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30-35,
*pendy
writes:What do you think? is my boyfriend lying to me? did he sleep with her?My boyfriend said he wanted a break from our relationship to clear his head. I gave him space. He rang me lots, left me voice messages and when he still couldn't reach me he emailed me: he miss me and he knows what he wants..he loves me so much and I begged me to take him back.He rang me later, I answered and he said during the break, we went to see a girl he's slept with before and she straddled him and took off her top showing my bf her breasts and told him how much she wanted him. But my bf said he told her he's got a gf and the girl kept trying it on with him but he kept saying no to her cos he was thinking about me the whole time and he didn't even get turn on, even though she tried so hard to get him.He said he did that to see if he could find someone else attractive but he couldn't cos he loves me so much.. Should I believe him? He swears on his mothers life that he didn't touch the girl and nothing happened.Thanks..xx
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reader, Leodjoneluv  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 Young lady, don't put yourself through the agony of wondering if he was with another women. That will drive you crazy. If you two had broken up, the situation is out of your hand. Focus on the future with him and live for tommorrow.
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reader, seniorfreshy14 +, writes (3 February 2011):
I think you need to sit down with him and have a real sit down talk. He could really be telling the truth. What I'm wondering though is why he told you? you know? Like either he was guilty because he did do something or he didn't. I also think that maybe he just wants you to think that he tried to move on and wants you to believe he means it this time. It could be a sticky situation to get back into, so I would take it slow and talk it out, so there is no tention between you.
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reader, mselu08 +, writes (3 February 2011):
This is a difficult situation. I think it is very good that he came clean to you and told you the truth. My boyfriend pulled the "i need some space" crap and begged me back too. But I had to find out from someone else that he had slept with his ex girlfriend. He continued to lie to me about it. So it says a lot for him that he let you know what went on. But a guy is a guy. It is hard to believe that he put himself in that situation and then turned her down. But he could be telling the truth. If I were you, I would have a talk with the girl and see what she says happened. That's what I had to do. If you were completely faithful during this "break", then you deserve to know the truth.
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