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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone,my boyfriend of four years kissed another girl who was working at a restaurant about 1 year ago. He goes to this restaurant once in a blue moon because this older guy who helped him get a job treats him out to dinner when they say eachother which isnt often but you know. Everytime he goes to this rest. i get nervous, actually not nervous but i just keep thinking about it. So i texted him how I felt and he said "get over it" i guess thats not the answer i wanted to here. i really wanted him to reassure me. how should I feel/thinkplease help
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reader, SillyB +, writes (2 February 2011):
 Honestly, he does not sound like a loving man. He made out with another girl and how does he talk to you, "get over it". That is horrible. He doesn't sound like a sweet, loving and nurturing guy. I'd start looking around at other prospects and leaving him. He doesn't sound worth the headache!
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 You do have some reason to be concerned but in all fairness the food may be good and the chances of that waitress still being there are slim to none.
I think there is a trust issue there that I hope you can talk about and give him another chance to make you feel better because I doubt he intentionally wants you to feel that way.
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