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*onging4love
writes:hi there i need an advise. my bf has still picture of his ex gf with thier son on his computer. and he doesnt have picture of me and our son! im hurt and feels that his disrespecting me. why woud he save it if im with him? does it mean he still love her? btw im living with him for two years with our 6 mos old son.pls tell me what to do. i would really appreciate ur help.
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (5 February 2011):
 Your welcome for the advice!
I think because the picture is only in a file and not as a screen saver or anything, theres nothing to worry about. I think your husband has not intended to hurt or disrespect you by not having a picture of you and your child in there too, i don't think he thought about it! Let him know how you feel and get him to put some pics in there of you. Or maybe do it for him as a surpise? remember he's with you and loves you, don't be threatened by an ex. just remember that he has a child with that person and they will always be a part of his life.
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reader, longing4love +, writes (5 February 2011):
longing4love is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advise auntieloulou and caring guy. As of now it's in the file, I don't know if he is going to make it as a screen saver. I just hope not. Thanks so much again. God bless you all.
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reader, auntieloulou +, writes (2 February 2011):
I can understand why you feel hurt and its easy to be jealous. its a bit careless of your partner to do this! you should approach him and tell him your hurt that there is a picture of them on there and not of you. is the picture a screen saver on his computer or just in a file on it? if its a screen saver i would be a curious; of course its ok to have a picture of his son as a screen saver, but of his ex aswell? if its just in a file then there is no issue, its not a big deal.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 February 2011):
No. It means he still loves his other child. He's not being disrespectful. Ask him if he'd like a photo of you and your baby for his computer too. Just don't try to get rid of that other photo - he's got that for his son, not his ex wife.
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