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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why will my boy friend not trust me. I live a good clean life now.

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi my boyfriend is really hung up on the fact that I took drugs years ago... I don't now, as I've grown up, it was a phase I went through as some people do. Its just every time I have a drink he thinks I'm on drugs too!! I earn a honest wage, and pay all my bills out of it,... (84 words)

My boy friend has proposed. What age can we marry in UK ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for quite a bit now... He's 16 and i'm 14 :). He's going into the army soon and he has proposed to me. I said yes because i thought it was right :) . the only thing is i don't know how to tell my parents and if i'm actually allowed by law ... (67 words)

My friend seems to consume every last bit of my energy and when I leave her I always feel depressed. How can I back away from her without her noticing and calling me out on it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a childhood friend who is is making me feel bad about myself. We started out being friends from around the age of 12 and we are both in our late 20s now. We werent so close for a few years while we lived in different cities for college. In the past 4 years we have become ... (311 words)

Does he still like me? Even though it's a long time ago

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm not a confident girl at all.i just want your advice about something.i just want to know how i could possably get a particular guy to want to talk to me.something that would get him to say something first. i don't want me or him to feel uncomfortable.i am embarassed to be a... (209 words)

Why would he act like he's hurt when he made it pretty clear he didn't want to be with me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - About a month and a half ago my boyfriend, "Greg", told me that he wanted us to break up because he had just lost his job and was going through a lot and said he just couldn't focus on a relationship at the moment. I had feelings for him so I took it kinda hard, especially ... (440 words)

Could have sex too many times make you sick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and I had sex for a whole week. monday we did it twice, wednesdsay we did it once, and thurday three times. We always use new protection at all times. Could having sex this often make you sick? My Bf is not getting sick but i feel sick every morning? anyone plea... (63 words)

Married for 23 years, and I think I may be in love with a younger woman...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age - Hi, I am a man married for 23 yrs. The marriage has had many ups and downs. For the past few years I have been feeling as if we are growing apart. I have never cheated on my wife. I havent even kissed another woman since the day I met my wife. Recently, I have found myself ... (210 words)

My boyfriend has a very controlling ex-wife. How can he still see his child but also allow us weekends together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Any advice appreciated. I have been dating a man for a year; he is separated for almost a year and recently filed for divorce. I am also separated for almost 2 years. He has a 10 yr old daughter who lives with the Mom. The daughter and Mom live an hour away from my ... (409 words)

Can a girl get pregnant without having sex or get pregnant two different times from sex once?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi. i just want to know if you can get pregnant without actually having sex, and if you can have more than one child, with then have a big in between gap, by having sex just once. ... (39 words)

Should I stop being naive and give up or should I keep talking to him and wait for something that only MIGHT happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy through my bestfriends boyfriend. At first we just talked a little online, but it quickly became something. We talked almost all day. I felt comfortable telling him things about myself and he did the same. I began to really like him and his friends told me he felt ... (310 words)

How can I improve my self confidence, stop worrying, and be better in school and relate better to others

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am only 15 at the moment and I have a slight issue with my self confidence. I know I'm not really thin but I don't think I'm fat, I have an hourglass figure and have a little larger reir end and thighs, which is difficult to get rid of, I do try, but chocolate ... (256 words)

Is she losing interest in me? Or am I over reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Hiya - I have been dating a girl for a year. It has been a wonderful year. I have noticed (or maybe I am reading into things) that she seems less interested. She has always been very generous with her feelings. We don't live together but try and see each other at most weekends ... (512 words)

Where or what are good places to have sex other than on a bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Any good places to have sex besides in bed? Favourite place to do it? Any interesting ways?... (23 words)

Iv left behind a past of sex with prostitutes and escorts. When the time comes, how do I bring this up to the girl I eventually want to be with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - During my more formative years I rarely dated. Girls either moved away or just disappeared, and I know that when I would eventually transfer I'd have to leave everyone behind. Between this and the usual "You're a nice guy, but..." I just stopped bothering. The "Someone ... (383 words)

Sex positions...what are the best ones?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wondering what some good sex positions are... Whats good for girls? Whats good for guys? Favourite position? Any details?... (26 words)

She broke up with me, but she wants to check on me. Why is she doing that?

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me but wants to maintain contact every couple of days. She said she does it just so I know that she still cares, yet she is already interested in a new guy. We were together two years. why does she still text me?... (48 words)

He says he doesn't want a relationship, I'm confused about my feelings for him...yet we're room mates who sleep together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, so for the last three months i moved in with a very good guy friend. We are very good roomates and the "living together" is going on very well. We are in the same class in the university and we have the same part time job, meaning we spend a lot of hours during the ... (565 words)

I don't want to stay friends if she can't guarantee to be faithful. Why is she upset about MY attitude to this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

19 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I made contact with my ex about a year ago and we were both single. I made it clear to her that if she ever hooked up with another bloke that I would walk away because I don't want to cause any problems. I kind of hoped that she would want to try to earn my trust again, but ... (143 words)

Masterbation. How much is too much, daily?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) age 30-35 - how much is too much when it comes to masturbation? i do it about twice a day, is that too much? ... (26 words)

What will I say? He wants to know more. But I lied about me on the dating site profile

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. I have been chatting to this guy I met on an internet dating website. my profile was set up as a joke so i had no problem checking it out as it had nothing properly on it about me so being nice i tried to tell some quiet shy boys that they didnt need to be using this ... (233 words)

I can't stop falling for older men. Why do I do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP! Im in love with my teacher and my driving instructor! I cant stop falling for people, especially if they have authority over me! It is only these two people at the moment but it has been others before. I especially love my teacher and when i am around him or i see everyt... (123 words)

Is it good to stop masterbating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i used to watch porn to make myself feel a bit better but now i have stopped because it always made me feel guilty, also i feel it ruins sex experience. is it good for me to stop masterbating? ... (41 words)

Could his behavior possibly mean he might still have feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up last october, but recently we have been spending a lot of time together. He'll ask me to come hang out with him and is very attentive to me when we are in social situations like at parties or around his or my friends. He talks to me everyday again and ... (202 words)

In love with a married man...what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid, I been searching a sites that can answer my problem, i know that is common problem but i dont know yet the answers. i been falling inlove with a man that is married. we been dating and no commitment for this situation. Why he dont tell me that he loves me but we ... (103 words)

Help. Is it too late? Never had a bf. what factors make it more likely that a person will find and interest a person to want a relationship with me?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Aunts and Uncles, I could really use some advice, and I've been feeling a bit lonely lately. I would really like to hear your opinions. When do you know that you have absolutely no chance with someone, ever? In other words, that you've lost that person forever?... (353 words)

She has a bf..but I really like her! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi after some advice please ive know this women for a year and half now i meet her when she started to work for same company. At one point when she first stared i was working with her we got on really well and i enjoyed going to work we had a awesome laugh was great, ended up... (314 words)

Sex...twice in one night???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and i would like to say its been great in the well bedroom but the thing is he wants to be able to have sex twice in one night and im not against the idea but i just know that whenever he finishes he kisses me and cuddles me ... (148 words)

Can you tell me...is our relationship over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - the other night my boyfriend and i were at a party where it was mostly my friends but a couple of his too. we had all been drinking a lot and i was having a laugh and a joke with him and his friend. they both speak french and said something about me as such. later i asked my ... (373 words)

I missed his call!! Do I call him back, now?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, Please help!! I told my ex I loved him a week or so back by text, as I do and I miss him terribly!! Anyway, I felt a bit emabarrsed after I had said it by text, so I sent another one saying ' Sorry about the mad texts, I was feeling a bit emotional', then he texted back ... (217 words)

Jealousy..How to deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hello everyone!=] I'm currently in high school,and i'm really confused.. Last year a boy started asking me out, and it was really annoying at the time seeing as it had wound me up alot and made me really upset. People were telling me to go out with him, saying if I didn't... (356 words)

We have big problems! Should I break up with my fiancee after 2 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm engaged, we've been together for 2 years now. I'm also pagan and he is agnostic. I go for religious festivals twice a year and recently asked him if I could have an altar in the house. He refuses to a) let any children we might have go to the festivals, and b) have an altar ... (247 words)

I want my wife back...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 4 years and have 1 child together and a stepson. We had our ups and downs. I love my wife more than anything in the world besides the kids. This makes the second time that she kicked me out and this time it has been 8 months. Most of our ... (285 words)

I love my chat BF but maybe he doesn't feel the same. What would be some solutions to improve things?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi i really like this boy and we was talkin on chatsites and things and he acted like he realy liked me i have known him years and he and i are so close well untill recently he has started to ignore me i cant deal with it i love him so much he hardly chats to me now help??... (60 words)

Having bad luck in the relationship dept so I'm thinking of losing my virginity to a prostitute. Thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Its terrible when a guy just has zero luck with women and has no break through what so ever. At what point is it time to decide enough is enough do you continue dealing with the pain and suffering or can one seek a sexual encounter to get it over and one with? Unfortunately ... (280 words)

He 's active on a dating site..does this count as cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for a month. In general everything has been pretty good. From our first date on, things have just been pretty serious. Our dates tend to be all day affairs, we see each other 3-5 times a week, we talk on the phone and text throughout the day, etc. He ... (380 words)

I want her to know how sorry I am for hurting her..will she ever talk to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (?) age 36-40 - i was with this girl for 1.5 years and we loved each other to death. we really had a lot in common and we really did enjoy spending time with each other. our relationship got so serious at one point that we were thinking about marriage(thank god it didn't happen)... so anyways ... (672 words)

My BF has no objection to his 25yr old daughter moving in with us. I do, as we don't get on. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age - I have an ongoing issue with my boyfriend's daughter. She is 25 and living semi close and going to university. She is just about to graduate after 8 years with a bachelors. She is unsure exactly what she'll be doing, but is thinking of moving back in with us. We DO NOT get ... (155 words)

Should I now apologize for my past actions? Or is it too late to do so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age - Hi everyone. I am mulling over an issue and need some direction from the Aunts and Uncles. I'm a MM who fell into an emotional affair with a co-worker a few years back. Prior to that, we had known each other for years with no issues. Just acquaintances at work. Then, the perf... (301 words)

My husband is too close to a girl at work. So why am I being painted as the 'bad guy' in all this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have a problem. My husband has this girl at work who likes him. He admits now that she has a crush on him, and that they flirt. I found out about her a few months ago, and the fact that he had been having lunch with her (and sometimes some other people). Althoug... (424 words)

Is FWB all she really wants? How could I encourage it to be more than that?

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a woman on Halloween and we spent a couple of weeks having sex almost every day (I'm currently getting a divorce). 5 weeks into our 1st meeting on Halloween she was hinting on wanting things to be a FWB but I didn't catch on because I was having very strong and intense ... (485 words)

Our finances mean we both have to work. Will it be OK if my wife keeps working as a prostitute?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi,to all, my wife looks cute,healthy, and sexy, but i have to work alone (away from home), as we can't fulfill all our financial requirements. My wife has to work too and my wife likes to work as prostitute. If i allow my wife to continue to work as prostitute and earn mon... (65 words)

What can I do? my sister can do no wrong, I'm always to blame.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - family problem my sister is 2 years younger than me and it always feels like my parents love her more. It doesn't matter what she does, it's never wrong. But whatever i do is wrong. She crys when she doesn't get her way and goes to her "mummy" and then i get shouted at. I do... (171 words)

How much 'space' and time should I give him? Or has he just said we might get back, to soften the bad news?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago I started to get to know a guy from my class in college a little better. We first started talking online, and then he offered for me to sit with him in class, so I did. After that we started talking more online - in fact, he hardly stopped. Any time there was ... (936 words)

She's still the one for me. Do you think she will ever come back?

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - It's been a month and a half since my break up with my girlfriend (ex) that was a 3 year relationship. the only time she contacted me once saying she missed me, a week after the break up after she asked me on a date and cancelled it because she felt if she went out with me ... (355 words)

If I get the help my boyfriend says I need, will he still stay with me when I get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5022 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I we were fighting over a stupid phone.. he turned it on and then i over reacted. he told me he wasnt doing anything, but he said i hurt him so much that now, he doesnt know what he wants from me. Meaning, like about the marriage part . he started going out, i... (132 words)

Should I lie? Or wait a while before I reveal my problem, when I date someone new?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive asked about my memory loss before but this is a little different. I'll cut the story short i'm 20 and only have memories of the past 7 months, everything before that is gone and i've been told it wont come back. I was just wondering if i were to start dating someone if i ... (113 words)

I'm not over her. I do miss her. Do you think there is a future for us, together?

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I dated my ex girlfriend for over two years. We began dating in grade 11 and she was my high school sweetheart (prom date, etc.). I took a year off after high school while she went to university about an hour and a half away. We made it until about January when she broke things ... (357 words)

I have a tremedous urge to kiss my teacher!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Why is that whenever i see that teacher [whom i have a crush on] i realize that i want to kiss him and this feeling is unstoppable. I'm 15. Help please.... (32 words)

Need your opinion on a dress!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i have found 4 dresses i really like and i need your opinion! i'm about 5' 3 and 100 lbs. fair skin, can tan pretty easily though, dark hair and hazel eyes and fit into a size 2 if it's a corset dress. i kind of think i want a pink dress but the links for the 4 dresses ... (99 words)

My gf is still stuck on her ex, 3 years later. What should we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So my question is essentially expressed through the title: what can I do? This isn't a matter of security, fear, or soul searching on my part. Rather, she seems to be feeling these things herself, but doesn't know what to do. We've been together for two wonderful years now. I w... (363 words)

Too much contact between boyfriend and his ex (mother of his child)!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, My boyfriend and I went out together years ago, but split up as it was too much, too young. We were each others first loves, and I always thought we would be together forever. Subsequently after splitting, my boyfriend has a 4 year old son with his ex girlfrien... (530 words)

My life is not going anywhere, and I don't know what to do.

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a big problem... I'm 19... and my life doesn't seem to be going anywhere :S I'm at uni, desperately looking for a job, girlfriendless.... everything just seems to be going wrong, or falling apart... And I have absolutely no motivation. I haven't got somethin... (108 words)

Two girls, can't decide

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok here's my problem, I am a 15 year old boy and I have never been in a real relationship with a girl or even kissed one on the lips. There are two girls that I have interests in. Girl A, I started to talk to her on facebook about 2 months ago when I was in a bad spot with fri... (184 words)

How do I make sense of my relationship with a lying, cheating man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've changed this story a few times to my friends, but for this website, I will be honest for once. I met this guy online, and no I have never met him in real life, he lives about four hours away. We're close in age, and we've been talking for the last 7-8 months. A few... (970 words)

How do you choose between 2 guys you both like?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend is stuck with 2 boys. She's going out with one but likes the other one too. What should she do?... (22 words)

He flirts with his ex-girlfriend and doesn't care that it upsets me!

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I see my boyfriend everyday flirting with his ex-girlfriend. I tell him how I feel and I tell him I get jealous but he doesn't stop. He says he 'loves" me but I don't think he does. What should I do????... (42 words)

Do you think he wants me back or are we through?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf broke up with me. I decided to start no contact. He kept sending text messages telling me he loved me and stuff. that made it hard for me to recover from the breakup, so I blocked his number from being able to call or text my phone. His sister called to ask me a ... (105 words)

Is she playing games with me? I have mixed feelings...

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, long story short. We had feeling for each other. I got too aggressive and pushed her. She proposed that we didn't talk for 1 week. I talked to her friends instead about her during that time. She learned about it, got mad at me, and told me that she had feeling for me a ... (496 words)

Should I become promiscuous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4928 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I will come out and say it: due to a bad and nonexistent upbringing, I used to be the "nice guy" with very little luck. I am 24 years old and I have been with only 7 women in my life (mostly due to luck). Due to fortune and the great advice from an old workmate of mine, I am ... (258 words)

How can I get her to notice me without talking to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I like a girl and I want her to take notice of me, how can I let her notice me without actually approaching her and talking directly to her?... (29 words)

My boyfriend is possessive and mean to me. Now he has told me about a woman he finds attractive. Is it time for me to move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together a long time, around 3 years. He's always said "I'm it" he wants to marry me, etc. However, his actions speak differently. He put a deposit down on a ring, but later got a refund, which hurt immensely. He's very possessive, and can ... (154 words)

Why do I feel this way during anal sex? Is it harmful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age - Ok here goes nothing. I am a cross dresser married to a delightfully beautiful woman, who knows and approves totally. This is my second marriage. Recently, she confessed to me that she desired to play the male role in the bedroom. While it was initially painful, I mustered... (119 words)

While drunk I sent her a really angry text, how do I make amends?

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Look I need advice. Last Tuesday, the day after Valentine's, I had a little fight with my girlfriend. We had never fought before. We had plans for Valentine's Day. I bought 2 tickets to go to a concert, also I bought flowers and chocolates, but my girl had a problem before w... (808 words)

Not sure what to think about wife's spanking-fantasy...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife wants me to spank her before/during sex. This probably sounds like every guy's dream but there is a bit of a sinister twist that is making me feel a bit uncomfortable. When I asked her where the spanking fantasy had come from, she said that she had her bottom slipp... (218 words)

What to think about my boyfriend's female-friend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I had just gotten to our 5 months when he had an emotional affair with a new female friend. Now all I ask is if he could tell me when he goes out with friends and I would do the same. Well during that whole period I found out he went with another female friend t... (230 words)

I would love some examples of how I could take control in the bedroom!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I enjoy a healthy sex life with my boyfriend of 2 months. Recently we have been opening up about what we like, and he says he really likes the girl to take control. This is something I've never really done before. So how do I do it? I know this means being confident and taki... (115 words)

She dumped me all of the sudden, I'm not sure what to believe!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (M)

age - My fiance had cheated on her husband and divorced. She still says the ex is her soul-mate. AFTER WE WERE ENGAGED! All the sudden she said we were through. She wants no contact anymore. Just 2 days prior we had sex and fun. But she couldn't sleep that night after talking about ... (123 words)

He won't even look at me now that he has a girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok let's see if y'all can help me..Ok me and this guy only went out for a few days but before that we talked and flirted with each other and even after that we flirted and talked and texted and IMed on Facebook,and like whenever he had a girlfriend he wouldn't text me or IM me ... (178 words)

Things were going good and flirty then he just stopped messaging me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been chatting to this guy for a good few months now and we chatted every day and the past month and a half it got a little flirty and he kept talking about hopefully finding a "lovely girl" and then winking and hinting it was me. Then on Monday he sent me a text which was ... (152 words)

I'm so lost and confused without her, will she ever come back?

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a fight with my girlfriend because I suspected she was cheating on me with several men and I put her out of the house. Then she called me saying that she loves me very much, wants me back and wishes to marry me. But I traced this phone call and I found it belongs to a... (154 words)

Getting over my ex and the fact that she has a new boyfriend

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex-girlfriend is dating someone new, and the new guy just happens to be her ex boyfriend from college. I wouldn't think this would bother me since our relationship ended 6 months ago, but it is. I knew we were having problems for the 3 years or so we were dating, but didn't ... (161 words)

She wants a two week break, what do I do?

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19 February 2011 (M)

age - I am 45 year old male, I've being dating a woman the same age, last week she told me she wants two weeks space. Does this mean she wants a clean break, I like her a lot and she says she likes me to but I'm confused. She won't answer my texts so what do I do? ... (57 words)

I don't know how to handle this stage of our relationship

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have posted problems re. my girl and me before. Just to provide summary. She is 25 years younger than me and we are related through a mutual sister in that her mum and my dad are our little sister's parents. This makes us step-brother and sister, though our parents aren't ... (316 words)

I feel as though I'm doing something wrong when it comes to oral!

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I dated for quite a while and then we broke up. Before that we gave each other oral sex etc and really loved each other. In the few months that we were apart we saw other people etc. (I dated a VERY BAD kisser) We're back together again now, and have been fo... (182 words)

I'm married and gay, told my wife but she doesn't want to leave me

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Im married and have been for 24years ,i am gay and have told my wife ,she is happy that i told her and has no problems with me being gay,she isnt intereasted in sex at all with anyone ,and doesnt want me to leave her at all,I feel im holding her back from a normal happy life ,i ... (84 words)

How do I deal with the change in my body, after having a baby?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I have been with my partner for three years already and have already had a child with him. I used to not be afraid to show my body off because my boobs were bigger and perky size c, my body was nice and big I even had them lil dimples on my lower back (before baby) but ... (154 words)

How do I show her that I've moved on?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so me and my ex has been broken up for almost a week now. And people are telling me that she's saying I've been playing on her phone but honestly i haven't even attempted to call her.. and it makes me angry because I'm trying show her that I can move on. But yet more lies ... (128 words)

Husband of 12 years admitted to an affair and a child

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19 February 2011 (F)

age - my husband of 12 years have an affair. i confronted him and he admitted. he have a child there. this is the worst thing. he asked for forgiveness from me. i love his so deeply and i want him back and lead a happy family life with our only son who is 11 years old without any ... (138 words)

How should I interpret his actions, should I distance myself?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I thinking too much or I should start distancing myself from this superior of mine in my work place? I think we are quite close and very good friends. But I am not sure if he just treats me like a friend or or something more.. We are in the same work place, and there... (577 words)

Boyfriend taking advantage of me being jealous!

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 and my bf is 14. im a very jealous person but my bf seems to be taking advantage of this, one day he came out of lesson telling me how big this other girls breasts are and her bra size. he has done this to me with many girls on many different occasions. as soon as ... (109 words)

He denied being interested, but his actions seem to say something else; what does it mean?!

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been getting mixed vibes from this guy for the last 6 (give or take) months. From the extremes of playfighting with me and teaching me to play cod for 6hrs, to completely ignoring me as if I were invisible. His own sister came up to me and told me he liked me, that h... (552 words)

My baby's daddy is being bad!

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My daughters father has been paying for t-girls, smoking weed, watching porn and calling girls behind my back, please someone give me words of wisdom?... (25 words)

Speak up or stay quiet about this man's cheating ways

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't want criticism because I feel bad enough for what I've done. Just a simple question. If you were almost at the point of having an affair with a married man because he seemed just wonderful and made you feel wonderful too but then mutually coolled it off because there ... (184 words)

How can I hide from my husband that I'm not a virgin

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - im not virgin and im going to married in 1 year and so how can i hide from my husband... (20 words)

Every time I fight with my husband I think about leaving him

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a hard time because every time I fight with my husband I think about leaving him. I never say this too him (or to anyone really), but I actually start making plans in my mind to get an apartment and do something else. When we are fighting (which does happen ... (114 words)

No gagging for deep throating tips?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone have any tips on how to deep throat without gagging?... (12 words)

What do I do with my intense love/hate relationship with my gf??

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do anymore, because my ex and I have a love-hate relationship. I've lost count of how many times she's dumped me and vice versa. Both of she and I work so hard to stay out of each others way so we can move on but then low and behold we always find ou... (532 words)

Is it too soon in our life to have a relationship so serious?

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend is 14, and I am 15. We're both very mature for our age. We both have a strong lead in Creative Writing and English Lit. We've been dating for a month and a half and we tell each other we love one another. I mean it when I say it, I think. It's not that I'm unsure ... (363 words)

My foots out the door and I'm ready for a divorce.

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've now been married for a year and 2 months. People always say the first years the hardest when we spent half that year not living together... three months last year i went to my parents for that time.. caeuse we were somewhat rocky.. and i needed a job... so i was there i ... (315 words)

Work/sports buds or more???

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had a huge crush on this guy I work with for months. He sometimes says really cute things to me and compliments me (but I don't know if he says this to all girls or just me) and he is so attractive.. I get sooo nervous when I'm around him.. I can't even speak sometimes!! ... (189 words)

My gf always thinks I am checking out other girls when I am not. How do I calm her down?

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19 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - I have another question. It's about my girlfriend's insecurity. Now what happens is that she says she catches me looking at other girls when I don't. I will admit that i do get bored and my eyes start to wander but i never check out a girl. Sometimes my girlfriend catches me ... (83 words)

Should I live with my friend even though having his gf there will make me so jealous and upset?

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19 February 2011 (F)

- Sorry... this is a long story. I’ve known a guy since I was 7 years old. Let’s call him John. He lived near my grandparents so I would see him at around Christmas time every year. My whole life I’ve had feelings for him. When we were a bit older we started emailing each ot... (792 words)

We don't see each other much and it worries me!

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i am 16 yers old my gf is 18yers, i go whith here in the same class but( i have a problem i am russian and she is chinese)on on sanday and saturday she is going to work every time and somtimes friday night. i dont have free time to spend with here after school i mean ... (104 words)

Two guys like me and I like both of them!

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Two guys like me. I like both of them. One of them asked me to be their girlfriend and I don't know what to do. I've made a pros and cons list. I can't find anything bad about going out with either of these guys besides that if I choose one the other will be heart broken. I ... (114 words)

After I got angry with my bf, he cheated, and now I wonder if it I my fault!

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. When him and I fight, one of us says "its over" and the other one always ignores it because in the morning it doesn't matter. My son had a doctor's appointment valentines day at 12 pm, we were there till 2pm. then at... (406 words)

How do I get over all my securities? My guy says this could ruin our relationship if I can't

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i get over my insecurities? My insecurities hold me back from a lot of things as far as my relationship with my boyfriend. i feel embarrassed at times when we make love and when we partake in other intimate activities. he constantly tells me that i'm beautiful and that... (89 words)

He's sooo perfect. I think it's love at first sight. But does he like me?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Last night I went to my school dance with my best friend (who is 2 years older than me and goes to the other middle school in town). We were dancing around and having the time of our lives when it happened. Her friend (lets call him Ty, two years older than me, different ... (388 words)

How can I get my bf to talk to me about issues in our relationship?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now. I truly love him with all of my heart. We've had our ups and downs within these months but we've also conquered them somehow. It's very hard to talk to him about things that go through my mind pertaining to us and how I fe... (168 words)

I am physically unsatisfied in our relationship!!

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Let me start this off by saying I'm in a committed, strong, emotion-based relationship with a guy I really like. That being said, my boyfriend and I have differing tastes in the bedroom. I like a little biting a roughness (nothing crazy, by any means, just a little kinky) an... (215 words)

I would like her back. But will she ever realise how good she had it?

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - If i treat a girl like a princess and she thinks it's weird, because she has never been treated like this, will she come back?. I have cut all contact if she texts me, i don't respond. will she ever realize what she had? Will she ever come back?... (50 words)

My feeling is that this phone call was suspicious. Could I be right?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i was outside of my room and my husband was in the room laying with blanket on his face and i heard him talking to someone and when i entered the room and said, 'what you doing?' He quickly cut the phone, and said, 'oh, i was just talking to my dad, and then my friend, Z.' Z ... (89 words)

What do I say on a date?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm going on a date. I don't know what I'm going to say. My dad says I should just say, "Tell me something about you," but I still don't know what I'm going to say. I actually never went on a date. Help! ... (43 words)

Guy I'm seeing doesn't know who he is or what he wants., and I don't know how to deal with it.

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a complicated relationship with a guy. We met 3 1/2 years ago. It's been crazy and unhealthy, but I could use some help to figure this guy out. Firstly, we met and he was with someone else. I knew that. They were having a bunch of problems, and there was ... (726 words)

How do I convince her that I won't break her heart?

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl that I know, and we have been best friends since we've met. We started talking again after a year and I came to realize that she has liked me since the 6th grade, and so have I. I have asked her out and she said no because she was afraid to be hurt again. ... (114 words)

I told my boyfriend I don't really enjoy sex, and he's taken it personally, as if he was bad in bed! What do I do now?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all. So I'm 17 and I'm sexually active (about 7 months now). And honestly, I'm not a fan. My boyfriend is the only person I've ever had sex with. (We've been together since we were 15.) To be honest, sex was never really and interest of mine nor was it my idea to start... (256 words)

I want my ex back, but she is dating my best friend!!

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago, and I still love her. I was talking to one of my other best friends and I found out that he is now dating my ex. I still love her very much and I want her back. I don't want to destroy my best friend's relationship with her, but I ... (73 words)

Scarred by the past--how do I learn to open up?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a child when i was 16 and the father denied the pregnancy. This whole thing affected me so badly that I find it difficult to stay in a relationship. When the person I'm with tries to get close I push them away and tell them that I'm wasting their time cause I don't feel ... (175 words)

How do I deal with his financial secrecy and his constant criticism?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy for close to 2 years. We have a 6 month old baby and I asked how much he was getting back in taxes and he flipped like I shouldn't know. Then he proceeded to say all I cared about was his money. And when I said, "our taxes," he lost it and said it wasn't ... (146 words)

How is it he expects a housewife without marrying me?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been living with my bf for 2 years now. We were in a long distance relationship before for almost 5 years. I moved in with him 2 years ago, and we've been living together ever since. The beginning was great; we were so happy with each other, we helped each oth... (428 words)

Does his staring at me mean that hel ikes me?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I like someone and I catch him staring at me a lot but I am not sure he likes me or not because whenever I catch him looking at me he turns away and doesn't talk to me. I don't know how to tell him that I love him. Please help me to know how would I find about his feeling and ... (65 words)

How do I deal with my friends moving away?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I have a problem. Well, as you can see, it hurts to see your friends move away. I know it does. So here's the problem, four of my best friends are moving away. One is going to move to California, two are going back to their old school, and one is going to a different ... (92 words)

I think I have fallen and don't want to go any deeper

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man on a website...I wasn't expecting much from it but now my heart is in it. We have been chatting on and off for about 6 weeks now. He does text me as well but lately it has gotten less. It was supposed to be fun, but I got a bit shy when we decided to cam for the ... (237 words)

I think my husband is cheating, he even came home with wedding ring in his pocket

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - OK,,, Now i have a different ?... My husband has done things that lead me to believe he has cheated..He has gone out supposedly with a friend..wont come home and wont answer his phone. I have called the friend that he is with or supposed to be with and they are not with him. ... (117 words)

Controlling husband makes me feel I need permission to have a life!

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there thanks for your help. I've been married 18 years. My husband has a very caring side. Helps out around the house does some cooking etc. However, he has a very childish and controlling side too. I haven't been able to really have friends and do the normal things... (472 words)

Me and my boyfriend want a baby together, how do I tell my parents??

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I want a baby and so does my boyfriend but I'm only 15 this year and I'm worried about telling my parents. I reallly know I'm to young but I love kids so much and just want one to have 4 myself. I am a babysitter so I'm forever looking after kids and I just love them so ... (115 words)

Virgin would like to feel more confident in the bedroom

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 19 year old virgin and know that in the next few months me and my boyfriend, who is also a virgin, are going to have sex. Although I am ALMOST mentally ready, and more physically ready than I thought, I'm still anxious about it, the whole thing. I'm more of a follower ... (165 words)

I'm not sure if I should love him with all my heart or just be really cautions...

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and this guy have been dating for 9 months ... in the first 3 months he tells me he just wants to be friends it hurt i let it go.. then he comes back he tells me that he needed time for his self to figure out if he really wanted to be with me .. he tells me that he wasnt ... (183 words)

The girls go for my mates not me

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I go out with friends who get drunk and some times we meet girls but the girls tend to go for my mates instead of me and I just end up getting annoyed with my friends when they start talking about what they and one of the girls did is there anything I can do, should I say ... (67 words)

Drunken text has caused quite a strain in our relationship

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19 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Look I need advice. Last Tuesday, the day after Valentine's, I had a little fight with my girlfriend. We had never fought before. I sent a stupid text while I was very drunk. She got really upset because she said I was comparing her to my ex. After the fight, I called h... (156 words)

He's unmotivated, unemployed and I'm feeling emotionally detached from him. Should I break up with him?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I need some advise. I am 23 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He is such an amazing man. I have never been treated so well in a relationship. We do EVERYTHING together. If we are not working or in school we are together. He is ... (390 words)

My fiance and I have been together a year and I'm a virgin. But is he a sex addict?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, i've been in relationship for a year, and then got engaged to a guy, but i feel inside he is sex addicted. we 've never been in a sexual relationship and i am still virgin, even in my thoughts about love.. last time we went out we were exchanging kisses, he grabbed ... (108 words)

Why do people think of single mothers as taboo and easy? Need help finding decent men!

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been two years now that I've been doing the single parent thing, (I'm over my divorce). And... I can't tell you how disappointing it's been for me, to merge back into society with a different status. I recently stopped attending this mega church, because I was such a T... (224 words)

I told him I'm pregnant today. He became abusive and aggressive with me. Where do I go from here?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, im 22 and this guy is 20. i need some good advice here. today i found out that i'm pregnant this is my first time being pregnant and the guy im pregnant for he's a player. its been nearly 3half weeks i havent heard from him. he's been lying to me that he cares abou... (221 words)

I am gutted. Is he fobbing me off, for doubting him? Or is he angry with me? Or is it over

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Been going out with my fella for 6 months now and we just had our first fall out - need to say sorry which i have done several times - don't know what else to do he sent me a today to say he can't come sunday - was gutted as i only see him once a week as it is - he lives 50 m... (181 words)

I'm not interested in relationships. What affect will that have on me in future?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone, I'm 15 years old, I haven't had a boyfriend, I've been asked a couple of times but I'm not interested. Every boy I know behaves in unacceptable ways. They're cocky, or not sensitive, too sarcastic. Don't get me wrong, I can take a joke but I'm not attracted to... (255 words)

We talk a lot. He makes suggestive remarks. Is this guy's behavior weird? Or does he like ne?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have bit of a dilemma and not totally sure how to move forward with it. I have become very close to a male friend, who I have known for years and currently lives at the opposite end of the country to me. We talk every day on the phone for over an hour, and he is always dro... (219 words)

My family object to decisions my fiance and I made. Advice please on how to handle interferring relatives?

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19 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22, I've been with my boyfriend (28) for a year. We are very much in love and wanting to get engaged and be married in two or so years when he graduates college and receives his BS. The problem is I'm getting some negative feedback from my distant family because my ring... (140 words)

Am I just a booty call? Is he messing me around? Or is he genuine

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

19 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i met a lad at boxing a few months ago, and we've always had a bit of chemistry. recently last month he in boxed me, giving me his number, because he quit the gym. we've been texting ever since, he comes into my work at his break just to see me, he texts me all day, he tell... (301 words)