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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't like the way my boyfriend didn't understand how much trouble I went to for him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - am I stupid to be upset about this? So yesterday my boyfriend and I celebrated our Valentines day. I spent most of my paycheck to make it happen. As well as about 4 hours of my day preparing it. I made him a romantic Italian dinner. We had our day and every... (387 words)

I used to love sex and now I can't wait for it to be over

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im in a realionship and everything is great but the sex. at 1st it was amazing and we couldnt get enough of each other but now the build up is great but when we are having sex i cant wait for it to b over. me and my boyfriend have noticed this and he said it aint u ur doin ... (91 words)

I'm sick of waiting for him! Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for a year we agreed to get married in july this year but he asked me to extend our time to december so we did. Last night i asked him if we still getting married in december and he said he needed more time as he is having problems. I said we didnt have ... (166 words)

I still love a boy I dated 3 years ago... but he is my ex's best friend!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, 3 years ago I had my first boyfriend he broke up with me after 3 months and I still feel like I am not over him. Its crazy! In the 3 years since we broke up I have had 2 serious relationships one of which was with his close friend, we were together for over a year I ... (250 words)

How do you treat someone who is suffering with depression?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - How do you treat someone who is suffering with depression? My lover wont see a doctor... but it has affected our relationship. I hardly see him now... he says he cant face anyone and that he's no company... this has been going on for months. What can I do? He wont see me.... (55 words)

Don't know whether to stay with him or not... Help!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Since I was 15 i've been with the same guy on and off and I love him. But the last three years we've had trouble. He moved to America to do his degree which caused a lot of issues between us. Some on my part because I had trust issues and hated him leaving after he visited ... (367 words)

My feelings seem illogical...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend broke up with me months ago. We don't speak to each other anymore [he kind of just cut me out]. I feel like I'm moving on, but... I know I wouldn't want to be with him anymore, but it bothers me thinking of him with another girl. I don't actually want him... (83 words)

Where can I get her some flowers at such short notice???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I went to Tesco to buy my girlfriend some roses for tomorrow, but they were all dried up and didn't look very nice. Obviously all the good ones were sold out. They had some others that cost £20 that looked nice but I couldn't afford that. This is an emergency. What can I do... (77 words)

Am I insane for having a crush on a dead celebrity, and why did the crush develop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - About 2 years ago in sixth form, there was this girl that i liked. She was part of our group of friends. I slowly began to develop a crush on her and towards the end of sixth form, around january of our final year, i confessed my feelings for her. She of course said that she ... (531 words)

Should it bother me with how many different guys she has slept or had sex with in the past or am I just being greedy and selfish?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend of about 17 months now and I love her very much. She is about 2 years younger than me and grew up in the city while I grew up in a small town, two completely different settings. She was the pretty girl in high school that probably could have had any guy ... (88 words)

I'm 20, and I'm desperate for a baby...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want a child. I put child because I mean it; I want to be a Mum. I'm 20, so if I say Baby people will think I'm some young kid that just likes the thought of not working and having someone to cuddle... I recently asked my boyfriend and he said he'd love to have a baby with ... (214 words)

Boyfriend set up business against me... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a bit of a stange problem... and I really want advice as my friends and family have made their points very clear. My boyfriend and I split up approx 5 months ago and when we did.. he set up an entertainments business. The problem is I run one and he did it out of pure ... (204 words)

I don't want myself to be hurt badly. What do I do for the best?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really in need of your advice here! I've asked 7-8 questions regarding my relationship with her, but i'm not getting responses from you guys. I fall in love with my closest friend lets say A.. Closest among all, and now my best friend and gf. both.. we've shared lots of ... (661 words)

Feeling left out - female and male friends becoming close.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I find it hard to be friends with guys without developing an attachment to them, and i feel its unhealthy as i'm jealous of their female friends and girlfriends because of how close they seem to be. perhaps because I fell that I don't have that kind of relationship with anyone. ... (108 words)

Should I tell him I've slept with his brother long before we got together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started seeing someone, I've known him for years and kept bumping into each other sporadically. Two years ago he was in a relationship of five years, around that time I was going through some stuff and I ended up sleeping with his brother. It never meant anything a... (227 words)

He cheated once... now we're back together, will he hurt me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok. so me and my current boyfriend have dated before. we were together almost 9 months and he cheated on me. now him n this girl are over and me and him are back together. we are almost back to dating for 2 months... but now i have serious trust issues. wut should i do? i mean, ... (145 words)

I'm having a few concerns about my penis.

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Well, I'm having a few concerns about my penis. I'm 14, and a virgin, but I've noticed a few things I'm not sure are normal during masterbation 1) Foreskin Well, when it's not errect, I can pull it over my bellend fine. When it's semi-errect, I can pull it over ... (125 words)

How can you compare an old person dying to the death of a child???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) age - Our child died, not long time ago. The grief is unbelievable. But we are trying to deal with it. What is really a big question to me, how come the extended family doesn't seem to understand our pain. And, my really big problem is, that they compare the loss of a child, t... (194 words)

She's like an addiction!!!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello cupids. For the past five years I have been in an on again off again relationship that isnt very healthy, theres been a lot of lies, fights physical and verbal and cheating. I have never cheated, I know that this is a bad relationship and the problem is I cant leave, I ... (215 words)

I know I'm in love but how do I know if he is?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my boyfriend for a while now and we both say that we love each other and we seem to be in appearances but I keep getting this gut feeling that he doesn't want me to be anywhere near him. I know I'm so in love with him and the thought of losing him kills me. ... (201 words)

My LDR boyfriend has a case of cold feet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been involved in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years now. We are literally on the other side of the world from each other, but considering the crazy distance we were able to see each other every 3 to 4 months on average. Now he is a few hours away from ... (588 words)

My fiance's parents aren't too thrilled about our announcement!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I proposed to my same sex partner a while ago and she said yes. We are very excited and happy. I told my family who were really pleased and even more excited for us.We told my partners parents and they were not that pleased. Her mother cried( not happy tears)and was asking if ... (307 words)

I'm thinking of going with a male prostitute and have started to save up.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I am 25 and I have had two long term relationships lasting three years each. Neither of the men wanted to have sex with me. I recently started seeing a new man and he isn't putting the moves on my but like the last two is talking about marriage... I REALLY want to h... (143 words)

My friend is going with my crush to prom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so I have a bit of a dilema. My friend, who is a boy, asked me to prom and I said yes. But my best friend just told me she is going to prom wih this guy. But the guy she is going with I have a major crush on. But, my friend dosent know this. Another problem is he kept ... (143 words)

I love her something terrible and I'm not going to be a wimp!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So right to it. there's this girl who I took for big big granted. I've always bee pretty much a player so I didn't have to worry about losing girls unless I decided I didn't want them around. This one girl got sick of my crap and doesn't give a crap about me. Usually that ... (462 words)

We're married now but I still get so angry even when I hear her ex's name!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I think I need some professional help. But I'm embarrassed to admit it. Or is what I'm going through normal? To summerize, in 2009 I had been dating my girlfriend for 6 months. She graduated college and took a 2 week vacation to visit her parents. I found out during that trip... (507 words)

Am I looking too much into this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - On a recent trip out of the city with my sports team, I realized I had a major crush on this guy. Now thing is, I barely met him this year and we're not close but we do talk to each other. I don't know if I'm reading too much into this, my wishful thinking kicking in, or what ... (187 words)

Should I ask HIM out? Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, So I have had a TA since September now. As soon as I saw him for the first time I was attracted. He has been giving me extremely high grades and has consistently gone out of his way to help me; seeing my outside his office hours later at night or in the morning.... (175 words)

Did I make a rash decision because I felt too suffocated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend after feeling as though I didn't care for him in the same way he cares for me, to the point where I began to feel guilty (as though I was almost stringing him along). This feeling only came about very recently. We'd been dating for abou... (185 words)

My boyfriend's obsession with young lap dancers!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend goes to lap dancers clubs often with his mates. He says he goes there for the girls. I told him I do not like it that he pays these women, I do not like him going there, as I see it as his way of ogling young women in nudity, he has obsessions with younger w... (194 words)

Where to meet the right woman to date?

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi friends, I'm a black guy within the age group of 24, I'm for the first time in my life seeking for relationship. I'm about to graduate from the Univ, and I have never been in a relationship. I see a lot of beautiful girls that meet my match, but I'm afraid that they might ... (206 words)

Our conversations last for all of 5 minutes!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month the last time we saw each other was three weeks ago as we have both been busy.We used to talk loads on facebook,he always used to start the conversation but now whenever hes online i have to start the conversation and it lasts ... (78 words)

Should I keep on playing him?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A few weeks ago I kissed this guy for the first time- and it was my first kiss. Ever. We get on really well and we're also really, really close. I count him as one of my best friends because he's trustworthy, loyal and an amazing listener. We talk on MSN every night and then... (223 words)

Advice on how to re-build my social life???

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been through such a whirl wind of situations and circumstances that I am not sure exactly where I should begun so I will try to explain my life story as briefly as possible. I started off with a major struggle early on in life. I was born P.D.D., or pervasive ... (543 words)

I'm not sure why my girlfriend won't swallow!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend won't swallow during oral sex, yet she has in previous relationships, in fact she said she used to like it. I'd really like her to do it to me. Why won't she? Can she really like it with past partners? Can I make it taste better?... (48 words)

Gift ideas for our anniversary...

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So this isn't a major thing but if I could get answers soon I would majorly appreciate it! So the 24th is mine and my boyfriends one year anniversary. We will celebrate the 26th, seeing as the 24th is a school day haha Anyways I'm having trouble deciding what to get him... (190 words)

Should I listen to the Beatles and "Let it Be"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why did she apologize for leaving me to see her friend? This girl and I were hanging around yesterday and well I knew she was going to leave me to meet up with a friend afterwards. So she left quickly and we both said good bye and well it didn't bother me. Then latter that... (158 words)

What kind of things do high school boys look for in a girl?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - What kind of things do high school boys like in a girl for them to like that girl? Do they need to look, act, and dress in a certain way for that guy to like them? Is it better to try and be their friend first? But more importantly, what kind of personality does a guy like in ... (61 words)

I've become very withdrawn after breaking off contact with her. Is this normal??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am the same poster who wrote this: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-kniow-she-is-bad-for-me-but.html I have actually broken off contact with her for several weeks now. For those who need background, it was a girl who I knew for a year who I realized was bad f... (139 words)

No matter what position, I cannot achieve orgasm through penetrative sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this is a little embarassing... I am 25 years old and should know all about this but.... I dont. I have never had an orgasm while having intercourse. I have been intimate with several men and tried every position possible and still no big "O" I have had a clitoral org... (90 words)

Apart from me, her boyfriend is the most perfect person she knows. What does she mean by this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up 3 years ago and we live about 80 miles from each other now. Recently she told me, "Apart from you, he [her boyfriend] is the most perfect person I know." What should I make of her comment? ... (47 words)

For those over 35: What would you have done differently in your relationships when you were younger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, OK, I read a lot of questions on Dear Cupid by people in their early to late 20s who are stumbling about in their relationships over issues of trust, commitment, priorities, responsibility, etc. So I was wondering if the older DC folks could pass on their wisdom of experi... (113 words)

How do I tell my job that I need time off for my wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi...... so I'm getting married in about three months I just got hired at a new job and I don't know how to tell them that I will be needing time off for my wedding because of the 90 day probation ????... (43 words)

Text fling!!!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years ish now and no matter how much I moan about him or our little arguments I love him to bits and the thought of having to be without him kills me. He has a group of friends we all go out every other weekend and all the boys get on and ... (417 words)

Why is this guy having such an effect on me?

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13 February 2011 (F)

- I really need some advice. I met this guy 6 weeks ago and he absolutely blew me away. It was like love at first sight. We exchanged numbers and went on dates and it was amazing. He was amazing. He was like the perfect guy for me. Until he told me he worked 300 miles away and ... (258 words)

Just sent her a surprise for valentines day and I've found out she's cheating! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my girl were supposed to be taking a break from each other but still datin.. i was only gone 2 days and on the third i decided to pop up and see what she's doing but wen i arrived, she had another dude over and he was like... they had been dating for a week now and weve ... (163 words)

I just want to be 100% happy, not 75% and have to find the other 25% elsewhere.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months. We have known each other for 8 years on and off. I had a crush on him when I was 12. We never went out or did anything until I was 19 with the exception of a drunk mini makeout session when I was 14. That is just a bit of ... (1378 words)

Pregnant and I don't know which ones the father! What do I tell them!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I just found out the other day that I am pregnant but I had sex with 2 guys around the time my doctor said I got pregnant. I was having sex with my boyfriend at the time but I was with another friend and we just got carried away. I don't live near one of the guys because ... (125 words)

I'm confused by his actions. Is he really my boyfriend or does he have reservations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I'm really confused on what to do with my boyfriend. We've been dating for about 7 months. We were casually seeing each other at first, but then he asked my to be his girlfriend and I agreed. When we're alone he's amazing. He tells me how much he cares about me ... (353 words)

I have a crush on my friend's ex. would it be OK to drop hints to him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy at school who sits behind me in homeroom. I really want to go out with him but he's one of my friend's ex. I like him and he flirts with me and i've been there when he went through rough breakups. We talk to each other and share jokes. But he hasn't made a h... (92 words)

Do want help and advice, but not pity. But how do I better handle my battle with being obsessive and narcissistic ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello i am an obsessive co-dependent in love with a narcissistic. I am a kind loving person but try to also control everything.(so no one gets hurt) Anyway my question to everyone is how can i stop letting him hurt me? He couldn't care less while i'm busting myself to do ever... (80 words)

My piercing is ruining my sex life. Does anyone else have tips on how to fix these problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, back in November i got a VCH piercing. I spent years researching it and was 110% sure i wanted one. Fast forward to now and it is still tender and ruining my sex life. Especially when i have to ask my boyfriend to stop doing what he's doing, because it hurts. I've c... (126 words)

What do I need to do to be accepted as a friend by this girl? She seems super resistant to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend's circle of friends includes 3 other guys, and just 1 girl. I get along fantastically with all of the guys, however, the girl seems resistant to accept me, or be my friend. I get the feeling that she's jealous of me because she feels like I'm stealing her frie... (109 words)

My over protective childhood makes me feel like a teen, not 23. what do I need to do to grow up and face the world as it is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've grown up being sheltered from the big bad world, and it's biting me back right now. My parents were always about the whole true love deal and only getting into a relationship when you thought it could be long term/forever. They always wanted to protect me from ever... (292 words)

I'm having problems with my Mum. How can I get her to listen to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Lately my mum and me have been getting into a lot of arguments and although when she is in a good mood she is like a best friend, when she is in a bad mood she is being horrible. My sister and I have realized that she always thinks she is right. even if the world has a diff... (144 words)

What should I take it to mean when a girl gets this close?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 20. What should I read into a girl's motivation and intentions and does it mean anything if a girl lies back onto my chest and starts rubbing my hair?... (30 words)

Am I too demanding? Or is he too insensitive?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 5 years. It’s one that I had to keep secret from my family and relatives due to cultural barriers. We were committed to making this work. Although it was extremely difficult for both of us, I finally managed to build up the courage to open up t... (706 words)

Revival tips needed please? I want to know how to improve my LDR with my boyfriend since he's become boring

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship since four years ago. my boyfriend is really nice and sweet but the problem is he doesn't share anything with me.. while on the other hand,i give him all the tiniest of detail.. i don't know why but his friends dont interact with me.. i a... (104 words)

How can I rake up the courage to end this relationship with this very over sensitive controlling guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I apologize in advance if this gets long. I have a feeling I may start to vent. I've had bad relationships in the past. I seem to keep going after the same people, though, I don't realize it until it's months in and their true selves start shining through. I had a terrible a... (1551 words)

We hardly communicate effectively. He's sensitive. How do I improve our communication?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a new relationship after the death of my husband in 2007. How do I deal with an emotionally sensitive person? we hardly communicate effectively. I don't know how to handle this. ... (38 words)

We are good mates, but it looks like he wants more. I'm not sure. Should I allow it to become more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - For a long time now everyone has been telling me to get with a particular boy. This morning he told me he loved me, but we are really good friends. I dont know how I feel. We are already good mates and have gone out with friends a couple of times before. It is Valentines d... (93 words)

Should I ask him directly? He's a shy kind of guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, thank you for answering my previous questions guys......but i have one more question to ask..... the guy I talked about before... he called me on my birthday i.e. on 11 Feb he wished me Happy Birthday. Since then he has called me everyday, but he only talks about othe... (136 words)

Are all our dates going to be as awkward as this one?

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13 February 2011 (F) age 26-29 - Ok I had my first date a few months ago days before the date I was super excited and we went to the movie so I was kind of hoping that I would get my first kiss in the dark movie theater but I was wrong he brought his 3 cousins ,mom,sister and his cousins were sittting right ... (91 words)

Do I have myself a friend with benefits?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - ok i met this girl at a bar who was an acquantinces.. and we made out that night and got her number.. the other week she wrote me a private msg on facebook saying that she doesnt want a relationship with me but she wrote saying 'we could have crazy ass moments together... (119 words)

Did he have an affair and can we ever get past it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

13 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Did my husband have an affair? I have been married for 17 years this year.Our sex life for the last 10 years had been almost non existant. It all came to a head about 2 years ago. My husband was being flirty with a work colleague and going out with her and other people and... (459 words)

She thinks she can still have all the care and attention from me but wont have to love me?

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i need help please...long story short,there is this girl(my second cousin to be precise) with whom i came close to for a while...we shared everythng, talked day and night, laughed at the world etc. she was sensible and understanding, but even more caring than that. she ... (648 words)

The only thing I know is that I've liked him since we first met!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i have known this guy for 5 months, and from the first time i met him there was something about him, i cant really pin point what it is but yeh. hes in the year above me at school, and we used to talk all the time. i had made out with him a few times. after 3 months of knowning... (517 words)

She broke up with me because she said I didn't make her 1st priority

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So, me and my bf broke up and now we are trying to get back together. she started to date her Bestfriend knowing she still loved me. The thing is the reason she broke up with me was because she says that she is not my first priority in life. That im always busy and that basicly ... (158 words)

Girlfriend and I are always arguing about my son!

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Allways end up arguing with my gf about my son. It's not that she doesn't want me to see him, it's more the fact that I want us all to get along togeather. We meet about 4 years ago I lived alone my son ame to visit me every other weekend. Then I moved in with my gf and her ... (147 words)

Pregnant again by my married lover, and I'm not sure that I want to have the baby!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a man who I fell in love with. We had a baby last year. During the time that I was pregnant we had a falling out and he started seeing someone else and married her. I was a complete fool and had sex with him again. I am now pregnant again. He has told me that he does ... (361 words)

How can we get past everything to actually listen to one another?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age - I am having a lot of conflict with my husband. He is a popular sociable man with literally hundreds of friends whereas I am quiet and very insular with about 3 friends! We row all the time as he wants me to go to family unions and for lunches and dinners with his friends and I ... (342 words)

We're both so bitter and unttrustworthy! Should we just end it?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and i have had a turbulent relationship. We started off as best friends...gradually falling for each other. The 1st few months were amazing..till the arguments began...stupid...stupid things...but we'd fight about them almost every day.The rel'ship is a LDR...whic... (153 words)

Why does he always have to be an idiot? I want him to feel guilty!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Wow, I just read most of these responses to columns about boyfriends who forget their girl's birthdays. I have to admit, my boyfriend isn't that much of an asshole. I guess reading these responses makes me feel better about my situation. It's 4:12 am on February 13, my ... (446 words)

I feel trapped but if he harmed himself I would feel guilty for the rest of my life

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've asked a question similar to this a while back, but didn't get a response and some new stuff has come up... so here I go again. And thanks ahead of time to those that read What do u think? What would you do if this was you? I have been with my boyfriend for a little o... (603 words)

I'm getting feelings again for my ex but she has a boyfriend now!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, right. I'm 17 and I'm a lesbian, I have known since I was little and I've no doubts about my sexuality whatsoever. Anyway, I found my ex girlfriend on a website a couple of weeks ago and we started talking again. I met up with her and her boyfriend (bare in mind she's ... (218 words)

My boyfriends dad has just passed away, and my parents won't allow me to visit and be there for him... Is this mean of my parents?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with the guy i really love. We're both 17 and he's my first bf ever. We've been together for almost 9 months now. Yesterday, my bf's dad passed away because of heart attck. The last time my bf got to see his dad was last year during christmas. My bf was ... (265 words)

What actions do I avoid so I don't get put in the friend zone?

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm going to be hanging out for the 2nd time with this girl that I've met. This is will be the 2nd date in my entire life so far, and I'm not sure how to flirt with women. I just talk to them while being nice. I don't want her to put me in the friend zone, so I was wondering ... (65 words)

I am unsure how to flirt with a woman.... Need advice please!!

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13 February 2011 (M)

Why can't I get a girlfriend?

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Why cant I get a girlfriend? Everyone tells me to be myself and it never works. Whats wrong with me?... (23 words)

My bestfriend loves this guy, but I have been getting close with him too... what should I do?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy that i really haven't had any feelings for until earlier this week... and this week has been one emotional week for him and me, so we got together, and as i was leaving, we hugged. This hug wasn't a normal "friend" hug, it was more like this; he hugged m... (168 words)

I told her that I had fallen in love with her, but she said she doesn't feel the same way... what should I do now??

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so there is this girl in college, and we have been friends for a long time. Recently I started to fall in love with her and started doing things out of the way for her. Then when I was sure that it was love and not just an attraction, I told her my feelings. She just ... (96 words)

Six months pregnant and in love with someone else

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been with my bf for almost 3 years now and I am 6 months pregnant. Well not to long ago I met this amazing man! Turns out he is my third cousin. But we have been talking ever since. I don't even have feelings for my bf anymore. My cousin just makes me feel sooo ... (134 words)

I'm an introvert so I actually like being alone a lot of the time. But not this kind of alone.

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 16 year old girl. I'm not happy. I haven't been happy for a while, everyday it feels like I'm on the verge of tears or I just was to scream or punch something. I hate going to school because their's so many people. I have friends but I don't like hanging out with them ... (238 words)

She says that she has issues to resolve, and until then she's afraid she'll cheat

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this girl a while back, and we hit it off pretty well. After a few weeks which consisted of a mixture of hanging out, dates (movies, dinner, etc) she confessed to me that she is really into me, but she is scared that she will cheat on me if we take it to a serious level, ... (389 words)

Are my boyfriend and his sister a little too close?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and his sister are really close. Too close actually... They touch each other more than he touches me! He jokes around by asking her to make out with him a lot. I know that they have been drunk together alone before. She is 15 we are 17. Is it possible they don't ... (144 words)

My wife is texting old high school friends

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13 February 2011 (M)

age - my wife has been texting high school friends reunited through FB. One friend,male, she has been texting often. At one point I knew something was up and found the following text. I love the way you tasted. When confronted she said that nothing physical happened and that they ... (83 words)

Should I try to salvage true, first love?

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay well, my girlfriend and I recently broke up. We had been going out for a year and a half, and I thought it was going great. We had amazing times, and I was the typical nice guy, perfect boyfriend type, because that was the way I was brought up. I was always there for... (1058 words)

I feel bad about what happened in the past but I do love her sister

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well, about 2 years ago I was rejected by a girl I liked and was depressed and sought comfort in anyone. It just so happens that person was one of my best friends and I admitted my "love" for her and she said she loved me and always had. But about to weeks onto the ... (336 words)

He just doesn't respect the way I feel

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months, it's been great I liked him for a while before we went out so I've been seeing this relationship as a bit of a dream. But recently he's been blowing me off at dates to hang out other girls who I know for a fact one of them ... (259 words)

Am I just holding her back from accomplishing what she wants out of life because I'm selfish?

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for 10 months. She is 28 and I'm 23. We moved in together about 3 months ago and we do everything together now. She has all these plans for her future about marriage and kids and all that stuff and I perhaps have less direction in ... (321 words)

Does having a baby really hurt ?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I heard having a baby really hurts . I'm excited about having my baby buy I'm scared too I'm afraid to push the baby out I don't enjoy pain very much and I'm also worried my boyfriend won't be there because he goes to work during the day and comes home very late at night and I ... (74 words)

In the middle between two bffs fighting over guys

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so this week drama has been happening with my two bff's. They fight over guys. And they make me go between and pick sides. I just hate doing that. I want them to grow up a bit and become more sophisticated and just act cool. They both trash talk each other and i hate it. ... (64 words)

Why does my x-emotional affair start talking to me again after telling me good bye?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello: I had an emotional affair with this guy at work. THings got pretty rough, a lot of back and forth 'games' almost with his behavior. Work place drama put a wedge between us. I carried a torch a while over him, dealing with his hot and cold back and forth behavior ... (277 words)

My boyfriend is perpetually undecided and has no personal commitments...is there any hope for us?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I love each other but we have a problem in the relationship. We've been together for almost a year, almost right from the start we have been with each other practically 24/7, and about 3 months we started living togther (as we lived a couple of hours apart b... (706 words)

Do you see any hope?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys.. I read through a few topics and realized its not only me who was going through the stress of breaking up with someone u love more than ur life.. I basically come from India and i was in a relationship with this guy (indian as well) from over 2:5 years now.. it ... (1558 words)

My BF left after having sex and messaged me..."I am not attracted to you anymore" ...

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. As I sit here writing this I feel pain, hurt, im emotional and a billion other things. Me and my boyfriend of 4 years had sex like 1 hour ago. It seemed to being going good until I got ontop of him and I felt like he was just sitting there bored out of his mind.... (136 words)

After having led me on with the promise of a life together, he suddenly decides to bail out. Should I tell his wife about the whole sham?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Where to start. I fell in love with a married man. He told me that he was on his way out of his marriage. He gave me horror stories about his wife. 8, 9, 10 months go by and he and I are more in love than I've ever been with anyone and I'm not young. Naive maybe but not young. ... (323 words)

How do I handle a threatening group at school?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so there's this girl in my school who's like really ghetto. And she has her own "posse" but so do i and i'm the leader of mine except i'm not ghetto at all. In fact the ghetto girl calls me "blonde" but i have brown hair and i'm part african. She thinks she rules the ... (125 words)

He's unhappily married...should I give "us" a shot again?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in love with my ex boyfriend..I never stopped thinking of him, even while being with another. I saw him for the first time since 2003. Exchanged #'s and boom the chemistry was hot and back all over like we were still together. I ended up meeting some where to eat and we ... (147 words)

Great relationship... ermmm... except for the sex!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Have been dating a great man for seven months. Was never particularly physically attracted, but he's ok to me physically. Anyway, got into it for a few months, but after 3-4 months, have been very turned off physically. He's fairly overweight and not into exercise and working ... (337 words)

How long does a sperm live inside you?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This morning (feb 12th) I had sex... well last night too. Anyways I found online calendars that say my ovulation week starts tomorrow (feb 13th). Would I have any chance that I'll get pregnant? And I always hear different answers about how long sperm can last inside. I heard ... (65 words)

Addicted to Love...

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I believe that i am addicted to love. I want to know if it is possible. I put up with anything just to have someone. I am so physically and emotionally scared from dragging out horrible relationships. I've fell for addicts over and over from crack to meth and most recently pain ... (147 words)

All my friends are ignoring me and I feel like switching schools. Help!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - All of my friends have been ignoring me lately. It seems everyone else has their own clique except me, I'm thirteen. I only have about three friends I can actually talk to, and I have been feeling really depressed about this for a few months now. I feel like switching schools, ... (71 words)

How can I forgive him for all the hurt he has caused me?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I posted a question yesterday, but I didn't give many details, so I shall give them now. Three and a half years ago, my boyfriend and I started dating. We were both 17 then and we had been each others firsts. We've always been happy together and have never really had... (743 words)

How do I hold a conversation with him?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I been talking to this guy for about two weeks and he is wonderful. I am 18 and he is 30. we met up and hung out then the second time we met up we had sex. but when we were done we didn't talk much. It was kind of awkward. He later texted me and said that the age difference ... (152 words)

Stressing out here over a "date!"

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I went to ask a girl out, but ended up not directly doing so, instead asking if she wanted to come for a steak she agreed but we had to change the time till today. Anyway I'm stressing out what to do, as it is or isnt a date and I don't know how to act like it is, or make ... (74 words)

Is there something wrong with my sex drive?

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - What is the matter with my sex drive? I consider myself to be a pretty sexual person. I'm 22 and I've been sexually active for over five years. There have been times where I've struggled to maintain an erection during sex, which put me in a negative state of mind. I'm usuall... (257 words)

The new lecturer!!!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! First up, I would like to thank you in advance for reading my post. Here's my problem: I'm in my second year of studying performance art and with it came a new lecturer. Well he's not that new because I used to see him around campus as he always teaches a subject... (268 words)

My husband makes me feel lonely...

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13 February 2011 (F)

age - I have been married for 19 months we really loved each other and although we are in our 40s we couldnt wait to get married we were together 4 years before we married. Almost immidiatel yafter he put the ring on my finger the sex stopped. We have only had sex 9 times in 19 ... (147 words)

I wonder whether this guy like me. Help!

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I wonder whether this guy like me. I had noticed that he looked at me quite often. A friends mentioned to him ( as she knows him) that she should invite him and I over for a meal as we are both single. He was ok about that. He from there on actually came and chatted briefly. ... (97 words)

He is just sooo embarrassed! Why?

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13 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can someone give me some advice? There's an amazing guy at work who I have a huge crush on. There was some intense chemistry between us when we first met (just polite chat) and the second time we met he blushed. After that, I think the attraction was mutual although ... (290 words)

Should I "come out" and tell my parents by letter?

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm gay and started university in October last year. The plan was to join the LGBT society, even though I was not out to anyone. I've now told some people who I live with that I'm gay,and, somehow, there's a rumour going round the rest that I am. One question I want to ask i... (202 words)

Mixed messages...

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - To cut a long story short, me and this girl we went out when we young, like 12/13. Then we went out again when we were 16 for 7 months. We've been broken up for 6 months. It was all a mess and I still like her. We didn't get on for a while but now we do. We talk a lot. On New ... (263 words)

She means the world to me and I've lost her... should I give up or fight for her?

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13 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Thank you all for helping me through a difficult time of mine. So im not a perfect guy. When it comes to girls I dont exactly show a lot of love... I keep most of it away that way break ups are'nt tough... right? Well my ex-girlfriend and I broke up about 3 days ago. Most of ... (365 words)