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*achel aniston
writes:so i'm a teenager girl,15 yrs. old ,i'm good at studies and have fair plans for the future studies .i have been in love with my math sir since i was 13 yrs. old [8th standard]....i think i truly love him but i dont know if he loves me,he is 29 yrs. old .i have tried a lot to forget him but i'm not able to do so .whenever he comes in front of me i'm going mad but for my sake i'm behaving normal i haven't told this matter to any1 yet. i went to take tuitions to him [2010] in the summer vacations [only me]so as to complete my math course, we grew a sort of friend like relationship but i never went off my limits we just talked about our daily matters ,he cared for me and he teased me like "some good smell is coming from somewhere is that u?", we even chatted on our mobile phones [only through messages]and all that .... [ya he asked for friendship first and not me].then school started and we dint opened this matter infront of any 1,we stopped chatting on cells when the school started i dont know may be because we went so busy with all the other things or may be because i was trying to ignore him.The worst thing is the more i try to ignore\forget him i'm starting to think more about him. he is teasing other tuition girls too like"can i hold ur cheeks" but believe me he is a good teacher as well as a good human being ,i have many examples for it...umm i often feel that he loves me too omg i'm not able to concentrate on my studies due to this what to ?i love him so much but i dont have any way left to get out off this matter.... i think this can hurt my parents may be thats why... recently my best friend told me that rumours are in the school that i have a crush on him and every1 looks at me whenever i talk to him ,i denied it and told her that i hate this teacher omg my life is totally messed at the moment.whatever i did to stop this feeling is that i stopped going to tuition,.i really love him ,no student in the school has good connections with him as i do.also he listens to whatever i say directly or indirectly... [and he cares for me a lot too whenever i look sad he often asks me]....i'm not planning to do that thing like going infront of him and saying i love u .he is slight dark in complexion,good looking and i love the way he maintains everything.he is a part of my heart ,i want to gift him something special for valentine day.my question is "what should i do now? i want my parents to be happy and at the same time i love him ,i dont want him and his family to tolerate something bad because of me,please help this feeling is really hurting me a lot.if u want to make anything else clear u can ask me.a help from your side can be helpful for me to step ahead in my life.this site is the last door open for help as i cant ask my friend and parents nor him for this stupid matter.thankyou for reading thanks a lothelp
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reader, rachel aniston +, writes (27 February 2011):
rachel aniston is verified as being by the original poster of the question you are right its really cheap to think that way,thanks a lot
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reader, lacrymosa_652  +, writes (25 February 2011):
 You don't love your maths teacher, you're most likely just infatuated with him. You need to realise and accept that you're too young for him, and nothing can happen between the two of you because of the age difference AND it's illegal.
Once you accept this, and the fact that he doesn't return your feelings, you can focus on letting go. You need to understand you have feelings that you can't act upon. You're young and feel as if you're in love because you respect this man and find him attractive, and also feel you can depend on him because the student-teacher relationship makes you feel that way, if that makes sense. But once you accept nothing will happen, hopefully you can let go.
Don't TRY to forget him, because if you try to not think of him, you'll end up thinking about him. If that makes sense? Like if I say "don't think about chocolate".. what's on your mind? Chocolate! Just realize that in time your feelings will go, and when you grow older and mature a bit you'll look back on this as a learning experience, and you'll know you probably weren't in love with him. It'll take time to move on but it'll happen. Good luck.
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reader, rachel aniston +, writes (21 February 2011):
rachel aniston is verified as being by the original poster of the questionis this just attraction or love?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): It doesn't sound like he loves you, since you said you think he does, don't mean to sound harsh - however, he does seem rather flirty with young girls.. either way, it sounds like you have a simple crush on him. Just, don't have him a teacher anymore - get your classes switch and get rid of his number, there is no reason to stay in contact with a teacher unless it's school-related.
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reader, rachel aniston +, writes (3 February 2011):
rachel aniston is verified as being by the original poster of the questionand he isn't married
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