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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I just don't want to end up in a sex-less marriage. Please help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my man for a few years now and we are engaged to be married in a few months time. Recently the sexual part of the relationship seems to be non existent. Its been at least two and a half weeks since we last had sex and we are lucky if we manage once a week, this ... (192 words)

If a girl touches a guy, does it mean she likes him? I'm not sure if this girl likes me or not.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Last year we had a uni meeting at a beach and it had been drizzling. I was cold and didn't expect the weather to be that bad, so I had only worn a t shirt and shorts. While we were walking in a group a girl who hangs around me sometimes threw her hands around my neck and ... (173 words)

I'm 14 and pregnant - what will happen to my child, and the father?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and pregnant and i'm not getting rid of it, but if I don't what will happen to the father of my child?, and would social services take it off me? ... (32 words)

Should I be honest with my boyfriend, and tell him I don't feel I'm good enough to be his girlfriend, or should I keep this to myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts and Uncles. I recently read an article by Tracy McMillan entitled “Why You’re Not Married” at the Huffington Post website. The article got me thinking. The author listed 5 reasons for why a man wouldn’t marry a woman, (let’s say it’s you for instance). 1. You’re... (336 words)

We're in financial trouble and have been offered money for sex, should we do it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently engaged and still studying, which means I don’t have much time to work. Money for us is quite tight between paying for our house and other expenses. My fiance had lunch with a man who we have known for a little while and brought up our financial issues. ... (253 words)

This man falls asleep while texting me, and is always too tired to come see me! Guys, what is going on in this man's head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need a guy’s opinion about this please. Such a long story, but basically, I've liked this guy for 10 years. 2 years ago, he broke up with his long term girlfriend and we got together for about a month because I was moving away for a year. We mostly kept in contact for ... (181 words)

My online friend told me he's not ready to meet me. That's fine, but why is he ignoring my messages and phone calls now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known a guy now for many years over the internet, constantly talking and everything. We arranged to meet, but he pulled out at the last miniute, as he said, "he can't do this; he's not ready." In return, I sent numerous messages telling him not to worry and trying to make ... (156 words)

If I kiss her will that make us official as b/f and g/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am going on a date with the girl I like tomorrow, I want to hold her hand and kiss her, if I do this will it make her think that we are officially going out as bf and gf?... (40 words)

I'm concerned! Am I butting into my boyfriend's life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay so now my boyfriend isn't really talking to me and when we do talk it's for like 1 minute and most of the time we're just standing there until one of us says k got to go bye! and i also want to know if i'll seem untrustworthy if i ask him why he likes me? because he doesn... (131 words)

Please help - past experience of rape prevents me from enjoying sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im a 27 year old women that has a boy friend that is the man of my dreams but when it comes to sex i am so insecure of myself do to past issues of rape. he is a gorgeous man and is 44 years of age he has been popular with many women in porn and yes he has been tested so no ... (136 words)

How do I let go of the married man I care about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I let go of someone I really care about? We never had an affair but we had feelings for each other. He is married and so am I but it will never be.... (35 words)

Birds of a feather flock together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - if someone has horrible friends, does this mean that they are horrible too? this guy i am sort of interested in has told me that his mates are really bad trouble makers and womanisers, he says he does not 'identify with them any more' but the fact that he ever did (and still is ... (116 words)

Is it normal for a girl's voice to crack?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal for a girls voice to crack ? My voice cracks alot and i get made fun of. Could it be from under using it because i rarely talk. Anyway to prevent or stop it?... (37 words)

I need no-contact in order to move on, he agreed then sent me a text!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Was with a guy for five years, engaged and lived together for two of those! He broke it off with me, been split now over seven months. Been a pretty rocky road ever since, talking one minute, not the next. ! He rang a few weeks back in tears, saying everything that had happ... (155 words)

My small boobs are killing my relationships!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I have really big problems with my relationships.. I have very small boobs between size AA and A (not very sure). When I meet a guys who I like, Im scared to let them get close to me. Often guys asking me out and saying that im nice person...but my self-estem is ve... (161 words)

Loss of physical attraction

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Im currently 22 years old and have been trying to date the girl in question on and off for close to 8 years. About 3 months ago we finally got together. Things went amazingly well for the first 2 months. We would constantly be together. I couldn't believe that i was finally ... (512 words)

Is it ok to admire my teacher as much as I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I would firstly like to say, i promise that the love for my teacher isn't relationship love nor sexual love, just admiring love, like one would have for a close friend, or even family. We are both women, my teacher and I, and i think i love her like a second mother. I think a... (154 words)

Should I continue to sleep in the same bed as my soon to be ex wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age - My wife of 25 years notified me several months ago, that she doesnt love me anymore and wants a divorce. We went to marriage counseling for a few months, and she told me yesterday, the counseling hasn't worked, and she still wants to divorce me. We get along fine, and th... (206 words)

He means the world to me. How can I get him to trust me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :-) Right, i shall start from the begining so it makes more sense to you all. (whoever's reading) My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year now, and at the begining of the relationship i was still talking to other boys (just as friends) and he found a... (484 words)

Do breaks work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - He wants to take a break. He's already made plans with a co-worker to find a new place for both of them, which implies signing a lease and agreeing to contribute to another household. I'm 7months preggo and I haven't been the easiest to get along with. However, he has been 'pu... (545 words)

I'm down and depressed over problems that aren't even mine!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So i don't know how to start this really :/ basically, i feel seriously so down and depressed over someone elses problems ... i actually asked a question about this subject a while ago, so please look at that because i go into alot of detail about this guy. But basically,... (300 words)

How can I heighten my sexual experience with my mate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm interested in heightening my sexual experience with my mate. I've done the porn thing with him and while that satisfies my immediate need and his, it doesn't take me where I want to go. I want to be so high on the orgasm that nothing else matters. For instance, I want to ... (99 words)

Couldn't we at least stay friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, a while back this guy added me on Facebook. He graduated the same high school I'm attending, so he's 3 years older than me(I'm 17, he's almost 20). We started talking and he really seemed into me and even told me so. We would Skype often, and when we did it was for hours. ... (221 words)

I can't take the word "no".

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - it's killing me Ive seen this new girl in my univercity and I really like her.I asked her to be my girl friend.she said no at firt but eventually we spoke a nice deal,she said that we can friends .Unfortunatly things gor so bad and she kept saying no the word that I cant' ta... (87 words)

My best friend is telling him I like him..will he go weird on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4986 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so, my best friend is starting to tell the guy i like that i like him. im not so sure if it's such a good thing that he knows. me and him have been friends for like 6 months now, and tell each other everything. will this whole thing make him wierd around me? and what if he ... (62 words)

How do I get back out into the dating field?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex 8 months ago and although i feel like im over him i still dont have my life back, im not going out much and i spend alot of time on chat websites. Im only 19 and i cant believe my life is like this already. i really want to meet someone else and im read... (99 words)

Question about underage relationship laws.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, What are the (United States') laws about underage, illegal relationships? Just a brief overview would be appreciated. Thank you!... (25 words)

I am gay and still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend. Also, I told a crush that I liked him, but he is straight. HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, Let's say my name is WD. I'm in high school at a small, preppy academy, and I'm gay, but I didn't fully come to this realization until the day before Halloween of last year. A guy, let's call him FC, came out to me; we had been flirting a lot (we both flirt wi... (425 words)

What birth control do you use and why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Birth Control... I'm a virgin, have no desire to get BF yet and I am happy to finish living my childhood for the time being as I know when it's gone I'll miss just been young. But i see alot Qs about BC (birth control) and I'm just curious really as to what people general... (143 words)

Why does my partner sleep with my clothing that I accidentally left at his place?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys just a curious question i left a shirt of mine in my partners car for quite some time, and today when i went to his new place, he kept it in his bed under his pillow. would anyone know why he does it? Occasionaly i forget to take things with me home and forget say a... (102 words)

Dear Creepy Ex, Thanks but no thanks.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

24 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Ok so, my ex (not the classiest fellow at the best of times) just sent me a picture of his junk on facebook, with the message, "miss me?". This definitely seals my decision NOT to get back together with him. I thought of replying and kind of calling him on it, but I'm not sure... (110 words)

Should I send him a message apologizing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I joined a dating website a couple of months ago. There is a feature where you can see who's checking you out, and I noticed that this one guy kept showing up. I found him really interesting and attractive, so I messaged him. He was really sweet, but told me that he was seeing ... (315 words)

I love him. but am I missing out on my teenage years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I'm 16, almost 17, and currently in a 6 month relationship with my boyfriend who I absolutley love to pieces. He is the best, he does everything for me and is always there for me. I can be my total self around him all the time. We do have arguements and what not, bu... (147 words)

I can't keep a conversation going!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey. okay, i love my boyfriend an awful lot. we knew each other for ageessss before we started having a proper relationship. my question is when we're together, we run out of things to say. like completely. he's shy, i'm shy but i don't think thats the reason. most of the time ... (123 words)

I'm uncertain about a LDR!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I'm really new to my relationship with my boyfriend... We've known each other for three years now and we became a couple about 9 months ago. My concern is that I'm afraid of letting him go. By that I mean him going off to a different school, miles away from me. Before ... (253 words)

I don't want him in my baby's life, am I right for feeling this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I got this problem, I moved 4 months ago out of the country to study some courses. Before I left I had a guy (we weren't dating), we did sleep together. But just a week or 2 before I moved, he left on a trip for a month and I didn't hear from him till 2 months later. When I ... (408 words)

I have a lump under my armpit...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone I seriously need all possible advices. Lately I've noticed that I have a lump under my armpit. It's the size of a pea...some people told me it could be sweat glands because lately I felt like I was really sweating too much so maybe it's a sweat block which ca... (123 words)

Is it possible to love two women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Can a man really love two women? I'm in love with two women and don't know which to choose, its hard one is my baby's-mother. I'm so confused!... (28 words)

How do I make the transition from boyfriend to friend? I don't want to lose her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, just looking for some advice. Myself and my girlfriend broke up yesterday. We knew that it was on the horizon though, because we are both at university and I am in my final year and will hence be moving away in the summer. She is in her first of three or four ye... (379 words)

I love him but I need to let go, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend asked me for child and I told him I'm not ready for that. He went and got another girl pregnant that he said he was talking to but I assumed they are still together, I confronted both of them on three way for the man to choose he couldn't he cant choose. Now that ... (169 words)

I don't know what to do, his temper really scares me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my man for 7 years now. We love each other but sometimes I wonder if we are right for each other. In the 7 years he has treated me very nice and very bad at times. He does not trust me all because I told a lie when we were 16 years old about my ex ... (1176 words)

Things between us are awkward, is he still interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started talking again to this nice guy that I met almost 2 months ago. Well we both go to the same university and were in the same organization. He pursued me first through online chat. I was surprised since we had never talked before. He gave me his number and then we ... (282 words)

Is flirting online a form of cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years. Our arguments have always been about him flirting with women on Facebook or MySpace. Is that considered cheating if hes flirting online and he tells women he's single? ... (39 words)

I still think of him all the time, how do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this guy. He was my friend's neighbor so I met him through my friend. One day, I had an art project with my friend. Since then, we started hanging out like cycling around the housing area. With a few more people, of course. After a while, he started texting me. And he ... (164 words)

LDR I get very upset when I don't hear from him and send not nice messages!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear agony aunts, I'm really confused about what to do.... I and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 years now. He's 15 years older than me, I'm 21. We are in a LDR, we've had lots of ups and downs in the past but we love each other so much and want to get married. ... (414 words)

It started out promising, what happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My friends and I go to the same bar every weekend. After several months of attending, one of the bartenders and I hit it off. He took my number, started texting every day (non-stop), called, asked me out and things looked promising. We went on a typical, awkward first date, he ... (647 words)

I cant see a way out of this fog so would really appreciate if someone, somewhere can pull me out of it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Cupids :) This is complicated so thank you in advance to those who get to the end! I've been with my boyfriend just over a year now, I am 24, he is 31 and I really should feel lucky to be with him, but instead I am ruining this relationship slowly and painfully from t... (902 words)

How can I get this absurd feeling out of my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4976 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi To everyone, I am a 31 year old male from the UK, I have never had an issue like this before and it is seriously impacting on multiple aspects of my life. Work and social life have suffered due to what I can only put down to anxiety or jealousy, jealousy that I am ashame... (273 words)

Is it more important to have time to spend with people you love than achieve your life goals?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Currently i'm working very hard for my AS levels and i know that my life from now on is going to be very difficult and tiring because, wait for it, i want to be a doctor. I want to go to med school and eventually become a consultant. But even now, without having a stressfu... (166 words)

Once I fell pregnant to him he told me he was already MARRIED!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 yrs. old. I have met a guy last year at a club. After a week of dating, we agreed to have a commitment. At first I agreed to it just for fun then I realized I am falling for him. After 2 months of dating, I found out I am pregnant with his child. When I told him, he said ... (159 words)

He's not into sex as much as I'd maybe like him to be... is his behaviour normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 and my boyfriend is in his mid fourties. At my age I obviously have a bigger sex drive than he does. I want sex pretty much all the time right now. I will also add that I have noticed an increase in my sex drive over the past year. I am the type of woman who would turn ... (316 words)

Is this normal behaviour after a breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - It's now been about 3 week since my ex boyfriend broke up with me. We would talk occasionally through emails or texts the first week it ended but the past 2 weeks I've texted him almost everyday and he hasn't responded to any of my texts. I know I shouldn't be doing this but my ... (136 words)

Secrets...???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so, i'm asking on behalf of my best friend, she has a boyfriend and they're very close. They were friends beforehand and they've been going out for just over a month. Anyway the issue is that he has told her some of his secrets and he's pressuring her to do the same. ... (111 words)

What is my next step with this woman...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure if I am confused or not. I have no experience at all with women, I am 26, the lady I am interested in is 32. She has had 2 relationships, 1 lasted 11 years, the other she says less than 1 year. We do have a very open friendship, we discuss a lot of things. She h... (426 words)

I've been seeing him 2 weeks, what is an appropriate amount to spend for a birthday gift for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have been seeing a guy for just over 2 weeks. Thing is, in those 16 days we have seen each other 11 times. I have never gotten this close with someone this quickly, or seen them this amount. my question is fairly trivial... it is his birthday soon and I have no cl... (97 words)

Am I stupid for wanting to wait for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello. I am in a dielmma and need some advice. I recently connected with my first love through facebook and we got together. It went so well but the problem is now that he is going through a legal nightmare from years ago and is now in jail. He led a rough life when he was ... (189 words)

Crush on my straight female friend, do you think she could feel the same way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who is totally straight girl, her personality attracts me, she's 18 but act in a cute way as 8 yrs old by the way i'm lesbian. Our friendship is unique because she always tease me or bully me, but recently she's been kind to me little by little i mean yeah there ... (102 words)

I have just had a miscarriage and he told me he cant deal with this right now, and wants a break! Should I fight for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with the same guy on and off for two and a half years. Its' a long distance relationship, we live at opposite ends of the country, but we see each other as often as we can. I recently (in the last week) had a miscarraige we didnt know I was pregnant so it came as a ... (216 words)

Does he care more than he is letting on or does he not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age - Hi,I'm hoping out there some of you can help me understand this man i'm seeing better,as he is giving me so many differant signals that i'm not sure what to make of him. we have been having a relationship for many yrs, and he has told me many times that his feelings for me a... (226 words)

Should I tell him my secrets?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My BF and I have been dating for 7 weeks today(2/24/11). And he has decided to tell me all the secrets he has been keeping from me......some of them I'm not very comfortable with but I still love him! Now that he has told me his secrets, I feel a little guilty for keeping ... (134 words)

Husband's friend doesn't seem to like me, but I get on really well with his wife! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Oakie dokie then, I am getting concerned regarding a friendship, it may be a little on the difficult side to explain but here goes: My husband has made frinds with a guy at work about 6 months ago, they get on really well and enjoy a good laugh, lets call this guy Tom (E... (302 words)

When is a platonic friendship not platonic anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When is a platonic friendship not platonic anymore? any signs or actions that you think is like BIG signs? ... (22 words)

Erection variation.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've started to notice that the erections I wake up with are a good bit harder and more rigid than the ones I normally get while masturbating or getting involved with my girlfriend. While the latter variety are TOTALLY fine, there are no functionality issues at all, I wonder ... (134 words)

How to avoid guys who flirt so strongly with zero intentions of being sincere ever?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I'm a person who has not yet found her life partner. I wasn't even in search of one when at 19 yrs of age I came across a guy who kept wooing me for about 5 yrs. When I interacted with any other suitor he detested it but never proposed me either. At the same time he ... (1550 words)

I've found out my husband has been having affairs for years, so many questions..........

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age - Hi I have a few questions i would like your views on so please take the time and reply ty. A little about my situation. Iv been with my h/b for 32 yrs married for 22yrs every 1 thought we were the perfect couple until 3 yrs ago i found out that he was cheating on me with a co... (425 words)

I love him but I feel like I am being used......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my husband in online dating website we were married 5 years and 4 years living together.since, we live together his friend introduce him an online game since then he get really addicted.I thought at first it was okay but then he stopped working and he doesn't care much ... (184 words)

Was he inconsiderate? Or should I not complain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a year (a long distance relationship most of the time - he travels a lot for work and his home is in another town) came over for a weekend. He usually will contribute something towards food and drinks as I do when I visit but this time - not a dime. I had to ... (192 words)

How do I face up to my ex girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I always get the hots for my former girlfriend,but I am afraid to meet her ,so I began to get away from her .for example ,I am annoyed to attend the reunion of my high school classmates just in order not to meet with her . I don't know how I should face up her. Could yo... (71 words)

We have grown apart and want different things......should I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been married for almost two years and we have been together 4 years. we have a daughter together he wants more i dont right NOW. IM 22 hes 38. we dont get along anymore and have different wants and needs! we have grew apart! I dont have a job or money,but been wanting to ... (201 words)

I lost my confidence after my first relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

24 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend used to abuse me and scold me so much that I have lost my confidence completely . Whenever I try talking to girl , my body starts crumbling and I can’t figure out what to say and what not to. I am so low on confidence that I feel if say something she will get... (114 words)

3 months ago I hadn’t looked at another women in 14 years, now all of a sudden we are planning on leaving our respective partners for each other!

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, so this is my story…been married 14 years, have two boys aged 12 and a daughter from wife’s previous relationship aged 20. I thought everything was fine and loved my wife until a couple of months ago, and I am now so confused. I met a girl 2 years younger than me and we h... (766 words)

He said I took advantage of him! What on earth happened here?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need someone to tell me what just happened in the matter of two weeks with one of my best friends. He and I have been close for quite some time we are both 31 and should be well beyond acting like children. The sexual tension was building and I swore I could tell that ... (169 words)

I'm so tired of my selfish man!

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid,I have been trying to put some money into a savings account but I think my partner knows and he will do everything he can to prevent this. He's always been controlling,selfish and sneaky. There's been time in our relationship where he was so downright nasty and ... (420 words)

Am I not a priority for him?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner of 2 years was transferred to work in another city (far from where I live) by his company 2 months ago. Prior to that we were living together and planning to get married. Lately he has been calling less and less. He said he can't afford to call and doesn't have ... (137 words)

Should I contact her again?

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Been pondering about contacting my old crush of 4 years ago again. I hung out everyday with her at lunch hour my senior year. We last spoke was through Facebook last year. I wanted to meet with her and catch up. Unfortunately, she replied a bit late. She explained that she has ... (202 words)

Why did he stop in the middle of sex?!?!

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I had sex the other night for the first time with a new man. It all seemed to be going fine and then he suddenly just stopped. I've never had that happen to me before but it has left me feeling inadequate and paranoid! I had had quite a bit to drink that evening but he h... (108 words)

Too scared to have sex through fear of pregnancy, how can I stop him from wanting to fool around with me?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am only 18 years old, my boyfriend is also 18 years old . we have been in a relationship for 4 months . when we were still in our first month, he always want to kiss me. so i learn how to kiss through him. now , i always like to be kiss by him( i enjoy it) . but know that ... (215 words)

Long Distance Relationship. Help?!

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I,We are 17,we've been together since 2008, We are so in Love with each others, But there are so many problems, that might not make us stay together, for example: I am from Jordan, and hes from a diffrent country .. my parents always say, that they wi... (182 words)

My boyfriend's Mum keeps inviting his Ex round to the house!!!

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now (seeing him for 6) and everything was great at first. Also, I got on well with his Mum. Not long after we got together, his Mum's Grandma died (my boyfriends great grandma) and I missed an important exam to go to the funeral and ... (158 words)

Should I hook up with him again or not?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so my friend and I (not particularly close friends) started hooking up right before break ended. I always have had a tiny crush on him, and one thing led to the other and somehow he started to like me. I left, and he kept in contact with me. He was really nice and... (304 words)

Should I attempt to get my ex back, even though he's married and I was the one who left him?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I left my ex husband/bf (we lived together as husband and wife for 7yrs but we weren't married)for another guy just because I got bored with the relationship. He was totally heartbroken when I left. We were eachother's first true love. I met him when I was 19 and he was 25. I... (567 words)

Masturbation questions....

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I had a question from a different perseptive something which bother me quite often is masturbation harmful and idoing this from 14 years i read lot of things abut it, also i never discussed this with any of girlfreinds ever,never did but is it ok to tell yr... (127 words)

I feel like I'm invisible to my fiance

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, So here is my problem. We have been together for over a year now. We live together and are engaged planning to get married this October. However, I haven't been so happy, have been confused, and stressed out about the plans for the wedding and his overall behavior... (418 words)

I don't feel as desired as his ex

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this great guy for about 7 months now. He is really really sweet and gentle and mature. Before we started to date, we had discussed our pasts.He said his ex looked bad and was really just a cry-baby and would keep fighting with him and lying to him. lying on ... (668 words)

Girlfriend is hiding me from her parents, kids and friends!

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Please can you help me with my problem with my girlfriend. Shes utterly amazing in most respects,and I'm so deeply in lover with her. She says shes in love with me and keeps asking me to remember that what ever happens between us, she will always love me. So that sounds ... (423 words)

Is it possible that this girl is using me to get her work done at university?

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive known this girl in uni for a couple of years. She's the type of girl who would go out to clubs and what have you and prob make out with guys who hit on her if she's interested. I would say her looks are pretty decent, and she always dresses very well when she comes to uni ... (224 words)

I overheard my boyfriend bragging to his friend about using me for sex and then breaking up!!

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everybody I've been crying my eyes out all day because when I was walked into the passway leading to my boyfriend's dorm room I overheard him bragging and giving high fives to his roommate about how he was going to break up with me after he scores so Melissa doesn't find ... (499 words)

I'm 27 and he's 41...Should I go for it?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I know age is "just a number." But I met this guy through a mututal friend and he's 14-years older than me. I told my friend that I found him attractive but that I thought he might be a little too old for me. Anyway, we've started seeing each other for a few weeks and even ... (256 words)

How can I properly thrust myself into the next chapter, without having to stress over what once was?

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'll get right to the point: I hate my teenage self. I went through a semi-private, really weird phase in high school that involved somewhat of a fascination with death and gore. It's over now, but during that time I somewhat shared my thoughts with my parents and a few ... (266 words)

Is it bad to be scared about 1st time sex?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ohkkay im 16 and my boyfriend wants meh too have sex. I have to say i wanna too buhh he will be my first and im really scared too? Is that bad?... (32 words)

Do you think I should add him as a friend on Facebook?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I developed a crush on this guy at school. He's a year older than me and I'm not sure if it would be alright that I add him as a friend on Facebook. The problem is, approximately a year ago, he added a few of my own friends because he thought they were "cute" yet he did not ... (143 words)

Can we fix this? I don't appreciate her lying right to my face

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend ahve been seeing eachother for a little over 6 months now and i recentley caught her in a lie the other night, there has been a huge fight and dsipute with me and a few of her friends regarding one of her friends, she had been saying lies and that i ... (462 words)

I'm a quiet, reserved person who attracts mainly military guys. Why??

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Two questions in one - thought that would be more efficient :) 1.) I'm a quiet person in class; I keep to myself, don't talk much or join in class discussions. But I still get guys interested in me. I'm questioning this because I'm not "hot" or overly beautiful - I would sa... (167 words)

He smokes weed and I really hate it!

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend, we have been together for 4 years, we are really in love together, but the problem is that he smokes weed, and i really hate this thing, I feel that he just shouldn't, i dislike the way he talks to me about weed, and that its something so special in his ... (246 words)

I don't want to be gay!!

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a Baptist Christian guy. I know the Bible prohibits homosexuality, or bisexuality etc. But I feel attracted to mens bodies. It's not like I love men. It's lust. And with girls I'm not attracted to their bodies as much but I love them for who they are. So am I gay? And if I ... (86 words)

Should I keep contact with my emotionally abusive ex?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone please give me advice on whether or not to keep in touch with my ex? We dated for 5 years he is 30 i am 25. Most say it was emotionally abusive from his part(calling me fat, no good, yelling) et but there were good times. He ended the realtionship and came back but ... (349 words)

15 and pregnant need help!

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15, get good grades, live in a good home but am not very close to my parents. i go to a vocational school and take an automotive shop. ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, and we lost our virginity to eachother. the condom didnt work, and i found out im about a month ... (122 words)

He tells me he loves me, but he tells his friend something altogether different

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I went through a rough patch, with multiple breakups. Now, we are back together, and he insists that he loves me and wants to be with me. However, he tells his best friend that he wishes he would have broken up with me the first time "and run the other ... (71 words)

Should I stop this friendship or try dragging along longer and see if it gets better

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This isn’t a relationship as much as something I’m having problems with my best friend who’s a girl. Basically were really good friends. Hers the problem she seems to have completely changed in the course if 1 day and stayed that way for a month now and im somehow sick if the ... (680 words)

Never been kissed: how do I learn what to do?

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! I am 17 years old and I recently just got into my first relationship. I have never been in a relationship before because I was always to focused on my GPA (it's a 4.0). Anyway this girl has some experience which kind of makes me uncomfortable, I told her she's ... (231 words)

Is my friend bi or gay....and interested in me?

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So I think my friend is bi or gay. He always tries to hold my hand and he always puts his arm around me. He hugs me, rubs my back, and touches my face and thighs. Sometimes he will sit on my lap or let me sit on his. At football games, we cuddle together. I have caught him ... (279 words)

Am I in love? How can I know for sure??

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres this guy who I recently met in June of 2011. He is two years older than me, and we started talking and got to know each other and even started hanging out a lot. He is so amazing, and I really think I love him and I tell him I do, and he says he loves me too, but I dont ... (278 words)

Is it normal for your nose to bleed after you have it pierced?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy long time no speak. Uhm i just got my nose pierced a couple of days ago.. and uhm when i got it i got it with a gun.. BUUUTTTT the earring i guess was too small? it kept sinking and d sinking.. i didnt know what to do so i took one of the studs (from the jewelry stor... (157 words)

Did she like me back and was I stupid in how I handled my feelings?

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I had met this girl back last summer at my camp. We were both CITs [Counselors in Training]. I knew I was going to fall for her as soon as I saw her and tried to hold back my feelings as long as I could. I talked to her and while we had little in common as she was more into ... (633 words)

How do I stop thinking about and texting my ex-boyfriend??

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm becoming really obsessed with ex boyfriend. He broke up with me 2 weeks ago and I'm still in love with him. I've texted him almost everyday since we broke up telling him how much I miss him, how I want him back and apologizing for the mean things I said to him when we broke ... (88 words)

Is she just stressed out or is something more serious wrong?

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a long-distance relationship for 3 years. For the past 6 months we have been living long-distance. Two weeks ago I told her that we hadn't been talking or visiting enough. Then, I visit her (we live about 150 miles away) and she is crying. She tells me that "we aren't ... (267 words)

If we start talking again will her feelings for me resurface?

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Do girls feelings for a guy last a long time. So lets say if this girl i was really close with and almost went out with and I knew she really liked at the beging of high school. Then we kinda just stoped talking for no reason. Its not like anything happened we still both really ... (102 words)

I have a demanding job but he compares me to housewives who cook and clean

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24 February 2011 (F) age 41-50 - Hi: I don't know what to do with my relationship. My bf and I have been fighting for months now. I am not sure what is going on but it seems to be a disagreement on both of us on house chores. We both have very demanding jobs; and it is hard for both of us. But, I get the ... (340 words)

Torn between the two

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have two problems there is this guy.i call him kiddy. he is a huuuuugggeee player but idk its just something about him that makes me wan to keep our relationshiup strong. I want to move on but i know i can't . I will regret it and thats something i don't want to do. ... (176 words)

Still casually sleeping with my ex, but he sees us as "just friends"

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do I have no self control when it comes to my ex? We broke up over a year ago and I am still casually sleeping with him. I can't stop thinking about him as I'm deeply in love with him. He on the other hand wants to be single but also has no control with me when it ... (141 words)

Relationship with long time close friend who's always had a crush on me?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hmm I've known a guy let's call him O, for 5 years and he's liked me from the first day we met. I was going out with someone else at the time in a long distance relationship but I did like O, and thought he was someone I would go out with if I was single. Nothing came of ... (528 words)

Teacher student relationship gone bad

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a sophomore in high school this year, and I have a major problem. One day after school I had to make up a AP history test.(My AP teacher is young and good looking) I went to make up the test and I stayed in his room just talking about random things until 5 in the evening. I ... (261 words)

Are these guilt driven texts?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My Ex left me about 5 months ago for another woman. He pretty much moved right out of our place and into hers. We were together 6 years. I did what most shocked dumpees do and attempted to get him back for about 2 weeks or so. Went pretty much NC ever since. He has been te... (230 words)

I have feelings for a former flame, but I can't leave my wife!

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My screen name describes me, i really do feel like an asshole. I married my wife when i was 19 before i joined the military. Before we got married things were great. We only knew each other for 4 months before we married. When i went to bootcamp, she cheated on me and claimed ... (358 words)

What difference would ADHD make to a relationship?

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How would a relationship be...if the guy i like has ADHD? I mean i didn't even know he had it until he told me that was the reason for him forgetting some stuff. I like him and he says he likes me to, but just wants to get to know me better. ... (52 words)

Could it really happen that I might not know about a baby resulting from a one-night stand?

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Over a year and I half ago I had my only one night stand of my life. There was alot to drink, sex with and without a condom, although I never "finished" inside her. I woke up the next morning and felt sick to my stomach with disgust. This was with a girl I knew for a total ... (226 words)

How to approach a girl?

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well there is this girl at school that i like and i dont really know how to approach her. I sat next to her in one of my classes and she did'nt mind it but i was nervous the entire time. i actually couldnt believe i made such a proactive move towards her and i felt imparassed ... (261 words)

Are Love Stories Real???

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24 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - What I want to know is simple really. Are love stories real? Unlike popular belief, Im a teenage boy who doesn't want to get into some girls pants and I don't think about sex all the time like many my age. What I want is someone who can truly make me happy. Taylor swifts song ... (214 words)

I fell for my best friend but he didn't...!

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24 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve known my best friend since I was around 8 we grew up in church. I used to have a little crush on him but when he stopped going to church I lost contact with him and the little crush went away. I later found out that he was in a gang. In his time there it’s like he learned ... (927 words)