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writes:I'm 17 and ive been with my boyfriend for around a year and a half, I'm a size 14 but really hate my body, I know my boyfriend loves me and my body but i see him looking at other girls on facebook and stuff, I feel like i cant satisfy him, we hardly have sex anymore because i cant do much to satisfy him as i dont like myself, i really want to make our sex life better, i just want to look and feel sexy and know he feels the same way, please help me?
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reader, anon-xo +, writes (21 February 2011):
I'm only 16 and have been with my boyfriend for just under a year, so I kinda know the situation you're feeling, we live in a tough image obsessed world thanks to the media, but sweetie the truth to being sexy is confidence!, just little things can always make a girl feel better, your boyfriend obviously thinks your drop dead gorgeous and a lovely person other wise he wouldn't say that he loves your body etc, so just change little things, buy some sexy underwear that makes your body feel good, I hate my curves and find underwear to work around it to maximize the parts of the body that I love! new make-up, a change of hair style or even a relaxing bath can make a girl feel great, just relax and keep telling yourself "I'm beautiful" and I'm pretty sure if you find a way to believe in yourself you'll not only feel happier with yourself, but feel like your making him happier too :) so smile :D xx
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reader, ShiShisAdvice  +, writes (4 February 2011):
 Honey, I was a plus size teen, and I know your angst. The best thing is to develop confidence. That's sexy! I think you are a bit too young to be having sex though. Being smart, hitting the books, is very sexy to men. Have a life dear. That's the secret.
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reader, AllRiledUp010 +, writes (3 February 2011):
 You could just be seeing what you are afraid of...no girl wants to see her boyfriend drooling over other girls because of a few minor flaws in physical appearance. I have a larger body for my age, but it's muscle. If he got with you in the first place, then clearly he doesn't mind. It's natural for a guy in his teens to look at other girls. They live in a world where girls with model bodies have been implanted in their minds as "the perfect girl." There is no such thing. I caught my boyfriend looking at pictures of women like Angelina Joli and Megan Fox on Google. Only mature guys know that there are better girls out there, even if they don't have a "hot" body. This could just be a phase for him, but make sure it doesn't get too far. Once you feel it strongly enough, talk to him about it.
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reader, ZombieDice +, writes (3 February 2011):
Sometimes even the smallest things can make you feel different, try a body butter or scrub after a warm bath to make you feel more sexy, maybe even buy some lingerie, you already said he likes your body so I'm sure he would appreciate it, and because its not something you wear all the time, you'd feel more special as well
Good luck hun!! xxx
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