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anonymous
writes: i just wanted to know is it okay to be in a relationship and hang out with the opposite sex?... ive been with my bf for quite awhile and i have guyfriends who want to chill but only as friends but i never can because my bf gets mad even if i introduce him to them. they even want to go to the gym and sometimes play ball. i do have gfs but they aint willing to do that. when it comes hanging out with the opposite sex does my bf always have to be there or can i just hang out with them sometimes alone and i mean only at a firends level. i known them for a while now. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): Well, it doesn't really matter if you feel as if you guys are just friendly. You really need to take a step back and think. Would you be okay with your guy spending time alone with other women? It's the same thing. I always see that women don't like it when men hang out with other women, but when a women hangs out with another man, it's okay. Makes no sense!
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reader, Leodjoneluv +, writes (3 February 2011):
most men feel threatened when their women wants to hang out with another man. Put your self in his shoes. It takes a mature man who has a LOT of trust for his lady to accept her hanging out with other guys. I cant and I wont personally. Things happen when you put the opposite sex together. Let your boyfriend hang out with you and your male friends to make him feel comfortable.
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