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writes: My boyfriend and I had spoke about this before and we decided to try it. We were both down for it happening. Well we had sex with another couple. They are friends of ours. And when we did it we had fun. We were of course a little on the drunk side but never the less I had a good time and so did he. Our friends did to as well. Now a few months have passed and I have this fear that my boyfriend and the other girl are having sex behind m back. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): Take his hand and put it on his chest where you can feel his heartbeat. Keep it there and ask him straight up if he has hooked up with her. If his heart starts racing that means yes. That's the best lie detector test. I tried it once before. If you decide to do it, message me and let me know how it goes.
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reader, Liebes Kummer  +, writes (2 February 2011):
I also had this fantasy but luckily i did not act it out. This, is one of the dangers of acting out fantasies.
I am not saying he is cheating on you. All i'm saying is, there is actually a possibility.
If you guys were open enough to have fun with other couples then, you should be able to have an honest conversation.
Tell him how you feel and ask him what he thinks.
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 I'm with Caring Guy on this one, you might have seen your boyfriend enjoy himself to much with this other girl and now this is all you think off. This are the things that might be running through your head...
Is he thinking on her?
Was she much better than me in bed?
He like her more than me?
How can he do this behind my back?
Talk to him and find out for sure before you confront about it.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 February 2011):
The question is do you have proof?
And this is a good reason not to have threesomes/groupies etc. You may well just be overreacting or paranoid. Do you have proof?
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