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30-35,
*ewmama2010
writes:My boyfriend lied, an I asked for advise on here an I got very good advise, an Iv been putting it too the test,an I went outside too smoke an I sat in his car, an his phone was in there so I know shouldn't of done it but I picked it up an went threw it, I seen that he an this boy hung out innocently, just went out too eat, an my bf told me he wouldn't hang out with ever, an here he turned around an did,so I came flyin in the house askin him why he didn't tell me, an he said I'm crazy an he doesn't feel like he has too tell me everything which yes is true.I just found out 2 weeks ago he was keepin somethin from me, an I'm trying too trust him again, but he use tooo tell me everything like wen he hung out with someone now he's not, so I freaked out he told me too get over it were done, an I smashed the remote, candle, an threw a drink bc every time I try too explain too him why I would too know things, he leaves or won't talk too me, an I feel like me breakin things is the only way too get his attention, which its not right at all I feel horriable, bc somethin sooo little was made out too a mess now he's telling me that he's on a thin string of breaking up with me bc of how I acted. What should I do I know I messed up, but he doesn't feel like he should tell me everything , which I think he should since he lied an now I feel like he keeping everything from me idk mabye I have major issues! Its makin me sad, an depressed, I can't keep living like this.
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reader, Leodjoneluv +, writes (3 February 2011):
 You are fighting over nothing. Give him space and don't try to control him by picking his friends. You will surely push him away. Chill out and relax. You are young. Don't make the relationship so serious. You two are not married. Have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): Number one, yes you acting like a raging phsycho didnt help matters for sure and maybe you need to work on how to handle things better. Second of all, a man that truly loves you and wants to be with you would not keep things from you and would not lie to you about them. Hes being sneaky for a reason.... Find out why or just move on cuz once you lose trust, its hard to get it back.......
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