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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

HOW do I find the right guy???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice ! :) you see i tend to get used a lot, either that or guys just want no strings attached sex with me. i cant seem to attract guys in the way they want to go out with me or go on a date with me . They just want sex or a thing with me no relationship. I'm not ... (95 words)

What matters?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been around with confusion, what matters to a girl? I've heard size. I've heard Technique. I've heard Stamina. Which one is the one that actually matters, I heard size doesn't matter too much as long as you're around 6 in, Technique I have no clue what thats suppose to ... (67 words)

Too soon to kiss???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm going to the cinema with a girl who I like and who likes me, is it too soon to kiss her or not?... (24 words)

Do you think he thinks I like him more than as a friend!!??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

- Hi, I'm 23 and have been single for a few years now, though I have been on casual dates with a few guys in that time. I have got to know a man whose son I look after at nursery over the last six months. He asked me months ago if he could give me a ride home and ever since t... (435 words)

Has too much time passed for me to tell her how I really feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I was in a very long relationship that ended last December. She started seeing someone else, but then was on again off again (talk of reconciliation, then not) with me until last May when she became official with this guy(despite saying weeks earlier she wasn't over me and was ... (148 words)

Help, what is wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My brother's older mate said I could use his account to ask a question quick just to clarify... I'm 15, gay and out and I find it hard to put myself out there to find a boyfriend since I broke up with my ex. Not sure if this is relevent but our relationship was very st... (162 words)

All I want is to be a husband, I just realistically never see it happening.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Well I'm 20 and Irish, i study physics and play guitar. I've always been single, have never had any sort of a relationship, date, kiss, whatever. Granted, im by no stretch of the imagination attractive, atleast Ive never known anyone to fancy me, and I honestly accept ... (177 words)

Is it okay that he's going swimming with other girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a general question Is it okay for me to feel a bit insecure about my boyfriend going swimming with other girls? Say 5 girls, 3 boys. Im not too sure why im bothered about it seeing as i dont believe anything would happen at all. Just makes me feel a bit weird.... (59 words)

Is he going to pop the question soon???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so here latley i met some of my boyfriend's family and ive been staying with him a lot. we are expecting and we are both 18 but here's what im wanting to know. Every time he tells me he loves me i say it back but then he says he loves me more so then i asked him last night why ... (130 words)

Getting headaches with my new healthy eating regime... is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently started to eat healthy and cut out all the rubbish that I used to eat. I decided this would be the best way for me to lose weight as I have gained quite alot in the past year. I cut out all the coke and fizzy drinks I used to drink aswell as the chocolate and cris... (122 words)

22 years old and still virgin. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I dont know what to do anymore. I feel like I dont fit anymwhere. I just turned 22, and I've never, I mean never had sex or having a girlfriend, what am I doing wrong? It wasn't so important to me before, when I was in highschool. I was a good student, I was trying to keep ... (1079 words)

I don't want to ruin what we have already but I really want to be with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - First of all, I am 16 and male. I fell for my best friend(girl). We have been best friends forever but whenever i am with her now, i love it and when im not, I cant stop thinking about her and sometimes just feel like crap cause i am not with her. We were on vacation together ... (159 words)

How can I regain self confidence so she'll be excited by me like she used to be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been having issues in the bedroom, she's "not sexually excited" by me anymore. We discussed the idea of sleeping with other people on a trial basis to see if we liked it. We both love and trust each other very much and so we decided to do it. That was three ... (146 words)

Will the pain lessen in time, when having sex with my boyfriend???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - A few days I slept with my boyfriend for the first time. We had sex five times throughout the evening and morning. I am not a virgin, but have not had sex in just over a year. (He was a virgin.) My first lover was rather small. But when I lost my virginity I was still in a lot ... (209 words)

Am I in love or just loving?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a girl for a little over three months now. We get along incredibly. We have similar senses of humor, family background, philosophical connections, appreciation of art and music, and are physically a good fit. When I first met her, I didn't see her as a girl ... (377 words)

Should I block him on Facebook and move on...????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

- Hi guys, I really need some advice. I met a guy a couple of months back, we started seeing each other until a couple of weeks ago. He is in the military and based 400 miles away. He did not want to have a long distance relationship as he thought this would be too hard. He even ... (369 words)

Please help... how do I get my life back on track???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I begin, let me apologize in case I sound like a complete baby. My life is nothing but a huge mess lately, and I don't have anyone to talk to about it so I thought I'd turn here for some advice. I guess it all started when I transferred to a new college in a small town. ... (484 words)

Is "our bond" strong enough to last?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I guess this is my "love story" and I want opinions. Ive known this guy for many years like 5 or more and hes my brothers best friend or used to be. Him and I recently started talking and we got extremely close in a matter of days. Ive had a crush on him ever since Ive ... (335 words)

How can I prove to him they were just friends so that he believes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my boyfriend were together for more than 6 months, he was the perfect guy and I know I cant find someone like him anymore. The other day he was looking through some pic on my phone just randomly. but I showed a reaction that he got suspicious, so he looked through all ... (224 words)

Fake Profile...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all.. Last week, I had went against better judgement and "tested" my boyfriend with a fake profile. (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-fell-for-the-the-fake-profile.html) Although he did message back and forth a bit, he didn't fall into my flirting and whe... (513 words)

Can you get over an ex when you haven't found a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex broke up with me two years ago after a 3 month relationship. We meet online (on an interest site not dating) so before we meet in person we'd spoken a lot through chat and on the phone and knew each other quite well. Because of this our relationship was intense and ... (327 words)

We have a beautiful daughter and a nice house, why would he want to put that in jeopardy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My Fiance and I will be together 8 years in May, we have a beautiful daughter who will be 4 in March, we have a house together that we bought 4 years ago. My Fiance recently found an old girlfriend on Facebook and he has be chatting with her for weeks. He never told me when he ... (343 words)

We're toxic in a relationship because of the stuff going on around us. Is it possible to remain friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I started seeing a man a year and a half ago. He was separated but not yet divorced. It was and still is a messy custody battle, and his ex has been diagnosed with personality disorders. This man's life is not stable at all. We have broken up a couple of times, due to st... (305 words)

I am baffled and feel really awful. Anyone have any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Maybe someone out there can help me figure this situation out. I am rather puzzled. Last nite my BF of 2 years and I texted back and forth, the usual hello, etc. Then he sent me a couple of risque pictures of himself. I was super excited about that because he hadn't sent me ... (522 words)

Contraceptive implants

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone, So this question is directed at any woman who has/had a Contraceptive implant. I'm interested in getting one, and have read up a little about them but would like to hear a review from someone who has really had one. Thanks! (Just to note: I am in a health... (122 words)

I feel they are divorced so they should act like it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a man for well over a year, we are both divorced with kids. He still hangs out with his ex to do "family time", they go to dinner, movies all day outings and even sometimes they stay at each others houses. The other day he told me that they are planning on ... (135 words)

He is sooo important to me. Should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so I was in a relationship with my best friend for almost 4 months, in which it was beginning to get pretty serious. about 3 weeks ago we got in a fight because I "flipped out" on him but it was a huge whole misunderstanding.. and from then on we have not been cool. a mutual ... (364 words)

Is this a good way to find out whether your male friend is sexually attracted to you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to be very naive when it comes to guys... I used to think that all of my guy friends genuinely want to be my friend (just friends/platonic one) when they told me,"hey,we are friends"...but once,when a guy friend of mine got drunk(a little bit drunk/tipsy) and we were ... (178 words)

How to get along with boyfriend's little sister?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf we've been together for almost 9 months now. We're both 18 this year. I have met his 22 year-old older sister (lesbian), 10 year-old little sister and his mother. How do I get along with his little sister? One thing for sure is he's really sweet with her little ... (200 words)

How can he go home and not feel guilty after being with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I just wonder why a man doesn't feel bad when he is cheating on his wife? I have been with a married man recently who claims he has no problems in his marriage, but he chooses to sleep with me. I know what some of you will say about me, but my question is about his feelings. ... (127 words)

I'm so confused as to whether he likes me or not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and a few mates went into town a few weeks ago and we met up with someone we knew, but he had a friend that i got on with. We exchanged numbers and we started texting. After a few weeks he asked me if i wanted to meet up, which i did. It went great and pretty much as soon as ... (92 words)

Am I being too jealous or should I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is a photographer. I was looking at his messgaes and one of his collegues messaged him, i looked and it turned out he was flirting with her and offered her sex. I looked through his other messages and he told another girl that he loved her and fancied her. This ... (155 words)

I'm 13 and in love with a sixth former! Should I ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and in love with a 6 form(17) i dont no what to do. he try's to talk to me at school but im to shy to reply or he gets interupted by my friends. im not sure if i should ask him out because im worried about what he will say and my friends say it would be wrong for me to go ... (68 words)

After reading the post, do you think he likes me as a friend or more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I havent been on many dates in my lifetime. Maybe around 3 so far. Never had a boyfriend, only casually 'gotten to know' guys but things didn't work out because they turned out to be people someone they weren't and i ended up getting hurt pretty badly. I'm 18... (768 words)

He drunk dialled me one night. Should I mention it to him or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So this actually happened a couple weeks ago, but it's still on my mind. One of my friends who I went to middle school with drunk dialed me one night (with texts). He really expressed his feelings, and that was the second time he's done that. He did that once before last ... (105 words)

I'm at a loss and stuck between my boyfriend and my future!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 have been with my 28 year old boyfriend for a total of 6 years, (we dated for 3 years, broke up for a year, and have now been back together for almost 3 years). Most of the relationship has been long distance, as I was going to school in a different state. I just fi... (541 words)

Was I her rebound or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I think I was a rebound. Here's my story. I ran into a girl I had met about 15 years ago. This was back in early December. I know her husband as well. So we start talking regularly on our blackberries. Nothing crazy just chat daily. She is telling me that things a... (499 words)

I'm severely depressed about my weight gain and not feeling attractive to my man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok i have a few things to get off my chest and need solid help!!I've been with my man for about 9 months now we are very much in love but recently i have put on a few pounds and I'm starting to feel as if he is less attracted to me we have went from having sex like jack rabbits ... (673 words)

Boyfriend at uni 200 miles away and I rarely see him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend moved to uni, 200 miles from me.. ever since his been down ther ive always asked him to come down or ill go down to him.. its been 5months since he left and in that time ive only seen him twice... ive spoken to him about this and he just says im at work all the ... (169 words)

My boyfriend's signed up to dating sites - please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. A year in, I found he was signed up to a dating-type website, confronted him and he said it was to look at pictures while masturbating. He understood why it upset me and he stopped doing it. A few times since, I did check up on him,... (259 words)

Am I over thinking this or is he not that serious about us and doesn't see any real future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my mid thirties. I am seeing a guy with the past year. He is very reluctant to meet my family(my sister lives up the road) I did meet his family at xmas after alot of fighting on my behalf. On one occassion he was dropping me off at my sisters as my car was there ... (215 words)

He says he feels like him and his current gf, are 'just friends'..what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, so my friend is not feeling his relationship and he came to me for help . he says that he isn't feeling his relationship because it feels like him and his girlfriend are just friends, what does that mean ?... (41 words)

My fiance jokes all the time. He's never serious anymore. How should I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance always jokes. I am a humorous person and I like to joke, but not as much as he does, which is all the time. For example, when I call to say good morning he answers, “and what do you want now?”, and laughs. I know he loves me so much, but he can’t be kidding all the ... (154 words)

My boyfriend's brother plays footsie with me under the table. Is he flirting with me and how serious is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How serious is footsie as a flirtation tool? My boyfriend's older brother keeps trying to play it with me under the table during dinner (and I'm usually sitting next to my boyfriend). Whilst I admit I have feelings for him (albeit, physical ones) I've never intended to act on ... (234 words)

Will she realize and understand how much I cared for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She’s in a relationship with her bf for almost 5 years. Her bf is possessive and controlling. He has slapped her once before, hurt her emotionally, and she has cried many times. She broke up and patched back many times. She started having feelings for me for about a year. She ... (149 words)

Pregant and scared of my dad's reaction...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 10 weeks pregnant and it has just started to sink in after finding out a few weeks ago. My partner in over joyed and i told my mum the other day who is also pleased at becoming a grandmother. However she did say that my dad will be sad and dissapointed to begin with as ... (177 words)

At one point he told me he loved me but now he won't even speak to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - just recently reconnected with a ex that I was deeply in love with. He was in love with me as well but things did not work out and we went out seperate ways. We were Emailing and then he gave me his phone # and this then lead into texting. In the beginning he was all about ... (215 words)

I'm a mature student and I am attracted to my college tutor. He seems interested, but I am confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Help needed please! I am a bit confused by the signals that this man is sending out to me...I have been extremely attracted to someone for about four years, but never told him or really showed it in any way. He is four years older than me and my college tutor (I am a mature ... (1030 words)

Would I look like a loser, if I gave her a bunch of presents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I m in a sort of dilemma. Please help me out. I really like this girl and I proposed to her like 2 times in a period of 1 year. And both times she rejected me saying she had no feelings for me. And yet she still remained friends. Her bday is in like 2 months. And befo... (129 words)

He's 23, I'm 40, we had a fleeting relationship, but now he's suddenly decided he wants space and has taken off!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok in october 2010 I moved into a new neighborhood, directly across the street was a gorgeous younger man. I have been living with someone for 2 1/2 yrs in a "relationship" but he treated me crappy but was helping me pay for college, so I exsisted instead of lived in our ... (315 words)

Is his heart open for me or is his ex still in it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - New relationship - 2 1/2 mos. - background he was in a 17 yr relationship, she broke up with him due to different interest/finding herself. Its been 2 yrs and he still has photos of her on his phone and computer. Seems to me that would remind him of her. He says he's looking ... (136 words)

What should I do.... I am so in to her???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - How do i cope with a girl im so much interested on and the girl is jsut hanging out with me but keep on telling me one thing that she just broke up with his boyfriend and need time to get over her past relationship since January. ... (47 words)

Scared of intimacy and commitment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm scared of intimacy and commitment. Every time I like someone or someone likes me, instead of getting closer to them, which I want to do so much, I push them away. I haven't gone further than dating because I just scared of going to the next step, I've never been able to ... (175 words)

I don't come first with my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - It's me again from (two talking diff.languages). I have too many issues concerning my boyfriend. Besides being lazy to initiate anyth like seeing me or calling. I ve difficulty to trust him. He is v.popular ve many friends spec girls from all levels and ages. Bc of his wrk and ... (448 words)

Has my teacher got feelings towards me? Or is he just being nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've reposted this question to hoping to get more answers I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point thou... (333 words)

If a guys denies his love for you is there a possibility he may start loving later?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i like this guy. we know each other since childhood. but he treats me more like a friend / sister .. he likes me, cares for me etc . . everything a guy can do make a girl feel spl. however, when I confessed that I have feelings for him he said that he only likes me like ... (321 words)

She tells me she loves me, but she hasn't stopped hanging out with this other man! Should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, After three years of being with my girlfriend, things have somewhat fallen apart. Throughout our relationship we have faced challenges, most of them from her children going through that 'rebellious' stage and causing us both a lot of heartache. My girlfriend an... (1156 words)

External genital abnormalities in females

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age - I have recently married a woman who is 50. I have noticed that she is nearly missing all of her labia majora (outer lips of vaginal opening), and other parts that are usually located within the labia majora. Additionally, her clitoris and its hood is extremely small. I had ... (111 words)

She was very promiscous in the past but with me she is boring in the bedroom! What is going on here?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - An interesting quote I found: "You do not need to know too much about her past. Behind the colorful fabrics, that closet has skeletons" I think i need to get this off my chest, I unfortunately don't really have anyone to discuss this with right now. I'll try not to go on... (599 words)

How do I meet someone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

23 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Dear Cupid..... hi, i'm 16, i'm lesbian and i need a girlfriend! How do i meet someone??? i've crushed over loads of girls now, older and younger and i'm feeling really really horny a lot of the time. I touch myself a lot, but i want more now, do real stuff with someone. I get ... (207 words)

How do I know if I have finished puberty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, and I was just wondering, how do I know if I'm done with puberty? I've always looked a lot younger than everyone else, and it's something which I'm quite self conscious about. But for a while I was thought that I was done with puberty, but at the same time, I can't he... (88 words)

I am still attracted to her and enjoy sex, but I don't feel like I love her anymore. Should I break up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically I have been dating this girl for two years now and she's the only girl I have ever dated. She's a great girlfriend but I just feel as if this relationship has ran its course. I may sound horrible but when I'm about to meet up with her to spend time I dread it. I just ... (261 words)

My friend and my boyfriend are messaging each other, should I break up with him or ignore it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My BF and I are totally in love he even asked me to marry him. I told him I would in a few years and we have planned everything out..............Now his parents are a little iffy about him and me dating. Not only b/c of that but b/c he is two years older then. And now my frien... (152 words)

Am I gay or............?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - not sure how to start this, i cant help chatting to men on gay websites when i am away at work for weeks at a time i have had 1 or 2 sexual encounters with the same sex in the past and want to try it again. i do have a girlfriend and i have been married which lasted for 13yrs. ... (88 words)

My ex accuses me of being slutty but I'm not!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I were together for six years. We have two kids together. We are splitting up but can't afford to move out right now so we are currently living in the same house. He is the one who broke up with me but whenever I leave the house (I like to go to the coffee shop ... (164 words)

What can I do to make this situation better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I could use some advice on how to resolve a problem that I have created in my relationship with my boyfriend. You see, he and I have been together for almost 3 years. For 2.5 of them, we have lived together because in order for us to continue the relationship, it was necessary ... (835 words)

How do I get taken seriously in social and professional situations?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get taken seriously in social and professional situations? I am 33 years old, though I look younger than I am. Recently something has been bothering me. I have always been a good listener, and people tend to open up to me. However, this has led to a situation wher... (359 words)

I really like him and don't want to give up on him, but he is 300 miles away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

23 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I know that you always hear people say the long distance relationships dont work but ive met a boy that is perfect for me but he lives in ireland, we met on saturday night on chatroulette(i know) and we havent stopped talking since, last night was the first night where we didnt ... (211 words)

Why doesn't sex mean anything anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Nobody seems to believe in waiting for that one special person anymore. As a society we have come to expect sex all the time, and people don't care if it's with someone they truly care about or not, all they really want is thrills and excitement. You would think that schools, ... (234 words)

The girl I want is not interested, but the girl who I don't love is begging me to be in a relationship with her! Help!

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - pls advise me the girl i wanna date is not showing she loves me but the one i dont love is begging me to go into relationship with her! pls am afraid sumbody help... (34 words)

How do I tell my younger friend I am not interested in him?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with a junior for a month or so and he's a year younger than me. Recently he told my classmate he likes me and if I ever accepted him I'd be his first girlfriend. But the thing that bugs me is the age gap. While one year might not be a big difference, I feel ... (137 words)

Questions about sex......

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for just over four months and we've just lost our virginity to each other. It was awesome and totally unlike how I was expecting, but I have two questions about it. Firstly, after each time we've had sex I've been really sore. For example, we had ... (205 words)

He is cheating on me with a woman online, but still wants to be with me and have me doing all his chores!

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23 February 2011 (F)

age - my fiance has been online cheating for at at least a month with some woman in another country they have shared i love you and he said she is special and listens where I supposedly failed to do and he says all I ever thought of was myself, i cooked cleaned did his laundry he ... (500 words)

I really love him but want to be strong and move on!

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23 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hello world. Beforehand, I would like to take the time to acknowledge any future responses - it means the world to me and I am forever grateful. I don't which way to put it but I am in deep distress over many aspects of this situation. I met this boy when I was in third gra... (748 words)

How do I last longer?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, My problem is somewhat universal... I started masturbating since I was 14 without knowing of what I was doing. But its been late till I knew what it was and it became an addiction to me and I could not help doing it. Now I am 23 and am still doing this now and then....... (110 words)

What can I do to solve my emotional problems, and why do girls seem to dislike me?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 going on 21 male living Indiana. I have a problem, ive never had a relationship really. I have had 2 girlfriends but they were just toying with me, and all it did was make me feel bad. Im attending a commumity college, and have been for two years. Yet it seems n... (301 words)

Why am I bleeding after sex?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - everytime lately when i have sex i bleed what is the problem?... (12 words)

Should I be suspicious she suddenly knows different sex positions?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - After 4 years of hardly any sex, because my girlfriend wasnt into sex, she suddenly wants more sex and is using positions I never knew she knew. When we had sex before, she would only let me do doggy or missionary. We talked about different positions but she just wasnt ... (98 words)

Going out with him is so complicated!

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my boyfriend and he loves me but going out with him is so complicated. what makes it worse is that i work with him so i dont want it to end badly because i love talking to him and hes impossible to avoid at work i work with him on the same days same time and we have to ... (159 words)

Boyfriend's kids caused me trouble with neighbour but I am afraid to speak out.

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I live alone.My boyfriend and his 2 children came to visit at the weekend. Apparently they vandalised and damaged my neighbour's garden and wrote on his walls. He claims to have a witness to this behaviour. I am probably going to have to pay him damages. I don't know how to ... (94 words)

I don't regret having sex but feel that I should regret it

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im 19 and i've had sex with my boyfried and and dont regret it but i feel i should regret it. he was my first and we've only been together for like a month officially but have been dating for like 5 months. am i just reading too much into this. i wish i could talk to my mum a... (73 words)

Are men and women really that different in terms of our sexuality?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Perhaps I'm wrong, but it seems to me there's a tendancy these days to want to think that men and women are identical, or close to it, in most or all respects. As an (obviously unscientific) experiment, I created both a fake male profile and a fake female profile on an ad... (628 words)

18 & pregnant: I'm scared of being alone, but I don't think this relationship can be fixed either.....

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my fiance' for over two years now and we just found out were having a baby.we have been on and off for uite some time and i think its because i don't want to loose what we had when we actually had it.... everythin that goes wrong is my fault and i don;lt know ... (180 words)

Is is ok for a married woman to have a platonic relationship with a man?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i am happily married woman and would like to know if wanting a platonic friendship with a male friend ive known for 27 years is ok?... (27 words)

My girlfriend doesn't care about me either way. why?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my girlfriend with my ex two years ago and she took it hard. It was a bad move because once I started going out with my ex again I realized that it was my girlfriend that I loved and not her. So i went bck to my girlfriend but she didn't want nothing to do with me ... (197 words)

6 months pregnant, 16 and boyfriend treating me badly

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - well i am 16 years old. and i am now 6 months pregnant with a son of my boyfriend for 3 years. he wanted me to get an abortion but i couldn't bring myself to do it. he kind of got used to the idea or so i thought. now he is treating me like shit by insulting me calling me names ... (122 words)

Almost 20 and still having trouble with relationships, is this abnormal?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost 20 years old and I still have trouble with relationships. All through highschool I wanted to date but for some reason it never worked out! I drive myself nuts over this because the older I get I feel like I should be out more and having fun. It's tuff, who out ... (63 words)

How do you meet people when you're new in a city?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago, my ex and I broke up. I'm in the process of moving to a new city, and I'm ready to get back into dating. My question is, how do you meet people when you're new in a city? I used to be shy, but I think I've become really confident in myself over the last year. ... (137 words)

A man trying to love a once abused woman......

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is 20yrs old and she just recently got out of a physcially abusive relationship about 1yr ago. How do I get her to understand that I love her and would nevet hurt her the way she has been hurt by her ex. I also dont wanna have to keep paying for the mistakes he ... (93 words)

How can I stop being restless?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a love or relationship question, but I hope you will help me nevertheless. My problem is that I'm very restless in class. I'm always moving; whether it's crossing my legs, playing with my hair, resting my head on my hand, just all and any movement. I'm very aware of... (148 words)

Why did my ex add me on Facebook?

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23 February 2011 (?) age 51-59 - My ex and I have been separated..he added me on facebook accepted as I was saying thanks for the add he went offline...then I noticed he came back on and then off....like he was creeping me..to see if i was on....well...i know our separation has not been an easy one...he ... (110 words)

Do female stimulating gels work?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - we are planning a sex getaway and would like to know if anyone has used female stimulating gels and if they work. I would like to have a good time but mostly have her have the time of her life in bed. please help...... (44 words)

Money over love?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Do all men value money over love? ... (7 words)

My ex girlfriend's ex husband wants to date me, and I like him too. How should we go about this?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so right to it. My ex gf's ex husband is interested in dating me and I want to date him. Him and her have 3 children and he's a good father. He sees his children almost everyday and her also because the children live with her. How should we go about this? My ex gf doesn't ... (117 words)

Is my brother in danger? He is dating an older married woman and I think he is out of his depth.....

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is my brother in danger? He is 21 and in a relationship with a woman who my family think is about 39. My family who are very different in opinion on other things in life diverse all agreethat they are very concerned about this but dont know what to do. I have been living ... (156 words)

Is it abnormal to be extremely jealous of my boyfriend's guy friends?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is, is it abnormal to be extremely jealous of my boyfriend's guy friends? I get highly annoyed when my boyfriend talks about how he "bro'ed out" with some guys. He sometimes tells me he needs a guy friend to just relieve stress. I'm assuming he means the stress that ... (170 words)

Why is my married lover cooling off?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have had this "friends with benefits" for 4years now but he has been moving the relationship forward on an honest level the last year and a half too top that off i was pregnant 3 times the last pregnancy he seemed upset i didnt go through with the pregnancy... discerning as i ... (232 words)

I want my mistress to go away. I'm NOT leaving my husband!

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23 February 2011 (F)

age - Hi Aunts, I'm in a quandary. I'm married and I've been having an affair with a female coworker for the past 3.5 years. I promised her that I'd leave my husband for her this June after my youngest child graduates from high school. How do I gently let her down and tell her that ... (158 words)

I never expected my fiance to break up with me!

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I came home from the dentist to find my fiance had packed all his things. When I got out of the car he broke up with me right out of the blue. We had been having problems getting along ever since we moved in together. After he told me it was over, of course I cryed and ... (100 words)

I want a threesome! How do I convince her to do so?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - How can I entice my girl into having a threesome with me and another girl?... (15 words)

Can you have a threesome without sex?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend stated to me that she had a threesome in the past but didn't have intercourse with the guys. She I believe that? Also should I believe that she didn't perform oral sex on them either? ... (39 words)

I'm hopelessly in love with an alcoholic

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My heart is so heavy with guilt. I love an alchohlic he is more rotten the older he gets. Such a waist of life. I can't help him, and so deeply want to. I need help, I quit on him for the saftey of my children and me. But it just doesn't seem real. Why?... (61 words)

Should I ask her to take me back?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - back in the beginning of the school year, i liked this girl. she was really sweet and seemed innocent and she's really hot - she could be a model. honestly one of the most gorgeous girls ive ever met. but she wasnt interested in me then. but a couple months later, she finally ... (503 words)

I give her $5000.00 2 days later she splits! How do I get my money back?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age - I thought I knew her for 5 years! We were together for that amount of time. She (aged 50) asked me for 5 thousand dollars. I gave it to her. 2 days later she split. Does the timing of the two events sound that she had every intention to 'screw' me when she took the ... (154 words)

Would you hide a pregnancy?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - if you are in your mid twenties, would you hide a pregnacy? ... (12 words)

Was I wrong to tell him we should continue hanging out as friends?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy through some mutual friends at a house party 4 months ago, and he had just gotten out of a 2 year relationship a few weeks prior. The breakup was "straight forward" so to speak - no unresolved feelings and he did not want her back. Needless to say, he moved on ... (477 words)

If he loves me the way he says, why would he want to watch me have sex with another man considering the past?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating 6 months. Things have been great until he told me two days ago he wants to watch me have sex with another man, stating it is so hot when he thinks about it. He even had a dream about it and he said it was such a turn on. While I didn’t say ... (181 words)

I'm a girl trapped in a man's body

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a girl trapped in a man's body. I can say I'm a bisexual. 10 months ago, i saw this girl in our review for engineering licensure exam. i admire her so much. she's so pretty. i have a huge crush on her. i found out that she's in a relationship with a girl. so we're both ... (180 words)

Should I remind her how I feel for her?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm sorry if there won't be as much detail as you may need but I'm gonna say as much as I can, I'm 17 year old guy, I've never been in a relationship before even though I hang out with alot of girls at the college I go to, and at the moment there is this one girl whos the ... (158 words)

After hearing about my past he doesn't think he can touch me again

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi!I'm in a relationship for a year now and I've told him things about my past that maybe I shouldn't tell him. But I don't take him as a fool coz he deserved better specially if there's talk about the future. I won't say I have a good past but few that I'm not really proud of. ... (194 words)

Which one, which one?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this guy who just recently started to talk to me. I know him and used to go to school with him. He sent a Facebook message saying he missed me. I really like him but i have a boyfriend (who i never see) i love them both. Who should i pick?... (53 words)

He cheated on me so now I'm paranoid about his friend!

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little under a year. About four months into it, he cheated on me. I gave him another chance for a couple reasons- he has an alcoholic mom and i know that can affect relationships, and he came out and told me. Anyway, I need to know if I'm ... (247 words)

Does she like me or not? Is she just playing hard to get?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, So theres this girl i like, and i can't keep her out of my mind, shes basically in my eyes perfect for what i like in a girl. i've had a long 2 and a half year relationship which totally broke my heart and any girl i've met since has been a complete psychopath. i do... (539 words)

How do I keep my LD boyfriend interested in me?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid, I need some advice...i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. (before i start i dont want any comments about our age and the fact im only 14 and about the distance. I get it a lot, i just need help) well anyway......my boyfriend and i have been dating for five months a... (129 words)

Pregnant by narcissistic ex, he doesn't know...but should he?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I will try to keep this as short as possible. My ex has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (he was never diagnosed, but I've read about it and I'm positive that's his problem). He has abused me in every way possible - emotionally (that was the worst of them all), physi... (523 words)

We are not together anymore but he still lives with me and people assume we are still a couple!

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I really hope someone out there can help me,I really do.I'm in my 30's and my 'partner' is 17 years older than me.We have 4 kids together,and I'm pregnant also.I wanted another child really badly,and needed help to conceive,so when I discovered I was finally pregnant,both me ... (478 words)

Boyfriend is not responding to my texts

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i been texting my boyfriend and he is not texting me back and i am not sure what to do ? any advice...this hashappened before...i love my boyfriend lotz..... (29 words)

If he doesn't want a relationship then why is he going on dates?

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I met this guy about 6 months ago, we are really close friends, he has helped me through so much and I've been there for him whenever he needs help. But lately I've really fallin for him. I've told him my feelings and he's said to me that he wasn't looking for a re... (357 words)

Shes not a virgin but now wants to wait to be married before having sex

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23 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am a virgin man dating a non virgin women. She has had a couple past previous sex experiences and well yeah I haven't. Anyways, she and I have been dating for about 8 months now and I want to have sex with her because I love her. However, she told me at the ... (809 words)

Husband blocked me on facebook because he was talking to another woman about having sex!

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23 February 2011 (F)

age - I have been married for 10 years. I thought all was great, until I got a facebook acct. I wanted to put all my info in there, but to my surprise, I couldnt list my husband, because he has me blocked. When I confronted him he said he did it a while back, when I asked him why ... (186 words)

Girlfriend's ex wants to go on vacation with her and their kids!

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23 February 2011 (M)

age - My girlfriend has kids with her ex boyfreind. They have been separated for 3 years and have never taken a vacation together. He wants to go with her out of state when she goes on a trip with her kids. I say he shouldn't go. She says he sould be able to go. Who is right. The ... (64 words)

Am I an accessory to cheating?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i feel disgusted with myself but, ok my bestfriend [guy] likes this girl, and he asked her out last week and she answered today and said yes, and i did not know this and he tells me he wants his first kiss with me, so im like aww not knowing he is dating her. and so after ... (152 words)

Boyfriend having a baby with his ex but says he loves me. Can I trust him?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is having a baby with his ex but he says im the one he loves should i trust him? My boyfriend and i have been together about 5 month but a few months ago he told me he just found out hes ex is having a baby, his baby...shes 7 month but he says that im the one ... (152 words)

If I backhanded a guy is it obvious that I like him?

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23 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If I slap a guy I like is it obvious if I like him(Joe)? I back handed Joe across the face for breaking my heart by asking me out and not doing anything about it Now his friend (Rick) which is one of my bgf's likes me but I don't have any feelings for Rich. NOw Joe is always ... (125 words)