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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

An incident with my same sex friend has left me confused and angry - I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a female in her mid twenties studying at university. I have considered myself, on the whole to be straight and have had one or two major boyfriends. Now, if asked, I might say I was bisexual. Might. Last year I met a girl on my course and we got along well as per usual. t... (324 words)

Is this 'friends' relationship healthy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just wondering if the relationship with one of my friends (who is also my ex) is a regular type of relationship or if there is anything odd about it. We have decided to remain friends (over 2.5 years ago to be exact), we dated for 1.5 years. She dated other guys and w... (209 words)

I work with her -- how do I move on from these feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 32 year old man and have been attracted to a co-worker (26 years old) for a few years now. I never acted on my feelings towards her because I knew she had a boyfriend. Within the last 6 months we have become a lot closer and I thought that maybe she was interested in ... (136 words)

Does love conquer all, or will the lack of money and career stand in the way of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and I have been living in London for more than 2 years. I was initially here to complete my degree, but I fell in love with a nice English boy. We met 2 years ago and are living together now. We have a wonderful relationship and we are even planning to get married, in ... (416 words)

Is it wrong to let her go on this date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age - My wife has a black guy friend that has been asking her to go out on a date. We have talked about it and I told her if she wanted to she could because she has always had a thing for black men. She is 57 and he is 30. Do you think I'm wrong to let her go? She is going out with ... (92 words)

Am I too jealous, or is my girlfriend too much of a wanderer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. A few months ago, a friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend. Right after that, I started noticing that he was beginning to pay much more attention to my girlfriend. A few weeks went by, and I realized that the guy ... (367 words)

Sex, culture, distance.... we have a lot of issues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Should he move? relationship HELP!!!? me n my bf have been dating over a year. he lives in Sacramento I live in Lake Elsinore around 400 miles away. we love eachother very much, and we see eachother as much as possible. He wants to move down here? and I'm afraid!!! of thi... (505 words)

Tips on the first night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi this is salman ! i m gonna get married in 5 days so i wounder if any one can give me any tips that how to handle the first night with the bride about sex and every thing and it should be according to ISLAM. thank u... (55 words)

Is it ok for a woman to chase a man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused with my role as a woman in the flirting section of a relationship. I've been told plenty of times that it's the man that really must take the first steps but I feel I'm a very dominant woman (and I can tend to choose men that are younger, still look like boys and ... (285 words)

I'm tired of always being the romantic one!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I am feeling a bit neglected. I am the one who does all the romantic things in our relationship like flowers and planning nights out. I planned our last anniversary and even was the one who proposed. ( I had to go and pick up my own ring after I gave one)I don't mi... (247 words)

Is this considered betrayal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd been talking to this guy online for awhile now. Nothing serious, but we did initially plan to meet up over the summer. We clicked pretty quickly and we were talking pretty regularly for awhile as friends when I decided to actually meet him, bringing some of my friends to ... (196 words)

I need to know how he feels and if he likes me back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so, there's this boy in my year who I really like, he's known for a while now, but he has a girlfriend (who I didn't know about, because his facebook says he's single) and up until a couple of days ago, he was always ignoring me, and not paying any attention to me. But ... (141 words)

I'm scared sex will ruin what we have

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well me and my girl have been together for 5 months and we are both sure we love each other... i find her amazing and gorgeous... now we are both teens so we have the urge to have sex... well we want to with each other.. but at the same time we're scared it could ruin what ... (159 words)

My ex and I dated and had a child together in high school. We've both moved on and married others, so why did he ignore me in public?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I dated and had a baby in high school, we were together 2 years. After we broke up he started seeing someone. On two occasions he asked me how I felt about him and I said I no longer have feelings, which was a lie. We both have moved on and gotten married to other pe... (137 words)

My husband is great but I can't cut ties to my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Plz advice me .Iam married female with one kid and understanding husband. Before marriage I had bf...He was good, never crossed limits and good to me for 2 yrs.when I was talking abt marriage he said he is not in situation of getting married now. I was very upset about his beha... (312 words)

Poetry, do guys like it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a random question for the guys... What do you think about a female sending you poetry? Would you appreciate it? Or think it was strange? What if you had been hurt by someone, and they sent you a poem saying that they were sorry, what would you make of it? Girls, ... (84 words)

Rejection has made me afraid of asking girls out, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in my final year of college before I go to university. Last year, I was confident that I would meet someone and pursue a relationship. Long story short, I was rejected by five girls within four months. Maybe I was too desperate, maybe I'm not interesting enou... (199 words)

I think my nervousness is getting in the way of my feelings for him.

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - oh my god what is wrong with me? i've been really down the past YEAR because the guy i liked dumped me and i could not get over him. at all. suddenly in the space of two months, we're back on track. we've been texting virtually everyday and i've seen him quite a lot and he's ... (299 words)

Been with my girlfriend for a year and she won't even add me on facebook let alone move in with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - im worrying alot about my girlfriend well she dont want to move in with me we only see each other at the weekends i dunno what to do she will not add me on her facebook so i dont no can anyone help me with this we have been together for a year now ... (54 words)

My mother treats the dog better than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay My mother has been out of work for over a year my mother is obese she is 400 pounds and im 6 months pregnant and I'm going to go get my g.e.d and my mother keeps on calling me a low life peace of shi* and tells me that hopefuly my child doesnt look up to me... (196 words)

I'm camera-shy and really hate how I look in photos.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I was wondering if anyone can help or provide some advice? I am suffering from very low self esteem and i know this is going to sound silly but it has only started since i have been having pictures taken by friends or family; i never used to have photos taken very often... (236 words)

He doesn't believe what we have is love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - well yesterday was valentines and my boyfriend and i were really happy bout it. anyways i got him something really sweet and i thought that he'd like it. he did though, but he didnt get me anything, that was okay .. i just really wanted to spend the rest of the night with him. ... (126 words)

29 days of no contact and I miss him so much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 year old female and have been dating my 35 year old boyfriend for 10 months. Our relationship was rosey the first 4 months. I met all his family and he met mine, i know all his friends and he knows mine, he even said that I was the one that he wants to marry. he took me ... (496 words)

Going to Uni has killed my love of art and my parents just don't see it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if it's a phase or if I'm genuinely somewhat depressed at Uni, I did really well on my art course at college and quite fancied going to Uni, but I also wanted to train as a tattoo artist - which went down horrendously with my parents so I applied to Uni to avoid ... (203 words)

Help needed with his psycho ex-girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i have been dating this guy for only a few weeks. Everything has been lovely, but since this weekend his ex gf has been causing problems and sending him messages about her and other guys. Since this he has been really down. I don't know what to do or say, as it's only ... (99 words)

Does he like me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be friends with this guy at school but he moved schools, we never saw each other again. Me and my friend(who also used to know him) bumped into him in our local town and we started chatting and he exchanged numbers with both of us. A couple of weeks later my friend ... (313 words)

Do I tell my fiance that I had an affair and the baby may or may not be his?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiancé for 4 years and we are to be married June. We have a great relationship but I recently made a mistake and had a brief sexual relationship with a co-worker. It was over the span of 2 weeks, and it actually brought me closer to my partner - I realized ... (278 words)

He's fair, and I'm tan, can I still love him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys...i want some advice. theres this guy i love at college.i told him what i felt for him on valentines day with a nice friendly quote.he said he feels the same. i love him a lot,and i want him,even though our likes and dislikes don't really match that much,but we have... (65 words)

An unspoken break...is it over? how long does it last?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and nine months. I am 39, he is 33. It has been absolutely wonderful. I have never felt as adored and loved in a relationship before and I reciprocated those feelings back to him. Things have been strained for a couple months ... (1107 words)

Will this heal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my boyfriend last night for the first time and it was really painful as expected as i'm very tight and i also bled quite alot. I didn't think anything of it as i thought it was normal. But i checked today and it seems that the skin around the enterance has ... (104 words)

I asked my abusive partner to leave and he won't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my partner over a year now , he moved in just a week after we met, the lies had already started..I lent him moneu and never got it back and he lied what he did with it.. drugs actually, i know he loves me but he finds it fun to put me down and make fun of me ... (152 words)

Ideas needed for gifts for my pregnant bestfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey aunts and uncles!! Your input is appreciated though this is not a relationship question. So, my best friend is pregnant. She is the best friend a person can have and I love her to bits. I decided that during her pregnancy she should get one small gift each month from me. So ... (112 words)

Why will a man video his sex act with someone he is cheating with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Emergency question I accidentally came across a movie on my boyfriend's laptop, he was having sex with another another woman from what i saw i won't call it love making. I don't know if my boyfriend intentionally recorded that act but Im sure that woman doesn't know abo... (287 words)

Should I try to relight the flame with my exwife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age - Ive been divorced from my wife for 20 yrs. Two years ago she asked me to teach her to ride a motorcycle,work on her car ect... I pretty sure she was looking to see if we could re light that flame but I blew it off like no big deal. Now 2 yrs later I still dream about her and ... (74 words)

I even got my crush a rose, but she likes this other guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - can anyone help me with my problem. i'm 14 and i really like this girl and we're really good friends. she knows i like her a lot and knows i got her a valentines rose but she said she won't go out with me because she likes this other guy a lot. she has said though that she ... (100 words)

I just want her to be happy and have the love we once had, is that possible? Or is it time to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all. New to this website and looking for some thoughts or advice with my situation. Have been in a relationship, going on 5yrs now. I'm 35 and she is 34. I love her very much and would do anything for this girl. When we first met I was in between jobs and had alot of free ... (803 words)

My boyfriend was supposed to surprise me on Valentine's Day but he never showed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my boyfriend doing this? should I break up with him? before my birthday, my boyfriend and i talked about going away for my birthday.(we talked about it for weeks, we both seemed really excited). but a week before my birthday we got into an argument but we made up a few... (257 words)

I'm trying to get her to fall in love with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im in love with this girl who goes to the same college as me and my best friend. I see her every week day because where doingn the same course. were ok friends because we sit on the same table as each other along with my best friend and four others. my best friend is a... (439 words)

I don't think I'm good enough for my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i meet this boy at a party and i went out with him bestmate but we didnt work and me this boy been talking and we got too know each other a little bit better and became really close and attached too eachother, an reccently he told me he likes me i felt the same way too we ... (175 words)

I proposed to my friend but she politely declined!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - so it began in october. the girl in my college asked for my no. and we started talking nicely. she had a boyfriend from last 4years and she loves him. they broke up soon after i started talking but were in touch daily. she always gave me signals that i am more than a friend to ... (126 words)

How should I tell my ex that I have accepted the break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - After finding an article in this website and seeing how good the advices are, I decided to ask for an opinion before I contact my ex. I'll try to sum it up as much as I can. I met this guy on the internet who was living with the mother of his child, but for what he's told m... (452 words)

Can someone help me see the logical steps in this breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i've recently broken up with my first love, i've tried to have a 'rebound' and plenty of guys are interested in me but i am really hating being single. I feel like such a failure who will only ever watch it work out for others. He dumped me and told me he didn't care about me, ... (100 words)

My boyfriend doesn't have enough sex with me, should I leave him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a really good man, he loves me and communicates with me, but he just doesn't give me enough sex. He's only 28 and sometimes I'll want it and he'll say he's tired or after a fight I love make up sex but he says he's too mentally drained! It's beginning to feel ... (163 words)

Am I stupid to feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll keep this simple. My girlfriend of 2 and a half years likes me to send "dirty" pictures of myself to her, or take my clothes off/change in front of her in person. I don't mind doing it, I want to do anything that will make her happy. But... she doesn't like doing ... (140 words)

Am I right for thinking this? Ex screwed me over.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so i dated this girl who at the beginning i could tell had some problems but, i really didn't think any of it. When this girl smiled she light up the classroom and me being the class clown i was able to attract her attention. I got to know her for a month and she seemed ... (626 words)

I'm not ready to have a baby yet...I want a career first. Does that make me selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. ok ive been in a relationship 4 a while and we both quite serious now he has started talking about having babys which is fine in our culture and everyone does it it is the accepted thing. but i dont want to im afraid to tell him so, it is a sign that he loves me very muc... (191 words)

I don't want to hurt him but I'm so terribly afraid. If I marry him my family will disown me!

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ok ive been in a relationship 4 quite a while now and we get along really well. he is divorced with 2 kids and i am divorced with one. now i have been seperated longer then him and i am almost 8 yrs younger but that doesnt bother me. he is now started talking about being mo... (273 words)

Will disowning a daughter from a previous relationship waiver my child support payments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Will disowning a daughter from a previous relationship waiver my child support payments? I'm currently paying for a child my ex partner refuses to let me see. I'm not a monster and this wasn't an easy decision to make but i've finally got to the point where I'm going to stand ... (57 words)

How can I put aside my trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and currently have been in a relationship with a lovely girl aged 20, we have been going out for a little while now, and I feel that I love her more than anyone else i have been out with, I think she is the one. However I think I am being very insecure but cant help it, ... (469 words)

Family problems after taking a new job!

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. i am 21. Recently i was given an opportunity to work for a sports magazine, but it has created havoc in my life. I dont get time for my family and friends. Recently my sister complained and told that i was being selfish. And didnt care for my family at all. I dont feel... (81 words)

Is she dating me or is she 'being polite'?

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, is she dating me or is she 'being polite'? I've recently dated a girl from my highschool and she seems to be the nice person I thought she'd be. The reason why I didn't know much about her in the first place is because we are in the same school but all her ... (414 words)

Best friend is pregnant and no longer wants me as a friend...and I really don't know where Iv gone wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am single and not really dating, my BF is happily married but I thought we were best friends. We have been friends for over 3 years. When I moved to town and met her at church she instigated the friendship and I felt overwhelmed by her kindness and how much interest ... (1405 words)

I have so much hair down there, that prick-free sex with my guy is near impossible!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing a lot of questions about shaving/waxing down there lately and I figured I'd chime in with my own. My dad blessed me with thick body hair (note the sarcasm). When I shave, it usually starts getting prickly the same day. Then there's the terrible itch of... (249 words)

After all that Iv done for her, my girlfriend does not make me feel desirable and wanted...and I'm losing my mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Firstly, I guess I'm mostly here to whine as I'm not really sure I've got a specific quiestion to ask. However, I will appreciate any thoughts you may have. I'm almost 33 years old and I'm in my fourth serious relationship. We're onto our fourth year in the relationship whic... (1023 words)

I'm sick of my lazy and unromantic boyfriend..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together since 2years. and its been more than a year we started living together. He is not at all a romantic kind of a person and little dominating. He is out for vaccation and is meeting his family for 1 month. My boyfriend tells me he does ... (122 words)

Should I keep working on the marriage with the hopes that it would improve or be brave enough and tell my husband I no longer wish to continue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I could really use your advice, sorry its a bit long.. IM totally confused at this stage as to what should I do next. Ive been married for 13 years and have 2 lovely boys. My husband and I have had some problems in the marriage over the years but there have been ... (589 words)

If I insist that my daughter complete her Scholarship studies against her will, will this damage her and her mental health long term, or will it teach her to become stronger and more resilient for her future years?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi readers. My daughter won a Scolarship at the Catholic Agricultural School in Bindoon. She has been there for 2 weeks and wants to come home already. She says that she is trying to stick it out but she wants to know that if she wants to that she can leave after term 1. ... (427 words)

Why does familiarity always breed contempt for me???

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so i have this strange problem with my friends. At first i thought it was just one particular friend, but now i'm starting to think the problem lies within me. Basically, i get irritated and start finding fault with people once i spend too much time with them. I jus... (537 words)

Who to share a flat with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm at university and am having to decide where I'm gonna live next year. Problem is I have 2 offers on the table - one of them is with one other girl who is quiet and already owns a flat in a reasonably nice area of town, but its a bit further out than I would... (181 words)

Did he love his ex more than he loves me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, and have been going out with a 24 year old guy. at first he was perfect, treated me so well, did everything for me, surprised me with nice little gestures.... but yesterday i didn't even get a valentines day card. he hasnt told me he loves me for days.... his ex, who ... (356 words)

Girls, how should I play this now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Guys, On new years eve, I was at a friends party and ended up sitting next to a girl that I know of, but hadn't spoken to before, I'd always thought that she was a good looking girl but haven't had a chance/need to speak to her before. But we ended up talking for ab... (497 words)

She's keeping me at arm's length. am I wasting my time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 41 and I am sort of seeing a 24 year old woman. We both have feeling for each other, but she's scared to be comitted. She says she's scared she'll hurt me, or if things didn't work out that it would be hard to face each other in work. She's knows I'm not the kind of guy ... (108 words)

I'm not sure if it's love or attraction.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Now im not sure if its love or attraction , or if its a feeling that she may be the one , but there was this girl who was my classmate in high school , i developed a crush for her right then , asked her out after school ended - and got politely refused . few years later i saw ... (175 words)

I want to be completely smooth down there!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - alright, i need tips on how i should shave my pubic area! i know you gals out there know your stuff and i'd love to know your secrets. how do you get it completely smooth? what products do you use? i'm avoiding waxing since it's pricey and would like to stick to just normal ... (86 words)

Boyfriend asked for space after 2 and a half months. Does he really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of two and a half months said he wanted some space to sort out some things in his life. He asked for me to give him at least two weeks, and it's been 10 days now. We bump into each other every now and then, he only called me once, we still chat on mxit and he ... (93 words)

Should I just forgive and forget? He really hurt me and he hasn't even apologized...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this outgoing guy I've had a pseudo-relationship with for the past 6 months-- nothing physical but we click really well. We got into an arguement and he went for a really low blow (even according to some bystanders). I've been ignoring him since the incident; I'm ju... (159 words)

Has having multiple sex partners before marriage affected your relationship with your spouse?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, so we read here on Dear Cupid a lot about people having jealousy over the number of sex partners their husbands or wives have had. But this question is a little different. It is for those married people who in their single days had multiple sex partners. By multiple I do ... (159 words)

How can I help my girlfriend go from oral orgasms to penetrative orgasms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question regarding my wonderful girlfriend who is amazingly beautiful, very sexy and has a stunning personality. I can make her cum using oral sex. It's like a long build up and then a fantastic release for her. My problem is that she can't come using penetrat... (149 words)

I broke off the affair with an older women but now I feel badly

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

15 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I had an affair with 40+ married woman. I'm 20+ and single. After getting great advices from this forum, I realized it's not right. Then, I broke up with her. I stayed silent and keep away form her with no sms, no call. I even didn't reply her Valentine sms y... (110 words)

What is the problem with this guy?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - First of all i wanted to say how come guys who obviously are interested dont make a move? I met this guy who was in the same club as me and at my college thats how we started talking. I was on facebook and he chatted me and we started talking then he gave me his number. He ... (360 words)

She wants to be with me, just not right now

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - about 2 weeks ago me and my girlfriend broke up, we've been together for 4 years exceptfor a break of 8 months when she went away to college. we have know each other since we were very young. in the past few months we have been arguing more and things got a less exciting. we ... (225 words)

I don't know if I like this man or its just fear. Really confused!

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I hsve been broken up with my ex for well over a year now because he was cheating. Yet, I still find myself thinking about him, not able to move on. I sort of have a new man in my life that knows I am not fully over my ex and is willing to wait for me to be ready to date but ... (220 words)

My boyfriend knows that it bothers me that his ex still contacts him but he does nothing about it

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been with me 6 months. A year before, he and his ex of 2 years broke up. His ex, despite our relationship, continues to contact him with messages plainly suggesting that they want to date him again. I asked my bf to cut off contact, but he turns it on me ... (130 words)

My husband doesn't think of me as his equal. Should I leave?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been married for a little over a year now and he works full time and earns a 6 figure salary. I am a 24 year old full time college student working on my Masters in Education and am currently unemployed. In fact, I have only worked part-time jobs here and ... (426 words)

I'm regretting that I broke up with such a sweet girl

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We were together for almost 2 years. I felt I need to break up since i didnot want to be in a relationship right now. I have too many problems and want to work through them. I have been in a relationship since all of hight school and ... (409 words)

How do I get over wondering if I'm pretty enough for my boyfriend?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay! First off i was in a realtionship with this guy for 3 years. The beginning was amazing, but then during about 2 years into our relationship, he began to be very standoffish, meaning we never (very rarely) spent anytime together. He was always with his friends, i also kept ... (342 words)

Should I talk to my friend? Or just let things go?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a friend, and from the beginning she and I sort of..."clicked". She and I had lots of things in common, felt really comfortable around each other, shared lots of things with each other because it just felt okay. We became best friends in a matter of months. She and I ... (399 words)

Is this married guy worth it? Or just get out?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I met this married man one night out at a place I always go and hang out. I had seen him maybe twice before with a girl, but he never wore a ring. This is a place where everyone knows each other and if you ever need to scoop on anyone, all you have to do is ask. One night I ... (538 words)

Boyfriend talks to other girls and I feel jealous

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm probably being childish. I'm sure I am so I would like some advice from you guys... My boyfriend is a great guy, and I am in love with him. We used to be best friends, and confide on each other even the most intimate stuff. Now that we are together, I saw him talking with a ... (173 words)

She wants to go back to a guy who has spurned her 4 times!

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - How do resolve an issue when the girl I was seeing wants to go back to a guy who has spurned her 4 times previously (that's how we met) The guy owns the home she rents and she says it's complicated. I offer to move her out but she is hesitant and tell me she has strong feelings ... (90 words)

I'm a lesbian and its forbidden in my country. Do I run away?

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15 February 2011 (F) age 30-35 - hello I'm very embarrassed to write about this but i need to let it go even to people that i dont really know...anyhow,I'm a 20 year old girl and I'm sure I'm a lesbian ....oh God that is killing me i dont know what t do or to whom i should talk i tried therapy but nothing ... (140 words)

Can I get out of this cycle?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello will someone please give me some advice. To begin with a few months ago my life was great after 4 years of being with a alcoholic man, who while being with I dropped out of high school three times, gained 45 pounds, lost many friends and family ties, I finally broke up ... (189 words)

Unhealthy relationship? I don't know what to do.

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am completely in love with my boyfriend, and he loves me too. I have been dating him for about a year, and things have generally been great.. But I've been thinking about things lately, and I've realized that they haven't been so great, especially in the past few months. ... (210 words)

How do you go from hanging out all the time to not hanging out at all?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Cupid, I have never been so depressed in my life. My boyfriend recently broke up with me and I am still confused as to how this happened. I had known this guy from work for over 3 years but we were only acquaintances. I moved across the street from him last June and si... (423 words)

My brother was killed in war and it has had a dramatic impact on my relationship

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Had been in a five year relationship. We were engaged til mid last year. My brother had been killed in war, shortly before christmas of 09. For kind of the first time in our relationship I wasnt able to tend to her needs as i was going through and still am a hugely traumatic ... (977 words)

Passion or the safe option?

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15 February 2011 (F) age 30-35 - Theres this guy, we've been friends online for about two years, it recently come to light that he's been thinking about me 'like that' and so we started talking about it... in the space of two months its moved insanely fast. We think about each other constantly, even when not ... (327 words)

I've never done oral, any advice?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never given head before. I really want to try it with my boyfriend because he keeps dropping hints to me. I also want to be able to pleasure him in a new way. So, do you guys have any tips or tricks? I would be really greatful. Thanks.... (49 words)

Every holidays is a disappointment! Husband is so cheap!

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm pushing twenty one, my hubby is pushing twenty three, and we've been together since I was 15. I know what you may be thinking, but we seem to be mature for our ages, both have l careers and all in all are genuinely happy with who each of us married when it comes to our ... (406 words)

I'm too afraid to let b/f know when he's done something to upset me

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im definately in love with my boyfriend (J?) lol. and im pretty sure he loves mee too. but wen he does or says something to upset me im always too scared to talk about it. how do i get myself more comfortable to express my feelings?... (48 words)

Was it wrong to give my attached friends a valentine present?

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So today for Valentine's Day i gave a box of chocolate with a small teddy bear to my friend. I already knew she had a boyfriend, but I only gave it to her because she is such a good friend that i knew for a really long time. I do like her, but only as a friend. Was it wrong for ... (99 words)

Was he in it just for the weekend?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a student and go to alot of parties. I was introduced to a guy about 2 weeks ago and we hit it off. We see each other alot around campus and he always says hi. He come over with a few other friends one night and we got drunk and had sex, and again quite a few times over the ... (184 words)

Is he just too shy to go out or is he just not interested?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so this uber uber uber shy guy I asked out at the end of the college semester (last may) is still on my mind. I had asked him out for coffee and a movie and he said "yeah maybe" in an optimistic way (if that makes sense) and I told him to call me and I had previously given him ... (1270 words)

Why am I offended when women talk about sex with no strings attached?

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15 February 2011 (M)

age - I am offended when women say they can get sex whenever they want, or that they have someone, but its only for sex. do I not respect women? Why am i offended.. ive always been faithful in relationships so i guess i dont understand, but three weeks into one relationship, recently ... (143 words)

Do I sound attractive to a high school girl?

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in high school. I have not have to much luck with the girls. I have no problems talking to girls. I am friends with lots of them, are never shy around them, make them laugh alot, and I always act my self in front of them. I tend to hang around more of "bad boy" crowed, by ... (191 words)

Should I just call it quits since the lack of bedroom activity is spilling over into other aspects in our relationship?

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - About 2 years I meet an amazing woman she is both beautiful on the inside and outside. We had a great sex life, it seemed we couldnt keep our hands off each other, we where open to trying nex things, and couldnt get enough of trying to make the other person happy. After about a ... (539 words)

My boyfriend is never there for me or our son...

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15 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Me and mt boyfriend have been dating for 4 1/2 years. We have a beatiful 2 year old son together. Well ever since my son was born he hasn't been there for neither him nor me. It upsets me that he doesn't even call to see how he's doing. I was just wondering if its still worth ... (75 words)

How do I deal with the annoying things my wife does?

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - On this site I just read about a guy whose wife annoys him in just about everything she does. I am in this situation, so I thought a complete change of life style would help my wife and I improve our relationship. We have been married 34 years. So we both investigated moving to ... (262 words)

The foreskin of my penis is so tight. what should I do?

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i m a 22 years old boy. Yesterday for the 1st time i tried to pull my foreskin of my penis. It was a bit tight and the tip of my penis pained for sometime. But as my penis came to its normal shape, the foreskin covered my penis again. I doubt, if i pull my foreskin again, it ... (67 words)

Can a man grow up and become the boyfriend I need?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am wondering people's honest opinion on whether a bad boyfriend can turn around and become a good boyfriend? What would have to happen for this change to occur? I dated my boyfriend for 2+ years, he is 25 (I'm 21), and we broke up a couple times and always ended up getting... (212 words)

Why do people think teenage romances can never grow?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I just want to understand. Why do some people think teenage relationships can never grow till the two in love are old? I know that some teenagers are just dating, going through drama, but you're doing a childish thing setting a stereo-type on all teenagers if you think we ... (270 words)

Guy number 1? Guy number 2?

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! So here's the deal. I'm torn between these two guys. I've known the 1st one for 5 months now, and he's really sweet to me. He says so many nice things about me, he compliments me, sings to me, we can talk about anything and is incredibly smart.(He's a computer ... (349 words)

Nude pics of ex found again after lying about removing them

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15 February 2011 (F) age 41-50 - My current bf has nude pics of his ex. I have stumbled across them before on his computer when trying to find photos I uploaded. I had confronted him on this before because well it made me feel crummy and it seemed as thou he was living in the past because he has various p... (249 words)

I'm not sure if my love for my boyfriend is platonic but I'm supposed to move in with him!

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - iv have been with my boyfriend for 5yrs this year. we have our ups and downs nd recently iv been put off sex. its been this way for a good few months now at this stage, its a real push for me to get started and i come up with every excuse so i dont have to do anything. we only ... (336 words)

I suddenly cannot keep hard and its freaking me out

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15 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my beautiful girlfriend for about 2 months over lying/trust issues. We both had miserable times apart and she called urging me to reconsider (she was the one lying and I was very upset and disappointed with her). We decided to hang out and had a great time and ... (406 words)

How do I deal with multiple tragedies?

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15 February 2011 (F) age - I rarely find any articles on dealing w/multiple tragedies and because of this I often feel SO alone, even though I have a large family that has gone thru alot of the same things. I suffer from chronic debilitating pain and most recently barely survived a housefire that killed ... (262 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me because he thinks I had sex with someone else

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15 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I broken up with my boyfriend. He's thing is that he thinks that I had sex with another guy Friday. He texted me and I didn't reply because I was mad with him. He refused my explanation and terminated the relationship. I really want him back. What should I do, how do I ... (69 words)