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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We are always joking around so I cant tell if my friend is interested or not

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm now in high school and i thought things have been going really well. I get along with almost everyone, I have the perfect boyfriend, and I hang out in a small group that consist of 5 of my best guy friends. Well lately rumors have been spreading that me and my very best ... (192 words)

There will be no communication for 9 months but he can't accept it and we keep fighting about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - We are a young couple in love, hes more than likely proposing this summer. We are the cute high school sweethearts. I chose to go to a Christian college for 9 months, which means no communication with him. You spend your entire time focused on God and what His plan is for your ... (259 words)

He couldn't break it off with his girlfriend but kept calling me while with her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupids :) Im so so confused would love an outside opinion.. I met a German guy at University about a year ago (im from the u.k). he previously lived in the U.S.A for 5 years for Uni.when we met him things were casual at first, but then started to get VERY serious. He... (491 words)

I don't want to lose my girlfriend because I come too fast!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a healthy guy of 21.bt each time i wnt to have sex with my gf i always cum quickly b4 5mins.i am confuse i dnt knw what to do and i dnt wanna loose hes cos i love her so much..pls can some one help me?... (48 words)

We've dating for over a year and I still haven't met his parents!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been seeing my boyfriend now for over a year,the thing that is bugging me is ive not been introduced to his parents.We both have children from our marrages,and are divorced.He has meet mine and the children have meet each other,ive even meet his sister and husband.It is ... (73 words)

I'll decide to leave then I'll think about the way he cuddles me at night and I feel like I could never love someone like that ever again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys wondered if you could help me. Iv lived with my boyfriend about 3 years and he is a very mixed up guy who's hurt me a lot of times. He's paranoid and jealous, has abused me emotionally very majorly, frequently tells me I'm stupid etc, physically, has slapped and push... (288 words)

LDR and valentine's day???

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i was just looking for some ideas on what to do about valentines day with my LDR. We have been kinda in a relationship for a while now , and as ridiculous as it sounds i dont actually have his address :S being vaentines day on monday i obviously want to do something to signify ... (86 words)

Trouble reaching orgasm

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm a healthy 16 year old guy but I'm having trouble getting to orgasm or cumming when I'm with my girlfriend. The first time she went down on me it took me 1 hour and 30 minutes to cum and it makes me feel bad to take so long, I'm wondering if there is a reason why it's so ... (89 words)

Walked on and lied to...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf and I recently got into an argument... we have been dating for three years and we have been arguing alot lately... she said during our last argument that she could do anything... (lying a lot lately)... and I would come crawling back to her... I don't want to break up but ... (115 words)

The ex wants to have sex with me but nothing serious! Do I do it or what???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - As with my previous posts, my sons mum said she will never take me back. yet. 2 weeks ago i was in the gym, fully prepared to try and move on, ive been doing much better of late, well im there and this really attractive woman sits nearby, i went up to her and said wow yo... (373 words)

want passionate and mind blowing sex with my crush, not my husband!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for 18 years and we have two sons together. I got married when I was very young and have had no other boyfriends ever. My husband is the only man I have ever been with in my entire life. I find that I am becoming bored sexually with him... (325 words)

Astrological signs compatibility?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello would this be a good match? Female Sun - LEO Moon - Pisces Venus - Virgo Mars - Leo Male Sun-GEMINI Moon- Cancer Venus - Taurus Mars - Taurus Thank you... (49 words)

Dealing with heartbreak...

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am looking for some help and advice. My girlfriend who I was happy with decided to split with me we have been best mates for four years and we broke up because of stuff it was my fault, not hers really. She is now with my best friend. I want her back, Ive tried but... (93 words)

I feel like I've let my boyfriend down...

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone, i've been with my boyfriend now for over a year and i really do love him so much and i do see a huge future for us and we've been through so much together. however, lately i've had an unwanted crush on someone from my college class its making me feel really pani... (256 words)

Cheating runs in the family!???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My inlaws have been married for 50 years. I recently became aware that she had cheated on him about 30 years ago. They have been looking to move house and after an argument, she said to him to take his girlfriend and move out to his block of land. He doesnt have a girlfried, ... (133 words)

I just want some advice on how to get over him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I like a guy who has girlfriend, and he likes me too. He liked me before he started dating his girlfriend and I liked him but I had my doubts about him, mainly about differences in culture and I was hesitant because I'd never had a relationship like that. The girl he's w... (197 words)

So sad... How do I mend my broken heart?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - How do I mend my broken heart? my husband left me 3 weeks ago for another woman he has been seeing on and off for years. will their relationship last i so want to see it spiral down the toilet. i can't sleep or eat my whole world has ended. i feel so angry now it is blinding me ... (121 words)

I love a girl who is my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I move on from a girl whom I love? I love a girl who is my best friend (she knows that I love her since I have told her my feelings but she had chosen to date another guy instead of me). I understand is time for me to move on because I can't just stand there and wai... (205 words)

My friend loves me too much?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I was going out for a walk but my friend didn't want me to go she ran over to me and she hugged me and she was crying. I think she was scared for me to go out at night . So I had to stay home but I go for a walk every night I can't stay home with her all the time ... (71 words)

My skin is ruining my confidence!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i've got a sweet and lovely boyfriend. everything is going great. but im having a very stressful year because of exams etc, and my skin keeps breaking out. I'm prone to coldsores, and they are really disgusting and it completely brings my confidence down. i cant kiss my ... (149 words)

Is there any way to just end this cycle, once and for all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for a few yrs now, nothing exclusive because he had a girlfriend whom he recently married. It's been nothing but an emotional rollercoaster with us in that time. I want to get rid of him and every time that I try, I just can't. It's the same with him ... (586 words)

How do I divorce my husband? I just want to be free!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - May I ask? How do I divorce my husband? I don't want to remain miserable all my life. I am not afraid to grow old alone. I just want to be free. Can I just leave and never come back?... (40 words)

I hate being single for Valentine's day, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I hate being single for Valentine's day, what should I do? I just haven't found the one yet and I'm 31 years old. I get all jealous how couples get all the attention and I don't. I can be romantic to that special someone. It just makes me sick that I have to be alone on Vale... (79 words)

She forwarded me an email from him calling me a lardass!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok This guy and I have known each other for two years and have been dating for two months. I recently received an email from this woman that says they are together and have been trying to work things out. When I confronted him of course he denied everything and said he hates ... (119 words)

Help!!! What can I do or say to make him more confident with flirting with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year, I started dating my best friend. He was amazing and such a gentleman but sometimes he was just too nice?! He was so careful with me and we never even kissed so we ended up just staying good friends. Over time, his confidence around me has really improved and he’s no ... (227 words)

3 minute message...???

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8 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - My friends will call my cell phone just to leave obscenely long voice mail messages. They use it as a sounding board basically. A friend of mine left me a message, stating that she was going to call, but was extremely busy. She then proceeded - I'm not joking- to leave me a 3 ... (139 words)

Problem is we want different things in our futures...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I are totally in love. We get on amazingly and are always laughing and having fun. Problem is we want different things in our futures. And it makes us both sad to think about it cos we're worried it could split us up. What do I do? ... (50 words)

Be a good father and husband or try to be happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife is a very good person. She takes care of our three lovely children, even has her own business. I work at home and participate in managing the household. The only problem is that I am romanticist while my wile looks at things in a very calculating way, leaving very ... (176 words)

How can he say he loves me...???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months. At first it was pretty complicated as he didn't want his rather controlling parents to find out. Anyway after about three weeks he told them, so everything was good for a while. He's autistic (but doesn't ... (268 words)

My girlfriend always has an excuse to not hang out on weekends...

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this girl for about 2 weeks now. We both like each other a lot and we flirt. Everything seems so perfect when I see her at school. But when it comes to me asking her if she can hang out over the weekend, she always comes up with an excuse. She kno... (200 words)

How can I break it to him that I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we love each other very much. He is 20 years older than me and because of this I think he is embarrassed to bring me around his family. I'm pretty sure they don't even know he has a girlfriend. Mine on the other hand have not yet met ... (121 words)

Got boyfriend but planning on sleeping with a married man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I live with my boyfriend, we have been together for 2 years! i met a young newly married man who is making passes at me! i now have strong feelings for him, and we are now planing on taking it to the next level'(sex). am so confusd! should i give in? or is this just a fling?... (57 words)

Does true love really wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am 16 years old and when I was 12 I met a boy. He and I became the best of friends, so close that people in our school believed we had this happy aura around us that no one can break and like any friendship, at one point we both fell for each other. A lot of peopl... (510 words)

I feel indimidated and ugly by others!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Most of the time im telling people 'theres no such thing as ugly', but then theres me. I consider myself horrible. My friends are so beautiful and lovely and im just a sad mopy loser. I never thought about looks before, but now im scared to go places. I feel depressed and every ... (89 words)

Should I ask my uncle to help us out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do anymore???? Ok I have been with my boyfriend 2 years in May!! When I first met him he was working hard always workin extra hours if he could! We got together and we moved to his moms to a very small town! There was NOTHING there for work so we both got a ... (621 words)

Why does she verbally assault me all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend knows that i struggle with depression and low self-esteem, she has the power to make me feel good and the power to make me feel awful, and she does both! im confused and it doesnt help me when she verbally assaults me like she does once in a while! why does she ... (72 words)

My friend is flirting with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I recently started going out, but my friend (whom I have been friends with for 10 years) has started flirting with him, he isn't fazed and he doesn't actually like her, it just really annoys me because she knows I've liked this guy for ages and she still does ... (60 words)

Dating ideas, Quick!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm looking for more fun inside date ideas. My girlfriend and I watch A LOT of movies together, it's practically all we do. (Blame that on the weather) We've made bracelets, tye-died shirtsand napped together, (which was such an amazing feeling falling asleep and wakin... (113 words)

My boyfriend got someone else pregnant!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i got back together last year in august. We broke up in 2009 the mnth of my bday bc he cheated. He says he cheated bc his parents drove him away frm me because they were controlling and our families fought a lot. he said us being together was making life hard ... (219 words)

Crush on my supervisor...

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8 February 2011 (?) age 51-59 - Ok so I'm not sure how to handle this one. I work in a call center and my supervisor is a cutie. He is 24. He is very flirty. He was passing out an update to the old training manual and he hinted to me that I better look through it entirely to make sure I knew everything. ... (303 words)

Will I ever be able to enter a future relationship and not feel weird about it... or should I just avoid men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay... I'm haunted by a question - if you can call it that. In 2009, I had a relationship that went... bad. Before the relationship went bad, it was a committed relationship that went strong for 2 1/2 years, and we were friends for almost 5 years before the relationship. It... (471 words)

How do we work on this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never done anything quite like this before, but I'm going to give it a shot. I've been with the same guy for almost four years now. For most of our relationship, things have been wonderful. We have similar interests, similar goals/wants in life, great chemistry togeth... (270 words)

I have the BIGGEST obsession with a male teacher at my school.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I have the BIGGEST obsession with a male teacher at my school. He is gorgeous. I now have to chance to explain my story, so here goes. It all started on Tuesday 9th September 2008, when we had our first lesson of music. When I stepped into the room and saw his face, I felt... (418 words)

What's he trying to tell me? Is he going to break up with me on valentine's day???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are going through a hard time in our relationship. Basically I hurt his feelings and now hes telling me he needs time to think.. he wants me to give him time and space to think.. but i should look out for my postman on valentines day cos he would have al... (158 words)

Should I be worried that I don't hear from her as much or is she genuinely busy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a woman 10 years younger than me for about a month and a half. When we first met it was instant fireworks. She called me every day texed me all the time and told me how much she misses me. She does live an hour away, is going to college and has 2 kids. In ... (147 words)

The what's and why's of watching Porn!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I just need some advice from Women and Men I have been with partner for 10 years we have four children he is 27 and I'm 32!! We have sex every day almost!! We recently got wireless devices which he watches Porn on ok so here goes the question I'm fine with Porn I just... (391 words)

Sometimes it feels like he doesn't care or he regrets getting involved with me, or maybe I am just overthinking this way too much!

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8 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - My head hurts so much its actually affecting my college work. I know i sound like a schoolgirl but this is all over a guy. I starting talking to him around christmas and he was always keen texting me first and sitting with me and my friends round college. It was clear to eve... (424 words)

Could it be that she just sees me as a nice guy she can go to work with and forget about problems at home???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I have a problem I could really use someone to talk to over and get some advice to. Hopefully I can get everything across and make sense. I recently moved to a new area, have a job and am really settled. However over the last couple of months I have started d... (391 words)

My husband drinks and stays out till 3.30 in the morning. Is that normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married 2.5 years..My husband is british born and loves going out to a party. but his parties are all at the pub...they start in the evening and he doesnt come home till 2.30 or sometimes 4 in the morning. Earlier, it was once a week..but of late, its 3-4 times a ... (181 words)

How can I tell him I really DO like him and figure out how to start a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy, who we'll call jake. we're both 19 (he's about six months older than me). we met back in december when i was on my first date with his ex-best-friend, who i used to talk to (and no, i'm not the reason for their falling out...that's a l... (351 words)

It doesn't feel normal and all of it is making me massively frustrated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, Ok I am a 40 year old Woman who has raised 3 children who are now 21, 19 and 17. I was single for 11 years so for all you single mums out there, hang on in there, I know its hard but we are women therefore stronger than we believe ourselves to be and we can do it... (644 words)

Does this gift sound okay to you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i have this boyfriend and we've been goin out for 2 weeks now... its valentines day on monday and i have an idea on what to get him but im not sures if its ok. im getting him love heart sweets with a lego guy and gurl (he's such a boy!) as well as a photo frame with me and ... (75 words)

Who should I believe... my boyfriend or my friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friends I havent seen in years, are telling me that my bf tried to play them but my other friends and boyfriend are telling me that they played him and i dont know who i should believe!!!! My friends are like my sisters and i love them but i love my boyfriend so much if he ... (80 words)

Valentines day... what to buy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two moths now, and i want to get him something special for valentines day but idk what, can you help me?... (30 words)

Are guys attracted to "sweet" girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Are guys attracted to "sweet" girls? I've been on a few dates, and a lot of times the guy will tell me that I'm "sweet." But they don't seem interested in me. Could they just be saying that as a nice gesture so they can walk away without hard feelings, or are guys not att... (131 words)

How often do women wear wedding rings when they're not married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a question. How often do women wear wedding rings when they're not married? I know why they do it. To scare away guys who want to ask them out, or annoy them with sexual advances. It's a sneaky trick. I'm thinking of doing it myself to keep women away because I don't ... (76 words)

How can I keep these feelings of worry and guilt in check?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I dug myself into a bit of a hole here. My boyfriend (now ex) and I dated for a few months before moving around the world to a very small town to work together. After fighting almost constantly (but also having a lot of very good times), I broke up with him. It was a very hard ... (346 words)

Why cant't I distinguish between love and sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all, I have a question. Please can you enlighten me on this.I have had a series of bad relationships with emotionally abusive men. I know this is to do with my self esteem which I am currently working on by going to see a therapist every week, but my issue is this. Why ... (402 words)

My husband lies to me constantly!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age - My husband lies to me constantly. I am sick and tired of accepting his lies because he does love me. I am sure of that. I can't stand a liar. He lies to me because he doesn't want me to get mad at him. I am to the point that I feel it is necessary to just develop a life of my ... (69 words)

How can I save a relationship I cherish with a man who is currently going through a divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm pregnant. Totally unplanned. I used protection but it failed. It has come as a huge shock. My bf told me he was divorced when I got with him. I have just found out he is actually separated and going through a divorce. I asked him why did you tell me you were divorced if you ... (508 words)

What does it mean when a guy promises to call at a certain time but he calls an hour or more after?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when a guy promises to call at a certain time but he calls an hour or more after? I am talking to this guy who already told me that he wants a future with me, but he keeps making me uncomfortable by his failure to keep his words. Last time he promised to c... (125 words)

I just wonder, where do I fit in her life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl that I dated at one point, now who is single and got dumped, and we did remain friends durring their relationship. We joke around flirt and everything, she told me she didn't want to get my hopes up or anything, that she didn't want to hurt me or miss lead me, and ... (369 words)

Stole big brother's girl!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I have always known my big brother is seriously lacking in the size department I had always heard from girls he was around 3 inches and I got all the genes apparently I'm around 8 inches. Well I was really attracted to my brother's girlfriend and she told me about their ... (186 words)

Is this romantic or just creepy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - went out with friends one night, met this bloke, don't really know what i said to him, but two days later he sent me a gift and wrote me a letter saying how much he likes me. Is this romantic or just creepy? don't know whether to reply to him or not.... (52 words)

How do I keep things going between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

- Hey guys, I hope you can help with my love dilemma. Basically, I met this guy new years eve. He blew me away, and I fancied him so much we ended up sleeping together. The next day, he left, we didnt exchange numbers or anything and I thought I would never see him again. I just ... (458 words)

I like him so much but I still don't know what he feels about me.

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! I like this guy so much and I go to church every Sunday just to see him. There was a time when he was staring at me for the whole period. I try to avoid his piercing stares but I can't. At the end of the mass, I was practicing a piece on the keyboard when I asked suddenly ... (200 words)

I cheated on my girlfriend with a kiss. Should I tell her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i cheated on my girlfriend, it was only a kiss, i know its wrong still yes, i'm not on here looking to be judged, what i want to know is, should i tell her, she'll be destroyed, it was only a kiss and she's cheated on me a few times before in the same way ... (55 words)

My senior crush!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay,so I've been crushing on my senior in school band for the past 5 months now. - When we first met, his attitude towards me was really cold aad he ignored me all the time. - Around 4 months ago, he had a sudden attitude change towards me and became friendlier. We starte... (694 words)

Is he getting action on the side when I'm not there?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone so im not sure if im doing something wrong in my relationship. i know that i can be a negative person and i do have depression but it seems like all my bf and i do is fight. we can never find something to do and our money is tight, all we do is either sit at his h... (199 words)

Is my girlfriend a Nymphomaniac?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

8 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm in a relationship for 2 years, but I'm starting to suspect my girlfriend is a nympho. What are all the signs I should look at to be sure? She has weird behaviours but I never caught her cheating. 1. She enjoys inviting men to her apartment, that she said to me i... (194 words)

What should I do? Be a friend but stay out of the friend zone?

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - 1.5 years ago, I saw a beautiful girl walk into a club, while I was applying for jobs at the beach. I decided to go in there and get a job as a bouncer at this club, so I could talk to her. We were just acquaintances and I would see her every week or so for around eight ... (303 words)

I don't want to do anything rash that'll make me look like I'm desperate.

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 year old woman, who's working and I'm in a relationship with a 21 year old boy. We met about 8 months back, when I was on holiday and at the time we met. I had just broken up with my previous boyfriend of 5 years. It was love at first sight for both of us, we dated ... (204 words)

My husband wants me to be his master but I don't know what to do!

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8 February 2011 (F)

age - My husband wants me to be his master during sex and domineer him using my imagination for the things I want him to do but my imagination does'nt seen to want to play what can I do? He has wanted this for years and I don't seem to be able to get it right.... (55 words)

If this girl cared about him should she be causing so much trouble.

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and i live with his dad, his mum is in england, she's been there for 10 years now. She comes back occasionally. The last 4 years father in law has a girlfriend he's been seeing. December, mum comes back for xmas. Girlfriend comes to the house to cause trouble but mum ... (143 words)

I really miss him, how can we rekindle the spark?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been living with my boyfriend for over a year and we both are much in love and can't live without each other. I am a uni student and it is my last year and he works full time which is very hard to have time to spend together. I know we both get tired, but his days off... (131 words)

He's now cold towards me and it worries me!

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for sometime now and he has made his feelings known to me. He's never dated b4 as he says, and we cherish the moments we have together . But while I'm away,he seldom calls and I often get worried and call to hear from him. But hey, I now feel like I'm over ... (104 words)

Does this shy/quiet guy from college like me? Are there any signs I should look for?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this 27 year old medical school student at my university. He seems really shy/quiet and polite. I am not 100% sure if he is shy or just the quiet type. However, we became friends and had very few conversations during these past two months. He always offers to help me with ... (368 words)

Is this girl flirting with me???

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Is this girl flirting with me? We are in the same classes at school and we see each other a lot. I have noticed she touches me more than other people (like during a conversation she will put her hand on my shoulder). She also said something that was odd the other day. I off... (181 words)

Will our different religious beliefs clash too much? And would he compromise his beliefs about sex?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, agony aunts. (: I have had a relatively close male friend who I have known for several years. We went to high school together and have always gotten on great. Almost the whole time I knew him, I had been with my ex boyfriend (who I was recently dumped by). I... (358 words)

My boyfriend through me into the snow during an argument! I'm not sure what to think!

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was walking outside with my boyfriend of 6 months, when we got into a small disagreement. We were holding hands, when he suddenly flung me across his body and into the snow on the side of the road. I landed, unhurt, but shaken. He is much stronger than me, but he has never ... (96 words)

What should I do about my child's deadbeat daddy? I'm a tornado of emotions!

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex was cheating on me, when I busted him and his mistress. He lied to both of us, and I told him to leave. She ended up marrying him 6 months later. The problem is I was 6 weeks pregnant (and yes he knew), now I have an 18 month old. He is taking care of her child (not ... (147 words)

I have pre-martital jitters! I'm scared and need advice!

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Been dating a guy for a few months. Several months into our relationship, our families were introduced to each other. When we started, I loved him very much, but just before the family introduction, I started experiencing some things. Though, I had noticed them when we started ... (371 words)

Will she forgive me, and talk to me again? Should I give her time?

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend and I broke up back in September. She broke up with me because she was feeling like she wanted to see other people. I was the best boyfriend she had and she loves me so much, but she is so upset because she has these feelings. So we ended things. After a little ... (454 words)

My friend is going to ask my crush who he likes!

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys! I've got a problem. I really like this guy and he just broke up with his girlfriend because he didn't love her and he loves someone else! The thing is he knows I fancy him and won't stop annoying me about it and keeps saying my name in a flirty way! Since about 2 days ... (165 words)

My relationship with my parents is falling apart! Who can I talk to about getting help?

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - At 17, I despise where I live, I despise who I live with, and most of all I can't wait to get the hell out of here. I have the life outlook of a cynical man of 70, and I'm not even allowed to have a legal drink. After 17 years of putting up with my intensely racist father and ... (584 words)

Should I wait for my boyfriend (and father of my children) to get out of prison, or should I move on?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is currently in prison. We've been together over 5 years and we have two beautiful children together. I really do love him a lot and I am sure he loves me too, but I just can’t get over the fact that he has put us in such a horrible situation. I don’t know how to ... (291 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me, but he's giving me mixed signals! Do we have a chance?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just broke up with me right on our one year mark. We had a great relationship, and I didn't think anything was wrong. We lived together too. He said he just wants to be single right now. He said he wants to be single for the next 5 years until he gets his ticket t... (190 words)

The father of my baby has never visited or asked about his daughter! What should I do?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, he abondoned me when I was four months pregnant. My daughter is now 8 months old. He has never come to see our child, and if he sees me in town, he hides from me. Instead, he sends me messages on facebook about how he saw me in town and what I was doing. However, he ... (66 words)

Why would he leave for a year if he loves me? And will he realize how much he misses me?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been on and off for the last 6 months, but we've been together a year and a half altogether! He's 20, I am 23, and I am his first girlfriend. We break up over the same argument every time... he wants to work away while he's still young. When we ... (200 words)

I'm 15 and my breasts are really small. Is this normal?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 15 and I have really small breasts. I want to know if it's normal at my age. My friends all have big breasts. I don't wear a bra yet. ... (32 words)

I'm having some second thoughts about Valentine's Day celebrations, but am I wrong ?

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for a little over six years and on days like Valentines, anniversaries, Christmas, and birthdays I always try my best to make the occasion special. However, over the last year, I get the feeling that these types of events aren't as important to my ... (259 words)

What do I do about my loss of interest in sex?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to start this off with this: I am not looking for pity in this post, because I am sick and tired of girls (and guys) just looking for attention. I am truly looking for advice because I have nowhere else to go. The last place I wanted to throw this out in the open was to ... (395 words)

Her boyfriend is trying it on with me, should I tell her or not?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. Well theres this guy at my school and he has a girlfriend. at school today he kept putting his hand on my leg and trying to kiss me (i kept telling him no) but he just kept on doing it, im not sure what i should do, tell his girlfriend or not? and also if a guy cheats ... (65 words)

I'm pregnant, had a one night stand and am so afraid to tell my boyfriend!

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out I'm pregnant, however I'm not sure if my current boyfriend of five years in the father or a one night stand(I was really drunk that night celebrating my friend's birthday). The nest morning I took Plan B and I was told by the doctor that Plan B doesn't work if ... (246 words)

Does he like me? Should I tell him I like him?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello everyone! Ok so there's a guy I really like maybe even love. He supposedly knows I like him and he liked me a little last year. And I don't wanna sound like *blah* but I'm an AMAZING girl and I just don't see how he would like me more this year. So he left the middle of ... (337 words)

What makes a man "good at screwing"?

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Question for the women: I hear men described as being "good in bed" and as being "good at screwing". What's the difference, and what makes a man "good at screwing"? Is this a skill that can be learned, or is it some sort of natural ability?... (46 words)

I am obssed about my boyfriend's ex's

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 1 years now, I love him so much and i can see he loves me too. we plan to get marry this year december. But I can't stop thinking about his ex girlfriend. This thinking drives me crazy! His ex's were very pretty and smart. She is the only g... (203 words)

What to do for Valentines Day (and to avoid sleeping on the couch!)

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hmm i know there is something i should be remebering?....girlfriend....love...she said she will kill me if i forget the date.....ummmm...what the....???....VALENTINES DAY!!!! ah obviously cupid didnt shoot a clear enough love arrow, and now you are freaking out! you so... (449 words)

Wife is too wet and it turns me off!

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife is having this funny noise on her vagina when we having sex its not the farting sound due to air inside her vagina its like her vagina its too much wet and every time i go in and out the noise is there and it turns me off, so what should be her probleme?... (56 words)

I watch my boyfriend flounder and float through life. Do I end things with him?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For a little bit of background, I'm a college bound girl. School is very important to me, and I've been looking forward to going to college and then moving on to life for as long as I can remember. My boyfriend and I have been together for a bit, about 5 months, and we'v... (227 words)

Broken and wiling to never open my heart again

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy that I liked forever lead me on for about 2 years and just shut me down about an hour ago, I have forgiven him for every lie he said to me, i have forgiven him from doing all this other stuff, but he just shut me down, and even though i feel like my heart got ripped ... (122 words)

I'm afraid if my married man leaves to tell his wife its over, he won't come back

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a married man.. we work together and started out as friends. this past summer we become really close. he confessed to me that he has been in love with me for the past 2 years. but he is married. but his wife is in mexico. so its not like they are living and ... (188 words)

Is this friendship really worth keeping?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - This is not a relationship, love or sex question. This is strictly a friendship question. I've been close to a friend of mine for almost 10 years, and we've confided in each other about a host of things. From boyfriends to family and career ambitions. I'm familiar with her ... (313 words)

Together for 3 months, had sex for the first time last week and now he is ignoring me! How do I fix this?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i've been with my boyfriend nearly 3 months. Overall he's a nice guy and we get along good. But a little over a week ago we had sex for the first time in our relationship (his first time ever) and for the next day or so everything was peachy. Then suddenly he quits ... (223 words)

She flirting with my boy friend. Now I'm feeling ignored. What should I do?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months so far. It's been great! But i just have one problem, my bestfriend likes him! she sits next to him in class, so all i hear is her laughing and twirling her hair and looking at him! it makes me sick because now i feel ign... (133 words)

I think we have spent too much time together and now I'm afraid he is getting bored with me!

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship with this really great guy for a month, being with each other is like drug to us and we couldn't help but spend almost every single day together for the past month. I remember going a day or two without seeing him and we both missed each other ... (218 words)

Had lots of unprotected sex and never got pregnant....does this mean I wont be able to have kids in the future?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy that I have sex with a lot. He cums inside me all the time...but I have never gotten pregnant once. I'm 13 years old (I know I'm wayyyy too young for sex) but I mean...why cant I get pregnant? I don't want to at all but I mean can I have kids in the future do ... (64 words)

My boyfriend has changed so much. It's taking a toll on me. What can I do?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just going to say it and sound horrible.. my boyfriend doesn't really have a life anymore. He's so different to the person I met 5 years ago. He used to have a circle of friends. He'd meet up with his brother once a week to hang out. He'd go over friends' houses for... (254 words)

Emotional numbing advice plz?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i haven't been able to feel much lately since a recent incident with an ex. Idk how to over come it..i just don't feel anything anymore...... (26 words)

I'm ashamed of my cutting scars

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8 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I've got a couple scars on my body from cutting/injuring myself when I was younger. I'm ashamed of it and when I know I will be intimate with a man, I always put on makeup to cover them up. If he does notice them and asks me about them, I lie about where they come from. ... (131 words)

I want to learn the best ways to approach her and get to know her better. Any ideas on how, please?

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, to start off. I would like to say that she does look at me an awful lot. Not to say she wouldnt be looking at anyone or anything. (As she is new to the job) But she tends to stare at me as we walk past eachother and she'd give quite a smile to top that off. And i'd smile ... (382 words)

When I do see him I can't think of anything to say!

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So i like this guy alot, and he likes me too. but we dont get much time to talk anymore and sadly when we do get a chance to talk, i cant come up with anything worth saying... anybody have some good short conversation starters?... (45 words)

She has feelings for another. how can I get over her, but not lose her as a friend?

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well to start me and my friend started to talking to this girl, he really didnt care while i fell pretty hard for her. Well she told me that she only had feelings for my friend who by the way broke her heart two days later. So since we r such good friends she comes crying to ... (82 words)

Why can't I get this guy who lives in another country out of my head?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this 21 year old guy from washington a year ago online, Im 18 and I just feel like hes the only one for me, whenever I go out here I just wish I was with him, he asked me to go over before, but it just seems so risky? should i go over, keep talking to him, ... (64 words)

I want sex toys but I have to ask my mom

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I would like to ask my mum about getting sex toys but need her to buy them since I am only 15 and can't buy online. But I have know idea how to ask her since she is not so open about these things ... (44 words)

I can't figure out what her intentions are! Should I pursue her, and go all out for her on Valentine's Day?

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8 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up recently. We had a great relationship of two years that started off as friends. We broke up because we are both growing into different people, but I want to fight through that because I believe that's what love is..fighting through anything. Well we have ... (175 words)

Is he a natural flirt? Or is he really interested in mt

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8 February 2011 (F)

age - i think that i have found a guy who just like to flirt and that's all . we have been flirting with one another for now about 4 months, and he has not made a move to ask me out nor for my number. i think he is just a big tease . my question is, Is there any way to tell if he i... (145 words)

How do I break up? Our relationship has stalled.

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I just had our 2 year anniversary, but I've wanted to break up for a while. I thought things would get better but it feels like things have stalled. And the relationship is stale. We have lots in common but it's the little things. When he wants me over, he sends his ... (409 words)

I really like him but he's going out with someone else!

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - it's almost valentines day and theres a guy i really really really really like. here's the bummer:he's going out with someone!!!!! and also i get nervous that ill say something dumb in front of him! help please!!!... (37 words)

I am so depressed and have no motivation to do anything

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I was wondering if anyone felt the same way? Lately i have been so depressed i dont want to do anyhting but sleep and eat. I broke up from my ex a couple of months ago(he was emotonally abausive) but i am over that, but i still feel empty and sad over everything, even though i ... (384 words)

Who is truly fulfilled in their job?

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8 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I've always worked in office jobs and although I don't mind the actual WORK, I HATE the politics that comes with EVERY SINGLE position I've had. No matter which company I've tempted, contracted, or worked permanently at, I get treated like something my boss s... (247 words)