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writes:I have a really sweet and loving boyfriend, hes a great guy,but i have a problem. Im still in love with an ex, and he's changed for the better, me and my ex still love each other alot, but i dontknow how to go about this. My ex recently dumped his girlfriend and told her he was stil in love with me, i want to say im strong, but i dont have the heart to tell someone that. My boyfriend also sufferes from depression and is on pills to help him, so i have to be extremly careful with what i say, im always here for him that will never change, but my heart is with someone else. I've thought this through, i know what im about to lose, but i know what im going to gain. Me and my ex have been together for 2 almsot two years, me and my bf have only been going out for a few months. If i could, i could write a book or a movie about my love life with my ex, thats how strong it is. I just need help, im not that kind of person who can break up with someone i have way to big of a heart, i dont want to hurt him, but i know doing this will, i just need to know what the right way going about this would be, So please tel me, how i could break up with him in the nicest way possible?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011): You just need to be honest and tell him. If you don't, you could end up, losing the man you love.
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reader, alabama222 +, writes (2 February 2011):
Baby, there is no way to do it nicely. You will mess your life up trying to be nice. I have done this and lost the most important person in my world. Don't delay - unless you wish to lose the man you love. Just say, I am sorry but I can't continue our relationship because I don't see myself being able to love you like a wife. Explain that you always heard that you should never date someone unless you could marry that person. Life is toooooo short. You don't have to tell him details. Just do it or you will be the one who will come up with no love. He will be glad after while. Just be honest with all.
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