A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i have been broken up for 11 days.we still talk everyday, but the thing i wanna know is.he told me that he wanted to get back together with me a few days ago but at the time i didn't wont to.i told him why and that was because every since i got pregnant we arent the same as we was when we first started dating!.i dated someone else for 2 days but it didnt feel right so i ended it but here is the conversation between us last night through text could you tell me if he still wonts to get back together or move on:ME:im suprised your even talking to me after everything i told you today about me finding someone elseHIM:Well i know your over me so its all goodME:I didn't say i was over youHIM: well you moved on so you areME: just bc i moved on and was with someone else for 2 days don't mean im over you bc im not it takes me awhile to get over someone and im not ever going to get over you bc your the father of my babyHIM:Why do you think i haven't dated anyone not even for 1 dayME:Why haven't you?HIM:Well first i wont my baby then ill see about datinME: Why don't you date anyone now? im sure you like someoneHIM:Who cares who i like i just cant i dont know whyME:Yes you can move on and date someone elseHIM: No i don't wont tooME:But why? why cant you tell meHIM:Cause i know you can move onME:So that dont mean you cant move on and i tried it and it didnt work it was too complicatedHIM:Well you tried it with one person so you still have more choicesME:So you want me to move on?HIM:i think its better since i make your life miserable but i still want my baby tho...does it sound like he still wonts to get back together?If he does how can i not let my past with cheating ex boyfriend, not let how me and him use to be before i got pregnant how everything was great get to me.how can i make our relationship better and be like it use to be before i got pregnant?thank you so much
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): It may not have hit him that your love runs free until back together. I dont think its likely to ever work once someone else comes into it. As it looks maybe you should question if youre ready to be in a commited relationship and how easily you are distracted,because he has told you he doesnt want to,which is what happens in the situation. Tell him he`s got no choice and find someone who can offer more.
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