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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

MY man called her baby!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently moved in with my bf were goin to have a baby girl in 2 months. I thought that we had a perfect relationShip and that he was faithful to me so I didn't think twice about moving in specially bcuz now were goin to have a daughter but I came to find out that he was ... (151 words)

After cheating and splitting up from partner, will any other woman have trust in him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I would like to know how hard it is for a man that has cheated on his wife/gf and split up with her to find another partner? Will any woman trust him? How soon should he tell the potential partner his story? How much detail should he giving her and when? I'm afraid to be ... (155 words)

"You are in shape." Translations?

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1 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - When men eye me they often say: "You're in shape." Sometimes this is said in the context of meeting me on a run or when I'm at the gym. Sometimes it seems they say it with a competitive nuance. However, some men will say this when we are out or after we've just met ... (292 words)

Want him back... my ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, My partner of 9 months recently broke up with me. I lived out of home and he stayed every night from the day we started seeing each other then he moved in we decided to move somewhere else together so we did then we got engaged. all of a sudden his family started getting ... (301 words)

I'm gay but sooooo scared of losing him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a gay guy and i have a best friend who i have known for around a year now. I have been in love with him since the moment i met him but there are a few problems. 1. I'm not "out". 2. He is 100% straight (as far as i know. He has a daughter). 3. He has a bitch ... (299 words)

I feel like e-mailing my ex after months of no contact...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you convince yourself to just leave your ex in the past? It's been months since we last spoke and we don't have anything to do with each other anymore. I wouldn't say I'm over him, but I'm doing fine without him. Now I suddenly feel like e-mailing him :| I just want to ... (141 words)

Losing virginity - later linked to health problems: is there truth in this ABC news article?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a male in my 20's and I am beginning to wonder if I have made the best choices in life or if I would regret my decisions regarding sex in the near future. I had made the choice not to have sex until the right woman appears in my life for multiple reasons and I had always ... (269 words)

Concerned he may have someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not sure if my boyfriend really wants a relationship and I am concerned that he may have someone else. For one I have only briefly met one friend and his wife. We have never done anything together with any of his friends and their girlfriends or wives. We have been ... (181 words)

Lie and lie again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this predicament.. I want to tell the whole story so everyone knows all sides.. I met this guy when i was 11 years old and we always flirted and we were good friends and then years later after him moving away and everything we got ahold of each other (just to talk) and ... (438 words)

Need advice on housing situation with boyfriend.

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help here because my boyfriend is confusing me. A little background. I live with my 5 year old son in my apartment. My boyfriend lives by himself in a house. My lease is up in April but I could extend a few more months. My boyfriend of 2 years wants to sell his house, a... (749 words)

Thinking of other men during sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i got married 5 months ago. before marrying we had a child in 2001 and broke up for 4 years and got back together in 2008. We have been having some communication issues. And i feel sometimes he does not understands me. And that makes it really hard for me to ... (109 words)

I can't masturbate unless I think of penis... and I'm male! Why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am straight and male, but i cant masturbate unless I'm thinking about penis. Outside of masturbation, I love girls no guys at all, but when I maturbate that is all I think about. Why?... (35 words)

I'm married to a man, but have fallen in love with a woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I a woman married to a man and I have recently found a woman that I am falling in love with. I love my husband and father of my kids. We have had many ups and downs over the last decade, but right now things are going well. The problem I have is that I found this woman I am ... (181 words)

I can't find where I belong...

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. I am in middle school and about to go into highschool. I am having trouble finding where I fit in. I am costantly changing what I like and my look and I can't find it. I find it very hard to find where I belong. Does anyone have any advice for me?... (54 words)

My craving to have a baby...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I am 14 abd I am gonna be 15 in July. I have recentally been asked out and have been going out with this boy (I will call him toe) toe for just over two weeks and I have suddenly have a craving for a baby. Me and toe haven't talked about this craving that I am having but ... (237 words)

Still have thoughts of my first love even though I'm married now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, long story short. I'm married to a man i do love, but i cant stop thinking about my ex, my first love. ive always loved him but i fell in love with my husband and forgot about my ex for a while, but now i cant stop thinking about. I dream about him every night and day dream ... (103 words)

I haven't heard from him since!!! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I tried to have a good weekend with my boyfriend, and we did yesterday I took him down to philly for the auto show and then took him out for dinner and paid for everything and made a good effort and then last night he decided to open up - and tell me that nothing in his ... (290 words)

Valentines day tips for a new relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a new relationship with a girl (4 months) and she sent me a text message and I do not know how to feel about it. She told me that she does not want to be my valentine because she promised her heart to a couple of her girlfriends. But I should still write her a poem ... (157 words)

Why did she just give up???

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship to an amazing woman for a year and a half, we recently split up, nothing bad happened, we were so in love and both had stuff going on (she was previously married with young kids and i was her first gay relationship) everything was good and it suddenley ... (398 words)

How do I stop myself from gagging?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so I'm 18, my boyfriend is 20 and we have been dating for just over a year and a half. I have given him my virginity and he has given me his. I absolutely love having sex with him. We don't do it too often but when we do, it's so perfect. He makes me safe, secure, and ... (209 words)

How can I finally accept myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I finally accept myself? I look at myself and see a plain looking woman, and most of the time I feel fine, not pretty but also just normal, but then I'll see a prettier girl walking down the street, or on Facebook, or hell, even celeb pictures and whatever. Where I l... (370 words)

Help should I go back to my ex??????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I have a situation in my hand. A couple of months agomy ex of five years ended our relationship of five years. It has been what some say emotionally abusive"him calling me fat,i need to wear makeup, this that" basically to make a long story short i gave him 150% while he ... (554 words)

Do women feel aroused during breastfeeding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was just curious and it might sound silly, but it's quite important for me to know. As most of us know, breast and nipples are very sensitive when sucked/licked/touched. So I was thinking about those women who breastfeed, constantly having a mouth sucking on their... (59 words)

I cant ask her not to see him cause that will make me sound like a jerk. What do I do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey my name is Joey, im almost 15 and still in high school (10th year) and i have a problem.. Too understand my problem im gonna have to explain the whole story: Ive been in love with this Girl for over a year now, but at the start she had a boyfriend who she'd been going... (358 words)

Is regaining control of my life worth risking everything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel awful and wrong for just asking this question but please help me. My boyfriend and I have dated for 2 years, I'm already like part of his family and everyone thinks we'll get married. We have so much in common. We're "perfect" for each other. The thing is I can't... (328 words)

I have a bad feeling he won't change. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend about 2 years. Started off sweet, charming, slightly clingy. We began texting each other prior to meeting. He would text up to 200 per day. Telling me his life story. At first I was flattered he was so into me. We finally met, after 3 w... (721 words)

Am I being used or played?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive being seeing a guy for the last 3 months. He says we are in a relationship but I dont feel it.Hes 26 and Im 19. We live really close to each other but I only see him about 2 days a week. When i first met him I was in a relationship but it was all but over between us. He ... (275 words)

She's chatting to someone else and I feel as if I can't breathe... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hmm, i had once asked a question about this. about how i was moved by a sister figure of mine, my best friend. well recently she had told me once while texting, that with the amount with which she loves me, probably gay - she asked me if i would accept her if she were gay. ... (214 words)

I don't think they should get married AT ALL. What should I do? Bite my tongue or tell her the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I need some advice. One of my girl friends is dating a total jerk! They've been together for 4 years, from ages 14-18. She always tells me about all the bad/stupid things he has done. I've been around them, and honestly I don't think he treats her right. He isn't ... (265 words)

I want to leave her but I love my kids soooo much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I met her at my second job, soon i discovered that she was not the one for me,(she would be staring at guys) but i kept going out with her until our relationship was too far, not to mention the fights caused for the staring, she always denied that saying i was crazy, to later ... (520 words)

After last week's incident, I'm scared of him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my Bf have been dating for 2 and a half years, and i thought i knew all there is to know about him,up until an incident that happend last week. Just before we started dating, he said he did Muay Thai kickboxing, i didnt even know what that was up until last week. All ... (382 words)

Has anybody else been in a situation like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hello i have a question my girlfriend and i was together for two years she lived with me for a year and a half done things couples do she told me she loved me everyday we even talked about marriage to make a long story short her girlfriend needed a place to stay and she inv... (181 words)

Insecure about grooming and appearance of my private parts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - girls help me out!.... im very insecure about my pubic hair. i always shave but it grows sooo fast..and i also shave between my butt cheeks ;)..whats the best way to get rid of hair down there ?!i cant wax im allergic.. guys: is it a turn off if you find little hair down gir... (322 words)

32 and I feel life is just passing me by.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi folks i posted a few months ago about my severe lack of experience with woman (none) and how it has effected my confidence. see link http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-lack-of-experience-affects-my-dating-life.html since then nothing has really changed. another... (424 words)

I just want the freedom "normal" people have...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Just a bit of background, I come from an "old fashioned" family in terms of doing things old school, (Italian style) my parents don't have many friends anymore as my mom has alienated herself and withdrawn away from the public eye.. I feel the reason to that is due to the kind ... (1335 words)

Are we on a break or did I get the wrong idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been on our relationship for year now, and he asked me for us to go on a break again. He says he loves me and that he still wants to be with me but he need sometime off. I really didn't want to go on a break again. I did not enjoy it the first time at ... (127 words)

Feelings for an ex's friend... advise please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So i have an issue here. There is this girl i met here at college that I find to be more than just physically attractive. She is a very happy person, positive, smart, loves to smile and laugh, is patient and understanding, and many other things. She appears to have a most of ... (336 words)

Online girlfriend is pregnant by her ex, but I'm going to see her soon. Is it her hormones or has she lost interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay this girl and I have been in an online relationship (I know it's not a good idea) for three months, but we just met on Facebook and started talking. We became online friends, and we eventually started getting interested in each other. She even sent me a letter telling me ... (753 words)

Is it weird that something like that is enjoyable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - During the act of bringing me to orgasm, my normally conservative boyfriend reached up to my throat and slightly squeezed. He lingered for a moment and then released, I guess to see if I would protest. He then placed his hand back on my throat with a slight squeeze until I ... (178 words)

I told her that her boyfriend was just using her, I thought she had forgiven me. Now I don't understand her!

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently, I upset a girl that I love (she knows)really badly by telling her current boyfriend is using her as a temporary plan and the other side of him. So, she ignored me for a week since I have destroyed her dream and then two days ago she sent me a message asking how I am. ... (114 words)

Is it normal to develop crushes even when you're already in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for about four months now. He treats me well and he says he's in love with me. I've been happy with him, but lately I just don't have many of those feelings anymore. I recently realized that I have developed a crush on another guy, and I feel pretty ... (106 words)

His birthday is this weekend but he says he doesn't feel like being around anyone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone My partner and i have been together for 2 years, late last year he was diagnosed with sever anxiety. It is only this month and the last it has become worse, he is easily irritated, moody, grumpy, twitching in bed etc. he says he feels sick in the head and doe... (303 words)

Am I being irrational?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This likely sounds irrational but it's been playing on my mind lately.. My boyfriend is a talented artist, just as a hobby, and most of the subjects he paints are fantasy figures of naked or provocative women with say mythical creatures. This has always bothered me a little ... (214 words)

Who should employ the NO CONTACT RULE? is it the dumper or the dumped?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hello aunts and uncles. this is just a random question to set the record straight. if you break up with your girlfriend, a)who should employ the NO CONTACT RULE? is it the dumper or the dumped? b) what is the meaning when an ex girlfriend contacts you randomly but when y... (123 words)

Is it hard for beautiful women to form good relationships?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi All, I am just wondering what it is like to be beautiful and if it is hard to meet quality people? Beautiful women are always getting chatted up for dates, hit on for their looks, even propositioned for sex. It is no wonder then that many of them develop a cold and distant ... (135 words)

How do I talk to my ex boyfriend without looking like a creepy stalker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - About 3 months ago I moved into a new apartment. Turns out a guy I slept with a year ago lives in this same apartment building, and I had no idea until I saw him. He didn't see me, and that I know of, he still hasn't. I'm too embarrassed to admit that I completely forgot ... (122 words)

Would it be unreasonable to stop my boyfriend watching porn?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 5 years now and are pretty open, relaxed etc. and have never had any major, serious arguments. The only thing that is not perfect is that he watches porn. Now I am not unreasonable; I don't want my boyfriend to stop watching... (393 words)

First, what should I do with my current relationship? And what do you think about this junior?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently feeling very confused now. I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 8 months. In our relationship, things happened too fast in the beginning. We made out before we even got together. I didnt exactly ask her to be my girlfriend, but she mentioned somethin... (507 words)

My boyfriend complains that I never do anything nice and considerate for him in our relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP! My boyfriend complains that I never do anything nice and considerate for him in our relationship. He always does the nicest things for me and for some reason I draw a blank any time I try to think of something I could do for him. I cannot even fathom how other couple... (98 words)

Just split up with my girlfriend, now do I respond to this text?

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1 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Right guys/gals. I got a question for you. I just split up with my girlfriend. We absolutely adored one another. Really in love. Practically joined at the hip. Anyway, my last ex was a bit crazy when I was with her and still is. She found out about my new girlfriend ... (391 words)

Why do I lose confidence in my ability to do public speaking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4997 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know why am I like this, I think I don't have enough confidence to speak in front of many people, I feel so frustrated because I know how to speak english, but when there are times when speaking in english is required, i always find myself afraid, and unable to say ... (71 words)

Is this age gap too big?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - how big an age gap is too big? the guy i like is 24, and i'm 17. that's quite a big gap, but i was just wondering if it's too huge or if it's acceptable because my opinion is just what i want to hear so i wanted to know other opinions.... (56 words)

She's gone from loving and caring to controlling and possessive!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my girlfriend of almost a year know has completely changed on me. she was once a loving, caring person to me and my four kids. and know she is a total @*$%# with my kids and she is controlling and possesive with me. i dnt want to call it quits just yet but wat should i do. ... (61 words)

My girlfriend just dumped me because she thinks I'm being paranoid!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend has just dumped me because she think iam being paranoid. 2 weeks ago she changed her profile picture on facebook and i started to get paranoid so i started asking her if she loved me and she replied yes. but the next day i appologised to her and she forgave me and ... (144 words)

Need tips, advice, etc. from those experienced with threesomes. Planning one soon with my girlfriend and her former sex partner.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age - Ok let me try this again. My other questions wasn't worded like it should have been. I'm having a threesome with my girlfriend and have given her approval to have a former friend/lover (not as in love, but as in having had sex with him before she and I met) be the third. Sh... (238 words)

My husband is sucking me dry... emotionally. Need advice!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age - I don't even know why I am posting this here or how to phrase this so that I don't seem like the bad guy...but I am. And I know it. And yes, feel free to tell me so. I tried to tell my hubby that if he posted here with this problem you would all tell him how evil I am and ... (351 words)

I've received messages from my boyfriend's ex. Is he lying to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend went to visit his hometown a few weeks ago for a week after we had had a huge bust up and I thought we had finished until a few days after he left I spoke to him and we were ok. Since he's been back our relationship has been brilliant he says that since he was away ... (304 words)

Are confident men ever scared to ask a woman out?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age - are confident men scared to ask a women they are attractive to out .? meet a man an he has flirted with me now for about 4 month now . let me say we only see each other for a short time each time he get a little more comfortable with me but he has never ask me out nor for my n... (103 words)

My boyfriend will not kiss me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i need help! my boyfriend and i are still in our hugging phase but i want to kiss him. im scared if he doesnt want to, and i dont want to make the first move! help! :|... (38 words)

He is a nice person, but I don't think he knows who I am. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Any kind person please help. I have been with my boyfriend for a few years and the problem is that we have went through soo much, he treated me badly (aggressive, inpatient, etc) and i really lost my confidence. He wants to marry me,but i dont think I want to. I do love him ... (259 words)

I have just found out that my ex was seeing another woman in the months before he left me, how do I deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age - I'm not sure why I am writing this but, somehow I feel if I write about what I am feeling right now it will help. My ex fiance left me after 7 yrs. together basically for someone else. When he first ended it with me he told me after a huge argument that he felt that we should ... (814 words)

Is kissing sexual?

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Is kissing sexaul? My friend told me and my short kisses that I had with my ex werte sexaul even thougfh they only lasted one-five seconds, Are kisses sexaul??... (29 words)

My ex has anger management issues. How can I get him to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy in school whom I admired (a crush admiration only).. But eventually,i found out that he has anger management issues,so i didn't like him anymore,and so my classmates told me to distance myself a bit from him. But i was afraid that if i didn't respond to him and ... (275 words)

How do relationships turn out if one person is on medication and has depression?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am at a stage of life where I am not sure what to do. I am not in a relationship at the moment and I have never been approached by a woman ever. And I have been rejected a few times before. The question is...How do relationships often turn out if one person is on medication ... (123 words)

Living together for over a year, and I STILL haven't met his kids!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Over 12 months living together and still no sign of me meeting his kids (teenagers) despite us living with mine (also teenagers). I have asked twice to meet his kids. The first time after about 6 months and again recently. Each time the whole thing blows up in to an argumen... (130 words)

What can I do? He seems not to know what to do in the bedroom.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, i'm just feeling slightly confused at the moment. I met a guy online. I thought we had something in common. He is a good man, he lives 200 miles away so we only see each other every other weekend but we chat every night on the phone. My problem is in the bedroom! ... (253 words)

Is this relationship going anywhere? Should I just give up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Is this relationship going anywhere? I have been in a relationship that has been full of highs and lows which lasted about a year. It was my first gay relationship. Both of us had been with women before. We discovered this together. I have loved him so very much and the rea... (468 words)

I am thinking about leaving my boyfriend because I am not pretty enough compared to his ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you do if you are not pretty? I feel so insecure about myself. Its not my body, in fact I think my body is amazing I am blessed in term of genetics but my face is so...plain. ITs not ugly or weird its just boring and shapeless. ITs more of a big deal now because my n... (159 words)

Was it reasonable for me to ask her to remove the guys she had a threesome with from her facebook?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

1 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance for the last 11 months, she has many of her ex-boy freinds on her facebook account which she claims to be good freinds with, This also includes 2 guys who have had a threesome with her, it is a bit confronting and hard for me to understand, when i ... (97 words)

I've been so lonely since my boyfriend has been away I had phone sex with another guy!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - What have I done? My boyfriend has now been away since October and I miss him so much, and there's still 2 months left to go. I can't imagine being with anyone else but him. But I've done something horrific... I was on the phone to a very close friend of mine who knew how lon... (116 words)

I feel like I am invisible to him!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a problem with my self-centered boyfriend,he has a baby from his previous relationship and all he cares about is his baby and himself, and its like im invisible in hs life, he wants me to do everythng he want or say he changes my plans what do i do now?... (52 words)

How do I ensure that I get an orgasm?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have had sex only with my boyfriend so all my sexual experiences have been with him. most of the times i don't have an orgasm, because he comes sooner than me or i get turned off in the middle and therefore become less stimulated. i love foreplay but actual sex somehow ... (76 words)

Am I wrong for not wanting her to be friends with this guy? Do you think it is a trust issue?

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married for almost 11years. At the 3-4yr mark I found out my wife had an affair with one of our older friends son. He is about a year younger than us, we were around 19-20 and he was 17-18, he was in college. Okay so when I found out, I was shocked, I knew we had a ... (414 words)

He wants a blowjob but I don't like doing it, what can I do?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been in a sort of relationship with a boy, we are both same age(17). at the start we were just good friends he would come up for a drink, then things started to change we would kiss at weekends and then i saw him during the week and we would kiss now i see him every day ... (108 words)

He lies about everything.....how do I find the strength to move on?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age - I have known my partner for two and a half years and living at his home for the last year. He has a apartment in Florida and told me that a friend and her two daughters needed a place to live and moved her in. He came back to the u.k and basically it turned out, there was no ... (220 words)

Why swallow? whats the pleasure?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers, i would like to ask the men out there and possibly the women why men like a girl to swallow their semen? why is it attractive to men to see there girlfriend swalllowing the product of their energy? some women say it tastes awful and some think it doesnt. ei... (86 words)

Am I being unreasonable? My girlfriend is being so clingy.....

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok sorry but this sorta has to be a bit long winded :) I am 21, almost 22, and my girlfriend of a year and a half has just turned 20. When we first got together she was working at a bakery so early starts and all that, she had something to fill her time with. But she rece... (611 words)

I don't understand how it has gone from being so lovely and perfect to this?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for nearly 4 years and have been living together for nearly 3. Our realtionship to me was amazing, we had so much in common up for a laugh go out with our friends, eveything around the house was split 50/50 we was a good working team. For me he was what ... (404 words)

Sex advice needed!

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Can any one suggest me please, what is penetration i am worried about it and have only 4inch penis and i don't know whether my g/f will be satisfied with it or not... (33 words)

What should I make of this?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, Soo I like my best friends brother, I have know him for a few months and we attend the same college. He is older and is a junior. We hadn't started really talking until around mid-October. After that we would have a small conversation or at least a hey, how are y... (117 words)

I want to save our friendship seen as she doesn't have feelings for me, is moving away the right thing to do?

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Will try and cut this as short as possible! I have a female best friend. Have known each other 5 years and we have always been very close. Tell each other everything, look out for one another through the tough times. I'm 36 she's 34. Everyone who knows us either t... (473 words)

I liked her a while ago, but she didnt seem into me....now all of a sudden she is madly in love with me! What should I do?

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - last year i had a crush on a girl but it seemed she was not that into me so i guess i got over it, but recently she just phoned me saying shes madly in love with me and she is anxious for me to respond, what should i do?... (50 words)

He went awol!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, This is a bit of a complicated story, but i was hoping someone could help see things from an objective point of view 'cause it's driving me crazy. Here goes: I have a friend who recently told me he's attracted to me and i said i'm attracted to him, too. Then we s... (234 words)

People don't take me seriously because of the way I look! How can I find a nice guy?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok. I really like the way I look, but people just seem to not take me seriously. I am 16. I am a bleach blonde. a little taller than the regular. I have as some people say the 'perfect nose' (people ask if I had a rynoplasty haha) I have brown eyes, in general, a pretty face. I ... (327 words)

Could it be that he is just not that into me?

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1 February 2011 (F) age 41-50 - Is this normal? My boyfriend and I have a semi-long distance relationship. He works out of town most of the time. We've been together for 3 years. Tonight in particular I'm awake and he's asleep right now. I haven't seen him in almost 3 weeks!!! I was looking forwards ... (916 words)

Why would a guy move slower, sexually, with a girl?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 24F and I've been dating a 26M for a little over a month now and things are going great! We see each other a few times a week and we seem to be content with the amount of time we spend with each other since we both work and I go to school full time. We have a great tim... (300 words)

We both can't stop being awkward!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm at University and I have this great bunch of friends. The thing is they're not my close close friends yet. There is one guy within this group who I really like and have done since the first time I met him, but I still (after 4 months) haven't gotten to know him well. I ... (148 words)

Now that she's taken I want her!

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am so lonely at times and i would always call her. she love me so much in my middle school days for at least 2 years. I didnt even bother trying to make any move with her. I did a stupid part. I kind of liked her, but didnt really want a relationship. During the high school ... (112 words)

Problems with the in laws!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi , Ive been married for 5 years now and having problems until today.my in laws are never happy with whatever i do for them.they are always complaining and create a very unpleasant atmosphere in the house..im very disturbed because my husband does not want to get invo... (141 words)

Am I too slutty for a serious relationship?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I'm searching for a serious relationship. I've never had one. I know this guy who is really nice and friendly, but I only saw him as a friend... until two weeks ago saturday we went to a party and he held my hand and was really nice to me. I had a couple drinks and we ended ... (428 words)

Oral sex makes me sick!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers, i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost three years now and we have done almost everything sexually. we seem pretty good at it by now but one thing always plays at my mind.every time i give him a blow job he tries to puch deeper (i know why) and i ... (113 words)

Do I live with my family to make them happy or live with my boyfriend?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old. When I was 19, I met someone who was a little younger than me. Throughout our time together, we had our ups and downs, but eventualy ended up moving in together. The problem is that my family doesnt like him, and my grandfather really wants me to come back ... (144 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want his pregnant ex to know we're dating?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend that I've been dating for now almost a year. I knew about his ex girlfriend, and well we didn't really like each other since that time. I had to leave the town for couple of months and by the time I got back it turned out to be that he cheated on me with that ... (305 words)

I just want to talk to, sleep with him again, something!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I slept with a guy twice about 4-5 months ago. He's about 8 years younger than I am. We were supposed to get together again, but he never responded to my last text, and I haven't heard from him since. We have mutual friends, and it really bothers me that I never heard back ... (166 words)

I want to leave but I don't know how.......

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I moved country's when I was 18 - I realize now I was young and very impressionable. I was persuing a man 8 years older than me however I look back and it wasn't for him at all it was more for the freedom from parents! I could do whatever I wanted without them around. I was in ... (408 words)

Is she not interested in me anymore, or is it just her pregnancy hormones?

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1 February 2011 (M)

My teenage boyfriend needs to step up and take care of his responsibilities!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, My partner and I are young parents (I was 16 and he was 17 when our son was born) and we hae been together two years. We are now 17 and 18. I love him so much and our relationship has grown so much since our son has been born, but it has also changed as expec... (251 words)

He lied to me and now is telling me I'm too controlling!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is telling me I have to stop controlling him. I have been with him for over a year now this march an we have a 5 month old together too. Yes I have trust issues with him bc of our past, my trust has gotten stronger an better with him, within a year, but I just ... (248 words)

Can someone please tell me what is wrong with my ex boyfriend??

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I'm gonna try and make this as short as possible. My ex boyfriend and I were together for a yr and a half. I'm 25 and he's a few years younger than me. We rushed things in the beginning and moved in together immediately. He was absolutely crazy about me, but we started ... (725 words)

I am 16 years old, height is 5'5", is a weight of 103 lbs. normal??

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 16 years old, my height is 5"5. Is it normal that my weight is 103? ... (17 words)

Any chance he'll come back?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy for about two months now. I wouldn't give him the time of day at first and when I did he was absolutely wonderful. Problem is we work together. I was at lunch the other day and another co-worker told me he was bragging and that he was playing me. I ... (151 words)

People, have you been hurt terribly, but found love again after the hurt??

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm writing about my story about how I can't let the past go and how it has crippled my life and the way I live. My story begins when I met a girl at 26 years old she was 24. I just have fallen very much in love with her and she betrayed me and it has crippled who I am. Ever ... (1397 words)

Is it okay for a FWB, to flirt with your friends, should I discuss it??

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Do you think it's okay for a fuck buddy to flirt with your friends? Also, should you talk to him about it?... (22 words)

Made mistake of breaking up with him, want him back, but how??

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and i were together for 4 rocky months (we're 23 and 24 years old). i dumped him once in november over a fight he started that distracted me from school (i wasn't that into him them). he came back, made things right, and we got back together. things were great, then i ... (531 words)

I like her but she is expecting ex's child, what do I do?

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i really like thid girl, we have been to college together for 2 years now and over those years we got close! but i dont no how she feels about me! as its near valintines i was thinking about telling her how i feel but i dont no if i should because she is having her ... (62 words)

Gf is angry because I didn't insist that we lv event so she could study, what now??

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Short version: My gf is mad at me because I didn’t ask her if she wanted to go home early so that she can study for her exam even though it was an event that she wanted and chose to go to. Long version: 1. Background: Gf had to study for a few exams the following week. ... (678 words)

Going to have a drink with her after breaking up, how do I handle it, I want her back??

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi there, i had a girlfriend in mexico for more than 1,5 years, but now she broke up with me. we both traveled a lot to each other and when we are together its just great, but it seems she couldnt handle the distance all the time after me just leaving her behind all by he... (439 words)

In love with 25 years between us

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am in Love with a Young Lady 25 years younger. She loves me as well. Will this relationship work 15 to 20 years from now? Why? support your response.... (32 words)

We broke up, we don't talk, what would be a good Valentine gift?

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Well i have a question to ask the community i just recently broke up with my ex fiancee i want to give some sort of background we together for 6 years we had our ups and down i was very immature and lied because she had trust issues with me i admit it was my fault i was very ... (309 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want more children, yet we never use protection

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure if I'm pregnant or not. This is all new to me sex and all. I've been having sex with my boyfriend at least twice on the weekends. Sometimes 4 times. Sometimes he pulls out sometimes not. I know you can get preggers pulling out. Lately I've just felt weird. My ... (219 words)

Bad break up, I'm trying to fix a broken heart!

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I just had a talk with ex girlfriend and to sum up what happened I told her I got help from a therapist about my behavior and actions and then she said "I'm glad you are getting help but its all about you. You detroyed life, I feel miserable when I'm around you, u don't even ... (152 words)

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so this guy that I'm falling in love with his mother is like my mother's 4th or 5th cousin... and I just found that out, does that mean me and him are closely related??? Please help I don't wanna be kissing cousins.. =( ... (44 words)

See, not all boys want just sex!

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So my girlfriend and I have been dating for like, a month and a few days... We really like each other, no joke. I'm 15 and she's 14. Same grade though, so it's okay. We've gone on lots of fun dates, we're open with each other, i've meet her parents, she's met mine, we've ... (188 words)

I'm afraid she will tell someone I'm bi sexual...

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi im 19 and my roommate, who is a GIRL tried to make a move on me last night. But the weird thing about it was i enjoyed it, i might be bisexual but never really thought if i was or not til last night...But i always thought she was extremely attractive so when she kissed me i ... (103 words)

About my neighbour - I really need help with this!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I live across the street from this really cute guy, we have been talking constantly over the phone and facebook, he has flirted a lot and so have i. I finally broke it to him that we should hang out, it took me at least two weeks to get him to see me and once we did, i w... (190 words)

How do you know when you are ready to start dating again?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I got out of an abusive relationship in July and my ex has continually contacted/harassed me ever since. I ended up having to get a restraining order. I have been technically "single" for 6 + months and on some level I want to start dating again. But because he kept contacting ... (115 words)

Was he just using me to make this other girl jealous?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy a month ago, we talked a lot and have gone out on a few dates. On the first date, after 4 or 5 hours hanging out and talking, we ran into some of my friends and I introduced him, he seemed fine with it and we continued hanging out and drinking and ended up going ... (291 words)

No contact from girlfriend... Should I be worried?

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Well I have been seeing a girl for two weeks and last weekend was massive, had dinner at a nice restaurant, the next night i met her best friend, and then the next night was dinner at her parents place. Things are going really well and she has said she really likes me! So Ive... (196 words)

Help!!!! Is my relationship worth saving?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi and thanks in advance. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. Its been a constant trust issue on his behalf. Accusations, of me being unfaithful(I've never been I'm loyal) I'm not allowed to speak to the opposite sex. If I do, then in his mind were "having sex... (213 words)

I have an STD but I've NEVER cheated on my girlfriend!???

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1 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Ok so, here's my problem. My fiancee thinks I've cheated on her and is seriously debating about leaving me. She's currently 34 weeks pregnant with our first child and under a lot of stress, she relies on her parents alot when it comes to any decision she has to ma... (241 words)

Help! My work schedule is killing me!

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am working 8 hours shift from 3 am to 11 30 am. I have one day on one and day off. This schedule is killing me! When I got off from work, I come home and I am soo tired, and I am going to sleep 3 or 4 hours, then I do what I have to do in my home. The night comes and I can't ... (225 words)

What do guys like or see in a girl or potential girlfriend?

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1 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - guys when u were 13 what did u like or want to see in a girl?? becuase i really like this guy and i am myself around him i just want to grab his attention so i lead him into more of the girlfreind direction rather than the freind direction, because the freind direction is ... (99 words)