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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help!!! Is my boyfriend lying to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you think? is my boyfriend lying to me? did he sleep with her? My boyfriend said he wanted a break from our relationship to clear his head. I gave him space. He rang me lots, left me voice messages and when he still couldn't reach me he emailed me: he miss me and he... (241 words)

My relationship is a never-ending battle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been married to my husband for almost two years. It seems like it is a fight just to stay together though. It started when i was pregnant with our daughter. I worked and was going to college, both full time. During my maternity leave, I was still going to school full ... (789 words)

Jealous of husband's female friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age - Should I be upset that my husband of thirty years, talks to his lady friend on the phone almost every day, sometimes several times in a day? I guess I am just a little jealous because he doesn't talk to me that much. And I caught him lying about talking to her one day. Am I ... (78 words)

How can I look and feel more sexy for my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and ive been with my boyfriend for around a year and a half, I'm a size 14 but really hate my body, I know my boyfriend loves me and my body but i see him looking at other girls on facebook and stuff, I feel like i cant satisfy him, we hardly have sex anymore because i ... (97 words)

We differ in opinion and he calls it a day nearly every few weeks now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a guy who lives 50 miles away and we only meet at week-ends due to work commitments. We have both had problems adapting as we have both lived alone for years. When we used to argue I would get up and leave and go home. I havent done this for over a ... (388 words)

Do men treat their girlfriends differently???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men treat their girlfriends differently? If so, why? I broke up with my ex just over a year ago. I thought I was getting over him quite well until I saw some photos of him on a social networking site with his new girlfriend. She talks of him making her breakfas... (527 words)

How can I reassure her she has nothing to worry about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - All my best friends are female, and this majorly bothers my girlfriend, who has major trust issues. I was wondering if there was any way for me to effectively ease her worries or is this something she has to deal with herself? ... (42 words)

16 years and our sex life is rare now! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner now for 16 years we have a son and both have baggage from our past for the last couple of years our sex life has become rare! But a lot of this was down to me medically but the last few months nothing at all, he recently cuddles a spare pillow when I ... (90 words)

How do I confront my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been going thru a rough patch the last year, he accused me of cheating on him ended it with me. We desided to work things out after that I found he was chatting with girls on match.com and even tried to meet with them. We went on vacation and just before ... (226 words)

I can't live without him but my emotions are telling me otherwise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Im 17 nearly 18 years of age and i have been with my boyfriend, Gunner for nearing 8 months now, i know that it isnt that long compared to others on here but i still love him. Recently i had quite bad PMS and it made me feel like i didnt love him. And its just stuck. It ... (180 words)

High school sweetheart has come back into my life... Advice needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok im having a horrible, horrible time here.... I have a husband that has Anxiety, Manic-Depressive, and Bi-polar.. Been through ups and downs for the past 5 years with my husband.. Gone through mental hospitals, suicides.. ect. Well for the past 2 yrs my husband has not take... (612 words)

Italian infatuation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I My ex and I were going out for 5 years we hv 2 kids one 2 other is 9, from another guy. My Ex is 25 she went to las Vegas in november with her mom aunts and cousins, the last night she was there she met a person from Italy. They exchanged numbers, nothing physical happened. ... (292 words)

Am I so naive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm non religious but open minded. I loved a girl my age... not sure if I still love her... I am a gentlemean, polite, sincere, caring and loyal. I never insulted...or anything. I would always look out for her and respect her like no other. I bought a lot of gifts for her...I ... (517 words)

Just lost the woman I truly love... please help...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, My name is Gerard, first off, me and my girlfriend broke up a few weeks ago, she;s dating this other guy now and we've been through this all before, over the past 6 years of being with her i've had to wait for her while she was with other guys for month's at a time, maybe ... (515 words)

I think I am losing my mind or on the verge of a mid life crisis.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I think I am losing my mind or on the verge of a mid life crisis. Here's my story: Married 15 years with 2 kids. Years ago, we fault ALOT. Probably a lot of the issues from way back then were never fully resolved, we just learned to ignore most of them. We have laughed ... (679 words)

What does he think of me liking him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey there! I'm 15 years old, (a freshman in high school) and I'm a little stuck on a guy problem. I've been in marching band since May of last year, and we took a trip that involved chaperones. Our team's chaperone was the mother of a senior band member. She pointed him out to ... (219 words)

Does he still want to get back together after I moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been broken up for 11 days. we still talk everyday, but the thing i wanna know is. he told me that he wanted to get back together with me a few days ago but at the time i didn't wont to. i told him why and that was because every since i got pregna... (439 words)

How do I tell her we're moving too fast?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently got into a new relationship with a wonderful girl. She's very intelligent, caring, gentle, and has been so understanding towards me. My ex broke up with me in November and its been a tough few months getting over her. Overall, she still talks to me every so often ... (398 words)

My "boyfriend" finally admitted he was married!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My "boyfriend" finally admitted he was married. I had suspicions and kept at him. He had denied it many many times and called me crazy, even when confronted with evidence. My friends and family were wonderful, supportive and stuck by me. He fooled us all. When he admitted... (159 words)

I wanna stop gettin violent with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanna stop gettin violent with my boyfriend, when we get pissed off we tend too break things, an throw stuff, an say hurtful things, how did we get like this? I don't want every argument too have this outcome, an latley its been me doing it. Wats wrong with me?... (51 words)

I'm having trouble getting over her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I broke up a month ago, and I'm having trouble getting over her. We broke up because we were in a long distance relationship that didn't work out. I visited her, and it was clear her feelings had changed. I still loved her, but she wanted to just be friends. Desp... (193 words)

Who is this mysterious pen writer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A few days ago someone started mysteriously signing my name in on the attendance sheet for a lecture at college before it reaches me. I'm also 100% sure it's a girl because the handwriting is girly and my name is followed by a love heart. It's also written with a red pen s... (121 words)

So frustrated! I want to have sex with him but HE wants to wait!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

2 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - i am in this relationship there is a 8 year age gap. we have been together for 5 months and we love each other really much. but the thing is even though he is older he wants to wait for sex but well i want to fuck his brains out he is a personal fitness instructure and ... (121 words)

What do I do about him blowing hot and cold all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i need help. A man i work with is showing a lot of interest in me and i am unsure of his motives. we are both devorsed and have children but he is eight years younger than me. we have kissed and he has sent me flowers but we dont move on from there. he blows hot and cold i d... (89 words)

We can't live without each other...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I love a guy.... We have been in a relation from past one and a half year. We both want to get married but my mom is like having caste n religion issues. Also the guy is not that handsome but his nature is worth million dollars. My mom sayin agreed the guy's nature might be ... (91 words)

Was this a lucky escape from a pervert? Or was it because of me and my actions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Did he ban me from his gym because he is a pervert and he realised i wasn't soft and he might be rumbled? I thought this spanish gym owner where i go in my town was a nice guy. He is 46 and i am 16. He helped me and was really friendly but i always had a gut instinct (as i wa... (729 words)

Guy in need of answer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't really know how to start off this "question" but i'll get straight to it..... since i have been little i have had a far from simple life i got bullied all the way through primary school for my weight parents always argued and nearly broke up i had no gf's no friends ... (149 words)

My boyfriend lied!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend lied, an I asked for advise on here an I got very good advise, an Iv been putting it too the test,an I went outside too smoke an I sat in his car, an his phone was in there so I know shouldn't of done it but I picked it up an went threw it, I seen that he an this ... (316 words)

Single... and lonely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I'm 20, and I've been single for over a year now. I'm ready to date again, but I can't seem to find anyone who isn't married,taken, or interested in me at all. Most of my friends and people I went to school with have boyfriends/husbands and even children. I'm olde... (107 words)

Why is it the more I ignore her, the more she respects me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I never claimed to understand women, but this woman is really taking the cake. I am hoping some Agony Aunts can let me know what is going on or they have seen or experienced this before. Basically, this one girl I know has driven me nuts for a long time. She has acted entitl... (386 words)

Is it okay when in a relationship to hang around with the opposite sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i just wanted to know is it okay to be in a relationship and hang out with the opposite sex?... ive been with my bf for quite awhile and i have guyfriends who want to chill but only as friends but i never can because my bf gets mad even if i introduce him to them. they even ... (121 words)

I get urges to call him after the breakup...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfirend of 2 years just broke up with me 3 days ago and I feel horrible for many reasons. First, the break up was one of the most dramatic events of my life. It happenned in his place after we had a big argument over something stupid and he called the security to escort me ... (360 words)

My partner is jealous of me learning to dance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner of three years doesn't want me to go to dancing lessons because they change partners every few minutes. It is quite a common way for dancing classes to be, by changing partners. I have just started lessons but my partner can't go because he is away on business each ... (161 words)

Flirting or just trying to impress the guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i'm in 10th grade just about 16. there is this guy at my school and for the past months he has been 'joking around'. starting in grade 9 when i first met him, i was in one of his classes and during that class he bugged me and told his friends to do the same (he comes o... (403 words)

Wondering about cigarettes....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Im 15 and love the smell of second hand smoke, so just wobdering wat they taste like and is it strange to get aroused by the thought of smoking? Abd dont give me rubbish like they bad for you plz!... (43 words)

Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - recently ive started walking home with this boy and i really like him but im not sure if he likes me back. we tease each other and stuff and he called us shark girl and lava boy when we are teasing each other. when i ask him how my hair looked he told me it looked perfect we ... (72 words)

In love with my maths teacher...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so i'm a teenager girl,15 yrs. old ,i'm good at studies and have fair plans for the future studies .i have been in love with my math sir since i was 13 yrs. old [8th standard]....i think i truly love him but i dont know if he loves me,he is 29 yrs. old .i have tried a lot to ... (594 words)

My "friend" is driving a wedge between me and my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my friends hates me even though i've done nothing wrong. I have quite a few friends but i have 2 main best friends and people i hang out with. The girl who hates me(ill call her ABI) is friends with one of my best friend(who ill call BETH). I was the one who made friends ... (285 words)

Trapped with over-protective parents

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so long story short i come from a muslim family and my parents are way too overprotective, im 20 years old and im not allowed to go out with my friends or anything, everyday i go to college and then come straight back home.I love my parents and wouldnt want to do anything ... (238 words)

From FWBs to just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having sex with a friend of mine No Strings Attached for a month now. During this month, we've gotten to know each other and we really became great friends. I knew what I was getting myself into because since when does friends with benefits work out? I have developed ... (181 words)

I treat him like a brother, but I want him as a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im in this sucky situation. Im in a relationship with a guy for 2years6mnths already. And i got to know one of my male classmates 2 years ago and recently 6 months back, we have been close. we have been joking around, having lunch together, almost everything from mon-friday ... (219 words)

If I didn't really like oral, how am I going to like intercourse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

2 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, this might seem like a really weird question, but it's something that really bugs me and that i actually catch myself thinking about quite a bit. i've received oral sex from two other guys...and to be completely honest, i wasn't really all that crazyy abou... (140 words)

My boyfriend wants to study overseas for 7 years. Should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I met in a tertiary instituition. We've been together for a year plus, and currently in our final year awaiting graduation. Naturally, we have our own plans after graduation. I plan to work locally. However, my boyfriend gave me a shock by telling me he is ... (343 words)

Has anyone ever felt as though there were a spiritual cause for their sufferings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F) age - Does anybody ever felt, there might-be some kind of a spiritual cause behind their sufferings? Like karma, or curse or something like that? Because I can't see any good explanation for the consistent deterioration of my life. It is also strange, no matter how good choices I ... (132 words)

Ex-boyfriend's friend wants me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've got a situation where my ex-boyfriend's friend is asking me to date him. At first this friend did not about my relationship with my ex bf but since he's coming pretty strong on me.. i told him about it to avoid any kind of awkwardness. He said he's fine with it and this ... (343 words)

I want him back after ditching him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - well, i recently broke up with this guy lets call him 'JJ' and i broke up with him because my friends were putting lots of pressure on us and i didn't feel comfortable with it at all. the thing is, i know it ws a stupid reason to break up wit him and now i want him back! ... (124 words)

Should I try to connect with this girl? Or should I try fight back my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So i have an issue here. There is this girl i met here at college that I find to be more than just physically attractive. She is a very happy person, positive, smart, loves to smile and laugh, is patient and understanding, and many other things. She appears to have a most of ... (324 words)

How do I tell my mother and father about my much older friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i have sexual connection three time per week with 36 old person who one of my friend's brother but i'am still 16 only. both of us love each other due to that we not like stop this connection. but i need to this to my mom and dad, but i fear. what i can do for that ?... (59 words)

What do you do when you're both sexual virgins?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are both virgins and want to remain so until marriage. While we are very adamant about this decision, we still have another 3 years before we want to even think about marriage (college first, then marriage). Both of us are very sexual people and we've been ... (133 words)

Planning to have a loveless life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm planning to have a loveless life (no relationship, no sex). Work in a non-governmental organization and totally dedicate myself to humanitarian and environmentalist activities. It's not that bad, I guess... It would be tough since I'm really passionate and I always dreamt a... (152 words)

Why do these girls always take it out on other girls when it's the mans fault?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dateing this boy for a while. His other "girlfriend" has found out. Which I didn't evan know she existed around him, I didn't know who she was. I stopped dating him now. But why do these girls always take it out on other girls when it's the mans fault? I said to her ... (137 words)

Should I stay and fight or let her go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in and out of a long distance relationship with a girl for over 3 years now. We have known each other for a long time as we've run in similar circles and we've been great friends even prior to our relationship. She is 10 years older than I, and I am 24. Prior to ... (780 words)

How do I tell my mother that my 20 year old boyfriend, who she doesn't know about yet, has a 19 month old?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, im 16 and a junior in high school, ill be 17 in 2 months. the guy im seeing is 20 and will be 21 in may. i really really like him a lot. he was friends with my ex boyfriend and thats how i met him. eventually me and my ex broke up and me and this new guy started hanging ... (291 words)

I liked him less when he admitted having dated someone my mother's age

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy that I'm dating has dated a much older woman in the past. I don't usually bring up past relationships for this very reason but it somehow came out and never did I think he would have dated 25 years older than him.(he's 25). I tried to maintain my composure b... (137 words)

He works so much I feel like a single parent

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - The roads are treacherous and icy today, the kids are home from school. My husband, although having the option (from his boss) to work from home, got up before the crack of dawn and spent over two hours to get to his office in a commute that usually takes 45 minutes (with a ... (330 words)

I'm acting on my fetish with other women -- should I keep it a secret?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a male in my 40,s with a foot fetish. I am becoming more obsessed with this and now even pay local ladies to enjoy their feet. I do this even though i have an understanding fiance who lets me enjoy and play with her feet. It is somewhat incontrollable in many ways. I know ... (91 words)

What I don't understand is why would she have sabotaged this relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I broke up last week. We had been dating for a year. The first 6 months were great and we never fought. The last 6 months have been turbulent with episodes of fights and making up almost on a monthly basis. The periods between the fights were amazing...we ... (1069 words)

She broke up saying the relationship had become a burden

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I got to know my ex-gf in Q4 2009, we share some same interests and hobbies, and it wasn't long before we got together. The relationship lasted for 9 months, and it was her first relationship. It was a wonderful one, and I thought we made a wonderful couple. We're at... (367 words)

He hasn't replied to my second text of the morning

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, i need advice really, about something thats worryin me a little....... On new years eve I met a guy and had a one night stand with him. He was amazing. I really fell for him but was too shy to ask for his number, the next day he left, and I thought I woul dnever see him ... (213 words)

Boyfriend seeing another girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I had spoke about this before and we decided to try it. We were both down for it happening. Well we had sex with another couple. They are friends of ours. And when we did it we had fun. We were of course a little on the drunk side but never the less I had ... (107 words)

Is my b/f right that my ex is obsessed with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was dating this guy for 2 years and we have a son together but we broke up about 3 months ago. Since then he hasnt dated anyone else and says he loves me and still wants to be with me. However, im with someone else who knows about the situation and knows i still have feelings ... (202 words)

She finally confessed her infidelity. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - This is a very confused guy who loves her girlfriends of 6 years to bits. However,my Girlfriend finally confessed to me the guy entered her but stopped when she shouted because it hurt. (From the description, I know personally how difficult it is to enter her once at a go.) ... (645 words)

Is there any way to tell if he has a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age - are they any signs that you could tell if a man i am intrested in has a girlfriend . i know he not married he is a widowder has been for 10 years now . ... (35 words)

She doesn't show me any affection when I try to have sex with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girl have been together for 7 years and she dont show me any affection when i try to have sex with her it's always a problem. what do that mean?... (33 words)

Is he afraid of his feelings and the direction we were headed in or was I being toyed with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy for three months and changes his mind on what he wants every two weeks it seems like. When we started seeing eachother, he was excited yet hesitant to meet my daughter. He met Jess and told me he was unsure of the situation because he wasn't sure he ... (419 words)

She knows how I feel but keeps her distance from me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age - I'm a female and really can't get dis woman out my mind. She know how I feel yet she keep her distance from me. I want 2 spend my life with her it just we don't click da same. how can I show her i can be in da same class style and statue as her. even thought she more mature ... (67 words)

Spark for another man, not my husband!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 14 years but I have lost all sexual attraction for my husband. We get along for the most part and he treats me well although we do fight quite a bit. We have financial problems and three young children. We do not spend any alone time together because we ... (562 words)

I'm feeling very upset by the way my boyfriend is treating me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boy friend ignore me from last few day. we have 1.5 years. Now last 7th month he was in kolkata, and i live in siliguri. some time he talk to me like a baby, immature he is i thought. but in night when he talk to me, i am just sex toy for him. i feel very bad this type of ... (123 words)

He wants me back, but I've now slept with his best friend. I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with the guy I loved 2 yrs ago, due to circumstances beyond my control. I have never really gotten over him. Sometime last year I started hanging out with a friend of his and we ended up having sex. Now my ex bf is back, and wants us together again. I really like him ... (95 words)

I become depressed around my girlfriend and I'm not sure what to do about it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i have noticed that every time I become depressed and insecure with my girlfriend. She rarely does anything wrong she just fools arround with me . I get really sensitive and serious around her alot. I noticed the more I loved her, the more depressed I got. if I only knew why ... (172 words)

She wanted space, broke up, and already she's in a new relationship. Why will she not answer my questions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex of 25 months and I broke up but a week after we broke up she got into a relationship. She say with a dude she said was her friend. When I ask is she moving on, she won't answer my ? She wants our 8 by 10 photo we took, the promise ring, and won't change her fb status betw... (96 words)

We've been talking online, but she hasn't called me. Where do I go from here?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there people... I have completely fallen for a girl that I met at a restaurant. I managed to get her name although I didn't ask for her phone number. I then found her on facebook and sent her an invite and she accepted right away. About a month or so later, I tried to ... (164 words)

I want to be married soon, but we're in 2 different life stages. What should I do?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - iam 24 and have a diploma and studying further. my girlfriend is 17 and still doing secondary education.iam planning to have a wife in early 2013. so do these differnces matter in a marriage life?what if she is selected for university studies,should i wait for her? or should i ... (71 words)

My boyfriend is having a hard time with the fact that I've been with another man before him. Help!

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have recently talked about having sex for the first time, he would normally wait until marriage but because we love each other and are both willing, he said we wouldn't have to wait(plus we are planning to get married in the next few years). Also he is a ... (238 words)

I'm worried that he likes her and is over me. What should I do?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So i've been really down these past couple of days and can't get this thing out of my head. Me and my boyfriend who i've been dating for 2 and a half years got a in a fight the other night. The next day i had his phone and he didn't know (i had to clean our lockers because ... (271 words)

He wants me to 'wait' for him. Yet we never talk. should I wait?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and the guy that i'm taking to is "J" and he's 18. Well, me and J met in the city bus and the whole ride, he and I were staring at each other. To me it seemed to be for hours. At soon as we both got off at the bus station, i looked at him and he was already looking at ... (280 words)

I want to take my time, get to know her, respect her before I can feel any love for her. Is that me being selfish?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Some people fall in love quickly, but other people take a bit more time before they develop those kind of feelings for someone. If I met a nice lady and I didn't love her for a few months, but I respected and valued her, is that a sign of selfishness? Does it make you selfish... (82 words)

How can we start being civil with each other following the break-up?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Confused by my ex! My ex and i spilt at the start of the year we had been together 7 yrs got a 2 yr old and a 6 yr old. There had been a few issues regarding trust and i had discovered he had bought someone a dress via the internet in october and then around xmas time my daugh... (228 words)

He has a picture of his ex and their son, but not one of me and our son!

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there i need an advise. my bf has still picture of his ex gf with thier son on his computer. and he doesnt have picture of me and our son! im hurt and feels that his disrespecting me. why woud he save it if im with him? does it mean he still love her? btw im living with him ... (80 words)

Is it ok for my girlfriend to be kissing her female friends?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys i have soemthing to ask you all is it okay when the girls kinda kiss each other, not with tongue though, but just kissing, my girlfriend is doin this with her friends and its really pissing me off :S i always tell her to stop doin it but she just keeps doin it, s... (80 words)

Is he waiting for me to dump him or am I being neurotic?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, I met this man back in September and we see each other every other weekend, as he lives 300 miles away. He calls me every night, sends 2 txts each day, morning and goodnight. He is very busy with work and he has a child (the child doesnt live with him)....or am i ... (321 words)

I think she has lost her feelings for me because of our sex life!

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - im married for 7 yrs and i dont know whats wrong with my wife,i think im loosing her and any advise would be appreciated please .since we met she had a lot of sex eperiance and i had none,i was married before her but my ex and me didnt know anything about sex so it was always ... (228 words)

Pubic hair question for guys.....

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I need advice on how I should shave my pubic area. I know the majority of guys like it all the way shaved, but I can never manage to get it completely smooth on the top part without getting bumps and redness. So, my question is, do you think it's still attractive if the ... (81 words)

Why do people yo-yo with their weight?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do people yo-yo weight gain/loss? I have a friend (mid-thirties) who put on loads of weight shortly after his marriage (about 70 lbs) then, just before dumping his wife, got fit and lost loads of weight to meet his next beau. He now lives with her, four years later and has ... (130 words)

How do I give up and not be so crazy when it comes to him?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help getting over my ex we were together for 5 years and during that time he got one of my ex friends pregnant.and.than cheated on me after. A lot happened after that and he drove me crazy I because obsessed with checking to see where he was who he was texting and all ... (89 words)

Is it a bad idea to ask out a girl thats younger than me who has never dated before?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a 13 boy who goes to a really small school in mass. iv'e had 2 girlfriends in the past 2 years and they both ended in heartbreak. My relationships i had before were always so dramatic and romantic at the same time. I'm one of those helplessly romantic shy guys thats al... (260 words)

I dumped her, yet I'm turning into a wuss over her. What's a good action plan to get me coping again?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - What is wrong with me? I broke up with a woman 16 months back but I'm obsessed with keeping tabs on what she doing. My obsession is taking over my life. I hardly eat, my condo's filthy, I don't go out. I feel like I'm married to my laptop and binocolars. I'm gutted. Sh... (126 words)

I broke up with her so shouldn't I be the one who's ok?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - What the dickens is wrong with me? I broke up with a woman 16 mos back but I'm obsessed with keeping tabs on what she doing. My obsession is taking over my life. I half a** eat, condo's filthy, don't go out. I feel like I'm married to my laptop and binocolars. I'm gutted. S... (121 words)

Do we need some sort of help? my fiance and I have fought everyday since we started living together

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I decided to move in together, before we got married. We have only been living together a little over a week and already argued everyday. The arguments are usually really stupid but I feel like we just get on each others nerves. I know he gets on mine a lot. If ... (312 words)

Is he going to try to cheat on me with this woman he admitted to wanting to sleep with?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend told me, when he was very drunk (I was drunk too, and pushing) about a female friend of his that he'd like to sleep with. Anyhow, now he's been spending more time/ paying more attention to her. Should I be worried? Is he going to try to cheat with her on me? He has ... (86 words)

What things do guys say that they don't actually mean?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers this is a question sort of...for men to answer. (or possibly highly opiniated women) im kind of asking this for all the female population that randomly stmble upon this article. what things DO YOU guys say that you dont actually mean? "like yes im l... (155 words)

Is there really a fool-proof way to get your ex back?

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2 February 2011 (F) age 41-50 - Okay I hear there is a way to get your ex back or at least give you a really good chance. Normally I wouldn't try, but the ex is the father of my 6 month old son. He has treated me better than anyone. I love him, but he has a low tolerance for fighting and is very slow to com... (335 words)

That kiss meant so much to me, what did it mean to him?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I have been obsessing about this for days now and I would really love some advice. Ok so here is the whole story. I met this guy about 3 or 4 years ago and we were only friends through my boyfriend at the time. Well about a year and a half after I met him we started ... (635 words)

I didn't realize my true love until I emotionally abused her away....

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I made a many bluders but the biggest blunder of all has costed me my health, sanity and job. I ended up homeless and dependent on vodka to wash away the pain. I've recovered in all with the exception of love. Is there a chance that the swan who I emotionally negl... (124 words)

Why am I still not over this girl and what can I do about it?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Here's the basis of the background story: I transferred schools (from public to private) my sophomore year in high school, first day of school I saw the most beautiful girl I had ever seen and ended up having three other classes with her and instantly getting a crush on, I ... (415 words)

Why is he acting this way? Is it him or is it me?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy in my class, we used to joke around and actually talk to each other. Then out of the blue, suddenly, he started being more distant. Like, back then, if we were put together it'd be fun. We'd talk and everything. Now, it's like he completely ignores me and it feels ... (87 words)

A lot on his plate or am I losing him?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I recently started seeing this guy. We met during our office Christmas party, we made out a few times that night! We've been out together a few times since then, he's usually send me texts every once and a while and would initiate the dates. I've since left the compa... (226 words)

Should we put up with her sabotage games due to her "social phobia" or not waste our energy?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Me and my DH have these friend that I met over the net 2.5 years ago. Orginally my husband made friends with her husband over the internet due to the fact that they had almost everything in common. Little by little the other guys wife started jumping in and t... (275 words)

Why did my ex say he wants my new partner to be the father to our child, and he doesn't want to be involved in our son's life anymore?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy for about 3 years and we have a kid together but we are seperated and im with someone else..My ex came up to me a few days ago and told me that i should tell my new boyfriend to be the father of our son and that he didnt want to be involved anymore... I know ... (119 words)

He wants a break - has he got cold feet?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my boyfriend of 8 years just asked for a break one week ago. He says he needs time to think about us and just concentrate on work. The request for a break came at a time where everything is ok in our relationship. Some backround on us,In the first 4 years of our ... (296 words)

He says he isn't in love with me anymore... however his behavior is strange....

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this guy for 7 years and we have dated on and off. After knowing him for about 2 years I decided I was in love with him. He told me that he was in love with me the day he met me. Him and I didn't speak for a while (years) and he got engaged to someone else. He ... (356 words)

Girl living with me could be trying to steal my man. How can I prevent this?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, umh, im thirteen and im having a problem. well, accually a few.... and i need some help. Umh, so, i have this "sister" (a girl that lives with me" and shes sorta.... the type that puts out.... probally what 90% of people would consider a whore... and Daddy was ... (390 words)

I have my reasons why I feel like my ex is still watching me. How can I best distance myself from him?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Aunts, i was let go by my guy nine months and few days ago. I closed my aol account, changed telephone details. I'm frightened my ex is watching me. I'm not with a replacement guy yet. Is he watching out for any replacement guy for me be with? Is it likely he watching ... (65 words)

What is the normal amount of weight to gain during your period?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this may sound silly to some of you out there, but im wondering how much is normal to gain during your period. ive never actually weighed myself this time of the month, but a few weeks ago i noticed i had gained 5 pounds. i was a little shocked and upset since i have been a ... (122 words)

My boy friend has started being aggressive to me. Is dumping him the best idea?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend was great when we were friends but when we started going out he. Since then he's changed. He's started acting more aggresive, controlling, rude, ect. and when I wanted to talk to him about it, he broke up with me on Facebook and then begged for me to come back! ... (61 words)

My mother hates him and I'm sick of sneaking around so I can see him. I need your advice please on what to do?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 years old. I currently just turned 14 in January, I may sound like a young and ignorant teenager, thinking I'm madly in love. I probably am just another one of those girls but, all I need is for you to rationalize with me. I'm 14, and I fell in love with a 16 year old, ... (231 words)

What's a good solution to my sadness that we're not together now? I'm really confused and I may have given him the wrong impression.

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im really confused. My ex boyfriend and I went out for about two and half months, but we've liked each other for about six months. we didn't kiss or anything, but i still liked him sooo much. he gave me a necklace for christmas (well he gave it to me in late january) a very ... (276 words)

What I should do or what should I have done. I am still in shock to find my husband also cheated.

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2 February 2011 (F)

age - Dear All, I have always been a faithful wife. I even looked down on those whom got their lives messed up by having an affair. A little over a year ago, I ran into a man whom counseled my ex and I when I went through the divorce. I was so messed up and had two little b... (738 words)

What's the right thing to do? Tell someone I think I might be depressed? Or keep it a secret. I keep wanting to sleep all the time.

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have begun to sleep all of the time. I wake up at 8 and then go to school. I come back home, and go to sleep around 4 and wake up at 8 and over and over and over again. Also I started to stop eating very much. it's not like i just want to lose weight, i just dont feel h... (168 words)

I'm confused whether my friend is gay or not. How could I handle this diplomatically?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a guy friend in medical school. who is questionably/obviously gay and seemingly closer to possibly coming out. He was claiming to be straight at the beginning of the year, but when people have asked questions on his opinion about girls he has stopped answering now. Si... (554 words)

Was he flirting with me, or was it something else?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Today i hung out with my friends and one of my friends invited my crush. So he was hanging out with us and we were hungry so we went to get some food. Then we all went back to the parking lot and he unlocked everyone else's door, except for mine (Oh btw i was sitting in the ... (266 words)

I don't want our relationship to end on this sour note. What can I do?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in an odd relationship, I dated a wonderful girl for 1.5 years. We lived together, we had great and bad times, but we loved each other. She moved to Georgia after college to be with her family. I stayed in Wisconsin for I had a job and house. I lost my job, she asked me t... (630 words)

My cold hand in his warm hand generates sweat! Help!

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - my new bf asked me if i like holding hands HOW DO I TELL HIM THAT when something cold (my hand) gets warm (his hand) it generates water (in my case water = sweat) and i cant help it what do I do!?... (45 words)

Whenever I think about telling him I love him, I cant help thinking about this girl he might have cheated with!

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - k this guy ive been dating him for about 3 and a half months now and we have NEVER been in a fight. everything is just perfect. but theres been so much drama!! first this chick, his ex gf, this fat ugly whore that wouldnt leave me alone! she challenged me to fights but she ... (405 words)

I'm unfaithful and it's killing me!

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2 February 2011 (F) age 51-59 - I have been married for 10 years to the man I loved, and we have 2 wonderful children. After 4 happy years, a big issue based on my hubby's "unfair" suspicions, almost made our marriage collapse. We managed to overcome the matter but without going through its cause. I was more ... (429 words)

I said I'd propose, but I'm not ready!

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now in a long distance relationship. There's about a 700km distance between us but we still manage to see each other nearly every month. Ever since we started going out, she's brought up engagement and marriage a lot. I know that... (585 words)

How to tell my boyfriend that I want to keep my baby?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not really seeking advice, just wanted to get things off my chest. Any comments however will be taken into consideration and welcomed. I am very much in love with a man, well at this point I am not sure what it is anymore. I wish I could just walk away from him and try... (374 words)

What should we do for our anniversary?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, i have a bf who i've been with for 4 months and its about to be 5 on a special day...VALENTINES DAY:) I have no idea what to do to celebrate Valentines Day and especially our 5 month anniversary. What should we do? Any ideas will help alot. Thank you... (52 words)

It's been 3 months since she said she needed some space. Is this over?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age - My mistress of 4 years told me she "needs some space". Her friends told her we should not talk or e-mail for a few months. we both miss doing things together (not just the sex). It's been 3 long months . Is it over ? Neither one of us (I think) has found anyone . ... (56 words)

Should I break things off?

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Here is the thing. I met a girl who was interested in me before. She broke up with an a**hole who treats her like ****, but got her pregnant. Everything was great at first; I told her how I felt about her, she said she was in love with me too. I even told her I wanted to help ... (364 words)

Love triangle... how do I break up with him in the nicest way possible?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really sweet and loving boyfriend, hes a great guy,but i have a problem. Im still in love with an ex, and he's changed for the better, me and my ex still love each other alot, but i dontknow how to go about this. My ex recently dumped his girlfriend and told her he was ... (251 words)

I've had boyfriends, but how do I find my first girlfriend?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had several boyfriends and I have kissed and messed around with girls. But I want a relationship with a girl, I want a new experience and a different kind of love. The problem is that I live in a small town and I haven't met any lesbians or bi sexual girls in my area. ... (185 words)

I don't think its fair to start a relationship with this guy if I'm not completely over my ex.

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ive posted on here a long time ago. So if any of you read my other questions, some were about a guy i was involved with. We ended up dating and i was extremely happy. However we broke up about a year ago. I was devistated and i basically gave up on life. I would act myself ... (392 words)

Her parents are trying to keep her from dating me! They even discussed a restraining order!

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2 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, me and my girl have been going out for 8 months now, It is a long distance relationship. We get to see each other every 3 or 4 months, for a week or 2. We have learned a ton about each other, since all we do is talk, I love her, and she loves me. Now, I am 20 years only... (645 words)

How do people make up after arguments?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How do people make up after arguments? My soon-to-be ex used to say that because I started most arguments (it is true), I should make up to him. He would refuse to give me any affection because I would not, in his words, deserve it for abusing him (starting the argument is a ... (103 words)

My boyfriend hasn't tried to reach me in 2 days! How long should I wait before contacting him?

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi my bf of 1.5 years is acting out weird lately. Always finding excuses not to call me or hang out with me. He is acting like real jerk, heavely fliting with other girls and stuff. I started to think he lost interest in me, so i stopped calling him/messaging me for the... (117 words)

I don't know if I should end it now to avoid being upset in the future...

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in yr11 at school and I am going out with this guy (John) who is in yr12 (lower 6th form) and we have been going out for just over 2 months now. About 2 weeks ago, John took me to one side and told me that he couldnt be with me anymore because he liked another girl (Ja... (364 words)

Confused about my boyfriend kissing another girl

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2 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, my boyfriend of four years kissed another girl who was working at a restaurant about 1 year ago. He goes to this restaurant once in a blue moon because this older guy who helped him get a job treats him out to dinner when they say eachother which isnt often... (120 words)