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writes:This guy in my class, we used to joke around and actually talk to each other. Then out of the blue, suddenly, he started being more distant. Like, back then, if we were put together it'd be fun. We'd talk and everything. Now, it's like he completely ignores me and it feels awkward. I feel like he's replaced our friendship with my friend's. Now he's joking with her and is completely awkward around me. I don't get why he would do this. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, you guys were helpful. I considered talking to him, and I realized I didn't have anything to lose. It's not like he'll matter when I get to college. And I guess I forgot to mention, she (my friend) has a boyfriend and everyone knows that. They've been together for almost a year, so I don't think he'd try to get with her. Unless he's crazy O.O
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reader, dollface1  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 Ok as for as I can see, I think that He might have grown feelings for you and doesn't feel comfortable being around you, or you said something that annoyed him or his into your friend and is trying to get with her.
Only thing to do is confront him and tell him how you feel. pull him aside and ask him, and don't be scared you won't die. if his got issues carry on with your life don't let your life rotate around him, when his ready or if he truelly values your friendship he will come back to you, because your friend is not you and will never have the same personality.
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