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female
age
30-35,
*ella91
writes:Hey im in this sucky situation. Im in a relationship with a guy for 2years6mnths already. And i got to know one of my male classmates 2 years ago and recently 6 months back, we have been close. we have been joking around, having lunch together, almost everything from mon-friday together. People have been mistaken us for bf/gf alot of times but i kept saying that i treat him like a brother. nothing more. my bf knows about his presence and he get jealous of him easily. recently, when i'm on my 8 weeks attachment, where i was posted to do night shift with my friend. I grow to realize that i do treat him more than just a brother. I looked at him in a different way now, more like i care for him. i dont know why, everytime i see him now, my heart race, my palm sweat. i try my very best to avoid him but i failed.i just need to see his face and his smile. thats all matter. now, im confused with my feelings. should i tell him bout my feelings? how bout my bf?what should i do? what if, he really treat me only as a friend? would i be embarrased?
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reader, bella91 +, writes (4 February 2011):
bella91 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks. i hope i can gather some courage to say that to him.
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reader, Mr.Joe  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 You should be honest and open with this guy. He will appreciate you being able to share your feelings with him.this will strengthen your friendship even if he rejects the bf/gf idea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): You should be open and honest with him, he'll appreciate it that you can share everything with him.if he is as good as you say he is he will still be your best friend and you two will be closer even if he rejects the bf/gf relationship.
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