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writes:Hey there people...I have completely fallen for a girl that I met at a restaurant. I managed to get her name although I didn't ask for her phone number. I then found her on facebook and sent her an invite and she accepted right away.About a month or so later, I tried to get her phone number and gave her mine. She said she will call but never did.I send her funny messages every now and then and tease her about not calling. She once replied saying "I really don't know how to respond to your messages as I normally don't interact with people I don't know. But...you don't seem to give up - at least to give credit to that - I will talk to you..."What is that supposed to mean. Should I just play the waiting game now? I am clueless here. Please help.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 I echo Walkingdude, if you're looking for a date, relationship..sign up for online dating sites, or see if they're holding a speed dating session in your area.
If the girl isn't calling you, or responding to any of your texts then she's not into you. Come on we're women, we have our phone attached to our hand waiting for men to call. She's NOT into you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-been-trying-to-talk-to-her-for.html
Is this you? You've asked this before and if it's the same girl or somebody new, you need to stop adding people as friends that you don't know because most girls find it creepy.
If you want a date i suggest a dating site because facebook isn't for that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): "I really don't know how to respond to your messages as I normally don't interact with people I don't know. But...you don't seem to give up - at least to give credit to that - I will talk to you..."She's not interested and to be honest sounds a little creeped out. Take a hint.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 February 2011):
 It sounds as though she's really not interested in getting to know you. Why she accepted your facebook friend request, I don't know. Maybe she was being polite?
She sees you merely as an acquaintance and one on facebook, at that. I think you have fallen for her looks and not her personality. Sorry!
Perhaps if you have friends in common you can get to know her better, but for now, I would stop messaging her 'funny' notes.
Instead, try to make yourself look good on facebook. Post about your achievements and pictures of you doing enjoyable things. Have your other friends who are girls post on your walls, telling you that you are a great guy. Basically, look as intriguing and interesting as possible without singling her out for special attention.
Good luck!
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reader, Lotsalove. +, writes (2 February 2011):
 "I really don't know how to respond to your messages as I normally don't interact with people I don't know. But...you don't seem to give up - at least to give credit to that - I will talk to you..."
She's basically just given you your answer to this question. "She doesn't interact with people she doesn't know".
You met her in a restaurant briefly, you got her name and found her on facebook? She didn't give you her phone number but took yours? She said she'd call, but she hasn't. Just by reading this...I can tell she's not interested. If she was, she would of called...right?
And the fact that you are texting her joking you haven't called..is probably the worst thing you can do. We hate that! Both men and women. If we don't want to text or call somebody because we're not interested, we won't. But don't push it, you cant make somebody like you.
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