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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I go back with my girlfriend?

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5 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hello everyone and thank you for taking the time to read my question. sorry if it is lengthy. I met this girl through a mutual friend and started dating her. I am 29 years old now and I had not been in a serious relationship for about 10 years. my last relationship was a ... (853 words)

She said she loved me. how was she able to move on so soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So my ex and I have been broken up for a few months now. And the breakup has been really hard for me because I loved her very very much. When we broke up she stated her reasons for the breakup was that we were different people. This issue never popped out throughout the year ... (236 words)

In Love With Potential Step Sister

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I'm 19 and my mums boyfriends daughter is 17, for the last 6 months I've been sleeping with her every week and we've fallen in love, she stays over at my house every Saturday night, my mum and her boyfriend go out every sunday early morning till late afternoon w... (243 words)

Trouble having sex! I don't want him to quit trying!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been trying to have sex with my boyfriend a few times know but everytime we do he cant seem to get is penis inside me, he says I am quite tight but ive had sex in the past before with my ex boyfriend and he managed to get inside me all the time. what can be the problem a... (80 words)

I have dreams where I get the hottest guy..but it doesn't happen in real life

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel very insecure about my body, i always have. my friends are beautiful and skinny, meaning they get guys and attention. i dont want to look pathetic, but i just always feel less then them. i have these dreams where i get the hottest guy and im the beautiful skinny girl, ... (57 words)

I want to have sex with another woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age - i would like to know what it is like to have sex with another women i,m always thinking i would like to try it but how do i go about this please help ?... (34 words)

If he doesn't want anything to do with me why is he texting me silly messages?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) - im womndering if someone can help me i was seeing this guy and we was together for nearly 2 years at first it was great and nothing would get in our way untill he moved in then there was problems everytime something happened he went home again to his mums and we sorted it ... (163 words)

I'm scared to have a baby !

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm about 4 months pregnant I'm scared to have a kid and I'm 18 years old ! My boyfriend is 17 I don't think were ready to have a baby. I told my ex-boyfriend and he got mad and he yelled at me and hit me. My cousin told me it's nothing to worry about and he's got two kids and ... (68 words)

I just don't know what to do any more and it hurts.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (?) age 36-40 - How do you move on once and for all? I've liked this guy for over 2 years, we've slept together a few times in the past. He lives quite a few hours away and a relationship probably wouldn't have worked so i sort of just had to accept that. He's in a relationship now w... (328 words)

How to tell work colleague I'm interested...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy at work who I really like and talk to all the time. I'd quite like to tell him that im interested but am not too sure how to go about it/what words to use because I really enjoy this persons company and don't want to jeopardise any friendship we have because i ... (98 words)

Why can't I just trust him that he isn't looking at porn?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my current boyfriend for almost a year now (anniversary is in a few days). It is in fact a long distance relationship, but we meet often. Anyway, I've always had this issue about him watching porn. Except this is a little different, I know he doesn't. When I ... (401 words)

I'm 18 and finding 16 year old ladies very attractive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old. im loving being 18. im drinking on weekends and love seeing the ladies. but recently ive been attracted to 16 and 17 year olds. im becoming obbsessive with 16 year olds especially. my step brother, 16, sometimes brings his friends around and i cant stop ogling ... (59 words)

What positions give ladies the deepest penetration?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This question is for the ladies. What positions do you feel the deepest penetration from?... And also I've always been curious, I always hear that in the doggy position that a mans member feels larger, my question is how much larger does it feel? Thanks for the response... (67 words)

Separated for 3 years but still sleeping together and hes got a girlfriend!

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and childrens dad have been seperated 3yrs and a bit and we still sleep together. He has a girlfriend tht he says he's not happy with! He hardly sees her b/c a lot of his time is spent with me and the children at their football trainin and weekends I'll chill out at his with ... (75 words)

Turning a FWB relationship into more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and a friend have been having some 'no strings fun' for several weeks now. He recently came round to mine tipsy and told me his true feelings, I can't remember everything he said but he told me he could no longer keep walking away from me like this, that he never falls for ... (388 words)

Can casual relationship turn into something else?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey you all. Hope you're having a lovely saturday night. I have a problem here with this boy that I really like and I want to know what others think about this.. I started seeing this guy a while ago. Got on really well. had a wonderful time. But he wants CASUAL relati... (144 words)

I lost my virginity to him and he doesn't remember a thing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy I have been really interested in for a while, who I wasn't completely sure if he felt the same about me. That is, until last night-I think. He and I were hanging out as friends do, and whilst drinking a bit at a bar, he basically caught on that I was flirting ... (199 words)

Is it a waste of time to go after someone who isn't over their ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5006 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like people's opinions on dating this guy. He's 23, was in a serious relationship for two years. She dumped him and for at least six months he was miserable and still wanted her. They got back together for about two months but then she went back to college. They kept ... (119 words)

Is this guy full of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some help. I just have a bad feeling about a guy I have been seeing for 3 months. When we first me we hung out 3-4 nights a week and some weekends. But even back then the weekends were hard to come by. If i text him on a sat he takes hours to respond or will text ... (298 words)

He wanted a break, I lied said I was pregnant, and things haven't been the same since!

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, I need your advice, I met this guy about four years ago and he was my first real love, he came to my life in a periode when I needed him the most, he became all my life and he loved me too, we had a perfect time toghether for about a year when he told me out of nowhere ... (164 words)

I don't know whether he has broken up with me or not?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - heeey , it's me jenny , i had a great relationship for 6 moths ,but a month ago we had a fight that i couldn't handle so it turned to be a big one ,the reason was that i was kinda suspicious ,coz he still log in on the dating website that we knew each other through ,but to be ... (183 words)

Boyfriend's sexual desire went downhill?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - is it possible that my bf sexual desire went down hill..? he jokes that after 30 men's libido goes down hill..i dont believe that. we been together for 8 months..we only see each other on sat and sunday nights..he works 2 jobs...when we have sex its amazing..but he seems ok if ... (140 words)

He wants to travel the world, why can't we stay together while he does so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (?) age 36-40 - Hi there Well basically I am a complete mess and the moment and don't really know what to do with myself. Basically, my boyfriend of 5 and a half years broke up with me on Sunday. Before this, a few days into Jan, we nearly broke up, as he said he felt that I wasn't affec... (1076 words)

I want back my married lover even though he cheated with another married woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (F) age 51-59 - I am a married woman who fell in love with amarried man who I found out was seeing another married woman and still is. When I found out I confronted him and he got upset and no longer speaks to me but he is still sleeping with her. I still love him and want him back. He was my ... (92 words)

My husband suffers from chronic liver cirrhosis and yet has the nerve to have a mistress...

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hiii, i m married for 10yrs nd have a 9yr old child. we had a love marraige after dating for8 yrs. last jan '2010 my hubby was diagnosed with early liver cirrhosis with grade -1 varices. after dat he quit drinking 4 about 3-4 months and was back to alcohol after dat. since june ... (338 words)

Do I tell my dad I know that he is cheating on my mom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys!! I came across this site when i googled for help, been browsing through and the answers here all seem really helpful, so here goes: Approximately 6 months ago, I found out that my dad was cheating on my mum, togther with his ex-secretary who's about half his age wtf... (663 words)

We're friends but he treats me like a girlfriend, yet there's no "relationship"...

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I meet a guy nearly a year ago and we started dating and we got on really well, he would always want to be my "boyfriend" but i got scared, but when i realised i wanted that he backed right off. So we became friends and we both dated other people, he had a relationship, but ... (251 words)

Do I give her second chance and give her the benefit of the doubt because she is so confused or do I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So it's been 1 month since me and my girlfriend broke up, we went out for 3 years, but one of the main reason we broke up was because of all the stupid fights which tore us apart. Near the end of the relationship she lied to me about going to a party and she said she didn't ... (482 words)

My best mate has no space for me in his life anymore...

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5 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, I hope there is someone who can make sense of my situation. Basically me and my best mate have been close for 7 years. He went to university 3 years ago and at the start he hated it. I was there for him all the way; I was his support for the 1st and 2nd years of... (419 words)

Shall I tell the girl whom I love that I saw her boyfriend in town with another girl or just sit on the side and watch?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently upset a girl that I love a lot (she knows it) by saying her current boyfriend is using her. I said that to her because I care about her and put her at the top priority. I heard about that by coincidence, so I have no evidence to prove it. As a result,She ignor... (157 words)

Will my morals go out the window?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, can someone help me figure out who i am? im 18 and a virgin, the only guys ive kissed are ones ive got with while clubbing (too many to count) the problem is im going off to uni in september, and im not sure what ill end up doing. like even though im a virgin, i think ... (178 words)

I still love my ex wife very much but she wants to move on

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5 February 2011 (M)

age - I was just recently divorced from my lifelong friend of 20 years (15 married). We were both at fault, but me moreso. We have been separated a year, and I have not lived with her for about a year. She is moving on, dating 2 guys and on Match.com. I have a partner, but am ... (216 words)

How do you become a trophy wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What do you do to become a trophy wife? Is it just about looks? Or is it if your a wonderfull wife and mom? Thanks for your time.... (28 words)

I think I may have a crush, but thats normal in high school, isn't it?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hii guys if you could hep me I'd be grateful :) Alright i'm 14 almost 15. I play football on the school team for u15 and u16. We get coached by this really really nice PE teacher, don't get me wrong he's not bad looking at all. Since he's started coaching us over a perio... (392 words)

I broke it off. Yet we still work together. Has anyone been in the same situation? How did you survive it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have broken it off with my boyfriend of two and a half years. I love him very very much and we have tried and tried but I felt I had to end it because we can't seem to make each other happy any more and I am just so exhausted I really have nothing left to give. But I really... (542 words)

Does his ex still mean something positive to him? Or does he just not want to see her again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with this guy for a year now, when we first got together he admitted to having sex with his ex but he said he only did it once and that she made him do it etc. he was only 16 at the time and she was around 14. Eventually he admitted to actually having sex with her... (432 words)

Is race an issue here? It's only recently that our relationship started.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i live in a multicultural country and have never been attracted to guys from my own race(asian). so recently i started dating this white guy, he says he is crazy about me, but always avoids being out in public with me, or introducing me to his parents. he hasn't told any of ... (137 words)

He broke up with me, but has now put new photos of me on FB. What does he want from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We were together for 2 yrs. Broke up 2 weeks ago as he was stressed with Uni and isn't doing well. He's 27 and I'm 23. We have not spoken at all since. By the looks of things on his facebook he seems to be moving on by always saying he's going out and commenting his mates ... (208 words)

Madly in love with him, but he has a girlfriend! what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i am seeing this guy who really seemed to be the one i really wanted my whole life , actually im 20 but ive been through a really hard time fixing my broken heart ,so .. right in the moment that i was thinking how lucky i am and how exciting he is , i found out he's got a gf ... (152 words)

Met a nice guy, should I text now or when I'm ready to meet up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy in a pub last night . We got talking and at the end of the night, we swapped numbers. I text him telling him that i enjoyed it, and that i hoped to see him again, and he text me back saying he would like to see me again and said he thought i was stunning. i ... (237 words)

He said I didn't make him happy. How do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i've been in a relationship , for five years,we had some issues but i tried doing my best everyday ,so the relation would go on .i did every thing he wants ,but i was never happy because i never got the feeling that he cares as much as i did ,, and then one day ,we had a st... (216 words)

Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I started a relationship a little over 6 months ago after being single 5 years. I am older and our relationship is long distant (245 miles) but I have made the trek 13 weeks in a row myself and sometimes I really couldn't afford to but I did out of love and care. Now it se... (244 words)

How can I tell someone I love him, when he's getting married in two months?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm kinda at the end of my tether with something... how can I tell someone I love him, when he's getting married in two months? Or should I? But what can I do? Nothing has happened between us. I'm trying so hard to keep things platonic. I really want him in my life, if o... (303 words)

My husband's child and the mother from a past relationship are back in our lives...the child stays with us every weekend, and my life is pretty much over!

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age - Two years ago I got married for the second time. My husband has a child from a previous relationship and all the time we have been married and for all the time the child has been born the mother and the child have lived in the US. The child who is six came over twice a year and ... (243 words)

I am friendless. None of them got me presents for my 18th.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, this seems immature but i want to ask anyway. ive moved schools but still keep in good touch with the freinds from my old school, (which i left over a year ago. in my new school i have no friends, i dont know why, i guess i just dont really belong in the school. i thought ... (206 words)

I've lost my best friend, was it meant to be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Well I've gone and lost my best friend all because I was drunk and was talking about her in a negative fashion on messenger at her house no less. So when she turned her computer back on the whole conversation popped up. How stupid of me to even talk about my friend in that ... (393 words)

Is he serious about me? Or does he just want to get laid?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy on and off... It all started off when we ended up kissing on his birthday (we were best friends)...and the kiss was so good that we ended up getting frisky a couple of times after that. I fell for him...and even told him but he wasn't sure...an... (225 words)

I still love my husband. Can he force the issue, divorce me and force a sale of our jointly owned home?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband wants to leave me as he says he no longer loves me. I still love him very much and want our marriage to work. He says he has tried but can't. Can I be forced to sell our jointly owned home if he wants to walk away? I have done nothing wrong. We have no mort... (67 words)

I get a nosebleed every time I'm near my ex!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I split from my boyfriend of nearly 15 months about 2 and a half months ago, and I'm still not over him. Now whenever I'm near him, I get a nosebleed. Could the stress of seeing him be causing this?... (42 words)

How can I last longer without a condom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, so this is starting to get very frustrating for me and i would imagine so in with my girlfriend. When ever we have sex without the use of condoms seems as though i can not last nearly as long as i can with the use of a condom. Its due to the head on my penis being so ... (78 words)

What is wrong with asking someone out for a coffee?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - It's me again...The guy who is all stuffed up in the head. Some people have told me in the past that I make inappropriate sexual comments. They say it's part of Aspergers Syndrome. But my question is...Why do people get so touchy about inapropriate sexual remarks? I on... (106 words)

My boyfriend is a compulsive liar and its getting very difficult to deal with him now...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are there so many lies? my boyfriend is a compulsive liar. he makes up stupid little lies about everything like whos house hes at who hes with, if hes working late or not. i mean i would find out the truth and wonder why he even lied in the first place. it wasnt like he did ... (527 words)

He didnt talk to me for a month - what does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i had been talking to this guy for a little over a month. we had many things in common and so just got along so great, until he went out of town for holiday and disappeared. I decided to move on, but then 1 month after he disappeared, he text me and ask how i've been doing ... (102 words)

I've been a fool and she's cheated but how can I get things right again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Heres the thing. I am in a relationship with this women for a 2nd time that I love but she has cheated, insulted and said bad things about me behind my back. I have forgiven all that because I believe that, if you can't accept someone at their worst than you don't deserve them ... (217 words)

Girlfriend is meeting with her ex and I'm scared

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, i have a GF of 1 year and 3 months, she lives with me and we are deeply in love, recently she has been talking to her ex BF on facebook and yesterday he asked her to go to brighton with him today to pick shoes, she also wants to go in his house to see his new pet hamster ... (105 words)

My boyfriend is not very hygienic, his room is a mess, he has a pet rat on his window sill and I've started coming up with really nasty skin irritations!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there guys i need some help and fast! Okayy, so i've been with my amazingly lovely boyfriend for two months now and things are going well. Although, over the time we've been going out i've started coming up with really nasty skin irritations whether it be exema or rashes i... (215 words)

What are the signs that a boyfriend truly loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i know if my boyfriend actually loves me? ... (10 words)

I feel lovesick, lonely at losing her. And so many questions on how I can go forward?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i need some serious help ive been through some crazy relation ships b 4 but i have been ready for something real for a really long time im sick of wasting my time and life on dead end relationships but recently ive meet the most amazing girl ever and honestly i know i deserve ... (517 words)

I don't want my affection to be too obvious. But what's appropriate to do for his birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everybody. there is this guy i like. im not sure if he likes me. he is currently working in another city. it's his 27th birthday and i would like to make it special even though i'm not there any ideas? and i dont want it to be too obvious that i like him. ... (55 words)

He's really good-looking and it makes me feel like I'm inferior....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi poeple my names Annie I'm almost 18 and Ive just started a new job as a cook in a food place (not exactly)a career but nontheless its employment. Well theres this really nice guy I met there named brendan,hes foreign and moved to my part of the world last year.We got alon... (449 words)

I feel really sad and depressed and need a shoulder to cry on. How can I let out my sadness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i am the most positive person u will ever meet. i always see the best in people and every situation im in. i love life to the fullest and i love myself so much but sometimes i get so depressed sometimes it takes over and i cant stand it...i don't know what the problem is, maby ... (349 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to improve his hygiene?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get my boyfriend to improve his hygiene? We live together so I know he only showers about once a week. The thing that I really hate is that he often goes for days without brushing his teeth. I've mentioned it to him before but it just causes arguments, and he can't ... (83 words)

"Love u a long time"...what does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi theres this guy ive met and have become very fond of Anyway a few weeks ago he said to me love u i wasnt sure what to say so i just put lol on the end Anyway last nite throught txt messege he sent 1 saying Love u a long time x But my question is ivenever heard... (104 words)

What dating advice do you have for single women 50+ & over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age - I will be 52 years old my next birthday. My life has been filled with a string of disappointing relationships. After a 12 year relationship, my first love dumped me, married someone else, divorced them and then returned and wanted to marry me. Of course, I still loved him, we ... (235 words)

I get more anxious now that I know my GF has cheated. How can I trust her again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i need help. my girlfriend has cheated before and i do belive she has changed but i still get nervous and have trouble with her talking to the other man who is also my friend. what should i do??... (39 words)

Can I get an STD from performing oral sex on my virgin boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have never had any sexual encounters if any kind. Could either of us get an std from unprotected oral sex?... (24 words)

Why do I attract men, but always end up getting dumped?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age - My last two relationships have been disasters,in each case the relationships started off wonderful, but as time passed and we became closer, the men seem to become afraid. I don't know what's the problem. I am never outright dumped, they just disappear..cut off all ... (119 words)

How do I recover from this strange relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age - I was in a short-term relationship with someone who said I was wonderful, beautiful, a nice woman with a "good heart." Although we started our as friends our relationship progressed. He was warm, caring, intelligent, funny..all I could want in a man. He treated me with respect. ... (343 words)

She told me not to wait around for her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - every thing was so perfect she told me she wanted to make this work so bad and likes me a lot that i am the best thing that has ever happened to her and i think she really meant it we were the perfect couple and had everything in common possible and it felt like we were meant ... (195 words)

Is it too soon to start dating again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I cant get over this guy i was with for 3 years and lost my virginity to but he has bad controlling issues, and refuse to be treated like that we have been broken up for a couple weeks and I've never felt so free, and i have given up so many guys for him that cou... (113 words)

Should I stay with my wife and kids, or leave them for the girlfriend I love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Wife And Girl friend yep go figure.. Cut to the chase... I have 3 boys, one grown and gone, one grown and very sick living at home may die any time. Younger one also live here at home with my wife and myself. A number of years ago, a tough time started hitting harder than norm... (362 words)

Boyfriend expects me to go to bed in bra and g string every night

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been with my bf for four years now. He expects me to go to bed in a g string and push up bra everynight at least. He also becomes angry and frustrated if you doesn't either get a hand job or hand job at least. My libido is very low as there was a lot of pressure to ... (96 words)

Do I end my troubled relationship and start anew with this friend who's helped me? Or fix the troubled one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - emotional turmoil... i'm going through a bad relationship right now. One of my friends, who is a girl and i have a friendship thing, for she was trying to cheer me up. i think i'm starting to fall in love with her... she has always flirted with me and i think i have a chance... (87 words)

I didn't stand up for my girlfriend when someone slapped her butt. How do I show her I am still the man for her?

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5 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hello everyone. It's been a while since my last question, but I've have another. Recently my ex and I got back together again and things have been great, but the way we got back together is the problem. She was dating my ex best friend and I had given up hope of ever getting ... (312 words)

Could my friend be gay too?

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5 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a 15 year old closeted gay, and deathly afraid of anyone finding out. And I was wondering if my friend could also possibly be gay? I know it's a long question and I'm sorry. My friend, "Mike", is 15, nice, makes good grades, an athlete, and probably one of the hottest ... (397 words)

My lack of self confidence is preventing me from persuing this relationship. What can I do to change this?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'd be greatful if someone could help me. I am a 22 year old, bi female and have been in a 4 year relationship with a girl, which didn't end very well, but I'm sort of over her. I have slept with one guy and have had relationships with guys, but I've never felt comfortable ... (178 words)

Why does my boyfriend take me for granted and annoy me on purpose?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend doesnt say I love you anymore, only texts, and sometimes short texts, doesnt call, and sometimes seems to enjoy annoying me on purpose...what should I do??? I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. About 3-4 months ago, things started going do... (818 words)

He needs time to think, what does that mean?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, i have met a guy in the summer when i was visiting my brother... after few month that i was back home (different country), he contacted me and we started to talk... chatting long hours and phone calls and all... he asked to get to know me better and that he li... (339 words)

Should I let 19 years of marriage go?

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5 February 2011 (M)

age - should I let 19 years of marriage go..My husband told me soon after my daughter from a previous marriage was married and hand a beautiful son that he didnt love me anymore and that he was not old enough to be called papaw. I am 9 years older than my husband.He has started ... (222 words)

What can I do to better my relationship?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i relationship truly sucks!! There is barely any communication, he shows no affection, nor gives any compliments,he has a bad temper.. which he has been controlling, we are always arguing, and majority of the time we never agree on anything.we barely have ... (119 words)

How could he care about me if he doesn't care about my feelings

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm conflicted, he says he cares about me and when we are on good terms he also tells me that he appreciates all that I do for him. However he knows after 6 years I have developed very deep feelings for him. When I express my feelings for him he gets enraged because his ... (175 words)

I'd hate to see my friend mess up her life because of this guy!

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice about one of my friends, she's got with this guy that is completely not good enough for her, he's a school drop out, he has a criminal record, he's rude, he's always flirting with other girls he works with...it goes on. But my friend wont see this, and seems ... (107 words)

Lights On & Open Your Eyes during Sex means what?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - We know most women enjoy the lights off and men want the lights on, lol. Why is this? What does it mean when the lights are on and he looks into your eyes during sex and when he has an orgasm? What does it mean when a guy looks into your eyes often? Just curious, T... (73 words)

My best friend thinks I stole her boyfriend, and now she's hanging out with my ex! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm currently single and have been, basically, since like October. Well my ex and my best friend started hanging out. To where they were together every weekend...her all up in his truck. So I asked them what was going on, and they claim they're "just friends". So I didn't worry ... (437 words)

I'm in love with a boy who is my best friend. Is he interested in me?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Does he love me? I have this guy who I'm in love with, but I don't know if he loves me. He's my best friend. When he and I spoke over web cam, his mom/cosins/aunt were like, "you're a cute couple" and that he should kiss me. He started to blush and all he said was... (112 words)

What do I say to these people about my boyfriend?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so this is really embarassing, but i have an ugly boyfreind. i mean hes not that ugly, but he had acne (which i know he cant help cuz i have it 2)but what pisses me off is that every ones making fun of me for it. now grantit, hes been suspended ALOT for sexual ... (134 words)

I'm afraid my married lover's relationship with his wife won't end

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! I met this guy online last summer and fell completely in love with him. The problem is he confessed to me that he was married and his wife was pregnant. To make matters worse he is in the military and recently got transferred to another city about 300 miles away. His wife ... (164 words)

She feels bad because I'm doing all the work

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5 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend says she feels bad about us having sex because she feels like I'm doing all the work. Theres no pleasure issues, I've done my anatomy, psychology and physiological homework and have developed some kind of bizarre self control from chronic masturbation. She wants ... (157 words)

Do all men change after marriage?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I were married this past Sept. We were engaged for almost two years and talked about everything from philosophy, religion, finance, and etc... We talked about one household, one budget, etc... but a little before we got married, he started giving me maybe 20% of ... (356 words)

Do I write an apology letter to his other girl?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have previously asked for advice on this situation, but now it has become even more complicated. I am 8 weeks pregnant with my ex boyfriends child. Me and him had been together for two years and it was a roller coaster, off and on again relationship. We had broken up last ... (300 words)

He knew I was coming to see him but when I got there he had a girl in his room

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so I am with this guy for four months and found out last week that we are having a baby. We don't live together so I went over to his apt in between classes to see him. He knew I was coming over. So i go in the front door and ask his roommate if he is home and he says yes. ... (208 words)

Does he go soft because I am too wet?

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So during intercourse i get very wet. My boyfriend says hes never been with someone who gets as wet as i do. I find it kind of embarrassing when this happens, where ever we are having sex the surface gets soaked. My boyfriend tends to go soft during intercourse and i think it ... (75 words)

I want to start talking to him again but I don't want to sound desperate

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - so i am a 13 yr old girl and my first boyfriend was in 6th grade and surprisingly, we lasted 6 months (: it was an actual relationship too and everything was great till we broke up, and we're now in the 8th grade. We have the same lunch and his table is across the lunch room ... (355 words)

Its killing me that my ex is dating again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I left my boyfriend of 2 years and a half about 7 months ago. I never stopped loving him but at the time i thought it was the best thing to do since we had some problems. I started dating again about 2 months after the break up but it is nothing very serious since we... (359 words)

I want to tell my mom I'm pregnant but I'm not sure how

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok im. 15 and my bf is 18.....and I'm pregant...I'm really cloe to my mom but idk how tell her I'm pregant and I know she will b disappointed and it will hurt to hear her say tht..so how do I tell her? And I'm not close to my step dad bc he left how do I say tht knowing he is ... (86 words)

Pregnant and the guy has now turned his phone off!

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dearcupids! I really dont know what to do, im almost 19 and i have been single for just under 2 years, my first love broke me in more ways that one and ive not really looked for a guy since. But theres been this one guy, we've never been a couple, or even dated, but a fair few ... (583 words)

I don't know how to act on my first date

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im about to go on my first date. I've never been on a date. Ever. So to me, this is a big deal! I'm going on a double date with my best friend and her boyfriend and I'll be going with my crush. We're going to go see a movie and then go eat to dinner. The thing is, I don't ... (91 words)

Separated from husband, I don't feel comfortable with my married friends

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why I am feeling like this? Is it normal? I am married but we are separated right now. Since that, I don't really feel confortable with my married friends. I am so jealous to see them so happy together, kissing each other in front of me...etc. I could't deal with that a... (292 words)

How should I react to other guys saying that they love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

5 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We're currently in long distance relationship. She'd left the country before three months...She got a mail from a guy...saying i love u so much and kiss you.. I got to read that mail before her when i checked out her facebook..and she 'd deleted that mail.. Then i wrote mail to ... (511 words)

I've never had any true friends

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5 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I'm feeling a little bummed out and have come to the realization that I never really had any true friends. I'm a bit of a pushover, so I was always the friend that they used when they were bored or had no one else in their life, and then got dumped when they found other ... (294 words)

Lied about my age to my boyfriend (I'm 7 years older)

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and we're moving in together soon. We have an amazing relationship and I love him with all of my heart. The problem is, when we first met, I wasn't honest about my age. He's almost 7 years younger and I was insecure... (191 words)

He watches porn every day and has so many excuses why he cant have sex with me!

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a major concern about my boyfriend...We have been together for almost 9months now and things have been okay until I noticed he likes to look up porn daily. Truthfully I watch porn but not before I decide to go to bed with him. I think Porn is a natural curiousity for men ... (271 words)

Not his sunshine anymore and that's killing me

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating this guy for almost 11 months, our relationship is good or it's not but it's not bad either. He's my best friend, the person I trust the most and the person i love the most also. But lately he's been acting distant, cold and i feel like he kinda pushes me ... (432 words)

I don't know how he really feels about me

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - im not sure whats happened to me but i was working with a guy for nearly two years-hes switched departments and im gutted. i didnt realise the depth of my feelings for him. i was attracted to him from the start and we enjoyed each others company and over time became good ... (246 words)

He acts like he doesn't care anymore and it hurts so bad!?!

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help, I know it's long... Ok. Me and a guy once liked each other. He showed interest a lot (he's loud too) for a year but I was quite shy and never really responded and sometimes ignored him. I know it was wrong and I've paid for it now but I'm never doing that ever ... (617 words)

Husband got another woman pregnant and says its a mistake!

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5 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband of two years (bf for 4 years) he got another woman pregnant he told me it was a mistake and he still loves me what should i do?... (30 words)