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writes:My boyfirend of 2 years just broke up with me 3 days ago and I feel horrible for many reasons. First, the break up was one of the most dramatic events of my life. It happenned in his place after we had a big argument over something stupid and he called the security to escort me out of his place. This wasn't the first time he theatened to do this. We have been arguing a lot and each time we get to this drama mode, he threatens to call the police or the security but he never did until 3 days ago. When the security came, he lied to them telling them I was his "ex" girlfriend and I just broke in to his place. I told them that he was liying since he was the one who gave me the keys to his place and I was there with him for the weekend. We've had several bad arguments that ended up with name callings, and lots of emotional and verbal abuse from both sides and we always ended up getting back together. He constantly apologizes and tells me he loves me and wants to marry me and doesn't want me to leave him but I find myslef the only one who comes back to him after an argument. He never calls me back or texts me and I was the one who always goes back to his place and made up with him after those bad fights. But this time, it's been 3 days and I didn't contatc him but it hurts so much. I recently lost my job and it's not helping at all to be hanging out at home by myself overanalyzing what happened. I truly love him and I wanted to have a life with him but he told me not to go back to his place again and not to ever call him back. I am not sure what to do at this point. I have so many emotions that I'm going through right now and I get these urges to go see him or call him. Any advice please. Thanks.
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reader, Leodjoneluv +, writes (3 February 2011):
 both of you need to sit down and talk about what makes you two mad. it seems like you guys need to learn how to FORGIVE each other for the past hurts that you both have caused each other. He seems to be tired of the arguing and fighting by not calling u but he seems to luv you by reaching back out to u. Learn to FORGIVE
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