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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Will it seem needy and desperate if I text him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

- Hi there, I met a guy on new years ago through mutual friends and we got on really well. I did not want to swap numbers with him at the time as he was still texting his ex then - turns out now that she was messing him about and he has now completely cut off contact with her... (496 words)

I have a boyfriend who loves me....but I'm starting to fall for my ex again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old, and I've been dating my boyfriend (let's call him O) for around 6 months, and its properly serious. I've only had one serious relationship before this one (let's call him L), here we were friends before we started dating. It ended about two years ago now, but... (478 words)

My boyfriend was losing interest, so I broke up with him. Later, we had sex, but now he is ignoring me! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex boyfiend and I broke up 6 weeks ago. It was my decision as he seemed to have lost interest, though he said he still liked me and wanted to still see me and occasionally go out! He started texting me almost straight away, it got dirty flirty regularly, he then started ... (211 words)

The man I love proposed to a woman back home. He is giving me mixed signals. Help!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I have posted similar questions to this issue, and this is somewhat of a followup question. I have fallen for a foreign-exchange student who loves another that may or may not return the feelings. It is a relationship from his past that was on and off for several ... (568 words)

Should I take it as a compliment that he doesn't want to date me?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i really like my best friend a lot hes a male and we've been friends for over a year. we have spoken about dating but he says hes views me as an older sister the way ive been there for him (hes had a lot of personal crap)and how ive helped him and hes been able to talk to me so ... (117 words)

How do you know when someone says "I Love You" they mean it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when someone says "I Love You" they mean it? ... (13 words)

Is this a normal way for best friends to act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently Me and my best friend admitted over the computer that we like each other. It's not awkward in person, when we go over to each others houses we cuddle on each others beds and tickle each other. I feel really comfortable with him and I want to kiss him but I think it ... (148 words)

Recently engaged...but scared to tell me parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating the same guy since i was 14. My parents never liked him but I stayed with him. 6 months into our relationship I found out he cheated on me so I ended our relationship. After being seperated for more than 15 months we got back together. We recently got engaged ... (68 words)

What do married men think of women who are friends with his wife, but flirts with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What does a married man really think of a woman that flirts with him? What does he think of her character as a person? Does he really think he can trust someone like that? Especially if he sees that she is friendly with his wife? ... (50 words)

After my girlfriend told me about her sexual past, I am disgusted! Should I have sex with her and leave her, or lose my virginity to another?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dating this girl that is crazy in love with me. However, she started talking about her past. She told me that she didn't want anything between us and that she needed to tell me everything, because she trusts me and so on and so forth. Now after she told me about... (609 words)

He's so mysterious, is that bad? How can I get him to open up more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks for reading. There's a guy who's been really patient with me and persistent to know me and I've become interested in him. Here's the snag, he's a bit mysterious and doesn't talk much about himself. I really have to think of things to ask him and even then I get rathe... (198 words)

My husband works alone at night, and someone caught him masturbating. Please help me understand why he did this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age - Well,the last time I told all about my husband playing with himself at work and losing his job. He worked at night by himself, but someone caught him and he has done this before. Just never got caught. I asked him time after time and he is getting counseling. He says he ... (212 words)

Oral sex or a hand job? Guys, which do you prefer, or are they just the same?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a question for the guys here. This is so embarrassing because I'm a female, but which one feels better and why? Hand job or blow job or is it just the same? ... (38 words)

I googled my girlfriend's name and found a homemade sex video that may be of her. Should I ask her about it, or just drop it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I regularly play on Google just randomly googling up stuff and I tried googling my girlfriend just to see what came up, all ordinary, Facebook, Myspace, etc. Then I took off the filter and after going through many of the main pages, I found some homemade videos porn site ... (208 words)

Help with confidence sucking friends...ideas?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been with my gf almost 4yrs nw. her old bestie ditched her once she knew she was going out with a girl even though hangs out with a group of leasbians. The bestie is straight (or supposedly). when me and my girl started going going out this girl turned all her frie... (206 words)

I love her but her last lie may cost me my life. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, This is my first time writing, I'd really like some good advice with the situation I am in involving myself and my ex girlfriend/girlfriend - this I will explain below. There is so much to consider it will be difficult for me to explain all of it. I apprecia... (1524 words)

My bf doesn't like the fact I'm bi...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hiya I don't really know what to do. Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a year now and I've told him things that I've never told anyone else, and one of the things was that I was bi, which now I think was a stupid idea :'(. He didn't take it very well though ... (115 words)

I gave my boyfriend my first hand job. Was his reaction good or bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I gave my first handjob after wracking my brain for two weeks about doing it. My boyfriend and I were together a month and a half last year in September/October. He broke up with me, and we got back together in December and are still together now. But we had never do... (225 words)

After watching porn, I feel insecure about my penis size. Is there a way to make it larger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 22 years old man. My penis size is 2-3 inches in normal condition and it is 5 inches when erect. I am feeling so shy about my penis after watching porn videos. If I get married, will my wife live happily with me? These are some of questions that are hurting me. ... (124 words)

Does body size matter to a guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do men find a curvy body attractive??? I am short lol! Only 5'4" JUST!!! and I am not a skinny girl like, I wish I was more hourglass too, my measurements are 38-35-42 and I just want to know, do guys like girls with a bit extra on the bottom and does it turn them on????... (57 words)

He's Not So Good at Compromising

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to make a few people chuckle, I guarantee it :) I adore my boyfriend with my whole heart, and we're definitely heading down the serious road. We're about to graduate, and we've been talking about moving in together after we get more established. I'm psyched ... (247 words)

I'm a good person in everyones eyes except my mothers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My relationship with my mother was never good and it is even getting worse as we both get older, despite my frequent attempts to improve our relationship from my side. I am very obedient. I always did what she wants me to do hoping this way she will love me. I feel that my ... (422 words)

I thought we had a connection..and I have a girlfriend already..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) age 41-50 - Hello people Just need your opinion. I have only worked at my new place for 5 weeks, it's a big retail store. In the last few weeks I have been speaking and really flirting with a girl there. She works in a different part of the store from me but every time I see her, the ey... (186 words)

I've had a rocky time, is this choice gonna make things better or worse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - 2009-2010 was not a good year for me. There was bullying and a lot of other stuff going on. At the end of it I was pretty much broken and suicidal. In August I hit rock bottom. Then I started to heal. Now, I've started to enjoy life again. I've met this new boy. From talkin... (146 words)

I just want another chance, but how do I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry if this is a little long, so for those who have time to read it and give me advice - many thanks in advance. So, it's been about 4 months since my ex bf broke up with me. We started dating the summer before I went back to school for my last year of college, so we on... (642 words)

I don't know if this is what I want anymore..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just split up with my partner of 16 yrs. He loves me totally, but I am so confused. Things haven't been right for a while and I don't know if I am still in love with him or not...I am in my 30's and he was my 1st love, but lately I have been wondering what it would be ... (77 words)

I'm crazy about him, but I don't know what I'm doing..

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted earlier that im in a relationship with a guy in prison for 13 1/2 years to go.... I'm competely infatuated with him. He is the most caring, sweetest, sexiest guy I have ever met in my life, and it was my idea to hook up, because long after he was locked up, I stil... (232 words)

Riddled with guilt, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 35 year old woman married for 3 years now. I had a lapse of judgement a few months ago and had an affair with a man in the town that I live in. I saw this man for three months and we were very sexually active. I broke it off after I thought someone I knew found out abou... (92 words)

My hearts in prison, but I'm with my ex and our baby, am I committing a worse crime??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I haven't been on this site in a while, but now i'm in desperate need of it again. My situation is very unique. I fell head over heals in love with someone I met in my past that i've always loved. The thing is, he's in prison for 13 1/2 more years right now (t... (412 words)

Can feelings change if I change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Do you think that after time away, someone's feelings towards another can change? (become romantic) Especially if one of the two (i.e. the one who has not been away) has changed somewhat in a positive manner? We are best friends. Thats why I post here...I was rejected before.... (68 words)

I'm not scared..but I still stop it, why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Heey:) I'm 13 and the other day I had a boy round my house, and we were bored so he wanted to play nervous, a game were you touch eachother in certain parts, and he went up my shorts and in my nickers then I stopped him before he could do anything, I don't want to get fingered... (75 words)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy at my school and we talk all the time online but he has a really really pretty ex girlfriend who, until recently, he was still in love with, but they still talk everyday and she flirts with him loads even though she doesnt like him, only as a best friend. ... (129 words)

Agressive partner or scared child??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I've had a relationship with a man for 9 years. Although over 9 years ago we split up for a while, but, then we got back together. He can be aggresive and spiteful, but he never physically hurts me. But it's affecting my 13 year old girl, as they don't always get on and he c... (78 words)

She denied cheating on me, and I've gotten over that hurdle, but now I am losing her! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in a long distance relationship with a girl I met about 7 months ago. We only officially started dating about 3 months ago. Things were wonderful in the beginning. We got along so wonderfully, we would talk all night on the phone. We would laugh and watch movies ... (660 words)

I'm straight...is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 female and straight. But i'm only turned on by lesbian porn, is this normal???... (17 words)

His brother is trying to sabotoge our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very much and is very much serious about him. I know that very well that his brother doesn't like our commitment. Recently I came to know the reason behind this hatred, his brother liked me before. But I accepted my boyfriend's proposal before he proposed ... (271 words)

Am I puritan for staying a virgin at 18?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am an 18 year old girl who is a virgin. All of my friends have had sexual relations prior to turning 18. They say I am a puritan and should be having sex at my age. I think I am right in that I want to wait until I am married. Am I wrong ?... (56 words)

My girlfriend is going to prom with someone else!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I am sort of in a dilemma. I am in highschool and I have a girlfriend of about 6 months. We both really like each other, talk everyday, and just generally feel really relaxed and comfortable around each other. But now, as the time for prom nears and dates are being ... (304 words)

My girlfriend is best friends with her ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I really really like my gf. But she is best friends with her ex. She tells him everything, and it kills me. In all honesty i understand being friends with an ex, but being best friends. Its more than i can take but i cant be the kind of guy who tells his gf to not to talk to ... (65 words)

I'm not that experienced but my boyfriend is, I need help..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend has been pretty sexually active before and I haven't. I want to know how to practice giving a blowjob before I do it on him?... (29 words)

I just want to know if you can or not....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a virgin but my boyfriend has been fingering me a few times. I was wandering if there is any way I can make my vagina hole smaller again???... (30 words)

Others say I'm pretty, why can't my boyfriend?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel so upset. I asked my boyfriend if I am pretty. He said that I am not very pretty but I am cute because of my cheerful character. He doesn't think that I am pretty he just said that he loves me because of my character and that I have a good heart. He said that a guy ... (126 words)

Will my feelings come back even though I've moved on?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I'm a little scared. I use to be love this boy so much. Then one day he got sick and never came back to school. Now hes in the office and I dont know why but he's been in there since november. Then in december I got a boyfriend and threw away all my feelings for the... (196 words)

1 last thing before we settle, should I let him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been friends with my guy for over 10 years and we hooked up at new year, 2010. We are both in our late 30's and it feels very serious and we are discussing getting married and having kids. Basically he booked a holiday to Thailand before we got together with the specific... (175 words)

Talking just doesn't exist for us anymore...why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I really don't know what to do anymore. My boyfriend and I just don't talk at all. We say a few things like "Hi" or "Come here" or "can i borrow something" stuff like that. But we never have a conversation. We go to the same school but we dont even go by each other. After ... (149 words)

I want to meet somebody, but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Am 23years old sexy healthy guy from East europe but am shy to meet girls or get a girlfriend how to approach them and how to ask please help... (29 words)

We both just got out of other relationships. I like him, but he acts hot and cold toward me! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well where to start with this one ... My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, who I was with for 4 years, (I am now 20), well we have split up and it has been very hard for me. He was my first love and boyfriend but we have been through some very difficult times. He cheated on me and ... (442 words)

Could I get pregnant doing this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i want to remain a vargin until marrige but my boyfriend doesnt so we do mess around. He has rubbed his penis around my anus area and almost by my vaginal area i just want to make sure that there is no way i can get pregnant unless the penus is inside the vagina?... (56 words)

I cannot get over someone who I never really had in the first place

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

- Hey all, well here I go again with my problem. Ive already posted about this before, but Im still not feeling any better. Basically, I just cannot get over someone who I never really had in the first place. I met him at new year, we started seeing each other until 2 weeks ag... (303 words)

I am in llove with my bestfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Unfortunately, I am in love with my best friend. We've been really close for a year now; at the beginning of the year, we flirted all the time, had hours upon hours of conversation on skype...then, we became even closer and started sharing all our personal stories we couldn't ... (415 words)

Baby on the way, when is the right time to.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I found out a few weeks ago that I am 12 weeks pregnant. Me and my partner are very happy, we have been together 1 1/2 years, I Know that isn't a long time but we love each other. We want to keep this baby because with his job and me working part time I think everything will ... (152 words)

He says "I increase the value of his life?" What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - A man i have been seeing Since Nov told me I was a valued friend and he told me I increase the Value of his life. Does that mean he loves me or likes me as a really good friend? We are not exculsive and I know he sees another girl. He does not know I know. So I wonder wha... (80 words)

22 year old virgin who thinks she can do better...advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - SO im a 22 year old female virgin. and i also never had a boyfriend. lame i know. anywayz there is one guy that is interested in me but i feel like i can do better than him. messed up right? hes nice when hes sober, but when hes drunk hes annoying, he has a reputation of being ... (364 words)

I want to date my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My best friend (male) and I are really close but when we were in first year we fought like cat and dog. Then he asked me out and I said no but now I really like him and have already asked him out and he said no. He is also sending mixed messages so what can I do? ... (58 words)

Which guy wants me for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been infatuated with this guy for about 6 months now.. i asked him out twice in the time i liked him, and even though i knew it was wrong, i used to sext (sex text) him, but recently, i moved on, though i still love him. I now fancy another guy, and he asks me to sext ... (215 words)

Why do men like to finger women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am just curious why guys like to finger their girlfriend? Do they get any pleasure beside her returning him a favour like a bj?... (25 words)

What does this text mean? is his feelings genuine

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - well ive been meeting a lad who lives with his ex girlfriend, i have asked other questions relating to this...if you would like to have a look? his ex girlfriend only lives there because she has nowhere to live till she gets herself sorted. they sleep in seperate beds, shes ... (309 words)

Should I just end things? I don't like feeling like a fool!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Once again i have boyfriend problems. We made up after our break and he is still ignoring me, we are in a LDR and he just doesn't ever want to text or ring me and it really gets me down. The other weekend I was meant to go down to visit him at his uni, but he made up excuses to ... (122 words)

B/f broke up with me and is now ringing me asking for another chance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) age 30-35 - What should I do about my boyfriend? I love him so much:(? My boyfriend broke up with a couple of hours ago, he said he's not the guy for me he doesn't deserve me and I could find someone better who would give me everything I want in life, and he wants to be alone with out... (196 words)

I am tired of being treated like a slut.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 20 year old pre op transexual. I consider myself to be a women and live 24/7 as one. I am 17 months into hormone replacement therapy and hopefully if I can save up enough money I intend to get SRS, sex reassignment surgery. Whenever I meet a man I always tell them ... (145 words)

How do I control a family situation that could spiral out of control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Readers, Thank-you very much for your past support. At present my daughter is at Boarding School. What I suspected would happen has, with my Mother and now Sister calling me up to 4 times a day. Previous to my daughter going to Boarding School my sister didn't contact ... (785 words)

Male input please!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Having read so many posts from blokes complaining about their girlfriends, wives etc never initiating sexual acts (be it oral, full intercourse or whatever) I realized I'm one of these women. I read one post that struck a chord - my boyfriend initiating sex makes me feel de... (124 words)

She used me and I need to confront her on it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am in serious need of help, The girl I thought was my best friend/friend with benefits/girlfriend used the shit out of me and I can't stand it. She said we never dated but I went to her house met her parents went to sporting events picked her up after school to hang went to ... (512 words)

I know he's no good for me, I need to get over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So it's been like 3 years since my ex-boyfriend broke up with me. I've been so hurt that I've been doing things that I'm not supposed to do. We've only been together for 6 months but he is my first love, on the last 3 months of our relationship we did it in a long distance and ... (472 words)

A question mark text...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age - Call me naive but, I'm a little confused as to what my ex is trying to say in a text message he recently sent to me. I have not spoken to my ex in 9 months. Since he left me and became involved with someone else. It was my idea to sever all ties in order to move past the pain ... (472 words)

Should I talk to him about my friends or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so there's this boy, I always talk about him to friends and it seems there taking note of his name and adding him on Facebook. They know that I really like him as a boyfriend, but they're talking to him all the time, and because of this I feel like he's pushing me out, ... (84 words)

I am a virgin, is moving in with my fiancé a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a virgin moving in with my fiancée, is that a good idea? We have been been dating for 2 years, and have been engaged for 4 months. Our wedding is in a month. We have recently bought a house (it has three bedrooms). My fiancee wants us to move in the house, so we don't bo... (167 words)

Boyfriend only talks to me when he is bored!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 1 year is ignoring me often. He talks to me only when he is bored or needs some help. He ignores me other times. I started doubting whether he loves me or he is just using me. I love him a lot, but it looks like i am the one investing more into the ... (82 words)

I get angry for no reason...is this hormonal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I get really angry, for no reason. I get really emotional just before my period, which is normal, but I get angry over nothing at random times. I get angry just walking to school, or sitting in class or at home watching TV- literally for no reason. I get so angry that I f... (106 words)

My past is getting in the way of my present relationship.... please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5046 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this girl for 6-7 years now, we used to be good friends then we started dating more like as a friends, at all those times i really liked her but i wasn't sure if shes the one for me maybe because of the way she was acting that she doesn't care if i have relations or not, ... (597 words)

Height Perception..what's a desirable height?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

27 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - On average, is a height of 5'8 an initial turnoff? I understand that women prefer taller guys, and that 5'8 is a bit below the average height of 5'10-6'. Am I at a general disadvantage in dealing with women? I mean my current girlfriend is 5'4 so its not a dig deal, but what ... (128 words)

Husband is a good hard worker, but, he drinks a lot! What can I do?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need some advice I been married for almost three years, we have 2 kids. My husband is a good hard working dad, but also drinks a lot I try to tell him not to drink so much but he always tells me I exaggerate. He never likes to talk about our problems and always blames it ... (81 words)

Questions about rebound relationships...input?

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27 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - When in a long term relationship of 5 years with him. Broke up but patched back many times, emotionally hurt and has cried a lot. Forgiving him always thinking he might change. A rebound guy was involved for a year, but she threw him away from her life and never talked to him a... (119 words)

I lied to him about my age...what do I do now?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.So I met this guy through a roleplay thing.We became friends and soon began "roleplay dating" Don't ask. Anyways at the time he asked how old I was and I said 16 when I'm really 18 and he's 16.As time moved on we started liking each other and soon began actually dating.T... (181 words)

He's been ignoring me for 7 years now...

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So here it goes...it happened 7 years ago. I was in the same city as the guy i liked(my dad was in the army) and he promised to meet me . . .we were supposed to go out for a movie or something. Well, he never turned up. I was stood up...and there were no apologies...noth... (338 words)

I want to move on. How do I let go and forget about him?

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27 February 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I'm going to try and cut this very long story short. I met up with a guy who i hadn't seen for a long time. We never really spoke at school but got back in touch over Facebook and started chatting on there. A few months later we met up and it was nice. At the end of the night... (522 words)

Married and yet falling in love with my mistress....

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27 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been, I guess, just looking for someone I could talk to who might have experienced what I am going through. I have been married for 6 years. I always thought I was happily married, but I think I have just been content and maybe we are just best friends. She is the only... (249 words)

My 13 year old son is making out with his girlfriend? Should I allow this?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my 13 year old son has a girlfriend the same aged as him. They always hold hands, Kiss all the time, And slap/squeeze/grab each other on the bum. Should i allow this? I think its fine because they aint going far. ... (45 words)

How do you tell if a guy likes you through chats and phone conversations?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - how can you tell if a guy likes you solely through phone conversations and chats . . ? yeah .. its a long distance .. but forget about whether it will work our or not .. I just wanna know if he likes me or not .. and he is not a new acquaintance .. I have known him... (203 words)

Can our friendship be salvaged after all the mess thats been created??

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been really good friends with a guy in my class for almost a year now. Up until recently, we told each other everything -- our deepest secrets, what we were going through at home -- everything -- and the other always listened and offered advice. I've always had issues ... (531 words)

Just wondering...am I a lesbian?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my friend have known each oth since primary 1 and just a while ago we were on her trampoline and i lay down she was on top of me but it started to get wierd whaen my other friend started bowncing because she started going up and down on me but me and her didn't want to ... (64 words)

I don't want to tell my friend that I wet the bed at their house!

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This is so embarrassing but I need to find out and didn't know where else to ask. Last night, after a night out, I slept at a friends house in their bed. They took the couch. When I woke in the middle of the night, I'd wet the bed. I was mortified. I took off my tights ... (274 words)

He doesn't take me seriously that I want to move on!

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - its been 5years since the day my partner promised me his love and loyaltys, were still together today and we have two beutifull children together but his loyalty to me left our lifes about a year ago when he choose to secretly to seek atention from other women using internet. ... (165 words)

Pass it on! I like your friend!

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27 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there i met thing girl last weekend at my friends party. i only knew 3 people there who i go to college with and i knew 1 other who goes to the same college as me but she's in another class doing another course and we don't talk and didn't know each other before the party... (163 words)

I'm crushing and he's staring! Now what?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've crush on my classmate bt i doesn't have confidence to purpose him b'coz i don't know that will he like me or not, bt i catch him staring at me now what will i do plz tell me... (39 words)

5 days ago he said he wanted to kiss me. I haven't heard from him since!

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy at a party back in October,he made it clear he fancied me,but i was in a relationship at the time so didn't take it further.I did like him though.6 wks ago i split up from my boyfriend,and have recently started texting this other guy.I was honest about the split ... (204 words)

4 years and I'm beginning to wonder if I'll ever find love again

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I sometimes wonder if I'll ever find love again. I've only had one serious relationship and that was four years ago. we were together for 2.5years. Back then I was naieve and gullable. I've been on plenty of dates and had the odd boyfriend here n there since then but they never ... (250 words)

Its been a year since I asked him out twice, I don't think I've moved on yet!

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid 3, My name is Teresa, and I've just turned 16 years old. Last year I had a complicated relationship with a 17 year old boy named Eric. It started out with a smile, and later we started talking. Once I got the guts to do so, I asked him out. I actually thought... (217 words)

Did my cheating partner stay with me for me? or for the kids?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently found out that my partner had an affair for several months. My partner said that during this affair, they still loved me and always has and always will. The affair ended because the other person wanted a committment and my partner was not willing to do this as ... (102 words)

After what my interfering father did, is the friendship salvageable?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - At the beginning of this year, I became really good friends with this guy in my class. We hung out and talked all the time for nearly seven months and flirted all the time. At my birthday party, we were dared to kiss and for a week after that, I was sure he was going to ask me ... (380 words)

Bra size.... how do I measure myself for correct sizing??

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - how can i measure myself to make sure i am wearing the crrect bra size?... (15 words)

How do I show this married lady that I am interested in her?

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27 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My neighbour lady(36) is my relative and has 2 childrens. Her husband is abroad. She has some problems with her husband. She shares every matters with me and warned me to don't tell anyone. Every times she will show her cleavage to me by leaning in front of me. i don't ... (170 words)

Taking the contraceptive pill and my periods have changed... is this normal??

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - started taking the pill as directed from the first day of my period. i'm taking it at the same time everyday, but it seems to have affected my period. my period came properly and heavily for 4 days, then lightened off and almost disappeared for 2 days. this is normal for me. ... (89 words)

How long is the perfect time to go?

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27 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - OK, so I've been wondering something and I'm sure that every guy is wondering too, what is the perfect size for a mans erection? I was just wondering, and how long of a time is perfect in for you to orgasm (10, 15, 20 minutes!?). Please I would like to know because I'm not ... (60 words)

Is age just a number?? I like him but he is younger than me!!

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it wierd to fall for a guy that iss 3 years younger then you, cuz i think i have but we really dont care about age , but what i am asking is is it wierd to fall for a guy 3 years younger?... (45 words)

Why did my boy friend's breathing change? What did that mean?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i was at my boyfriends house yesterday and me got into a pretty heavy make out session. i started kissing his neck and his breathing went all funny. he kinda took a massive breath in and then was breathing quickly and deeply. what does this mean? thanks x... (52 words)

If I told girls I was a virgin would it help or hinder me with girls?

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27 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Im 22 years old without a girlfriend atm and I'm wondering if girls would see me differently if I told them I was a virgin.... (25 words)

How can I get him to see it's not healthy for him? he's glued to his computer daily.

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I are a couple for two years (almost) - I'm 22 he's 25. I usually go to sleep around 12 at midnight and sometimes I talk to my boyfriend on the internet before doing it and he says "ok, I'll do the same". But he never does it! He's going to work the next day and... (209 words)

I am so beautiful. Are my friends all just jealous of me?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so beautiful. I have a really nice body and i have double D's. Flirting comes naturally to me. I can honestly say that a lot of people like me and just want to be me. I'm really popular and i have a lot of experience. All my close friends are kind of good girls and they... (124 words)

I am so hurt.... I really feel dead inside!

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I posted another question and it's about how me and my ex have been broke up a month and my ex that I haven't heard from in a month had his guy friend that I do not know anything about and he doesn't know me send me a text message.He said that my ex said we should talk.He ... (360 words)

My best friend is pregnant. My fiance is the father. Should we continue with planning our wedding as he wants to?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for five years and we are getting married in six months so technically he is my fiance. Everything was going so well for me i felt like i was living in a fairytale. My best friend since second grade was helping me plan my wedding. She was ... (200 words)

He liked me until he met my sister. Is my reaction of feeling hurt and betrayed justified?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and i was sure he liked me back... until he met my sister! We are complete opposite she is skinny and beautiful and i'm like the ugly duckling next to her. I had a birthday party and it was a very special to me because he was going to be there. I had told my ... (178 words)

I am suffocating in this marriage. Is my emotional affair with this other man the answer?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I will try to make my story as brief as possible. But please read and share your views. I have been married for a few years to the man of my own choice and am without kids due to many reasons. My in-laws are very interefering and they have messed my initial years of our othe... (761 words)

He's leaving on a long-planned trip; how do I keep some control?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I have been seeing a man for 3 months. The very first night that we met, he told me that he was leaving for overseas in March for 7 months and that he wasn't looking for a relationship. I wasn't looking either at the time. We have so much in common and love each other's ... (521 words)

My b/f LDR move back home -- what about the other guy?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in love with my boyfriend of two years. But his dad got this promotion and he had to move to a different country. We talked about being in a long distance relationship, but with the time difference it became too hard for us. And we ended it. We really did try but it w... (186 words)

Feeling really insecure about my boyfriend...should I talk to him about this?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have a boyfriend who i've been with for about 3 months now. but recently because he's started working full time and we live about an hour away from each other i only really see him on weekends. i'm fine with this i guess, i would like to see him more, but i understa... (325 words)

Twenty-five year old virgin, help!

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27 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I know a lot of guys have problems getting laid, but I’m having a crisis. I’m 25 years old and considered a virgin by everyone. In reality, I did lose my virginity, but not in a way that is something I would brag about. Nothing illegal or immoral, just something arranged. ... (227 words)

My friend told me all men are really gay!

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Are all men GAY??? A guy who once had sex with another guy said to me that all men are gay, and that they just wont admit it, that they don't actually want women they just want to get off or have babies? He said stuff like they think the vagina is the most disgusting thing... (151 words)

We are very compatible but there are many obstacles

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27 February 2011 (F)

age - I need advice regarding a relationship. I meet this man on-line and we seem to hit it off very well. He is very nice and we seem to have so much in common. Now here is the hard part.. The one draw back is that we live in two different cities. About an hour apart. He has 2 ... (192 words)

How can I look better?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! I really need someone to help me out!! So I been having a problem on wearing dresses because my armpits are kind of black. How can I remove it? Is there a away u can remove the blackness away? I also have black in the middle between my legs! I try to clean it off with ... (64 words)

Male opinion needed!

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I live across the street from this guy and girl. The girl: 'X'and I, are friends, not best friends just friends, me and the guy 'Z' and I have a flirtatious relationship, and I made sure X knew that. One day I came home from school and I saw a car parked outside his hous... (381 words)

Ex boyfriend gave me herpes, how do I tell him?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend gave me an STD - Herpes to be exact and I'm scared to tell him. I'm worried he won't believe me because he got tested and came out clean. But the only thing is that he took my virginity and now I have herpes? How do I tell him he gave me an STD? Please I really ... (63 words)

My boyfriends is taking care of his dieing father - being long distance I feel helpless and don't know how to help.

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend (let's call him M) and I have been together for five years. We have had obstacles in this time (grad school, debt, moving) that we have overcome together, and have been better for it. However, we are now in the midst of an awful time, and I have no idea what to ... (495 words)

He's practically stalking her, but if I step in to stop it, am I crossing a line?

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27 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me a few weeks ago. She insists she just needs time to find herself and I'll give her that. I'm not going to get my hopes up.. if we get back together it will be a new relationship.. not the same one. Anyway.. my problem is this guy she ... (364 words)

How do I reassure my insecure man?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a quick question! How do I reassure an insecure man of how I feel about him? He's distanced himself from me lately, and I'm fairly certain that it is because I've not given him enough attention. I'm uncomfortable with expressing my feelings because I feel it makes me vulne... (115 words)

I'm in a long-distance relationship, but I have a crush on a good friend of mine. What should I do?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I am in a long distance relationship with a guy (J) I met online. We have been dating for a year and a half and I have known him for around 3+ years. We have made plans to meet early next year and we are both very busy working towards that (working, studyi... (409 words)

I'm depressed so often, and am so scared of my loved ones dying before I do. How can I help myself to move past this?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm a 15 year old girl and recently I have been concearning myself about the deppressing thoughts I have been having. I keep thinking about death and how there's nothing I can do to prevent it from happening to me or my family, I'm scared because I don't know when ... (373 words)

He was awful to me, so why do I want closure from his abusive ways as badly as I do?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do I miss someone who was abusive? I met this guy a few months ago. He came with a lot of "issues"---he was an ex-con, has multiple kids, possible anger issues. However, I try not to judge people, and when I first met him, I thought he was this really nice guy----but ... (672 words)

I fell in love with her, but she brutally rejected me. What should I do now?

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27 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Does it mean it's an end to my story or should i ask for friendship. I'm 25, alright looking guy. i fell in love with this customer(who's a female cop). Lately, she came to me and she was getting transferred to some island for 2 years. This news got me totally upset an... (410 words)

I feel as though my brother intervened in our relationship, and now I can't trust him. How can I fix this?

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Let's call my brothers friend L, and my Brother G. For the past 1 year and 2 months i have been in love with L... about 6 months ago i told him how i felt and got rejected. I found it strange when he came round asking G where i was, i was upstairs i really didn't want to s... (381 words)

I've never gave a handjob before.

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months. He is my first proper relationship and we really havn't done anything sexually. He has fingered me twice, but I want to return the favour and give him a handjob. Problem is I've never done anything with anyone before, so I rea... (190 words)

He told my uncle he wants sex with me?

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27 February 2011 (F) age 36-40 - What are your views on men who want sex from you ?. I'd like to get different opinions on this. I met a guy tonight who my uncle knows. I was out with my uncle. He came over to say hello to my uncle , and obviously he saw me. When my uncle went to the bar later, he apparently ... (167 words)

Can't forget about wife's past lovers

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27 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Before my wife and I were married she was close friends with my sisters and I would occasionally meet her with her boyfriends or hear stories through my sisters. I personally met three of her ex-boyfriends. She also had a brief couple night stand with this guy who was ... (159 words)

I missed an opportunity before. How can I convey to my co-worker that I am attracted to her?

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27 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - around a year ago a co-worker and I both left our partners and began seeing other people. we began talking about our problems etc eventually going on a night out with friends during the night i got the vibe she was attracted to me but never acted on it. we remained fairly c... (147 words)

That cliche of being hot for teacher...

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met him in August of my sophomore year, when I first sat in that desk in his class room, he called our names, learning who we were. He got to mine, last on the list of the twenty or so kids in my class. My last name being German, he spouted off sentences in the language. I ... (1514 words)

Three months pregnant and he gets on my nerves all the time

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am three months pregnant and ever since I have lost complete interest in the father/boyfriend. He gets on my nerves ALL the time and is always loveydovey and sensitive and it pisses me off. i feel like our relationship will fall apart through this pregnancy which is terrible ... (80 words)

My best friend has fallen for a gay guy

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need someone to help me to understand if I gave alright advise about something. My best friend in the entire world just told me that she has fallen for our gay best friend. He is outwardly gay and has dated many men. Not to mention myself and bestie have met some of the ... (139 words)

My family forbids me to see my boyfriend.

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27 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've liked a guy for 3 years. Three years of trying to grab his attention. Whenever he talks/talked to me I feel adrenaline pump through my veins in excitement. Recently We have been extremely close and about 3 days ago he o asked me out. I was so happy. Of course I said ... (305 words)