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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I stay friends with him and hurt myself in the process?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Confused again. My ex boyfriend and i have started talking again. He asked me out a few days after we started talking to each other and he broke up with me a week after we started dating, telling me that he didnt have feelings for me and was not over his ex. Recently i feel ... (337 words)

How can things so good become so bad?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My (use to be good friend) he hasn't been talking to me so I haven't been talking to him but only if he says something to me which he does. I try to talk to him sometimes but i'm learning to ignore and not even try anymore. I miss the conversations we used to have at night ... (148 words)

Why do I have stretch marks if I'm not growing?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I have strach marks in my chest area if i'm not growing quickly? I also have them on my inner thighs, really embarassing to waer a bathing suit anyway why I don't think i am growing there and is there a way to get rid of them?... (50 words)

How do I stop his horrible habits?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this guy for nearly 9 months and love him to bits, but over the last month realised he has a lot of horrible habits. They've gotten to the point where I just get really frustrated and p'd off. He gets too comfortable, relaxed and laid back in my house ... (171 words)

Get involved with someone my own age?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and have recently been on a few dates with a really nice guy Only thing is he is 6 years older than me and has a 2 year old kid I am in the middle of my A Levels and come from a well off bacgkground and am planning on going to university next year the guy I have be... (287 words)

Camp morale?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So... I'm sitting here in the pouring rain, this isn't the London underground song, where the heck this internet conection is coming from I don't know, typing awkwardly on my psp (I'm one of the 3 people who bought one) with my 3 best friends around, 2 of whom are asleep. Oh ... (101 words)

Why aren't I good enough for him any more?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend flirts with other girls... but not just any girls. My best friends... while I'm there! We've been going out a while, few months and we're both the same age really. I'm almost 14, he is. He is also kind of pressuring me into sexual things that I dont want to do... ... (57 words)

Should I experiment more with my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Right, recently my best friend has been doing things with her boyfriend like tossing off and fingering. My boyfriend and her boyfriend are best mates. My boyfriend has been saying that maybe we should give it a go, but I'm not sure what to do, or whether I want to do anything! ... (54 words)

Should I take my sister's advice or follow my heart?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like this guy whom is five years older than me. Well I usually look like I'm mad when I'm not and when I walked passed him, he smiled so I would. Then the next time I saw him he looked at me and asked how I was doing then I waved and when I was coming back he asked why I look ... (198 words)

Sex 101

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all! I am really looking for some male help on this one. My boyfriend and I have an amazing sex life. We are pretty open to trying new things but lately things have been a little boring. We have done the role play and used the products, and all the other fun stuff. ... (90 words)

New man, new house, New life??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Cupid readers, this is my question. I am 21 living with my parents. My 3 year old also lives with us. She was raised with my mom and dad around every day! I am now in a relationship and we're getting married. This man is not her father, he was never in the picture. The only man ... (98 words)

This other woman seems to be getting too close to my boyfriend for comfort!

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, first off... I do realise how silly this is going to sound, I just wanted other peoples opinions on it to help get a better perspective. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship while he's at Uni. We both have myspace accounts, and he gets a lot of attention... (274 words)

Where in Florida can I buy a protein powder?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I want to gain a few pounds about 10 or 15 but I do not know where to buy a powder that I can drink every day and gain weight. I don't want protein shakes such as boost or ensure, I just want a powder you pour into milk or water or whatever and drink it. Do any of you ... (81 words)

Could I ever become more to this guy?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya! My name is Kate, I am 21 and I have been chatting to this lovely man who of which is 44 via email for the past 1 and a half years! I met him on a dating site, as I joint it to suport my friend who wanted to meet someone (I was forced to lol) So I did, and I got an email... (717 words)

Not sure what to do with this guy I like?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I'm 21 and he's 19. He just got out a relationship about 2 months ago. I really like him and seriously want to be more than friends but at the same time, I don't wanna be too pushy about this whole thing. Around 2 days ago, I told him how I felt and he told me he wasn'... (122 words)

Should I complain about this liftman and if so how do I go about it???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I saw the most disturbing thing ever! I live in a 20 storey apartment and I live in the 16th floor so I take the elevator obviously. We have a new liftman, he is a college dropout that's what he told me anyways, he is like 20 years old. Once I was waiting for the elevator... (135 words)

How can I stop feeling so insecure in this relationship?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I first met my boyfriend through my cousin. My cousin was dating his brother at that time. my cousin, her boyfriend (my boyfriends brother), and him brought me to some house... Well at that time we were just friends. He brought us over to a house and introduced us to the girl ... (1644 words)

Why is he ignoring me now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me... Before a boy relli flirted with me at my birthday party. We dance to the last song and he span me around and we dance really romantically. Before the Party people said he has changed around me. The party was in the half term of school... we went back to sch... (201 words)

What is cam2cam?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for a while and he wants to do cam2cam...i am willing to do this but i don't really know what happens during cam2cam. I know that it does involve getting naked but what else do you do??? please help because i don't want to get myself into some... (72 words)

How can I stop her depression from dragging me down?

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1 June 2009 (M)

- My girlfriend of 6 months is going through some depression. I've tried all i can to be nice and supportive but she keeps shutting me down, and snapping at me whenever I offer support or anything. She also has been very distant, it takes her hours to answer texts and she hardly ... (139 words)

Am I pregnant?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so, I have kind of an irregular period. I always get my period the first week of the month but hardly ever the same day. I've been having unprotected sex with my fiancee since the 16th of May and I have had sore breasts, frequent urination, nausea, I'm hungry a lot and ... (138 words)

Stupid drunken mistake, has turned into heartache.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi There, Really complicated one this is, hoping you can help me. Last year i slept with a colleague from work who is a manager she was 39 at the time and i was 25. We hadnt spoken to each other after the night this had happened albiet me briefly going over to her the day a... (1047 words)

Is she pregnant? What is the Women's Health Card?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Rumors are going around now that my girl friend is pregnant. She has been throwing up in the morning sometimes and has been telling her close friends that she is three months pregnant. So I know it is not mine, if she truely is pregnant. Her stomach does look a little bigger ... (232 words)

How can I fit in with my boyfriends lifestyle?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I am 21 and he is 26. We are serious about each other. He is in a full time heavy metal band. Ive recently moved into the city with him, and I dont see any of my friends anymore. So I hang out with his friends and his band mates ... (203 words)

Is the way I masturbate incorrect?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't masturbate the conventionol way with my hands around my penis, instead I usually rub against something? I'v read articles claiming this may make my sex in the future less enjoyble, I was just wondering should I force myself to try masturbate normally instead? Tha... (53 words)

Is it ok to start dating before a divorce has been finalized?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

1 June 2009 (F) age 41-50 - If one spouse is unfaithful to the other in marriage, when is it right for the honest one to date? Is okay when they have decided in thier heart they do not want to continue with the marriage, but are still married or when they finalize the divorce?... (48 words)

What is true love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need help with something and i would love you guys to help me well i don't know what love is ...meaning like how do you know when your in love is it when u miss that person is it when you want to kiss that person every time u see them and also when u get excited to see t... (74 words)

When does the heartache finally end?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband left me a few months ago. We were together eleven years and married nearly five. We have a little boy who was nearly three when he left. He basically left me as he was seeing someone else. It all happened extremely quickly and I didnt see it coming. I've tried hard ... (190 words)

Please help me decide what to do

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently found myself in a messy situation. I have been drawn to a guy and did not realize he felt the same way so I was truly amazed when a couple of weeks ago he made a move. One thing led to another and well we both have acted on our feelings and it is amazing we ... (89 words)

Is liking my best friend's ex wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i might like a boy who is a year younget than me. i told my friend but it happens to be her ex from 2 years ago. she got mad and wont talk to me... she turned every one against me and its been like this for 4 weeks now. and its getting to me really badly and getting me down.... (100 words)

I'm at a loss and I don't know how to handle the situation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Just looking for opinions. My BF has been living with me since last November. He had recently divorced and was paying off some things so I didn't ask him for much. He kept saying things like, once I sell this or that, I can pitch in. He does help as far as buying items that ... (397 words)

Forgot to take the pill a couple of times but had my period - could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex with my ex on saturday night, i have been taking the pill but went away and forgot to take it on thursday or friday and saturday morning. I took it again when i got home sunday morning. I woke up this morning and had my period. Is it possible that i ... (71 words)

I need to tone up in such a short amount of time...any idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone =] I'm going to a party on the 19th of june, and for the first time i am really going to make an effort! I have high heeled shoes and a little jump suit type thing, but the problem is my legs and stomach are really untoned. I'm 5 foot 8 inches and weigh 9 ston... (113 words)

Should I say anything to my neighbour about the photos I found of his wife?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently purchased a camera from my neighbours in our street, whilst playing with the camera i came across some photos which had been left on the camera, most were of normal family stuff but to my delight and surprise there were around a dozen photos of his wife naked with ... (62 words)

Is this guy a fake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi friends im(19yrs) in a relationship with a guy(19yrs) for past 4months and i really love him. Many a times we get into situations where if he wanted he would have used me up (sex) and i even dont have any problem with it. But he always say that he dont want anything fr... (116 words)

Does he just want sex or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey friends, I am in a unique relationship with a boy since last 4 years, though for the last 2 years i have not met him. We were just friends but were involved sexually. Now i am living in a different city and have not met him since last 2 years, but we keep on talking. His ... (152 words)

Should I dump him for the boy I hardly know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im going out with some boy but i dont really like him, i dont really know why im going out with him, i think i just wanted a boyfriend because my bestmate had one. He likes to touch up my leg especially when im wearing a skirt and im too scared to say no, whenever i try to get ... (178 words)

I can't get over him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend five months ago and the break up hurt me. I tried everything to get back together with him, but he's simply not interested, I love him so much and he was the best thing in my life. Each and every day I miss him and I would do anything to get back... (89 words)

What do you think is the common things you have to think about before losing your Virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you think is the common things you have to think about before losing your Virginity? Ive heard that most people really regret it. all my friends lost theres on a one-night stand and they all agree that they would love to go back in time, but sometimes I feel left out ... (154 words)

Periods and swimming pools any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well, I'm supposed to go to a waterpark with my boyfriend next Saturday(June 13th) for his birthday but, I can start my period anywhere between now and then. I'm on birth control so my periods don't last long and are light. What I need to ask is, what can I do to stop me ... (96 words)

Torn between friends unsure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

- I am 32 years old and I have a good friend who I have been friends with for many many many years. Thing is..she has had bad experiences with other friends due to her cyncial negative attitude on life etc. She thinks the world is against and her glass is never half full, always ... (414 words)

Views of success

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't much of a relationship question, but I'm asking it more along the lines of what people's opinions are about it. If your daughter's dreams were to: -Graduate from High school early -Marry the man of her dreams (who supports and loves her) -Concieve her firs... (124 words)

Sleep paralysis?

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1 June 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Anybody heard about sleep paralysis? I had one once ,and I can't escapefrom the thought ,that I saw a demon that night ,who wanted to take me. The presence was so clear, and the moving body, coming close to me. I heard many people have the same expereienes, but science can't ex... (80 words)

I'm constantly wondering what could be between us..if anything?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this wonderful guy on and off a couple years ago. He was always the one to "let me go". He actually made the effort, though, to meet with me. He apologized for not giving us a chance and told me what a great girl I am and I'd make a great girlfriend/wife/mother. He ... (185 words)

I'm head over heels for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big problem. There's this guy i really fancy- he's got it all- looks and a great personality. We have been friends for a good while now and he is always asking me to walk with him and he makes an effort to talk to me. He was talking to my mate yesterday and said he ... (94 words)

I like my mate's girl and she likes me! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i really need some advice. i have fallen in love with my friends girlfriend. They have been together 6 years. Ive liked her for a while now, and last week i was out drinking and i saw her out and we had both lost our friends so me and my friend hanged round with her and... (517 words)

Why is he acting immaturely?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my ex is really confusing me, he told me to get over him and move on, so i started to move on.. and there's this boy i like and he likes me.. my ex saw us flirting and had a go at me calling me a..slag and telling the boy to back off, but he was the one who dumped me! then he ... (96 words)

Why do I feel so horny all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i'm a 13 year old girl and i'm really horny. also, whenever i think about sexualy thoughts i get a warm sensation in my vagina... what is this?? another thing to.... i really want to have sex!...why is this??... (42 words)

I'm sick of feeling nervous all the time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm just so sick of feeling nervous all the time. I get nervous over really stupid things. When i go shopping,and it's time 2 check out i just start getting all shaky. It makes me nervous 2 eat in front of other people. I drank Alcohol 2 keep from being nervous. I don't wanna ... (86 words)

I ended it with her but will she take me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, after a year of dating, I broke up with my girlfriend a few months ago. In the first few weeks, she kept calling trying to get me to change my mind. Then, I guess, she gave up and I started missing her. So I started calling her. Now I call her a couple times a week and we ... (160 words)

Has anyone survived an affair and made their marriage successful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i need to know if anyone outthere has survived their partner having an affair and is still happily married years after. I am trying to get over my husbands affair. I am on the verge of leaving him as i will never know who he loves more. I am scared to be a single mum but im ... (64 words)

Do we need to talk about what happened while we were watching a movie... or was it was just a fooling around thing that got out of hand?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Something happened 2 weeks ago, and now there is a lot of tension and strange quietness between myself, my wife, and a very good friend of ours. My friend, I'll call him 'T' has become good friends with my wife also. He is now divorced and many weekends does stuff with us. ... (544 words)

How do I make him keep "wondering" about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now. We have already slept together. The first 2 weeks... he was doing all the cute texting, phone calls, etc. This past weekend... I sort of got the feeling that something changed... not sure what though. I left him on S... (193 words)

How do I win her love for marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a single youngman,never married. I want to marry where as the girl I wanted to marry insist that we wait for 5 more years. She is 25 years old and I am 32 years old. What do I do to win her love for marriage without further delay?... (50 words)

Every time I ask a girl out I just freeze!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm 18 and single because every time i ask a girl out i just freeze, she then asks if i'm ok, so i lie to her and say "i'm fine, just forget it" and walk off, i feel like such a failure and it's tearing me apart on the inside, how can i be more confident on the approach ad ... (84 words)

My feelings are so messed up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been meeting up with this guy for a month now, with both have issues on either side which is making it hard for us to both be together as a normal couple, he has kids i have a boyfriend, we text, email meet up once a week, my feelings have got stronger for him and i ... (110 words)

I can't stop staring at other girl's bodies!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is really embarrassing. Ok here goes. I think I might be a Bisexual. I mean I really like guys and that'll never change (in fact I'm kind of in love with this guy, and I think he likes me too) But here's the thing. I get turned on by girls. When we're changing for P... (109 words)

Text messages, pornography, after 14 years so I just throw the relationship away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - At this moment I really feel desperate and I could use some help to make me think clearly. I have been in a relationship for almost 14 years now. I met my boyfriend when I was 18 and he was 17 and we got in love. None of us had a relationship or sexual experience before. ... (714 words)

I'm just not sure what is going on, wondering if anyone else has had this happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well okay, first i thought i might be pregnant but i took a home test and it was negative.... 4 days later my period that was over due by 2 weeks started, that was about saturday midday, by money morning it was gone, there is nothing, it stopped.... I have this odd very painful ... (138 words)

I'm tired of doing all the chasing..what do I do with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I would just like a bit of relationship advice from anyone that has been through a similar situation. I met this guy about 3/4 years ago just after I came out of a relationship. He had just come out of a relationship too. We started seeing eachother and he was constantly ... (287 words)

Pill, period and pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

Heartache, crush, and being second best

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy, alot in my college. he knows i like him. he asked his friends things about me and everything and several times he came to talkto me. but i was too shy to talk. however, i discovered that he was heartbroken by someone he liked getting with other men. i went to ... (83 words)

Slow or fast?

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1 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Do girls like it slow and passionate, or fast-paced and mindblowing? Or perhaps alter between the two? I understand that sex is something beyond the physical, and that in fact (science proves it) good satisfying sex can make a girl stick around longer than one that doe... (56 words)

Any tips to master this position?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i started having sex about six months ago. it wasnt a regular occurence, it was maybe once a month or so. now it has become quite regular, maybe once a week and i feel very self conscious. i am a petite girl and i know that he really likes me being on top. the ... (117 words)

I haven't heard from in a day, is that a bad thing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this guy for 2 months. We already had sex, but last weekend we got got wasted, we had sex again but he only had 1 condom, after he still wanted more nd he asked if i can give him head but i didnt have 2 i didnt want to (he also added) so i did it. Its ... (77 words)

Tell her nicely to back off or just give it to her straight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is more a question for girls, but if one of your friends was flirting with your bf and tried to get into his bed with him, would you tell her nicely to back off or just give it to her straight? a friend of mine has recently done this and i was fuming. my bf kicked her out ... (165 words)

I need to lose weight and I know it would help my self confidence

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and i have VERY low self-esteem. I was bullied through my first two years of secondary school. I'm now in 4th year and i have met a new bunch of people who are great! But the one thing that bothers me is that they are all really fit and skinny (not fit because the ... (129 words)

Gift for boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys i need abit of help. its my boyfriend's birthday nxt week and i would like to suprise him i got max £200 if u can give me clue wat to make for him, take him out, suprise at home. anything that would help. thnx... (46 words)

I'm keeping my boyfriend a secret from my parents

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf and i had been going out for about 6 months last year. i had told my parents, it being my first relationship and me being close with them. they were overbearing, very traditional and too controlling that there were lots of arguments and it made it so difficult to actually ... (314 words)

She says when we have sex she is breaking a promise to God and wants to take a break

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi aim 20 years old young man and I have being dating this girl (19yrs) for three years till now and my problem is that every time after we had sex she will complain about pains and that we committed a sin because we are both Christians but not attending the same church. We had ... (227 words)

Why so dry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

1 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question my gf and I had sex earlier that day at about 3 o'clock - 5 o'clock We then went out later that night got home got frisky and went down on here but It just wouldnt go in she was so dry which is the 1st time this happend, could it be of the orgasms she ... (91 words)

If it hadn't been for the alcohol, it never would have happened!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

1 June 2009 (F)

- I am completely and utterly in love with my boyfriend of 1 and a half years who is also my best friend. Three nights ago however, I got very, very drunk on a night out with a friend, so drunk that I can't remember the majority (apart from little flashback here and there) o... (216 words)

I don't have any faith or confidence in myself since the breakup

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1 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Thank you in advance to anyone who can offer me some good advice, I really appreciate it. Im sorry for the length, I just want to make sure you understand my situation. I am now in my second year of college and just getting over alot of really horrible things that happened... (861 words)

How can I stop him hurting me?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my bf for 2 months...the other night things were getting really heated and he really wanted to finger me, i wasn't sure because I've never been fingered before but let him.....but after 5 seconds or so it had tell him 2 stop it really hurt...is this ... (71 words)

Do you think our relationship is meant to be cursed?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Its been 2yrs that i have a relationship with a man who lived for 7yrs with her wife and 3 kids..he is married with the girl when he was 19yrs. due to his immature he was only afraid to skip away on his responsibility..and the years goes by with them day by day ... (207 words)

How do women squirt?

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1 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Can any one tell me how do women squirt? What does women do to squirt? Can anyone explain to me in detail what she do and how shes doing it? And when you feel you are close to ejaculation how do you release it? Does it feel like a pee? Do u release like a pee?... (56 words)

Why would a man suddenly go off sex?

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1 June 2009 (F) age 51-59 - What are the reasons ,when a man suddenly don't want sex anymore,and cools off completly? Please tell me all the different options.thanks... (23 words)

Is he just shy or is he just not into me?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, well instead of writing out the long version, I'll just give the important details... There is this guy that I work with, and I like him, and I am almost sure that he likes me, in fact he told my friend that he would go out with me....well we've been out in a casual group ... (222 words)

I would like advice on squirting...

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1 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I would like advise on squirting. My wife and i have talked about squirting and tried it several times but we just not getting it right. I have done research on how to do it. And she love it everytime but she doesnt squirt. The research explained that any women can squirt as ... (120 words)

Help me see why I was so eager to conceive with my ex?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i really wanted to have a baby for about 7 years, and the desire grows as i get older. i'm almost 30. i got stupid over it in my last relationship and hoped for mistakes, actually let him cum in me once and never had protected sex with him because i thought maybe i'd get luck... (380 words)

What is bothering him?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I got married 3 years ago and my husband is a very lovable person. We have an almost 2 year old daughter and she loves her daddy very much just like i do, he is the love of my life. hard working man. The only thing is that he gets hurt right away h 4 everything.right know we ... (146 words)

Torn between addictive husband and high school love

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I'm going "public" with this-so please please try to understand my dilemma instead of judging my issues please? And this will be a long one... sorry. I've been with my husband a total of two years and a few months. When we first started dating it was FIREWORKS! Everyday... (722 words)

Trying to spice things up -- morning nookie?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so this is something that kinda embarrasses me to ask, but I need help/pointers from those who are a little more bold than I am. My husband is leaving for a couple of days for work and he just got home yesterday from being gone overnight the previous night. We're kinda in... (149 words)

Head over heels..... Now What?

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1 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, Thanks for reading my post. I met a gorgeous girl that i am falling hard for. We met about 6 weeks ago, and every moment we have spent together has been perfect ever since. Very romantic dates... and We've had amazing conversations, amazing chemistry, and amazing ... (253 words)

I'm caring for my younger sister, and she can't sleep

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well my other little sister she won't go to sleep I tryed evey thing she is. 3 I asked what's wrong she said stomach ache now I don't like giving meds what else can I do to help her stomach and for her to sleep becuse I'm very tiers and want to sleep my mom is on ... (72 words)

Is it easier just to end things since he's moving away?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just turned 19 years old and my boyfriend just turned 21. We have both been attending college locally, but at different schools. We live about 30-40 minutes away from each other and the drive is not bad. Recently, I found out that he is thinking about moving across the ... (255 words)

Is it too soon to ask if he is dating other people?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy I met on-line for 3 weeks now. We talk everyday, text and have gone out a number of times... Everything is great! I really like him... he seems to really like me... the problem is, I recently logged in to the website we met on... I was able to see ... (168 words)

No sex for 5 weeks! What's up with me?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice. My boyfriend of 3 years and I haven't had sex in 5 weeks. He was away for one, and we were on a family vacation for another. (no privacy). But the bottom line is I have NO sex drive. He has told me he is saving for a ring and wants to get engaged. I think... (93 words)

What can I take/drink to put on weight in 2 months?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so summers coming and im on to high school and i want to change. hears how i am now: im VERY shy, skinny and bony, unconfident, selfconscious, NOT very popular, and i fall for guys too easily. i know that the only wayt o fix all of that is by making myself what i want to ... (189 words)

I just don't feel like I can compare with the girls he sees in porn

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1 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I feel totally hideous and this is keeping me from enjoying and wanting sex. I feel too self conscious. My boyfriend watches porn, but it's not like he's addicted far from it actually. But these women look a thousand times better and this puts me off. I'm not an idiot. They ... (168 words)

I am 18, need advice on winning over a girl, who has an awful boyfriend?

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1 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - OK this girl i been talking about in my previous questions? I am kinda nervous and i don't wanna be turned down she has a boyfriend who is on drugs smoke weed pcp take zannies perks oxy's and he screws all her friends and im trying to win her over i take her out she come to ... (163 words)

Fell in love with my ex-teacher, should I tell him, do you think there is a future?

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1 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi... I am new here and I am in need of some help. I for some unknown reason have fallen in love with my teacher from junior year of high school. Here is some more information about my situation.My Junior Year he was new to the school and i didnt even think that much of him. I ... (458 words)

Love her, told her, now she's playing hard to get, what gives?

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1 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - well hi im knda new to all of this but i need help with my girl. im in love and i told her so. she also said t back we both really like each other and it seems like everything going my way until she started playing hard to get a couple days ago. i dont know how to respond to ... (83 words)

I am a guy, little blonde hairs on my belly make me uncomfortable at the pool, what should I do?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im 15 and i have little blonde hairs on my belly. Like where guys have there happy trails and i use to not care but they are becoming to where you can see them bad (well to me) So does anyone else have this problem or know what to do. Please help cause it summer and i ... (69 words)

Now that I'm over my ex, guy that was interested doesn't want a relationship, what now?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so back in September 2008 this guy wanted to date me but i was in love with my ex still and could not date him. Now months later i'm over my ex and starting to like the guy that use to like me. I talk to him everyday and a couple nights i told him that i liked him and he ... (121 words)

I am female but very attracted to my best girlfriend, am I bi-sexual?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so this is kinda hard to talk about but i kind of think im bi? im turnin 14 and i guess yu can say im kinda having feelings for my best friend,like i tend to stare at her constinly,and she kinda gets me horny. what should i do?... (48 words)

Really like this guy, he pays me attention, but he has a girlfriend, any suggestions?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so theres this boy i really like and i hang out with him almost everyday. he's sweet,funny,and such a good friend. on a scale of 1-10 i'd say hes a 10. well anyways when we walk we always walk next to each other,and we always look at eachother and smile but he has a ... (89 words)

Why would I be so dry during sex?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem with getting wet. I am very attracted to my boyfriend and we have been dating for quite some time, but nevertheless Im always dry as the sahara desert. I know using lube is an option, but I was wondering if anyone knows why this is happening or any other tricks ... (58 words)

Need advice and answers regarding birth control pills?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, I just started taking Kariva birth control pills in March. For the past 1-2 weeks, I've been throwing up every couple days. Now, the first month when I first started taking the pill, I was on antibiotics so the pill wasn't effective. I just started vommiting a couple ... (78 words)

Want a relationship, but I may have intimacy problems, any advice?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I have some sort of commitment or trust issues because i start to like a boy and when he likes me back i start to get uninterested. it's not the fact that he likes me back that pushes me away, it's all the flirting and calling. when a boy starts doing all that, i find ... (176 words)

Should I be jealous of my long distance boyfriend's ex?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm going to try and keep this brief. My current BF (LDR) exGF contacted him. She needs surgery to help control her seizures. She requested that in the event anything should happen to her, would my BF take her daughter (which is no relation to him). Her daughter is a ... (139 words)

Would anyone know what causes sexual performance anxiety, or how to resolve it??

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1 June 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Does anybody know ,what causing sexual performance anxiety? And how to resolve it?... (14 words)

He's 30ish, I'm 14, is it illegal for the two of us to date?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well i like a guy who is about thirty years old but im only 14. would it be illegal for u s to date?... (24 words)

The two of us like the same guy, any suggestions?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - today my friend told me that this really cute guy i was flirting with thought i was insane weird and yet funny. of course that bothered me but what bothered me more was that he though my other friend was cute and she was tlking to him too. this is really not somthing i ... (65 words)

Wife and kids are upset with me, how do I fix it?

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1 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I of 16 hard years have split apart for third time. once almost a year ago, about 4-5 years before then and a few probs way back when. She left the other day with the kids. neither her or the kids will speak to me. I know I am more at fault here and really want to ... (273 words)

I thought things were good but now I'm not sure what is going on

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1 June 2009 (M)

age - I recently met this lady through 'facebook' and we started to meet each other and on the third occasion we decided that she came back to my place. She was so keen on me and kept putting herself down and said I could do better than her, but there was no question in my mind tha... (349 words)

I don't know how to help my depressed son

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1 June 2009 (F) age - My son is very depressed,and I don't know how can I help him. He was doing drugs before, and We let him move home,as he was in a very bad shape,and he wanted to get better. Now he is much healthier, but he gets really angry, as deep down he is still a drug addict, he is ... (167 words)

Is is just girls that need attention?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My male best friend and I have known each other for going on four years now, and I'm starting to notice a problem. He just graduated from our university a few weeks ago, but I still have one semester left. Since I'm from the Midwest and he's from New York State, I got an apart... (240 words)

Is having oral sex unprotected a risk?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age - i have been having oral sex with a man for the last 4yrs regularly most days the reason for this is he is on medication so cant have intercourse i have been told this is wronge as i could get infected by not protecting our selfs during all this oral sex which as taken ... (88 words)

We both are involved with others but want to take our actions further

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1 June 2009 (F)

age - Hi all! I hope you can help guide me on an issue. There's this guy that I've worked with for over 3 years, and he and I have flirted with each other for that long. He's had a g/f and I have a b/f but it seems now that this guy and I want to take our flirtations further ... (247 words)

How soon is it acceptable to have sex?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How soon into a relationship is it acceptable to have sex? I dont believe in sleeping with someone on a first date, but recently I have been made to feel like I am some sort of freak for not putting out within what is considered to be an "acceptable" amount of time and that its ... (193 words)

Whats up with the boss?

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a higher up at work that can be very mean/sarcastic at times. People tell me that is just how he is. when i first started at my job I made a mention of I was stressed so I was going out for a drink. He said "that sounds fun". I didn't respond. He then said "did you ... (394 words)

Self conscious during sex

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1 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi me again. I'm going to have sex with my friend but i'm just worried that my self consciousness will ruin my first time. I'm not fat by any means. I just think i look too skinny and awkward. what if he doesn't like how i look. he's seen me in my bra and underwear but i just ... (93 words)

He thought my friend was cute too!

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1 June 2009 (F)

9 years and the thrill is gone

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1 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've lived with my girlfriend for 9 years now but im not happy. At first it was great we couldent wate to be together. We lerned new stuf together every day. Now I feal all the bonds and Excitment have gone. I feal as thogh im a taxi service, Laundry, Dishwasher, Cat minder, ... (112 words)

Went swimming with cousin, had sex, then went home to my wife

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1 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I was visiting family in another part of the country this weekend, and my cousin and I had to go to another town to run an errand. Whilst driving back, through open countryside, we stopped for a drink and a cigarette, and noticed a gorgeous little pond / lake across a ... (363 words)