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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Penis too small for condom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - It's probably weird to be putting on a condom when you've never even had a girlfriend but just give me the benefit of the doubt, okay? I was curious to see how it felt. Anyway, these condoms claim to be "average" or "thin" sized but they're still too big for me. _; It's all ... (162 words)

Best friends with a girl you find attractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a male friend I have known for 5 years now. in the last 6 months we were both single and started flirting loads, we met up a few times -he lives in another country. we had brilliant time, did and saw a lot of things, and we also got intimate. going with the flow, w... (371 words)

Help! I don't know if I'm being selfish!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I need help in reasuring my thoughts are legit and I'm not being unreasonable.... I married my husband 4 years ago. We dated for 8 years before he finally purposed. I honestly think he asked me to marry him because he overheard that I was planning to leave him if I never go... (419 words)

He wants to go out, but I want him to stay. Am I being selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my bf are very close we do everything togther and realy we dnt go out much without eachothr our relantionship is good but latly he told me hes bored and wants to go out to the bar i knw he wants sum alone time but i just dnt see it fair that he goes out while im stuck at ... (122 words)

I need some internet dating tips!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age - how can you tell if a man on the internet is interested in you . have talk to several men on the internet . an i am new at this so how do you go about if a man is interested in you without asking . i have found the few that i have talk to i can not tell if they are truthful ... (117 words)

Can exes be friends when there seems to be inappropriate communication involved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks for reading in advance! I'm in a very good relationship with a great guy, we've been dating for 9 months and it's very serious (we live together). His last relationship was rough because his first gf (L) and his second gf (K) hated each other. And he didn't do ... (412 words)

What do I do? He's a tranny porn lover!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a relatonship of 6 months and I am getting ready to make the big leap and move in with this special someone. Sounds great, right? Well ...he recently divulged that once a month he has an incredible urge to look at shemale porn and he just wanted to be completely honest ... (263 words)

Screwed up by sending a stupid text accusing him of being a player & a cheater

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age - A co-worker started flirting with me at a Christmas party. After quite a few drinks, we ended up going home together. I though I wouldn't hear from him but I did. He texted me every day for 2 weeks - some of the stuff was very romantic, like he'd had a crush on me for a ... (441 words)

I'm 16, in love with my 25-year-old teacher! What do I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey This is something i have really struggled with for the past few months. I think I am in love with my 25 year old female teacher. I am a guy and I am 16, 17 this year. If I dont talk to her, then I feel terrible that day; if i make her laugh then I have a huge smil... (270 words)

I need to know how he feels about me! Can someone interpret the signs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well... I've been researching all over the internet to figure out my problem, but I just can't seem to find the answer. There's a guy that i've known for about 5 and a half months now ( let's call him "Cory" ), and I realized I had a crush on him after I broke up with my ... (487 words)

My parents don't think he's good enough for me. How do I approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok - my b/f and I have been dating a little over 4 years, we met in college. We've already decided that we want to marry, but we're not ready yet because of our job situation. Since graduating, I have returned home and am living with my parents. I'm trying to start a career in ... (392 words)

I'm trying so hard to change myself and do everything she's asked, but I feel like it's not good enough. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So I've dated this girl P for 5 years. We dated for 3 years, got engaged 2 years ago and had planned our wedding. We did have some problems mostly my family and P didn't get along. In addition we did have some personality conflicts (I'm stubborn and a bit jealous/controlling) ... (1446 words)

I warned him before I deleted him, and now he's mad at me! Can someone please explain this??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, First, a little background: My ex and I went out for a few months a year and a half ago. I broke it off because he said he was falling in love with me and at the time I didn't feel the same way. Anyway, we ended up becoming friends and a couple months back we went out... (466 words)

In the heat of an argument I slapped him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I posted a question earlier...It was a long story so I will make it short. I have been with a guy for six months, we are sooo into each other although there have been some issues. Valentines day didn't turn it good at all, it was terrible, I felt disrespected. We got i... (354 words)

She is trying to ruin my professional-reputation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Here’s my problem I started seeing this guy at work about a year ago. Nothing serious, we were just hanging out since I just broke up with my ex 2yrs bf. This new girl came working with me, I trained her. We were getting along pretty good, were having those superficial... (531 words)

Can anyone explain her behaviour?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so I got rejected by a friend of couple years after I had developed strong feelings for her. I have accepted that we can just be friends or less but nothing more. And because I feel uncomfortable around her I started to ignore her, avoid her and pay less attention to her... (138 words)

Three-way relationship advice needed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - 3way relationship advice. I'm in a relationship with a bi sexual girl right now, we've discussed the idea and both have agreed its something we would like. Not just 3 way sex but a real relationship. I have a big heart and a lot to give in ways of emotion and sexual desire it ... (161 words)

Things aren't the same between us, do I still love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello I have a question and I feel so confused I've had this bf for 7 yrs; we do not live together I'm 30 hes 42 i loved him with all my heart and soul. He went away to another state for work and came back after almost 2 yrs while he was out of state he had little to no contact ... (153 words)

So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and physically, his penis was good bit ... (637 words)

How do I get over a guy I see five days a week at work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and head over heels in love with a co worker (24yrs old). We used to be really close friends, going out to the pub on lunch breaks always giggling and chatting - two great personality matches, it was perfect. He is a flirt, not just with me others as well..But he has a ... (353 words)

Is it ok to date your ex brother-in-law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Do you think it's ok to date your ex brother-in-law? We were related by marriage, I have been divorced from his brother for six yrs, and he was widowed over a yr ago?... (34 words)

He verbally abuses me, but we have a son together. Should I stay with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, my boyfriend is 6yrs older then me we have a son together. we currently dont live together but we are in the process of buying a house and we plan on getting married. Yesterdayw we got into it, he called me mutiple names and told me i was a terrible girlfriend and im ... (109 words)

Why won't he even hug me? Let alone touch me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi. um, i've been with this guy for like three or four months now. something that's kinda bugging me is that he's one of those guys that hug people alot, yet he barely ever touches me. i'm not saying i want sex[i really dont. i'm too young anyway] i just want a hug or ... (213 words)

Should I just stay on my own right now? Did I matter that little to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Howdy. I've been on here a couple of times before, and always got sound advice. Here's a quick basic rundown of what's happened to me. Lots of things have been omitted because I can go into immense detail but have tried not to for the sake of readability. Met a girl, got enga... (421 words)

This guy is a little too close to her for my comfort. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - K well me and my girl have been together for 5 months almost 6... and well i love her with all my heart and she seems to love me to... but she is a girl so she has "brothers".. well i was fine with someone she called her brother until she told me that she got hurt in gym class ... (151 words)

Should I tell my professor how I feel, seeing as we are both adults?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Firstly, I'd just like to say that student/lecturer relationships aren't illegal or anything over here and we're both adults. Secondly, I think this is more just to get things off my chest but any advice would be appreciated too. If anyone's been in a similar situation or knows ... (508 words)

Is it normal to need time to get used to my boyfriend after being apart for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a LDR for over 2 years, we see each other every 4 months and when we are apart, we are constantly on Skype (we probably talk an avarage of 4 hours a day on week days and probably the double of that on weekends). We miss each other like crazy when we are apart, but when ... (161 words)

Does she like me? Or is it all the partying we do together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I like this girl and I know she's a flirt to begin with. The only times we do hang out just us is when we're studying at the library or something. She and I text pretty often... both of us initiate conversation. We have a lot of the same friends and so we're often at the ... (209 words)

Should I stay with my older girlfriend? Or should I break up with her and go for the other girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really need help with an issue that I suppose has been going on for a while now. The answer may be really easy but I just don't know what to do. I have been in a relationship with an older woman for the last 3 years. She is 12 years older than me. I am still in my earl... (408 words)

I can't get over his flirting! Should I give him another chance or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i been well with my bf for almost 3 1/2 years and right now we are not together, but we see eachother hangout. kiss,,,, same stuff as in a relationship. the reason why is that because he always flirts with girls , very jealous and very controlling. we both agreed that he would ... (234 words)

Was he at the party I made a fool of myself at? Should I bring it up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, here's the situation: I'm seeing this guy (let's call him C.) with whom I'm in love and I'm starting to think that he loves me too, but he's too proud to admit it (he shows anyway). The other day we met, C. accidentally told me that in December he went to a party where he... (379 words)

Why do I thrive off of pushing people away so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My S/O have been having a great relationship. Drama free. Something happened on Valentine's Day and I really hurt his feelings. Knowing he was hurt and mad I was hurt, but I also immeadiately began trying to find ways to get him back. I have a real real problem with that. ... (72 words)

We hardly see each other, and every time we do, he starts a fight! What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, we have been working faithfully at keeping our relationship together and it's been a success as we live so far apart. We see each other every two months and the day before he leaves, for no reason at all he sparks an argument ... (105 words)

Should I admit to snooping on my boyfriend's facebook? Or keep lying until he confesses?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a big problem. I snooped in my bf's facebook, as i know his password e.t.c, and i saw some chat boxes come up saying the names of some girls that we have argued over before. when i clicked on the boxes, there wasnt any text there, but i'm not sure if the text disappears ... (158 words)

I caught my husband and my best friend talking behind my back for the third time! How can I stop it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband had a secret relationship with my now ex-bestfriend. She's been in my life since elementary school and I've been with him since high school. They both said that there was no intimacy....but they both had feelings for eachother. They just so happened to decide not to ... (193 words)

Did You Ever Talk To Serial Cheater Ex Again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I recently found out that not only did my ex leave me for another woman and move right in with her and her 2 children, but that he had been cheating for over 3 years with numerous different women. Most of them didnt even know he was dating or living with someone. I wa... (389 words)

Is he treating me like a friend of his? Or is he interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this guy friend, I think we are quite close and very good friends. But I am not sure if he just treats me like a friend or he likes me as a girl. We are in the same work place, and there are several things he does for me that I feel quite touched, but again, he is a ... (522 words)

His friend isn't doing the right thing and now we might be splitting up. Should I do something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i had a fight on 13 th,hours before Valentine...the fight started because i refused to have his friend and his new girlfriend for dinner in our home. He invited them without asking me first. That is not the only reason,this guy has been seeing this girl... (188 words)

My boyfriend is in the air force. How do I cope with the long distance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is in the air force and lately I just don't feel happy. I feel stressed and I miss him and life just sucks here with out him. When ever we talk this last week it just seems like there is something that always goes wrong and it gets between us and we both get down. ... (178 words)

How do I get her back? I know I was in the wrong, so what next?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

16 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Okay, here goes. What do I do? I really need some solid, sound advice. I (first) met my girlfriend when I was 21 and she was 17. When I first saw her I fell for her immediately. She was beautiful. At the beginning I took her out. I courted her. Wined and dined. Di... (985 words)

I'm terribly insecure about our sex life, his porn-habit isn't helping!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I discovered the other day that my boyfriend watches porn. I'm terribly insecure about our sex life as it is as i do not cum from just sex as most women don't and i worry that this may put him off. I don't want to start 'Faking it' but after discovering his 'habit' i feel even ... (117 words)

Two year age difference, does it make a difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am 17 and have been seeing a guy who is two years younger than me. We really love each other but I worry about the levels we are on sometimes. help?... (41 words)

Should I be worried about these message-alerts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Question? Does "zoosk website" send message alert to random people or subscribers only? I found "zoosk" a couple different occasions on my boyfriend email box? Should I worry? Just wondering?... Thank you. ... (38 words)

I'm a virgin but want to masturbate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a virgin and have begun to masturbate. Since yesterday i have only used my hands and a bullet for clitoral stimulation which is fine, but then I brought a larger bullet (one to penetrate) so I could gain experience before i have sex for the first time. The thing is, it ... (111 words)

I'm dating my best friend's brother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is my problem. I'm in love with my best friend's brother. When she found out she was pissed but now she says she is cool with us being together. We have been seeing each other for about seven months but I still feel guilty. The thing is we really do love each other. I... (82 words)

He is back on the dating site, where we met, and he won't add me on Facebook. Is he taking me for a fool, or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Help needed please, I'm going insane here - been seeing this guy for 6 months he lives an hour away from me and works afternoon shifts so I only see him once a week - sometimes twice, he texts nearly every day, says he is very comfy and happy with me...but I have doubts.. H... (176 words)

My boyfriend falsely accuses me of cheating, but I think he's the one who is being dishonest! What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,and thanks for reading. My bf and I have been together about 3 years now. Throughout our relationship, he has accused me of being with other men. I’ve never been disloyal to him, so there’s no reason he should feel as though I am cheating on him. I chalked it up to ... (193 words)

I'm attracted to older celebs, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya Cupids, I don't know why but I'm always more attracted to older celebrities. I know this a stupid question but I''m really young and i find people like Bill Nighy and Ewan McGregor really cawutte :) but everybody else i know find young celebrities cuter. M... (95 words)

I still love my girlfriend, but she has cheated on me twice and doesn't seem to regret it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfirend has cheated on me twice now and she doesn't seem to regret her actions. The last time she cheated, I found them together. When I spoke with her about the issue, she took the other guy's side. What should I do because I still love her?... (48 words)

My boyfriend's friends pressure him to be single like them. He broke up with me, but immediately regretted it. Should I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 14 months. We are both 17. Our relationship has been very good. We love spending time together and have lots of fun. We rarely have disagreements, but when we do, we are able to talk things over rationally. Our major source o... (366 words)

My on-off boyfriend has been talking to other people about getting engaged, how do I tell him that I am ready?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and I recently found out that my on-off boyfriend is thinking about getting engaged. I found out from his little sister and he doesn't yet know that I know. How do I let him know that I know he's been talking and thinking about it and that I am ready to get married?... (57 words)

We work two different shifts, and my boyfriend blames me for everything! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a two year relationship where we are on two different work schedules. The problem is everyday I'm at fault for everything that goes on between us. We don't have that much time due to him getting off work at late hours in the morning, and I have to get up early for work. ... (80 words)

Married only 3 months, and we haven't had sex for 2 months. He watches porn and rejects my advances. Advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married only 3 months, and we had sex in the 1st month of marriage. I caught my husband watching porn in the morning when I was not around, and we do not have sex now. Whenever I try to seduce him he gets irritated and tells me he's tired Please help and give me s... (67 words)

She teases and flirts with me, and occasionally we touch each other. So, why did she call me her toy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl and I are friends. We tease, flirt and even physically touch each other. One day, we were flirting a bit and well she said "You are my toy". I know she likes to joke around a lot, but I don't get why she said that. I am not sure how I feel being called a toy, I ... (106 words)

Why wouldnt he have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex would not have sex with me telling me he was old fashioned and it has to be just the right time. He could virtually stay erect for hours, 4 or more and we did everything you can think of but intercourse but he could and would just say `lets wind it up' when he decided. ... (412 words)

Should I wait to see if he contacts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a wonderful friend who is quite intuitive when it comes to people. I asked her if she knew of any available men within my dating area that she thought I would like (she is married). She connected me with an old friend of her's that she reconnected with on FB. Said ... (225 words)

My daughter broke up with the one I thought was "the one" and I can't get past it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age - Not sure why I feel this way but something is obviously wrong. My daughter dated this boy for two years. I definately thought he was "the one". She broke it off with him suddenly and he was devastated. I did everything to try to get them back together. It worked for a ... (192 words)

My Crush Now Chooses To Ignore Me. Have I Done Something Wrong?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - About a year ago, I was in the middle of a Christmas gift-purchasing rush when I stopped by a store to pick up a final gift. All the while, I noticed a very cute sales girl who was most definitely giving me the eye the entire time I was shopping. As a person who believes gender ... (458 words)

What do you do when your in love with a person who manipulates you & try to change & control who you are?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm in a two year relationship where we are on two different schedules. The problem is everyday i'm at fault for everything that goes on between us. We don't have that much due to him getting off work at late hours in the morning and i have to get up early for work and i'm the ... (77 words)

I am in love with my sister's boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I just saw my sister's boyfriend for the first time when my sis invite to our apartment that my sis and I shared, he was quite tall and handsome. One day, my sis was out working and i was at home in my room, her boyfriend came in the apartment(my sis gave him the... (201 words)

I want to throw my SIM into the river so he can't get in touch with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, just a question that i'm really struggling to find the answer to. Sorry its really long. I got offered a really good opportunity to study at a world-class university for a year and I took it. I left my boyfriend back home because to me a year is only a short period of ... (599 words)

Will she realize who was I in her life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She's in a relationship with her bf for almost 5 years. She broke up but patched back with him many times. She got emotionally hurt before and cried a lot. She started having feelings for me for the past one year. She shares all her problems with me, felt happy and comfortable ... (121 words)

Do I go along with things or put my foot down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - what do i do for the best? My partner recently split after 7 yrs and 2 kids. The relationship completly broke down and he moved out. He went home to his mum. He looks after our kids whilst i work 3 hrs in the evening. His mum has lung cancer of which she has been diagonse... (287 words)

Am I wasting my time with this lad whose ex girlfriend still lives with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - were both 17 btw x i met a lad at boxing a few months ago, and weve always had abit of chemistry. recently last month he inboxed me giving me his number because he quit the gym. weve been texting ever since, he comes into my work at his break just to see me, he texts me all ... (252 words)

Am I overreacting about my love interest rejoining the dating website where we met?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Is he into me or am i a fool I have been seeing this guy for 6 months now and i think the world of him but i have doubts, he says he is really comfy with me and loves being here, i only see him once - maybe twice a week sometimes as he lives an hour away and works afternoo... (157 words)

I'm in love with my ex, pregnant by a rebound, want the ex back - how can I now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5026 days ago

16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I moved on too quickly with this new man. I was upset about my breakup with the ex and rebounded to this new man. I used protection but my body resisted the pill I used and have fallen pregnant. I painfully told the ex who I want to get back with just cos it was the honest ... (1008 words)

Do I ask her too many questions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm currently becoming very close and developing feelings for a lady older and more experienced than me. She is 32, me 26, I am a virgin, she has had 2 long relationships, I have never had one, she is the first girl i have ever had deep feelings for. I do often ask her qu... (151 words)

I don't know why he won't ask me out, is it because of the color of my skin?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well in the past four years me and this guy have liked each other only in the last year 09 he finally gave me his number. We talked everyday he told me he loved me and i fell for it. He then got me to send pictures and the following week stopped talking to me. This year 10-11 ... (216 words)

Promiscuous wife

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - What would you do if the wife you thought the world of is a liar and deciever, born in a religous family i kept to my bible truth. I kept my virginity till marriage, my wife lied to me that she was a virgin before we got married we lived with the policy honesty is the best ... (89 words)

Bringing sex toys into a relationship, good or bad?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together about four years now. We don't have the most exciting sex life, but that is mostly due to her lack of libido and stressful work at the moment. Still, we manage 1-2 times per week and I always make sure she is taken care of first. (Just so ... (280 words)

I can't get over a guy I've only met twice! Anyone else feel like this?

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16 February 2011 (F)

- This sounds so silly but I cant get over a guy Ive only met twice. First met him 6 weeks ago and it was like love at first sight. We had an amazing night and met up again a few weeks ago. After another amazing day and night, I knew I had fallen for him. The only problem was ... (354 words)

I feel jealous and sad when no one comments when I make remarks on face book

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi There, I know I'm a good person both inside and out however, is it normal to feel rather jealous or sad that whenever I make a comment on my page on FB no one responses or comments on my comments or thoughts? It seems that these "friends" (whether they are relatives of min... (263 words)

Should I try to keep it in?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to try squirting with my partner and have read up all about it but now i have a question! With all the foreplay involved, i will more than likely cum before squirting! Is it okay to cum before squirting or should i try and keep it in? I dont want to spoil it!... (59 words)

We're stuck sexually, I'm going to Mexico soon and she's freaking out after I fingered her. Help?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been together with a girl for like 14 months and things are going pretty good but kinda suck on the "sexual" side... She's beautiful and kind and I really do care about her but not much happens in our "alone time" other than lots of kissing and rubbing. So question one, ... (231 words)

Her past just eats away at me

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - here der is dis girl who loves me. we are together since last 2 years. before getting into relationship she told me about her past and that too that she is not virgin. she cried about it i was hurt but just in order to make her comfortable i told her its ok it just doesnt ... (176 words)

Is she a friend or is she more?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hows it goin my best friend is a girl and i have known her all my life, we have gone to the same school with eachother since kindergarden and im not in college at a local community college and hang out with her. we used to hang out alot, then stoped and now started again. ... (364 words)

I'm very distant and impersonal with everyone. I don't know why I can't stop being this way

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is my very first time trying to seek advise but I really need some answers... for as long as I can remember now I have been distant towards everyone... my family, friends, in all my relationships... I'm just very impersonal and wish I could show more to people. I have a ... (123 words)

How to ask someone out when you don't know them too well?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I met this girl through a friend of mine and i want to ask her on a date. ive only seen her once and we didnt talk a whole bunch since that time she was with her friend and i was with mine. The thing is my friend gave me her number and i want to call her and ask if i can get ... (293 words)

I want to mess around with my girlfriend's friend!

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - So me and my girlfriends bestfriend were talking via text messaging and i told her a deep secret, i told her i masturbate. She said she did too. Its really awkward now because i want to masturbate with my girlfriends best friend. What the hell should i do?... (48 words)

Am I out of line expecting more out of my mate?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiance are having problems ever since I asked her to marry me. First it was the ring, she wants something bigger and more expensive. Its hard for me because I am unemployed. Second she constantly points out things that are wrong and things I do not do. For instance ... (198 words)

For male : what do you think about a virgin girl..?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - For male : what do you think about a girl 23 years old and still virgin?? Well, that is me. This May i will 23 years old. And i am still virgin because i want to give my virginity to my husband in our first night.. Is that weird..? If you can choose, what kind of girl do you w... (73 words)

Girl said she doesn't want relationship, but still very flirty?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - there is a girl that recently started at my job that i like. she has come over to my house and we have kissed several times but she texted me several days ago and tells me she has a bad feeling about us getting involved since we are coworkers and wants to simply remain friends. ... (160 words)

Why arent I ever "The One" ?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so , I'm 28 years old and for some reason I've never had a long relationship... one that has lasted for more then a year... I'm very outgoing and funny even.. (so I'm told) ..and ppl are quite attracted to me upon 1st meeting me EVEN THO I dont throw any vibes out there that ... (216 words)

Girlfriend doesn't like oral sex but sex is getting boring!

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I get my girlfriend to please me more? We have been together 3 years now and sex is getting dull. She won't do anal and oral won't work because of her small mouth. Sex games don't work because they usually entail some oral stimulation. And she dont like sex toys!... (52 words)

FWB relationship but we keep going back to each other

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is long. I'm sorry, but there is this guy, i have been friends with benefits with for over a year now. I started to fall for him and when i told him he didn't really say anything, but we kept are thing up. He has always been there for me and we even called each ... (294 words)

My boyfriend fell for the the fake profile that I created on a social networking site, to test him . What do I do now?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I made a fake profile today on a social network and decided to add my boyfriend and see what he would do. Before him, I was in a really bad relationship full of lying and cheating, so I guess you can say I've become bitter and distrusting. I know he had messaged back and forth ... (135 words)

Should I wait for that speacial Lady in my Life or just go for it?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a guy in his early 20's who is still a virgin and it is getting more difficult every day not to have sex. Should I still wait for that one exceptional woman any and if I do would it mean something to her and enough to be worth it?... (51 words)

Will a guy ever trust/like you again after you've slapped them?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, thanks in advance for reading this:) So I have really disappointed myself. I have been dating a guy for a while, and we have had our differences, but lately things were perfect. We celebrated my birthday last week and it was great, the whole week we saw eachothe... (1038 words)

My on/off girlfriend wants us to sleep with others. I'm not sure how to feel about this

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - im a 33 year old male and have had a on/off relationship with my 27 year old girlfriend for 4 years,our last break up was 8 months but have been seeing each other more casually for 3 months,we do love each other but tried living together and it didnt work she is a stunning... (217 words)

Shes being distant but won't tell me why

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I asked this a few days ago but didn't get much of a response so thought I'd re-post it. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months, always got on really really well. She has a son and we both decided that I would be his dad after about half a year as his real dad... (208 words)

Does he like me or is he shy???? HELP

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14, and im not sure if my boydriend likes me or is just shy? I've known my boyfrend for 3 years and he has had a crush on me the whole time but, about a year ago we decided to date, when ever we are together he doesn't hold my hand, put his arm around me, kiss me, he barely ... (90 words)

Just lost my virginity and need some answers...

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I recently turned twenty one and I've been with my current boyfriend for four months, who is twenty five. He's the only boyfriend I've ever had and it is very serious and it's likely to lead to marriage. For Valentines Day, we went on a romantic trip. We had sex for the ... (210 words)

Is he being hot and cold?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, I ruined valentines day for me and my man by not wanting to come to his place because i felt tired and i didn't know he had a surprise for me. I went to his place anyway and gave him his gift but he felt terrible because his surprise was not a surprise anymore... (342 words)

How can I attract a girl without coming off strong or seemingly putting a lot of effort into it?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure if this is a specific question or just kind of an emptying of my head, but I'll try to make it as clear and brief as possible. I've just come to the realization that every relationship, or even just situations where a girl likes me, that I've ever had... (525 words)

I have love for him and bills to pay. Which direction do I take? Love or the great job?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We moved in together around the 5 month mark. I recently got a job I have been wanting for a long time... its a really awesome place to work. Prior to our meeting we both had planned on moving out of state (both for financial ... (220 words)

How do I react if my ex wishes me on my birthday?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - hellos. well I have been pondering over this for sometime now and may be I need clarification. My birthday is coming up and am wondering how to react when my ex (still have feelings for her) calls or sends me a text. And what if she doesn't send at all? Its been over 6 weeks bu... (71 words)

Need some gift ideas for our first anniversary for both of us to enjoy together..

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are about to celebrate our one year anniversary. We have decided that for every anniversary we are going to buy sexy gifts for the two of us to enjoy together. I need some ideas on what to get. I plan to get some nice lingerie already. I've also been ... (64 words)

How can I tell my mom that I'm sexual active and may have herpes?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For all the mother on this please help! I made the bigest mistake of my life I went out and had sex with someone I thought loved me and now I think I have genital herpies and I want to get tested but I'm scared to tell my mom I am sexually active and may have herpes. Also ... (110 words)

I need me time and feel we need to go our separate ways

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys i feel like i asked this question 5 times before and im always hoping for a better easier solution to my problem. Anyway here goes my dilemma. I have been with my girlfriend for 3-4 years now and we have a 2 year old baby girl who i adore more then anything in the ... (466 words)

What can I do to help my boyfriend get over his emotional affair?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in love with my boyfriend (ex-fiance) for the past four years. I recently discovered that he has been having an emotional affair with a girl he went to junior high with years ago. I have not read all of the emails, but the glimpses I catch show that they are love ... (332 words)

He talks about his girlfriend but then flirts with me

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, this is just a really quick random question, but..... is it weird that my practically best guy friend basically insisted on my reading the love note his girlfriend wrote him for valentines day? He ALWAYS flirts with me, but then tells me he loves his girlfriend all the ... (59 words)

Need Help finding direction in my Life

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I haven't had some very rough times in life but one series of events I am still trying to get back on my feet from and I have never recovered from them since they happened. I was thrown into an opposing and hostile culture when I was in 9th grade and I was accused of a feloney ... (414 words)

She never gets upset after we fight... does that mean she doesn't care?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I know a girl who I am close to. I have thought about her as a romantic interest but one thing makes me wonder about her feelings about me: whenever we fight I become very nervous, very upset and it lasts the whole day as I replay the whole thing in my mind. She, on the ... (130 words)

What do guys think about virgins?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm turning 18 and finishing up my senior year of high school. I am a virgin and do not want to have sex until I am sure I'm with the right person. My mother had sex at 14, needed an abortion and lived a pretty messed up life for a while after that. I have a lot of self-respect ... (133 words)

Why does he show interest only when I distance myself?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have another post so i wont repeat myself, my ex came bk to the country and because of the problems i was having with him i didnt meet him straight away anyways i finaly met with him after 2weeks to get my money bk and the meeting turned out into a date. i didnt really mind ... (330 words)

Should fingering hurt?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal for it to hurt when i finger myself??... (11 words)

Is it normal to think about cheating if you've only been married for 2 months. I'm in a sexless marriage!

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I was just wondering whether it's normal to think about cheating if you have only been married 2 months and already sex is out of the question. Tried talking about it, but personal issues on my partner's side mean we don't. I have resisted so far as we have been ... (66 words)

I love my best friend, yet I don't want to turn down my friend...HELP!!!

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had my best friend for two years now, btw he's a guy, and realized I loved him last December. Now, a friend of mine has confessed his love to me on Valentine's Day. I'm really confused because my friend wants to be my boyfriend, but I'm still in love with my bestie! ... (54 words)

I just found out my wife had 2 "friends with benefits" around the time we were dating. How can I deal with this?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been happily married for ten years. I thought I knew of all my wife's past sexual partners and some details, even the ones she cheated on me with, but I got past all that and have not had any problems. Recently, I found out about 2 friends with benefits she had (not to ... (96 words)

The guy I like keeps teasing me about other guys...

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a crush on this guy, and it's on a daily basis that he teases me about other guys. For example, he'll tell people i have a boyfriend named _____. Or he'll tease me about other guys liking me. Like he'll be like, _____ likes you, or you and ______ make a cute couple. ... (120 words)

My wife feels bad about the fact that she had sex with another man before she met me me....for just one minute!

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My wife had sex before she met one time only for a minute or so and she thinks that she is not pure enough for me now. I was a virgin and she by technical terms is not since a penis pentrated her. It bothered me at first but now I feel lucky because many guys would feel happy ... (117 words)

How many times should I let my friend stand me up? Does this mean they don't want to hang out with me?

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16 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - If a friend says they'll do something with you with you, but then cancels plans at the last minute to spend time with their partner, (who the friend complains completely takes them for granted), how many times should you allow this to happen before you stop counting them as a ... (73 words)

What do women think about body hair on men?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Just wondering what ladies, in general, think about body hair on a guy...?... (13 words)

Should I keep fighting for her or move on?

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16 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I have a serious issue. There is this girl i really love and she loves me back but there are a ton of issues. First off we live a state apart and neither of us can see the other because im 16 and she is younger than me( I wanna keep her as annonymous as possible). We ... (246 words)