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writes:I broke up with the guy I loved 2 yrs ago, due to circumstances beyond my control. I have never really gotten over him. Sometime last year I started hanging out with a friend of his and we ended up having sex. Now my ex bf is back, and wants us together again. I really like him and am scared he is not going to want to have anything to do with me if he finds out bout his friend and I. Am I going crazy here cos I know I have to tell him
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reader, Abass Abassi  +, writes (2 February 2011):
Dear,
Don't make up with ur former boy friend again, coz it will hurt both in future....whether u tell him the truth or hide, but it will surely create problem in future..... he will perhaps not get angry and will accept u again apart from knowing the truth, but the fact is that it will lead to a serious problems in future.
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 You already know what to do, and it is the right thing to do. If you kept this from him, there is a massive chance he would find out what happened from someone, somehow, and he will see that you have lied to him. By telling him the truth you are showing him that you are honest. It will be hard for him, especially because it is a friend of his. But if you and your boyfriend broke up 2years ago, then what happened in that 2 years is nothing to do with him as you were not together. Be honest from the start, he should be fine with it as you had broke up.
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