilliant, very loving and completely loyal; she is helpful and sweet to me. We like a lot of the same things. She is very sensual and sexual. In other words, I have it ... (329 words)

Men yell smutty things at me and now my boyfriend is treating me smutty too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i often have men yell smutty things at me... it's unfortunate, disrespectful, but what can i really do? i just keep walking and ignore them. sometimes, even when im with my boyfriend, men yell things at me. my boyfriend obviously gets very upset, but i ask him not to respond or ... (233 words)

My boyfriend has kissed literally most girls I know!

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29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend who is the most loving and amazing boyfriend ever. but i can;t seem to get over the fact that he has kissed some of my friends. he's a very shy guy and i think i took his virginity, but there have been times when we've been out and i'm sat next to two peop... (338 words)

Stressed by school and exams - I need tips on how to calm myself down!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help! Im really stressed with school work and its really getting me down. Im doing my GCSEs and i go to a very high profile school which makes us work really hard and im finding it really hard to cope with the stress, i leave the house at 7.30 am and return at 5pm, then ... (116 words)

Girls want what other girls want, or they want what they can't have, true?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - In my dealings with women I've noticed they want men who are desired by other females. I've noticed girls flirt more with guys they know already have a partner and they shun the single guy. Is there something in their DNA that makes them go after the guy who's already committed ... (54 words)

Please help...guy problem, he's not sure he's big enough!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so there's this guy that I really like and we haven't had sex yet...He has mentioned to me that he is afraid of himself not bein big enough...Which is important to me to be sadisfied in all ways...What should I do?...... (42 words)

Could the fact that he's circumsized be preventing us from having a baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is 24 yrs old, he has been circumsized since he was aba 10. we have been trying to have a baby for 1 yr and a half but nothin is happing. can it be because he is circumsized coz i have had my self cheked out and my eggs are all fine. i just need to know if it is ... (68 words)

I feel powerless. Everything is on his terms it seems. Even the break did not wake him up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with the same guy for 6 years. I love him, but he frustates me so much because he seems not to care enough to deal with the problems we have. He huffs and sighs and acts like I'm bothering him if I bring up something we need to work on. Sometimes he gets really ... (313 words)

How should I break up with a guy that is obsessed and emotionally attached to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay...i'm 14 and my boyfriend is fixing to be 16. we started dating may 6th and have been dating for a while now. he was in miami for a good month and i couldnt take not seeing him...i cheated a few times but he doesnt know about it... the truth is i have kinda been leading ... (405 words)

What can we talk about? I need some help because I really want to go out with him again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. i REALLY need some help. I've liked this boy for about 6months and we have been boyfriend and girlfriend a few times. we really like each other. well i think he does anyway. his friends says he always speaks about me, and sometimes he goes all red when he sees me and he ... (143 words)

What's wrong with me that I've never had a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear people, help me i am really desperate i am 15 and single and i have never had a boyfriend, i feel so ugly and not confident if i could just know the signs that someone fancies me so i could feel more confident with me my self and feel that i am not ugly, people never say... (88 words)

Ladies, would it put you off if you found out a guy was a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi everyone this question is mainly for the ladies but anyone can answer realy. i just wondered what you people thought about male virginity, and girls would it put you off a guy if you found out he was a virgin? im not realy to bothered about being a virgin myself as how can ... (206 words)

What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - This question is mainly for women. Please be as honest as you can. Does a man's penis size really matter to you? What is it that turns on a woman the most about a man and is their penis size on of those things? So basically, is bigger really better? ... (50 words)

How do I convince my best friend to come to uni with me? I'm terribly insecure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im applying for university to do a law degree, ive decided to live away and am very insecure and scared of not making friends, ive always been very socialable but find my self fake smiling at peoples jokes and thinking god please shut up ...so im afraid i wont get on with ... (131 words)

Where can I find a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to go out with someone, but theres no guys in my school apart from a year 10 , who i like , does anyone have any advice a different way i could get a boyfriend. This was a really short question , Sorry , But thanks for any answers x... (57 words)

Looking for tips on how to deep throat a man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i am looking for information on blow jobs and how to deep thoat a man. it can be in form of books are an advise... (25 words)

I really like this shy guy but don't know how to act around him!

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29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is kinda hard to explain so please hang in there..... i like this guy and he's REALLLY nice. he's one of thoes guys that are kinda rare to find in my experience (no offence to all the guys reading this) he's cute, kind, funny, smart, sporty, loyal, trust worthy, ... (215 words)

During sex, he says the names of my friends who he'd like to have watch us! Normal or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi , i 've been married for 6 months, last night my husband told me about his dream , he was making sex with me and one of my friend.. and everytime we do love he keeps repeating my friends names that he would like if they will watch us making love (everytime he picks ... (75 words)

How long should I wait before contacting him again and how should I start it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I cut my ex out of my life after a series of bad events (including him cheating). However I still really love him and want to be with him. I actually want to speak to him again because I miss our great friendship/companionship a lot, but I know he won't appreciate me un... (127 words)

I'm shy but really turned on by them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im a straight woman (I'm pretty sure, anyways). I have these two co-workers who openly declare themselves as bisexual. They are both into the punk/goth thing. I think they think I'm a really square Hmong girl but I've had a lot of sexual fantasies about them. They are not a ... (98 words)

He bought a flavoured condom, hoping I'd have sex with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend wants to do sex with me but i am not ready. yesterday at school he asked me my favourite flavour and at night he came to my house and told he wanted to have sex with me.he had also brought my favourite flavour's condom.but i sent him back after talking for a ... (73 words)

Was it cheating or just acting? And should I tell my husband, or let him think that Jim was wearing underwear?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice, both to make myself feel OK, and what to tell my husband. My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years, we have 3 kids together. I have some college, but never finished (kids). My husband has an extremely good job, and I don't need to work, ho... (710 words)

He sent an email saying it was time to move on, but he's just told me he still loves me! So confusing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i have been in a relationship for 7 years. my boyfriend broke up with me last year october because he couldn't marry me beacuse of religion. anyway he is with someone else now. since he has been with her they break up and make up beacuse they fight abt me, his patner does ... (173 words)

We got naked for a few minutes, was this an invitation to sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My friend Adam and I have both had heterosexual histories...however, I have been having sexual fantasies about him since I was about 13. Nothing ever happened but the last time we got drunk together, we were walking on a trail. He suggested we get naked...and we did. It was ... (69 words)

He cheats on me but doesn't want me to move on, what must I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my guy is so over protective towards me and this irritate me as i can't even go out with my friends. he always think that im going to some other guys. he never caught me cheating on him but he just doesn't trust me coz if he trusted me,he could not have been so over protective. ... (137 words)

He's got another girl - I truly love him and this is really hurting me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im going through hell,i dnt know whether what im going through is love or this is something else.i have been dating a guy for five months now,he didn' have a galfrnd as he told me but i just find out their still together with one of the ladies he dated before. when i asked him ... (194 words)

Is my boyfriend pulling away? I'm pregnant and he said he'd get back to me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm pregnant and worrie, my boyfriend said he will think about my pregnancy and get back to me after a week or a month. He said i must be little pataint i told him there is nothing to think about, either he is in or out. he still insisting to think about it. [Mod note: this pos... (138 words)

Did my boyfriend dump me as he was scared of commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Did my bf dump me as he was scared of commitment? We'd been together for nearly 3 years and in that time things were mostly great but every now and then he'd bottle it and question whether or not we wanted the same thing. I wanted the wedding, the house, the children, the ... (205 words)

Help, I need to know... Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have found a text message on my boyfriend's mobile phone. From a woman who has cropped up many a time in our past 2 years together. it said 'i miss you, i want you, I need you'. Is he cheating? Should I confront him? Is there any way that this could be me getting all of t... (65 words)

How can I have a better relationship with my dad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, well this is gonna sound pretty stupid... its about my Dad. Basically when I was about 10 my parents split up. At the time I wasnt really bothered, I dont know why really, because I'm sure I loved him... anyway at that point he was quite violent towards my mum and ... (566 words)

Stop feeling love, all of a sudden

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Been in the relationship since the past 9 months. It's my 1st ever. Things weren't easy. She was scared to be in one after a pathetic and disastrous 1st experience. We realised we were really in love in about 3-4 months.I know its a short time. But she did make me feel really ... (204 words)

If I told my boyfriend about me cheating... do you think he'll forgive me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well I still havent told my boyfriend I have cheated because I dont want to hurt him and I dont want to destroy the great relationship I have with him now! I seriously do not think I would ever cheat on him again cause the guilt I have felt so please dont think too low of ... (304 words)

Although I've been dating the same girl for 4 years, I still have feelings for my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a girl for 4 years now but still fancy my ex gf whom I dated in college. My ex girlfriend says no she will never date me again, what do I do now?... (38 words)

How can I control my nerves? I like him but am terrified to meet him.

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29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have met this guy from a dating site, we chatted over email and then swapped numbers and have texted every day since (a week now) he wants to meet.... I'm 22 he is 25 but I'm sooo scared i have not been on a proper date for months..... How can I control my nerves??? As I ... (86 words)

Has he gone off me that quickly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello About a month ago I started to speak to a really nice guy.. he told me he liked me.. but I didnt at the time find him very attractive at all.. we got on really well - his name's steve. I was seeing someone at at the time as well. Anyway when things broke off with t... (529 words)

My wife watches a lot of porn. Is this normal?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4770 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I just found out my wife has a tonne of porn on her laptop. We have an ok sex life having sex about 2 times a week but many times she turns me down. I noticed she seldom goes to bed the same time I do and comes to bed really late like 2am. Her excuse is that she falls asleep... (85 words)

I hate my boyfriend's sister with such a passion.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate my boyfriend's sister with such a passion. At first we got on well, I'd heard of her before, she is one year below me and is known for having a bit of a bad reputation. my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months and last month after a series of upsettin... (311 words)

Is the surfing clothing line 'Bubblegum' male or female wear?

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29 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is the surfing clothing line 'Bubblegum' male or female wear? My gf bought me a bubblegum t-shirt with pink writing on the front and flourescent flowers on the back.... I didn't know if they did feminine clothes for men or if i'd be wearing a woman's shirt? I know it shouldn't ... (99 words)

My girlfriend always expressed her love to me and all of a sudden she's doesn't..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend since July 4, 2008, it's been the best relationship i've had in my lifetime, we understand each other, and we sincerely have told one to another that we want to be together 'till the end of times. Thing is that my girl was very affective, she a... (239 words)

He drools over other girls every time we go out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so angry with my boyfriend. He takes me out then drools over another lady looking straight past my face into hers. He has been making remarks at other ladies in front of me and I tried to brush it off, but this time it was too much. He says I am just too jealous. Am I ... (70 words)

I'm afraid my boyfriend won't want to try again after miscarriage in unexpected pregnancy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Had an unexpected pregnancy with partner when our relationship was quite rocky. A shock to us both, he especially had a really hard time coming to terms with it, and was really unhappy and unaccepting for the first several days. He said he was "inconsolably angry at himself" ... (339 words)

I think my girlfriend prefers her friend's company to mines...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Me and my Girlfriend have been dating for 8 months now. We're really close and are important in each others lives. Her mom works a lot so she drops her off at my house and we get to hang out after school till usually 7 pm. A couple of months ago a new girl tra... (285 words)

Hurting blow-job. tips please..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend gave me first blow-job recently. It was not so nice. I was getting kinda pain. I don't know whether it was her teeth causing that problem. Can anyone gimme some tips to get a nice blow-job ? ... (39 words)

Did I move in with my boyfriend too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I basically feel really lost right now and im not sure which direction to head in. I'm 16, moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago and i think we moved too quickly, although it does really work well and we dont argue, we get along just fine. The only issue i have is ... (290 words)

How do you get a guy to text you again? I try but he won't respond.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you get a guy to text you again? I miss him and I want to talk to him. I used to be able to tell him everything that was bothering me but now he doesn't talk to me. I'm being set up with this guy I don't know? I want to cry because I love my friend Rob but if he doesn't ... (196 words)

I want to be able to fall asleep with my boyfriend but we cant get comfortable!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to basically know if anyone else has this same issue and if anyone else knows what to do!! Its not a major thing but its really irritating me. I want to be able to fall asleep with my boyfriend but we cant get comfortable! Our flats always stuffy and in bed its even ... (125 words)

Am I living a total fantasy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok i really need some advice on this one. I'm currently married to a guy i've been with for 14 years, i do love him immensley and everything is fine between us but here's were my problem lies! I think i'm in love with someone else, a friend of mine to be precise, i cant ... (310 words)

He sends and receives dirty texts from random women and tells me this is normal behaviour!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf (we've been together 5 years) looks at porn on the internet a lot (which I don't mind) BUT he also checks out adult dating sites, uses adult text messaging services to send/receive dirty texts to random women (including naked pics and texts about what they'd do to each ... (131 words)

He's hot-headed... how do I talk to him without the fighting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and i are starting to fight everyday. our sex life is fantastic and we are very much in love but he is very hot headed and jealous. I'm usually calm untill he says something smart then i get accused of being snappy. I don't know how to fix things i need to know how... (65 words)

How do I let her know I'd like to sleep with her without offending her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I think the wife of my brother-in-law is attracted by me. I get this idea by the way she looks at me, specially when I walk by her when nobody else is around. But I am still not 100% sure. Does someone have any suggestions on how I can let her know that I would like to ... (81 words)

Why hasn't he added me on Facebook? I thought he liked me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone! i recently came back from vacation and during my stay at one of the places,where I stayed at my aunt's place,i met this guy.we were neighbours and at the get together my aunt kept for my welcome,he came and throughout the party,he tried to talk to me,but since ev... (305 words)

She's trying to win my trust again, but this feeling is eating me alive from the inside!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have to start by saying that i can't believe i'm doing this. But i can't sleep, so i need advices... I've been with this girl for almost a year now. And we love each other so much and want to have a future together. But as with any relationship we have our fights. She was ... (321 words)

How can I get my wife to have more sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - how can i get my wife to have more sex with me? I do stuff around the house i make dinner for her. I even take her out. I have createdn problems in my balls wich i was worried about and went do the doc. He sent me for xrays and they found 4 cysts in my balls. He explained that ... (113 words)

My teenage son enjoys child pornography. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, this is embarrasing too say as a mother for starts. But I will anyways.. It all started with me finding my son who is 14 years old, with my finding porn on his computer, in his drawers. Stuff like that.. sounds normal so far, right? But it is very bad, the porn I ... (339 words)

Is this too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is quite long, sorry but please bare with me cuz i really need advice! Since my last question i have dumped that guy and are now with someone else. Me meet a few days ago literally, just as friends! as he HAD a gf! But we instantly fell in love, sounds corny but t... (294 words)

She's just indifferent to me! Now what?

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29 June 2009 (M)

age - My name is DJ. I am 59. Her name is Michele, 32. We started dating 11 months ago and fell in love. She has some mental issues. 50 tests in one day, insisting on a baby, while she has 3, all from different men. So in February, after enduring her continued rants and cus... (299 words)

How do you stay happy after a breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some ways to keep yourself happy and going, after breaking up with somebody? I'm afraid of my future with my boyfriend and I'm afraid that if we do call it quits I will become depressed again. As we broke up before about four months ago, and I slept, got up for ten m... (99 words)

Can we be something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles i also posted this on yesterday but had no replies so would hope that anyone can reply to this today it's really driving me insane. so yeah i posted something on here a few days ago about a guy who i've known since primary school and we've talked ever sin... (502 words)

Should I stay? Or get rid of the hoe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok here is the story I have been dating this girl for two yrs and she hasn't ever spent any real time wit me. if im lucky I get to see her lik 5 hrs every 2 weeks and she says she is busy but she will cancel or plans to make time for her friends and she hangsout with them more ... (110 words)

Confused! Not sure if marriage can be fixed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, my wife and I have been married for thirteen years now. We were married when we were 24. we have three children together 13,11 and 6. I love my wife dearly and have only ever wanted to be with her and my children.There have never been any infidelity problems... (584 words)

Is sex all that really matters in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is sex everything is relationship? i knew this man, we didn't go out but we were close. until he wanted to have sex. and i refused. i don't want to do it before i got married. call me old fashion but that's my belief. so he suddenly went away. and there's another guy after ... (103 words)

Turned on by a video of women..what does that mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - yeaterday my boyfriend and i were getting into it when he suggested we had sex while watching porn...i figured why not try something new so he opens up a video of a man and a woman doing it but for some reson i cant explain i wasnt turned on by it at all. i told him and bei... (129 words)

Drunked one night stand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a so called "One Night Stand" a week ago, we did not have sex, but it got really intimate. He was really drunk and I had drank three beers which was my limit. I was worried about this guy because he did not have a ride home so I gave him a ride home, the car ride was ... (300 words)

15, 7 months pregnant and afraid mom is stressing out my baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 15 and 7 months pregnant.me and my boyfrind are so happy together,and he always helps me out when ever he can. but something has poped up that he cant help me with.my mom.i know she loves me but what she is doing isnt right.see me and her argue all the time and im always ... (172 words)

She broke up with her boyfriend but now I don't know where I stand with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I met this girl a couple of weeks ago and we really hit it off. She would stare at me with a smile the whole night and went where ever i went. The next day she told me she had a boyfriend of 4 years. I was just going to leave it at that but she got my number from one of m... (414 words)

I think I lost out on "The One"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I really need some help here. The last boyfriend I had was a year ago. I dated him for almost two years. He ended up breaking up with me after he got a second job because he said he simply did not have time for a girlfriend. I believed him. About two weeks later, I get a ... (775 words)

Naked and cuffed to the bed and now wife won't talk to me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello,I just got married few weeks ago we are on our honeymoon..one night I decided to be kinky after dinner and decided for bondage,my wife my against being tied;so I handcuffed my self to the hotel bed..she was downstairs for dinner,so I had the chance and the time to be ... (257 words)

Does he really just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have known this really nice guy since sixth grade and its now my freshmen year and we are barely even friends. we talk sometimes but only when we really have nothing better to do. occasionally he will do things like tease me and touch my shoulders or even hold a door open for ... (101 words)

Controlling psycho mom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Seeking advice on my controling mother. I am 26yr old college graduate with a full time job and my mother still feels the need to run my life. All be the fact she and my step father helped pay for college and other financials during my growing up my mother still feels like she ... (357 words)

My life feels so empty, will I ever find happiness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello and thanks for reading :) You see, basically i feel very, very alone and unimportant and empty...and i am only 20 years old.You may think that at my age there's nothing really worthy to worry about, but i get depressed quickly. I feel so bored, so void... In m... (370 words)

I still love him, need advice on how to move on!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my abusive ex-bf 6 months ago exactly and I am worried that I am still thinking about him far too much. I have sought so much advice and tried to get on with life and have fun being single, but he is still in my head. Just to fill in some details, this wa... (268 words)

Is it normal for a guy to orgasm but not ejaculate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I see each other about 1-2 times a week. We've been dating since October 2008 and it's been nothing but wonderful. Well, we haven't had sex since early May because I haven't been "in the mood" since I started taking birth control pills. Well, today we decided ... (110 words)

Feel guilty for hanging out with another guy, was it wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so i've been going out with this guy for a little over a month now but he's liked me for 2 years. i guess i don't like him as much as i thought i did but he's so good to me and i just cant bring myself to break up with him no matter how bad i want to. so my question is, ... (105 words)

It feels like we're incompatible, he doesn't show any affection anymore. Should I stay or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, im a guy and im Bi. Im 27. I met my boyfriend who is very closeted eight months ago and he is 21 and very nice and intelligent but immature. I came out of the closet for him and I changed my entire life. He has made almost no changes for me. In the beginning he would... (437 words)

How can I get over this fear of living as a single mum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ever since my ex husband walked out of our then apartment, I have been unable to live on my own with my child. Instead I pay rent for an apartment I don't live. I stay with my mother. I don't understand myself. I wish I could live my beautiful newly constructed apartment. Ever ... (371 words)

Haven't heard from the guy I cheated with, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with a great man for 3 years. We love eachother and everything, but sex is out of the question. He is always working and I am always working so we barely have time for eachother. When we do have time I always try to get some, but he is always ... (211 words)

She wants nothing to do with me, but I want to be her friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I get over my ex GF. I dumped her becuase she kept on being too overprotective and controlling. Anyway now she wants NOTHING and I mean NOTHING to do with me. Anyway I want to be her friend her being as stubborn as she is says no her excuse is "It will bring back memorys... (142 words)

What's going on in his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all, I am having a long distant married friend.For the last 3 years he was insisting me for sex( We had kisses and oral, when i was in his city). After talking regularly with him i aggreed to meet him. he asked me to make his flight, hotel bookings . After 2 days o... (109 words)

My mom learned about problems with my b/f; I want my family to just let me make my own decisons

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My mom is usually laid back, she doesn't let me get away with everything, but a fair amount of things, she would never tell me who i could and could not be friends or, or who i could or could not date.. until my boyfriend came along, i made a big mistake confiding in my ... (244 words)

What can I do? I can't seem to find happiness within me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I hate myself. I don't know, I can't think of anything good about me. I'm ugly, boring, bitter... I just can't think of anything good... it particularly upsets me that I was born ugly and boring. I feel like everyone else is better than me. I don't have many friends, gee, I ... (162 words)

Does he really want a threesome, or is it just a fantasy?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am confused. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year. We had the "fantasy" discussion. He said he wants a threesome. I asked why and he said its a fantasy. I said well I wouldn't want you to have sex with the other woman. His response was "well then what's the ... (131 words)

We were the 'perfect' couple; now he's with his cousin, and I can't get over it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid, I really need help. My ex boyfriend broke up with me exactly one year ago and I am SO not over him. We were together for 2 and 1/2 years. The first 18 months were perfect. People used to say we were the perfect couple. We were both so in love. I really though... (886 words)

Weirdest period I've ever had

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey there, so I thought I started my period because I started to see a bit of blood but everytime I checked my pad or tampon or whatever it only had like a dot of blood so i switched to just using a pantyliner and i didn't see anymore blood. then i started to get like a brown... (186 words)

Sex during your period -- can you get pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - can you get pregnant if you had unprotected sex while on your period.... (13 words)

Jealousy: appropriate or insecurity in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright. This is a really long story. My current boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. Before we met he had this friend, let's call her Katie. He and Katie knew each ooher from a mutual job and she started out really cool and everything but then she che... (510 words)

Why does this sound happen? It's so embarrassing!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend were having sex, and we've recently tried doggy style and the most EMBARRASSING thing happened.. I had a vaginal fart?!?! It was so embarrassing, I didn't know what to do! I just laughed and he laughed too but he continued. It doesn't happen in any other ... (126 words)

Is it possible for a man to totally lose his sex drive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) age 51-59 - is it posible for a man to toally lose sexdrive? Never think about it,or wish for it? Or is it just connected to a bad realtionship? ... (26 words)

I feel utterly alone and worthless and I don't know how to make it go away. Can someone tell me what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I have a big problem. All I feel is loneliness. My father and mother have been split since before I was born. My dad has this girlfriend who treats him like crap and talks about me and my sister all the time. He always tells us what she says and every time he tells me, ... (427 words)

What kind of response did he want from me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So me and this guy were texting the other day, just like hi how are you type of stuff. Then he says "we should hang out sometime..." so I simply responded "yeah we should." I do really want to, but I didn't want to be the one to have to ask him out. Did he want me to ask to ... (83 words)

She agreed to not hang out with guys but she still does!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and a half. She kept a lot of things from me about her past and what she has done with other guys, and there have been a few times where she broke promises to me. For example she went out drinking with her friends and ... (440 words)

I feel more for my younger boss than my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age - I have been obsessed with another man who happens to be my boss and 12 years younger. He is funny, good looking and sexy. He doesn't feel the same way about me. He is married with 3 children. My husband is disabled and our marriage is having problems because of it. We have ... (121 words)

I feel embarrased that I have been used again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 15 years old.. And i have been sexually active since i was 12 yes i know very young well i hanged around wrong crowd and got myself in lots of trouble... Well all of my sex partners played me as in had sex with me than walked away.. well just recently i just began a ... (206 words)

Can women over 50 find love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age - Do you think a woman over fifty should just give up on being sexually yearned for by a handsome man her own age? Suicide is out for me because I love life mightily, but after giving out my heart so fully for a series of loving relationships with men and being formally in youn... (93 words)

I know things could be a LOT worse, but seriously?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - December of last year was not my best month. The first of December, my mother passed away from breast cancer. The seventh of December, I got into a car accident that left me with a broken leg (currently in the cast) and $1600 in debt. The twentieth of December, I failed an exam ... (172 words)

I think it's rational for my wife to take extra effort to brighten up the sex life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am a 31 years old husband. Being married for the last 2 years and before that we were going out for 3 years. We have a good loving relationship. Hardly fight and financially also sound with less external stresses to deal. Intentionally avoided having kids during t... (347 words)

Is it ever possible to revive a man's deepest sexual interests?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) age - Is it ever possible to revive a man's deepest sexual interest in you after he has a.)strayed b. looks too much at sexy pictures c) claims to not be sexually interested in you but calls you every day, esp. before going to sleep, spends all kinds of time with you, sleeps with you ... (63 words)

I like drinking - is this bad?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! I need some help. This isn't really a relationship problem. But, I really need some input on this. I'm going in to 10th grade next year and I just started drinking. Is this bad? I just feel really pressured with my friends because my four best friends both drink and a... (114 words)

Why can't I say no to my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im seeing my boss.. we are very close first he kissed me i said stopped it cos he was gettin married he kissed me again and i went with it after a year i told him i fallen in love with him we had a heart to heart he said he would never leave his wife.. i know its just sex he ... (79 words)

Does he just want to hook up? What does he want from ee?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A male perspective would be appreciated in this..What does he want from me? Me and this guy were seeing each other for a few months at the end of last year to January this year. We kind of just stopped talking after that, but since then we've had at least one mini texting ... (198 words)

Hey friend lied to me and nnow I am in trouble with my gf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i dated this girl for 4 years and after we broke up we didnt talk for a week or two. well i went to her collage graduation and things went well the next day was her birthday and i had lunch with her at my apartment... while we were eating luch she began to cry and say she was ... (235 words)

I'm chinese and my bf is indian, parents would disown me if I married him. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2377 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am Chinese and I've been dating my secret indian bf of nearly 2 years . I told my parents about two years ago (I'm 21 now) that I was in love with him and my dad threatened to disown me. So I said I would think about and deal with it myself and they thought i would just get ... (879 words)

Follow up to my sister who left her husband for a guy with a gf

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29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am writing to you again about the whole sitiuation of me and my sisters husband my sister has already moved on and is seeing someone who has a girlfriend!she does not speak with her ex husband and we would keep it secret is it still very wrong i really like him and can ... (69 words)

I left my wife but now is willing to start over...should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

29 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have had an affair which lasted a total of 3 months we had sex 4 times . I left my wife before any sex took place but its the same i know ! we have two young children who i love they are everything to me i felt i had no choice but to leave and this other woman gave me the ... (280 words)

I feel discomfort during sex, and I might be pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I have sex I feel discomfort afterwards and during. I don't really know how to explain it, besides the fact it is very very discomforting, and outside my vagina hurts after sex. Also I had unprotected sex two days ago, but had my period today? Do I still go and get a pre... (77 words)

I think the still has feelings for me.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, Im 17, a closet bisexual and am in love with my best friend. The situation is complicated. In the past, a few years ago maybe, we were in a sort of pretend gay relationship, it started off as just fun but gradually got more and more "serious". I'd go to his house and we'd ... (209 words)

When is the best time to start talking about "us"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5624 days ago

29 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, i broke up with my 1 year bf about 4 months ago... it was pretty dramatic and lots of shit happened... i dated someone else after that, we met up for sex with my ex a few times, i got into a deep depression and wanted to die, lots of fights, etc. the thing... (122 words)