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writes:So i've been really down these past couple of days and can't get this thing out of my head. Me and my boyfriend who i've been dating for 2 and a half years got a in a fight the other night. The next day i had his phone and he didn't know (i had to clean our lockers because exams were over, i didn't want someone stealing his coat) i went threw his phone for something to do after my exam. i found text messages at the bottom from him and this girl, he used to like her before.. i was pretty jealous over her. he was flirting with her a lot while me and him were fighting.. and he even told her he quit smoking, which he would never do. i confronted him about it after the exam and he said he was joking about the smoking thing and he never tried to flirt with her he just hasn't talked to her in a while. i'll admit i am a jealous type and this is really bothering me. She's extremely pretty and i don't know what to do, he's never lied to me before that i know of and he's always been really good to me. i'm in love with him, were an extremely close couple and we do everything together, im always with him, and im scared he might be liking her and just doesn't want to tell me? i dont know if its just me getting to my head or something is really going on... i can't get this off my mind at all. please help me :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2011): Im sorry you are in this situation. There is no clear answer that I can give you but it is possible he may be wanting her over you. Often times when guys have options, they like to explore it. Then again he could be just talking to her as a friend. I really dont know but I think you have the right to be jealous if he means a lot to you. I hope you have better luck than I ever did.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): Hello,
You need to talk with him, tell him that this is bothering you immensely and u need him to be completely honest about what's truly transpiring. If he can't be honest, or if you suspect he has been unfaithful and have concrete proof that he was, then it might be time to move on.
Good luck
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