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writes:Here it is in a nutshell. My ex-girlfriend and I were together for about 1 1/2 years. She broke up with me about 8 years ago, it was not a very pretty breakup. She wanted it 100% and I wanted to keep her 100%. Since the time that we broke up, I found a new girl who I am pretty happy with for the most part. We have been together for about 6 years in total. My girl is a great person and I care for her very deeply. A few months ago, my ex dug up my info (which remained the same as I never moved or changed my number) and started to call me. I spoke with her once and had a conversation with her. We talked about old times, and old ways. She spoke really fondly of the "us" that used to be. i didnt really have much to say about it to be honest. She started telling me about all her "conquests" since we broke up, and rather than be impressed I was fairly disgusted. I ended the call with a "keep in touch" shortly after. Suddenly, shes calling 2, 3 times a day! I finally agreed to meet up with her last month, but had to cancel last minute. Since that time she has been pestering me to set another time to meet up. Ive relented and am supposed to meet up with her at a local cafe thursday.I'd love to hear feedback as to what the heck anyone thinks may be going on, thru her head... I mean, what triggers a "comeback" after an 8 year long break? What gives with all the talk about former conquests..was that to "impress" me? She knows I'm attached, what the heck does she want from me? Truth be told I dont even know if I should meet with her. I am beyond confused and cannot help but to wish she never came back around. You guys on here have never steered me wrong...give me some insight please!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): I don't understand why you are even paying attention to your ex. This was 8 whole years ago. Its the past and it belongs... IN THE PAST. Be careful not to get things twisted coz ex conversations can really be hurtful to your new gf. If she found out she would prob be very upset. Take care of what you have. Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): people cant handle that they lost someone valuable to them. they realise it tooo late that they lost this person and now they see someone else with that someone they once had, this makes them realise even more of what they are missing and once had.so they try and try to claim that which they once had, and in the process break peoples marriages/relationships without care just to fill that big hole in the heart. its not surprising! ive had my ex come back to me on his knees, which was very sad but i couldnt do anything for him. he tried to break my marriage with my husband, saying that he would kill him if he had to just to have me back and blah, blah, blah. he even said he would stop the wedding. coz i thought he was my friend and invited him over, so i took back the invitation. its crazy!! the truth is, if you love someone, value them and love them as they deserve before you loose them. once you loose them thats it! as the saying goes: you never know what you had till its gone!!!! so be wise and know before its gone!! goodluck!!
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