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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I keep a relationship going in order for it to become a success?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My problem is getting girls and keeping them, but i am 43 years old and was once engaged but that was nineteen years ago. my mother died in 90 and 3 months later my fiance finished with me, i went off the rails for a few years but just as things were getting better i had a ... (226 words)

I want us to be happy without all this arguing...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together going on 5 years. We have a 2 year old son. We got together when i was 16. I love him very much and i know he loves me. The problem is that we argue a whole lot. It could be the smallest thing and get turned into something big. He cheated ... (129 words)

Doesn't his plan make me look like his bitch???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well I've been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we got onto the subject of sex. We are both virgins and I'm his first girlfriend. so anyways its hard to really explain everything but um well he couldn't understand my reasons for waiting and thought it was all his fault. ... (222 words)

I'm afraid to kiss him in case he freaks out! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I've been dating this guy for 6 months and we still havn't kissed yet! I want to kiss him but he freaks out. I want to give him a surprise kiss on the lips but I'm afraid that when I get close or go to kiss him he'll freak out and make me look like an idiot. I need help!... (61 words)

A breach of date protocol?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of four years just asked if I was "interested" in going to a formal party his fraternity is throwing. I said sure, sounds fun. He then proceeds to tell me that tickets are $47. I'd been under the impression that when you ask somebody to a formal dance (especially ... (186 words)

In love with my boyfriend's best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do i do if i´m in love with my boyfriend's best friend? i have a biggg problem! i fell in love with my "boyfrieds" best friend. The thing is soo complicated, first of all he is not really my boyfriend, he is like my forever free but we are exclusive. I've known the b... (179 words)

Confused on what to do with my girlfriend of 4 months

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been my girlfriend for the past 4 months now and at the moment it seems like she's letting me down 24/7. she's my first love, I love her to bits and i really want things to change but the thing is, i see her about 2-3 hours a week even though she lives about 100m away ... (257 words)

My best friend's brother took my virginity AGAINST my will and now I feel so alone and don't know how to handle this...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really dont know what to do. in march, i went to a party.. everyone got drunk but it was a great night! my best friend's brother is 22 and he is about 6 foot 2 weighs about 18 stone and has muscles bigger than my head. he told me a while ago that he liked me and asked me to ... (513 words)

So does he hate me or what???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so i am 19 years old and at school there is this guy i like. And maybe a couple of days ago i requested him on myspace lol n i sent him a message saying we should hang out sometime so he just read it n denied me so i figured rejected right...sooooooo now he stares a lot n looks ... (166 words)

She says I'm not committed enough. Is this the case or is she too full on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm mid 20's - I've been with my girl for 7 months and she is my first girlfriend. She however has been in relationships non-stop since she was 16. Things are more serious it seems from her side (i din't see this at first but am realising it) as she tells me she loves mea and ... (678 words)

How to get a guy to sleep with you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known him for like an year now and we have been talking a couple of times and i found out that we've got similar tastes and everything. He's nice and the kind of guy i would love to date but I've heard that the best way to start of the relationship is to get the guy to ... (113 words)

I want to get closer to him before I ask if he likes me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hola :) Okay so there is this guy, we have known each other for a few months now, but only recently starting getting really close. I have ended up liking him alot, and it's confusing on how he feels. He always comes up to me and we have a really good conversation, today he... (197 words)

How to interpret this observation of mine

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Relationships are nice and an incredible part of anyones life, but we end up asking ourselves the same questions everytime... We are anxious about the love the other person has for us... Is it a normal human behaviour, after being with this girl for about a year, I just ... (1143 words)

Still having one, but lighter and lighter..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i had unprotected sex (stupidley) on the 13th march, i have had a period every months since then but its been lighter than usual this week it only last for 2 days usually it would be 3 or 4 is it possible that i can be pregnant?? ... (47 words)

I didn't break up with him..did I do the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A little while ago my boyfriend cheated on me. he was drinking.. a lot and this one girl who has been after him for a long time.. a few years (shes.. not exactly particular about who she sleeps with, all she wanted was him.. but not really as a boyfriend obviously). He knew ... (321 words)

Sex in the woods to lose my virginity?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and this guy "Alex" have been talking all school year. We pass notes all the time and we always joked about having sex, especially because at my school, everyone think I get around. The truth is I'm a virgin. Well Alex asked me to go to a lake with him saturday and have ... (118 words)

Sexual consent contracts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I heard that there are contracts which one could sign with their partners to give consent to sexual activity.While this can protect men from false accusations of rape,I don't feel it's right for bureaucracy to infiltrate the bedroom. Is this real or just a joke?... (48 words)

How can I show and prove how sorry I am?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i realy dont no what to do anymore im with my boyfriend over a year now i have done a lot a things on him witch i am really really sorry for. see it hasnt been the same since he found out i cheated on him with my ex but hes even more mad about it because my ex was my fi... (151 words)

I want a threesome and my wife feels it too

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a normal guy, with a good professional career in Banglore. I fantasize a lot about sharing my wife with other men in a threesome fashion, and also about watching her have sex with other men. It has become such a strong part of my sexual life that I know it is more than ... (211 words)

He is complicated and hard to read

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi can anyone help me understand my man.We have been dating for 9mths.He is lovely and sweet and caring in lots of ways,however there is something that doesn't sit right with me.when i first met him he told me he doesn't believe in love,he thinks its a chemical reaction and ... (294 words)

I can't stay away from him because of my feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello. I really need some advice and help! I broke up with my boyfriend back in March and I was devestated. I started to like a new guy to try and get over the ex. After a while, this new guy seemed to be interested. He was very difficult to read and i found myself always ... (257 words)

He's a wonderful guy, but I have these insatiable urges

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married to a wonderful guy for over 20 years. He always tells me how much he adores me and shows me also in so many ways. He has no idea that I feel the way I do because I also love him and treat him the same way. However, the problem is that I sometimes feel this ... (272 words)

How do I get out of this friends' zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So i've liked this girl for awhile now. We started out as friends what I usually do with girls. I don't fall for someone till I get to know them. We've been friends for about a year now, these feelings for her didnt start right away. I told her one day that I liked her and all ... (404 words)

Pregnant, doing A levels, and he wants me to move to the other end of the country!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 18 nearly 19 and just doing my a level exams, im 3 and a half months pregnant with my boyfriends baby who is 30 nearly 31, we have been together for about 10 months and i love him with all my fault and the feeling is matual,he is very keen for me to move to manchest... (135 words)

Why am I so scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I'm 15 years old and I don't what to do. I really want to be in a relationship and have a boyfriend, but the thing is I'm too scared. I don't no why I am so scared, when I talk to boys I start shaking and go all shy. My last relationship I was in I got abused and was v... (141 words)

I can't stop cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hey guys how are you? just would like to ask for some outside point of view on my problem.don't even know it's a problem though but stil... it seems to me i've got a bit of a commitment problem.here's the thing.i've been going out with a girl on and off since 2001.i've cheate... (330 words)

I'm gonna loose the one I love, my best mate, the one that makes me who I am!

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok please bare with me on this story, its gonna be long but i serious need some help its ruining my life! Well i've been at college with this guy for 2 years and we are due to leave..I fell in love with him and im not exagerating there i truely do,im nothing without him, hes... (1394 words)

Is my family's attitued rubbing off on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys I've been going out with a 36 year old guy for about 6 months now (I'm 21) and everything's great. Age difference hasn't been an issue, and whilst our relationship isn't typical as he's at sea quite a lot, we email and it's great even when he isn't here. He mad... (315 words)

Did she mean what she said or is she trying to protect herself?

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4 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi dear people, i really need your help : i am on relationship with someone i really love to death,she's cheated on me once and i fogave her,now she seems she's in love and i really love her a lot,we have become great friends but the doupt keeps ON my mind.last nite w... (295 words)

Familiarity breeds contempt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i would really love a little advice, thankyou. so, i have been friends with this guy for about 8/9 months, having met him when he joined my school. we got on well really quickly, we talk a lot, always have fun, are relaxed around eachother, etc. he always asks me for help... (271 words)

Serious relationship problems, he's not affectionate, not caring, we are dirfting apart, can you help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help with my relationship with my husband. We're drifting apart and I feel like I'm getting more and more depressed in life. We were going good in the beginning and sex was good and almost everyday. Then when we got married sex stopped and it might occur once a month ... (611 words)

Dating for a year, need ideas for a gift for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend been going out a year in june and hes ciming down to see me i dont know what to get him any ideas?... (27 words)

Would texting a woman be classified as cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance has treated me like crap for 4 months RUDE!!! I caught him texting a girl from work now that he's caught, he's being really nice and things are back to normal, I don't know what to think. In my book Texting another female and hiding it is cheating, am I wrong? MOD N... (83 words)

We split up, she found a rebound guy who hurt her badly, she still cares about him, do I have a chance here or should I just wait it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I dated 18 months, I was and still am madly in love with her. A few months ago we broke up over some situations in our lives and fights that resulted from them. She was emotionally weak and she ended up going for a rebound. The rebound guy turned ou... (501 words)

Confused, she aborted her roomate's baby, says she cares about me, what am I to believe/

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ill try and keep this brief, but this is a complex situation, which is why i am asking for outside help(not friends and family who have their own agendas) Met this girl through a mutual friend 6 weeks ago and we have had some of the most romantic dates i have ever been on. Ev... (455 words)

After 11 years together, he got drunk and cheated, can this be fixed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid.. I've been with my fiance for 11 years. 3 of those years we have been engaged. We pretty much grew together. We met when I was 18 and he was 23. I'm now 30..Anyway, Saturday night he walked down to the local bar, something he will usually do if I'm not in the mood... (275 words)

Have some questions about the life of sperm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - if a boy has pre ejaculate in his swim shorts when he goes in the pool with a girl can it swim in the pool. if they are up against each other in the water but no penetration could she get preg? or what if your hand went through the water and fingered her? could the pre ... (76 words)

Want to lose some weight quickly, any healthy suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help! i've started eating really healthy and exercising is there anyway i can lose 3 stone in 3 months it's really important as i'm starting college soon and need that extra confidence boost, i've been eating healthy in moderation but now i'm thinking of cutting out chocolat... (59 words)

Should I risk losing her, by telling her of my one night stand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I've been with this girl for a little over a year and I think I've fallen in love with her. We talk about our future, gettigng married one dy and have our own family. In the last month and a half or so I've noticed she's become a little distant. She barely has time for us,... (301 words)

I've fallen for my best friend after rejecting him, how do I correct this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I think I'm falling in love with my best friend, and I believe I may have messed up whatever chance I had with him. The thing is we've been friends for a really long time, since high school. It was couple of years ago when he confessed that he has feelings for me, though h... (368 words)

Too shy to kiss him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Eugh ok so i am 20 years old and i've never been kissed not that i've not had chances too i have! but i just can't bring myself to do it, in some ways i want too but others i don't, i want to so i will stop feeling like a loser! and perhaps gain more confidence with boys and ... (322 words)

Premature ejaculation! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay here's the situation. I've been having sex for over 2 years now (since I was 16) and I definitely suffer from premature ejaculation. I ejaculate as soon as I enter my girlfriend and if we're kissing a lot and she is stroking my penis through my jeans I ejaculate in less ... (172 words)

Three years on and I'm still too scared to ask her out, even though she's said "I love you " to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 17 years of age, 18 in Decemeber and never had a girlfriend, not even kissed a girl. My problem started at around the end of Year 10 in high school, I started to like this girl in the year below me. I started to talk to her on MSN/Myspace etc and she was just so perfect, the ... (320 words)

Racist family don't want us to be together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have recently got together with a guy i really like but there has been problems, he is a football player so he spends most of his time at training, or out with mates i just dont seem to see him as much as i would like to,and people make it harder because he is african and i'm ... (76 words)

Why does age difference make less of an impact as you get older?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that when a girl is 16 years old and a guy is 19 years old and they are dating, it seems like a large age gap. However, when the girl is 17/18 and the guy is 20/21 it doesn't really seem like a big deal. Is it because at 17 your mind is more mature? I'm jus... (138 words)

What are these white bits in my virgina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, im 18 and recently ive started to get white bits in my vagina, they look almost tissue like. i havent a clue what it might be, any ideas? thanks... (30 words)

I don't want him to think I'll just drop everything and keep running back to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - ere's the situation: We've been dating for awhile. It's a long distance relationship, but we both went into the relationship knowing it wasn't going to be easy. He said we were in it for the long haul; good or bad. We got into an argument two weeks ago when I went to his... (591 words)

Why do men change after you give them your heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age - why when you give a man your heart he start to act different and don't want anything to do with you after a year into the relationship. then he refuse to answer any of my calls or even come around like he use to. it has been two months and things are not the same.... (57 words)

I want to stop masturbating but can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 29 years old and I have been masturbating like 3 times a day since I was 12. I don't think a day has ever gone by without doing it at least once. Even right after having sex with a woman I masturbate some of them don't mind and while some feel they didnt satisfy me enough!, ... (113 words)

Good bdsm tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Anyone have some good bdsm tips for me? Thanks in advance for your help... (14 words)

Dumped for someone else by my work fling!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

- Ive been sleeping with a guy at work but weve never had a relationship because he said he didnt want to commit. I didnt mind I just thought it was a bit of fun at the time nothing serious. Then last month I went on holiday for a week and when I come back I find that he is going ... (326 words)

He asked about my past, I told the truth and now he's acting differently

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know why, but my boyfriend asked me how many guys I had slept with, I believe in honesty so I told him the truth even though I don't understand what the point is, it's him that I want. After I told him he kind of went all silent then said his number which was a little ... (238 words)

He masturbates almost every night but has had sex with me only once in a month

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I just recently been reunited. He was in basic training and has just recently finished in which I moved across the country to be with him. Since we've been back together our sex life sucks. I'm not sure whats wrong but I know he masturbates almost every night ... (121 words)

Microgynon 30 experiences?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, just a quick question. I know this isn't really a relationship question but the root cause of this is to do with my relationship. Anyway...would just like to know of anyones experiences when they have stopped taking microgynon 30. I was taking it for about 6months but its ... (70 words)

Which medicine works best for cramps?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5646 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I need some suggestions Whenever I get my period, I tend to get cramps quite often. When it comes, i try so desperately to get rid of them. I've tried Midol, Advil, and Alieve, but the only results i got were that the Advil and Alieve each worked once. Yesterday, i was... (112 words)

Why do I question being with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so confused, im 22 been with my boyfriend 4 years, hes great, always there for me so romantic, loving caring, good job good morals, but ive broken up with him 3 times before as i wanted to play the field as i got with him so young and he was my first boyfriend first lover ... (159 words)

Should I confront her? She sent sexy pictures to some other guy as well as me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just recently found out that my girlfriend lied to me about something. We met in Brazil in January, and unfortunately had to be apart for two months, as she had to go back to Scotland and I had to stay. During this time, we were a full-on official couple though. We talked o... (176 words)

I regret losing my virginity, had intimate problems and her past is haunting me

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey im 17,male and lost my virginity about a week ago. ive been having trouble getting over my girlfriends past because i had vivid images of her and her ex in my head and she seems tainted somehow. he USED her for many sexual activities i was told by my girlfriend, some... (262 words)

Was this my period? When should I expect my next one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have taken the morning after pill the day after my last period ended. everything went fine until a week later i had what looked like a really strange light period for two days. Im normally heavy and last a week. I have taken a pregnancy test, which came back negative. Was ... (77 words)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to find me attractive.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, Im 18 years old and me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. The problem im having is my boyfriends making me feel really insecure. When i turned around 13, i dont know what happend, i seemed to go from plain to pretty and everyone noticed. I used ... (458 words)

He's sexy and good looking - but is he the best I can get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I hate the situation im in. There's only one man out there that i want but i cant give him no one more chances! I was with my ex for 3 yrs on and off. He hasnt been the best hes got commitment issues in the 3yrs we were together. We only ever saw each other 3-4 times a wk. He... (398 words)

Is this something she needs to get out of her system?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi my name is Luke i am 21 almost 22 i have been with a girl for four years next month she is 20. we don't live together because she is not ready to move out. So i stay at her house 3-4 nights a week and she stays at mine once a week. (We live 20-30 minutes away from each ... (393 words)

My wife has left me after her mother's death!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wifes mother was diagnosed with cancer in October last year and died on January 13th of this year on Mothers Day she said she does feel the same anymore everythings changed and she doesn't love me anymore. We only got married in December, she asked me. We have been together ... (235 words)

Was it just her fantasy - or something more serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been married for 7 years adn will do anything for my wife but.... A couple of weeks ago i had a strange feeling something was up with the wife I out of curiosity checked her email and social network site Lo and behold there were conversations of sexual natur... (309 words)

Am I being crazy unfair or just delusional?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age - I am getting married shortly to a man with 3 children. The children do not live with him and all have different mothers but they visit all the time. I have one child who is at boarding school. I would like another child with my husband to be. I am quite wealthy and am happy to ... (119 words)

Normal? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, can anyone tell me if this is normal or not? me and my boyfriend hadn't seen each other in over 3 weeks, so no sex, and then yesterday we didn't have sex but he fingered me and i started to bleed a little bit (i'm near my period time and i started today) so we had... (76 words)

Should I go and tell my best friend how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - All my life my decisions on most of the things has been based on rational thoughts and this is something where I can't use plain reasoning to figure out. Whats bothering me is that I have feelings for my best friend. She was in a relationship with one of our common friends. ... (169 words)

Dating after divorce. Was it too early for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5649 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old recent divorcee and I started seeing this guy only 2 weeks after I left my husband. I met him while I was still married and we hit it off very well. I wasn't happy at the time, and it opened my eyes on my own situation. It took about a year for me to go from ... (421 words)

I'm 13 and want to get my boyfriend back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

4 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i am 13 and at the moment i am going through a tough stage and i cant get over it. well my boyfriend and me just broke up. well it was a bit of my falt, well there was another guy that liked me and treated me better so i thought he mite do me better so i will dump the guy i ... (274 words)

Do I need help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, im just here to tell how my life is and what i should do. i have low self esteem and i dont really believe in myself sometimes, ive been sexually abused when i was younger by 2 of my friends and i never told anyone, i never had any real friends and the kids i ... (127 words)

Teacher mystery. Please help!

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is long, but I would really appreciate your help with this. This took place over years and I have to put everything in a few paragraphs... Like many of the cases mentioned on this site, mine also involves a teacher in high school. However, I am not a high schoo... (1161 words)

Disrespected? Or over reacted?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I live in Texas and met a guy who lives in North Dakota. We talked, emailes and texted everyday for about 2 months. He is in the military and was getting a long weekend off so wanted me fly there. I bought a ticket and off I went very excited to see him. The trip I thought went ... (223 words)

I keep having terrible nightmares, does anyone have any idea why?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, strange question.... I'm not one that has dreams, but lately i have been having nightmares at least 3 times a night.... They will be about unhappy people, or death, being murdered, i have even had one of giving birth to dead baby.... Which is rather disturbing....being ... (91 words)

Men, are you able to forgive your lady for insulting you?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know we women are emotional creatures and could forgive easily. Men, how easily is it especially if you are the cause of her frustration and have done some things to hurt you. She said some hurtful words like calling you an "idiot", stupid, using the f word, telling u God ... (82 words)

My husband shows me no affection or attention, says he has animosity towards me, what do I do?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My Husband told me he has animosity towards me. He hasnt touched me in months. Weve been together for 8yrs with no kids, except from past marriages. i havent been able to find work in 6months and he accusses me of not trying that i want to live off his income. As long as Ive ... (172 words)

He was a multiple cheater, we broke up, I insulted him, but feel I could forgive him, why?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why am I still finding it hard to forgive myself and still blaming myself for the failed relationship since 2months with my boyfriend? A summary of what led it, was he had cheated before, but we settled it and lack of time and the way he treated me, then one day, when he fai... (158 words)

Relationship with my cousin, can't get over him, need help please?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I had a short relationship with my 16-now 17- yr. old cousin. It ended and he started dating another girl. I had a couple other relationships, but in the end, I still really like him. Yesterday i found out my best friend had been talking and texting and iming him and he told ... (105 words)

Is it legal for a 17/12 relationship without sex in Canada, I want to date her, but worried about legal aspects?

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4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and have found out that too much of a good thing can be bad. I had a 27 year old GF that had a crazy apatite for sex.She would engage me sexually every time we met(always at her place) and we would have a lot of rough,hard sex for hours until we were too tire... (1102 words)

Good friends, but she likes to compete with me, what can I do to help her be a happier person?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bestfriend and I have been bestfriends for over a year now. When we first became best friends we were both good girls, good grades, inexperienced sexually. We've definitely grown since though. I have a steady, loving boyfriend. She's always competed with me in the past and ... (154 words)

My husband has erectile problems, I have needs, what do I do now?

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4 June 2009 (F) age - My husband lost his sex drive and he is having erectal problems. And it is now our new reality. I can't handle this very well, mainly because the doctor didn't find anything wrong with him. He thinks ,I' m really mean with him, and he thinks it is not my loss, but his. I won... (120 words)

Friends, he wants more, after dating many girls, but says he has changed, believe him or not?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently just met a guy online. We went out a week ago and have been meeting up almost everyday. He knows I'm in the phase of getting over another guy, so I made it clear that we're hanging out as friends and stuff like that. After the first meeting, he has been driving ove... (198 words)

He does not acknowledge the existence of his ex-girlfriend, any cause for concern?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I be concerned if my boyfriend is bitter about his ex-girlfriend? He won't acknowledge her existence. ... (17 words)

Does my lesbian friend have any feelings for me,or am I naive?

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4 June 2009 (M)

age - I hook up with my lesbin friend. She calls me all the time to pick her up. When I ask her to be my lady she tell me all we are just friends and we hook up for money. I feel like she love me or am I fooling myself?... (53 words)

Why do people tell you, that you resemble someone unattractive?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I hate when this happens. I am African-American and often, white people or non-blacks tell me I resemble someone who is very unattractive. Today someone told me that I look like Condellezza Rice! That is the worst insult I've ever received. Black people, however; see me ... (105 words)

Have had two abortions and I used to smoke weed, can I still get pregnant?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 21 and my boyfriend is 30. I have had two abortins in my life I use to smoke weed but I have stop now. My boyfiend still smokes weed we have been trying to have a baby for about 8 months now. It is getting realy stressful he wants to go and buy the ovalution test. I ... (130 words)

I need ways to get him out of my head, please help?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i liked this guy bt found out he has a girl friend :(( i want to frget abt him but i just cant cant Please tell me ways to forget about him i hate this feeling i am sad all the times i jus wana get over him.... (49 words)

THANKS! To all who have helped me in the past, the best to all of you.

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4 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I have posted several times and I just wanted to thank you for your responses good or bad. I am not going to be here again. I wish you all the best. ... (41 words)

Wife in need of some play time

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’ve been with my husband for 3 years, but married for 1 year. During the 1st 6months to a year of our relationship things were great but then my ex husband caused lots of problems for us. So for the past 2 years we have had a rocky relationship. I have fears my husband is ... (271 words)

Desperate to lose weight and fit in!

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4 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i am just desperate to lose weight. I'm not pretty and I don't know why my boyfriend wants to sleep with me (I do too). I have been making myself throw up for a week trying fit in with my friends who are so prettier then me. How can I be to be anorexic? ... (58 words)

We argue all the time, he makes me cry, how do we make it better?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid: i have a problem, i want my relationship to work. i dont know what else to do' i hate arguing and it seems like we are always arguing about the littlest and stupidest things, and he makes me cry each time. i just dont know what to do. can you please help me? ... (73 words)

Our sex life is virtually non-existent...any advice?

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4 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and my wife and I have been together since I was 15 and married since I was 19. When we were dating we had a healthy sex life but when we moved in together it stopped altogether. It went from 2 times a week to 1, maybe every 2 or 3 months, if I'm lucky. I've tried ... (156 words)

I have such raging hormones...is this normal?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im a 14 year old girl and lately my hormones have been raging(i think). i finger myself literally everyday(clit not inside the vagina..) because it relaxes me and while doing that i look at videos of people kissing or something(i know thats wierd) its sorta like a habit. and ... (93 words)

Could I maybe pursue him next year when she's gone?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is the most teenager girl-ish question ever, but here goes: There's this guy I really really like. He's the funniest person I know and I love talking to him. Whenever I'm with him, I'm happy...he's sort of like the bright spot of my day. I feel like he might like me ... (189 words)

Does anyone have any penny pinching advice?

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4 June 2009 (M)

- I can't seem to keep up with my account and I keep overdrawing my funds. I'm not even spending a lot of money on things I want, it just keeps nickle and diming my account to death. Mostly it's money I spend to work with, but it takes up to 30 days to get paid back that money so ... (80 words)

I'm having a terrible time getting over an affair...

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4 June 2009 (F)

age - I am a married woman who until 6 months ago had been having an affair for 10 years with a male colleague, also married. He ended it because he said he had felt increasingly unhappy for the last year or so. He felt that we were arguing too much, that I was possessive and that ... (212 words)

My teacher assumed I like him. Help!

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a freshman in high school. I'm not going into the details because it'll just waste your time, so I'm going to keep it simple. My teacher assumed that I like him. It was pretty obvious. Now everything is awkward between me and him. How should I tell him that I don't li... (74 words)

I'm worried I could be pregnant...

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were rubbing against each other and I wasn't wearing pants or underwear, but he was fully clothed. And he ejaculated and it touched my vagina, maybe, not too sure. And this was a week after my period, and now about a month later I bled very lightly but it was ... (66 words)

I can't things end like this, can I? He disappeared and I didn't know he had pneumonia!

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so, I was going out with this guy for a few months. It was decent relationship when we were actually communicating. But after having the same problems, repeatedly I ended it. It took 3 weeks to actually leave him. Then one day I stop hearing from him completely. At first i ... (262 words)

How can I deal with his depression? This is really starting to drag me down.

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4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend (19) and we've been together for just over six months. He has recently started a job in sales and leaves at 6am and gets home at 8pm (we don't live together). He has become increasingly depressed over the last few months and ... (156 words)

Should I lose my virginity tomorrow? Please answer ASAP!

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am soooo confused please can you help me asap!! before tomorrow if you can i am 15 and i am a virgin and i like this boy alot and he want to take my virginity really baaaad but i think thats all he wants to do but im not sure. hes 16 and has had sex already and ive known hi... (129 words)

I have a son with him, but I don't trust him and don't know what to do! Help, please!

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i found out my bf went overseas while i was away and he is hidin it from me. thats the 3rd time. others times a girl he went to. Also he have been seein a girl my friend told me she sees him all the time. i dont know wat to do and i dont trust him. i got a 3 yr old with him. he ... (84 words)

Relationship crisis--together but hanging by a string!

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4 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend for the past three years doesn't trust me because of a situation I was in pervously during our relationship. The situation is a minor one I think she's just insecure but she can't trust me now, in addition she can't seem to come to terms with us being together. We ... (119 words)

Any sure-fire way of knowing he likes you?

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4 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is there any sure fire way to tell if a guy likes you… *really* likes you, or is just being nice?? there is this one guy, i’ve only know him for a few weeks, but lately anytime i see him i catch him looking at me across the room, or when i show up at parties he’ll come an... (129 words)