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Girl living with me could be trying to steal my man. How can I prevent this?

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Question - (2 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *haela13 writes:

Hi everyone, umh, im thirteen and im having a problem. well, accually a few.... and i need some help. Umh, so, i have this "sister" (a girl that lives with me" and shes sorta.... the type that puts out.... probally what 90% of people would consider a whore... and Daddy was about to kick them out when the other girls dad said he had to go to jail for back child support... so i end up crying for hours because this girls ruining my life...

so then my wonderful boyfriend fixes it and makes everythin better, then i find out hes cheating on me... but he dumped the other girl and swore hed never do it again, i i stayed with him. so one day "tessa" me and "nick" are all talkin on the phone, and i let them talk while i change clothes. so after that day, the girl "tessa" steals his number out of my phone, and has made contact with him a few times... which scared me a little ( i have low self confidence and i tend to think im worthless due to past problems in my life) so the girl then adds this boyfriend of mine on facebook. he knows how im afraid of her stealing him from me, but yet he still adds her and all my friends that are prettier than me. so now the girl has a lot of ways to contact him, meaning shes goin to try to steal him(i know from past times) since this boyfriend has a past of cheating a lot im scared hes goin to, but i like him, a lot... so im not really sure what to do because this girl is beautiful to say the least... so far shes got every guy she wanted and i dont see much difference in this one.

i mainly wrote this just so i could get everything together and pour my thoughts out(i keep things bottled up a lot so this is good) and yeah, if anyone has any advice what so ever, or mabe just an up lifting story... or even some advice, it would be highly looked upon. thank you guys for reading even if you have no advice or anything. Thank you all very much.

xoxo. 3

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011):

Honey, if he has a cheating past, dump him. If this girl really is "stealing" him, it's not just her but also your boyfriend. He can do everything in his power to ignore this girl. Go find a man that cares for you and forget about this who're of a girl and your scummy boyfriend.

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