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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm one of three!!!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been 'talking' to a guy for close to a month when i found out he was also talking to another one of my friends. She knew he was talking to someone else but I had no idea. I confronted him about it and he said that he really liked me and that he told her because they wernt ... (199 words)

Those 3 little words and when to say them...

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months and havent yet said 'I love you' to each other because we are both unwilling to say something like this until we mean it properly, as this is something that is used too much to mean nothing. However, I really do love him, and ... (116 words)

I am seriously in trouble and don't know what's best to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've been with this girl for 2 years now, for the first year and a half I was unloving and ignoring her most of the time. I was going out with her for a few times and telling her how much I love her and once I return home I would call her and tell her that I don't lov... (449 words)

Am I gayyyyy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i have never thought i was gay, even hinted at the posobility. i have liked girls since i was young, i used to steal my moms victoria secret magazines out of the trash to "look at" hah, and used to fake eat my sister's dolls pussys. i was pretty young and my mom was very ... (940 words)

Why is my boyfriend always saying I'm trying to get into his head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - What is the deal with my boyfriend always saying I want to get inside his head and analyze him? I have been trying to understand him and issues that have totally damaged our relationship. is this a man thing? or is he avoiding dealing with his own issues that have affected our ... (54 words)

Baby in June and we need some names!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are having a baby in June and we need some good names for it . I all ready thought of the names Patrick after Patrick Swayze or Morticia after Morticia Addams . But we can't decide. ... (40 words)

How do I know if my boss likes me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boss and I flirt on a day to day basis. Sometimes, the flirting is just fun, but other times, it is what I would consider more than flirting because of the gestures and body language he uses. He will cup my shoulders when walking past me, fidget with my hair, crack jokes ... (129 words)

Heart verses logic...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - in desperate need of help ..i will make this short by bulleting -met a great girl in 2007 -we became good friends by 2008 -liked each other late 2008-09 -i found someone else and left her..promising i would come back one day. she waited for me until august 2010 -starte... (275 words)

How can I break it to them without losing their friendship?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have three guys liking me and I don't know what I should do one is a guy that liked me since the beggining of high school he says his guy friend that likes me too only starting hitting on me after he told him he liked me then in my drama class a 11th grader starting ... (164 words)

My husband makes me feel like I'm invisible...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Oh where do i begin.... me any my husband have been married 8 yrs and together 10, but over the past year we have drifted apart, well he hasn't but i have... in 2005 he messed me around and left me twice for his ex wife, then my eldest son had a near drowning on holiday which ... (315 words)

He keeps rejecting my advances. Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I make my boyfriend make love to me? He keeps rejecting me and I don't know what to do. Maybe im doing it wrong? Every time i try to make love to him it seems like he is pushing me away, i dont know what to do. I'm madly in love with him and dont want to loose him.... (61 words)

Boyfriend ignores me and may be a womanizer to boot!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel ignored and neglected by my boyfriend. He also says alarming insensitive things -- I can't decide if he's being intentionally hurtful to boost his own ego, or if he's really just stupid. First, the ignoring/neglecting: We don't get much alone time, because he has ... (506 words)

I've been dumped by someone I was seeing for a while and its hit me like a lead weight. Help!

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11 February 2011 (F)

- I've been dumped by someone I was seeing for a while and its hit me like a lead weight. The reason being becuase I dont know why he's dumped me. Lastnight we were fine, today hes told me its over. He wont say why. Ive spent all day thinking about it. I havnt been able to eat, ... (151 words)

I keep comparing them to my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i cant stop thinking about my ex, i broke up with him ages ago ive even seen other guys after him, but i cant stop comparing them to him and wishing i hadnt split up with him, i havent spoken to him for ages and i need to know if i should make more of an effort to forget about ... (70 words)

Hundreds of porn sites in one week on his computer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted earlier but cannot find where it went. I couldn't help myself, after seeing just a few porn websites on my boyfriends history, I searched through the rest of his history and there are literally hundreds of porn sites and google searches for pornographic mat... (80 words)

Too close to my teachers...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't what to do? And top of that I don't know what it is but, I am a really likable student. Meaning all my teachers like me. This is good but it does lead to problems. Last year I formed a really close relationship with my one of my teachers. She was such a laugh. We would ... (470 words)

My girlfriend saw me kissing another girl what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is upset and crying because she saw me kissing another girl. Now she thinks I'm gonna leave her but I'm not. I really love her. How can I reassure her? ... (33 words)

How to give a good blow job???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm gay and i will be seeing my boyfriend all day tomorrow, and i want to give him a blow job. How do you give him a really good blow job for him to ask me for more? When giving him a blow job where should i put my hands?... (50 words)

Should I look for another guy and just forget about him?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I really liked this guy for a while but he goes to a different school. My best mate knows him well cause he lives near her. Then last summer she asked him about me and showed him few pictures of me on her phone. he said that I was 'good looking and pretty'. I was really delig... (224 words)

Lesbian cyber sex?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in a relationship and I want to know how to cyber with my girlfriend. I know it sounds stupid, but she really likes it and I feel so lame, because I'm not that great at it in real life either, and I just want to make her feel good. So I was hoping some people could give me ... (64 words)

How can I know he really loves me...?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for approximately 2 ½ months although it seems like more than that to me. I like him so very much. He is nice and sweet and charming etc however he said he is in love with me but how can I be sure that he does love me? He is always excited to see me, yes. ... (184 words)

She keeps saying "I'm not ready!" Does she never feel horny?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

11 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi!I'm 25 years old and have been with my girlfriend for the last 2 years. I really feel she is the love of my life, I have never loved anyone else so much. We get along fine, see eye to eye, everything's perfect. Except... we dont have sex or do anything physical. I've been ... (229 words)

Does he "want me" or just want the best for me?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hii guys if you could hep me I'd be grateful :) Alright i'm 14 almost 15. I play football on the school team for u15 and u16. We get coached by this really really nice PE teacher, don't get me wrong he's not bad looking at all. Since he's started coaching us over a ... (447 words)

I'm afraid I wouldn't be enough for her!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear aunts and uncles =D ! I'm 18 and I describe myself as bisexual. Most of my friends know and my mom too but I've never really had a serious relationship with a girl. I had my first boyfriend last year and it lasted almost a month :/ but I didn't really have feel... (244 words)

After my affair we're still together but things aren't good. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hello im 30 and a mum of 4. i had an affair 6 months ago but still with husband, he even found out but we are still together but he does not trust me, any arguments he says it is my fault and calls me names in front of kids. he eventully says sorry he is really tired from ... (106 words)

Stupid crush!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm stupidly crushing on another guy while in a relationship with someone. I've only been with my guy since September, but recently I've been thinking about what it would be like to be in a relationship or to 'fool around' with this other guy. It kills me that I can't control ... (155 words)

I don't know if I need to finish it face to face for closure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex 9 months ago because i found out he had cheated a few times and just generally flirted with everyone. We were in a LDR between the UK and the USA. I split up with him over the phone when i returned home but I cant stop thinking about him, i miss him so ... (139 words)

Real life or online boyfriend??? Who do I choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need help iv been texting this boy for about eight months now but we have never met as we met online. due to this i met a boy on a night out about two months ago and have been meeting up and going on dates with him. he now wants to go into a realtionship, i do really like him ... (126 words)

Am I wrong for not wanting to hear my friends sex stories?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyyy everybody!! I Have a question?? Sooo I'm young almost 20 yay Me!! And I'm single I do want a boyfriend but no luck. And I haven't had sex on almost a year. Yessss I know that's a long time. Its hard tho because I'm horny as hell. And I feel like I'm never going to e... (144 words)

I feel as if I've had my friend snatched away from me in just 3 weeks... what do I do?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :) Well, I've had a crush on a friend (lets call him Travis)for about 5 months now. We're good friends, and I like it that way. Me and Travis were slowly becoming closer and I was starting to pluck up the courage to ask him out. Then, a new girl comes into the year an... (236 words)

I messed up badly.... How do I move on?

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11 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Okay, here goes. Really need help with this one? I first met my girlfriend when I was 21 and she was 17. When we first met I really romanced her. Took her out. Wined and dined. But back then I practically vanished out of her life. I didn't want to hurt her. I felt we were... (736 words)

I have this unshakable feeling that I need to end things...

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been a relationship for 6 months with a girl I have almost everything in common. This is my first serious relationship, and I know I love her, but I'm not sure I can see me spending the rest of my life with her. She doesn't really have anyone else in her life other than ... (133 words)

These women are getting too close for comfort!!!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age - I have a problem. My husband and I have reconnected within the past year or so with some people from our high school. We were not really friends with any of them back in the day, but there's been a couple of informal reunions since then, and everyone's been nice. There's one ... (163 words)

I love my fiancé very much. But I’m not that sexually attracted to him.

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so I’m engaged and I love my fiancé very much. But I’m not that sexually attracted to him. I do enjoy sex when we have it, but his appearance doesn’t get me aroused. I still fantasize about someone I am currently just friends with that I used to sleep with. I have always ... (282 words)

Husband is a cheating liar that blew me off after surgery

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - This past summer I had knee surgery and was in bed for a long time (over a month). I just found out that just after my surgery, my husband of 3 years found his ex on facebook, started talking to her, and it turned sexual quickly. They never physically met as she lives over ... (191 words)

Why do I suddenly want to have sex with other men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I don't understand why I only found my husband and other women attractive for so long and now I want to have sex with other men too. Why would my wants have changed like?... (34 words)

After 10 years of devotion, why would a spouse suddenly cheat?

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11 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - So why would someone be completely obsessed with their spouse for 10 years and not interested in anyone else on the planet, then all of the sudden start finding others sexually attractive and cheat on them a few times? What would make a person just change like that???? And ... (76 words)

Any tips about lasting longer in bed???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

11 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Similar to many questions on here that men have is about lasting longer in bed. Well I have been working on breathing techniques and the PC muscle and all that fun stuff. However, I have noticed that I can last however long I want when my gal is giving me a blowjob. It is j... (81 words)

How can I stay strong and not fall back when he sobers up and wants me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Any advice welcome. I have been seeing a man for a year now and it has been one heck of a ride. Love is not the question here, we are both very much in love. Except the man I get to spend time is only on this planet about 50% of the time because the rest of the time he is ... (247 words)

Why would he say he's "a bit jealous?"

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (?) age 36-40 - I was talking to a guy who i used to kind of be FWB with and he asked how my date went last night. I told him it went very well and that i was going on another date at the weekend. He said "wish i could see you that often :P" "i'm pleased for you but i'm a bit jealous too, i ... (150 words)

Why is he so embarrassed!?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can someone give me some advice? There's an amazing guy at work who I have a huge crush on. There was some intense chemistry between us when we first met (just polite chat) and the second time we met he blushed. After that, I think the attraction was mutual although ... (322 words)

Does pursuing this other girl make any further endeavour a waste of time and an emotional risk?

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf and I split up about 5/6 weeks ago and whilst it was very hard we realised that we both need different things in life but we are sort of staying in contact as we think there might be the potential to get back together at some point once we’ve (or I, I should say) figure ... (300 words)

What is my college lecturer feeling towards me?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know your all going to think im being childish here, but please here me out. Im 18, and very mature for my age. Last year i met my college lecturer, and we hit off straight away. There was one point though where i got close to this boy and my teacher started being harsh to me ... (307 words)

I don't like him using pornography and he thinks I am controlling him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i need some advice... i don't know if i have the right to be insecure about this subject or if i am just crazy,here is the situation. my boyfriend and i have been together for a year now, we are living together and are very happy.i have just one problem with our relation... (147 words)

Help me understand his mind!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupids: I have been with my man for three years this March and we've been through more than most couples I know... I have always known about his hyper-testosterone and do my best to keep up with him and please him so he does not stray.. I was recently using ... (266 words)

Why does he say hello after he told me he wants nothing to do with me??

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - There is a man I work with I spoke of before.. We were friendly and semi-intimate which led to work HR issues which happened over a year ago. Since and during the 'crises' I always am kind and assist him when needed because it is my job. Recently, I confront... (494 words)

How to say I got you my dear... and how to manage our time for sex online?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4914 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. My fiancé and I have become familiar via internet. We are in relationship and are going to marry. We are far in different countries but originally from the same country. He wants me to wear sexy clothes and since I'm living with my family, I should make a privacy and do ... (178 words)

Wife making my fantasy come true - how best to support/encourage her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

11 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - Ok, we're both in our late 30s here and have been married for several years, together for much longer than that. As a Valentine's present to me, she's agreed to let me indulge a long cherished fantasy; two watch two women together. She's not going to be one of them, she's g... (391 words)

How can I reconnect with my husband when he is constantly distant with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My Husband and I are trying to work thruough our problem and fix our marriage. He has stopped doing the one thing that made me distrust him and I am slowly starting to trust him again. Actually feel like I trust him 50% more than I did 2 months ago which I think is a great st... (229 words)

If someone feels really guilty about something would they keep bringing it up?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - If someone truly feels guilty about something, would they keep bringing it up? My bf and I have been fighting a lot lately and he gets to a point where he'll say things just to be mean even though he doesn't mean it. Yesterday, he had told me to f*ck off and "know my place." He ... (164 words)

Help!!! I'm in a fix!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - So I like this guy for almost two years now and I haven't mustered the courage to tell him yet. Initially we were not very good friends and I was very shy in front of him. So I often made a fool of myself. But over time, we've become better friends and Suddenly, a while ba... (262 words)

Building myself a future means not seeing my child as often NOW!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope you can bear with me here and tell me your thoughts. I feel very lost in this situation. First off, I am a non-custodial mom of a beautiful 2 year old girl. Why? Because I love my daughter and want the best for her and I know her father can provide better than I ca... (574 words)

Is he into me or the "idea" of me?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy for about 2 months now and we have been dating for a little more than a month. I met him at a conference. Like I said, it's been around a month of dating and I feel like things are moving way too quickly. Not physically, but emotionally on his part. ... (163 words)

I hate her for it but I can't stop loving her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - She ripped my heart out, what should I do? So, ive had feelings for this girl for roughly 8 months, and its been up and down as far as our friendship goes. She would let me get really close and then all of a sudden push me away and then after a while things would be ok agai... (506 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me saying he misses me but needs space. Will he come back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I need help! My boyfriend and I have met 9 months ago, fell in love, all too right, moved in together after 3 months in a new city, got a job together, spent 24/7 together and everything is perfect in daily life, we love being together, we barely fight, except when it ... (298 words)

I'm in love with him, but I made a mistake. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I'm in love with a guy who has told me to leave him alone about 4 weeks ago which now I admit I was wrong, but I made a mistake. One: this guy who we've been close for 2 years told me in November that finally him and his gf broke up and since then we became friends agai... (446 words)

Why won't this man commit? And did I make the right decision?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of two and half years broke up with me the first week of December, and shortly after I started talking to new guy. For the first month, we just communicated via texts, but we really got to know each other and we were both starting to like one another. During... (425 words)

Am I being ridiculously jealous or are my feelings valid?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of over a year still talks to all his ex-girlfriends, but some more than others. He has an ex in England that is obsessed with him and calls him at work (in Canada) and talks to him for hours while he is working. I have stressed I don’t like it and he says they are ... (343 words)

I'm not over my ex, and he tells me he loves me, and I see my future with him. His girlfriend doesn't like me though, not sure why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have currently been in an relationship for nearly two years but cannot stop thinking about my ex, we broke up nearly 4 years ago and I have had 2 bf since him but I always find myself comparing everyone to him. Me and my ex were still very close after we broke up ... (148 words)

How can I stop being jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my boyfriend but how can I stop being so jealous when he talk to other females. I know he is a friendly person but I'm trying to trust him. I need help or I'm gone lose him. ... (39 words)

Trouble with flatmates - how to say NO?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i've been at uni for a year and lived in halls which wasn't a problem. I'm now living in a flat that my parents bought for me to live in while i do my 2nd and 3rd years. I live with my boyfriend who doesn't annoy me at all and another couple (Dan and Kate). i lived with kate ... (300 words)

She won't go down on me!

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i have a bit of a sexual problem. My girlfriend does not like giving me oral. We have been sexually active for about 2 years now out of a 3 year relationship but at the begining she liked giving me oral. At the begining she gave me head everytime we had sex and whenever ... (372 words)

Flirting with a friend of my ex, but the friend doesn't know his friend is my ex, or that it's his child I'm pregnant with!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm currently 28 weeks pregnant, my partner walked out on us both leaving me to move back to my parents and give my job up. He doesnt want anything to do with his baby or me which is fine. The problem is I'm currently speaking to a friend of his who doesnt know that his friend ... (135 words)

My friend thinks she'll get a diamond for valentines, and is rubbing it in my face!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i knew my best friend about 6 years now and she always talks about herself, her wedding, her clothes and what she always gets. she knows that i wouldnt want to have a wedding in the future for personal reasons however i think she always rubs it on my face. i believe... (117 words)

It's been 9 months, but I'm not yet over the ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm only 17, and last year, in May; my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me, and it completely destroyed me; he was the one whom I lost it too and completely fell in love with, even though there was some abuse in the relationship I just blamed myself. Now, 9 months on; I'm ... (95 words)

This doesn't feel like a relationship to me, have I got me a player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 and have being seeing someone since November. he is 7 years older than me. We live in the same area in fact really close. I only see him when he wants to see me. He txts me everyday and asking how i am, but if i text him it takes him hours about 2 or 3 hours to text ... (227 words)

The merry goes 'round and 'round, but does he only want me when he can't have me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend 3 years on and off. In the past lots of stuff has happened... The good and the bad. He regularly goes off me, and starts speaking to others girls and leaves me in the dark, then whenever I leave him... A week later he will be begin to be back ... (134 words)

I'm a jealous and possessive italian woman, and there's nothing I can do about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hi ok, here it goes. I thought everything in my relationship was going great, until I became jealous and possesive, it runs in the family we are all italian women and become like that. no matter how pretty I'am I become insecure and can't stand him doing anything without... (519 words)

What is it with guys and texting?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi fellow aunts and uncles :) I was just hoping you could offer me some advice... What is it about guys and texting!? So there's this guy I saw the other day for drinks with friends, about the fourth time we've met (we've kissed previously). The next day he sends me a lovely t... (159 words)

I feel like no one could ever love me.......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I've always seen other people, friends mostly, get together and be in happy relationships, but it's never happened to me. Until now. So I don't know what to do, how to deal with it. Apparently I'm a great catch. I don't feel like it though. Every guy I've ever da... (357 words)

Why am I so worried about moving in with him?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm all set to move in with my boyfriend next week. We signed the lease tonight, for a year, and we're handing it over to the real estate agent on monday. Doesn't a year seem like a long time? We've been together 11 months - and while that's been great, how am I supposed to ... (330 words)

Do ultra thin condoms break more easily?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - dear readers, i wanted to know if you use ultra thin condoms does it make them brake easier? are the chances higher? please tell me if this is so cus i want to try them but i dont want to make the risk higher?... (49 words)

I'm unsure about settling down with him, and he has kids. How do I handle this situation?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a situation and I don't know what to do for best. I would like to hear from any parents here... To start, I'm 20 years old and have been in a relationship with a guy of 32 (33 next month) for just over a year. I do love him but I'm unsure about settling down - I w... (191 words)

I feel like I'm not good enough for him!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so,i started talking to a guy over facebook,he goes to my school and is bestfriends with my close friend.He is 2 years older than me,which makes him 18.I started talking to him about 2 months ago,i actually thought i liked him the moment we started talking,and have felt the ... (271 words)

How can a guy go from being so interested to completely avoiding me?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Can anyone help me figure out this confusing behaviour please? I've known this guy as friends for about 2 years. A few weeks ago a friend of mine let him know that I was interested in him as more than friends. Subsequently he told me he felt the same way. Since then we h... (247 words)

My girlfriend and her male friend are too close for comfort in my eyes and I don't know how to deal with it anymore!

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and just recently have been realizing the magnitude of her relationship with her male friend. He is living in North Carolina and we are in Arizona. They have been friends longer than we have been dating, but it is co... (589 words)

My LDR boyfriend randomly deleted me from facebook!

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11 February 2011 (F)

- Okay, this is weird and very confusing. Im in a LDR with a guy I met new years eve and who works away - 300 miles north - but we keep in touch on facebook. I really, really like him and the time weve spent together has been amazing. Lastnight on facebook we were ... (255 words)

How to deal with being abandoned by parents and family?

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a depressed 23 year old male. My father abandoned my family when i was 3. My mother did the same when i was 15. The two of them are remarried and they have kids and lives of their own. My younger sister, who has a younger kid of her own, and I got into a massive fight ... (460 words)

She cheated on all her ex's - will she cheat on me?

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Right here we go I've been dating this girl for a good year now and as far as our interactions with each other are concerned all is going swimmingly. Im in my mid 20's and this is my first serious relationship as I knew throughout my "silly" years that i wasnt anywhere near ... (986 words)

My boyfriend found out that I had been telling my ex I loved him, how do I earn his trust back?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 and a half months now. Earlier on in our relationship, we were going through problems, so I felt alone and I started "talking to my ex, and I was saying "I love you baby" and stuff like that. And he found it tonight, and wanted to ... (87 words)

He has given me 10 days and if its not working he is breaking up with me! Help!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a big problem with my bf now, i am chinese, he is french, i have been lived with him for 9 months, few months ago, he began to get bored with our sexual life because he thinks my body is getting ugly, so i am in a diet program, and my body is getting better and better, ... (240 words)

My boyfriend of 11 years begs me for more threesomes!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years, we have awesome sex and have gotten kinky over the past 3 years! He discovered that I am into women and we have introduced a few into are bedroom with us. I normally perform with her and then he performs with both of us. Everything is ... (160 words)

Was this more than a friendship hug?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my co-worker by coincidence. He tapped me on the shoulder. He put his hand out to shake his hand. Then, we looked eye and eye and reached his arm over for a half hug with a gentle squueze. I patted him on the back. Since then, I can't get over him. Did this hug mean ... (95 words)

How could he say he love me and go straight to someone else?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was 16 he was 19. He got a new girlfriend straight away. People tell me that im heaps prettier and shes really anoying and not supportive. I was happy because i hoped he would come back to me but its been like 2 monhs since they have been together. I'll be honest i was always ... (172 words)

How can I tell him his girlfriend doesn't treat him right?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - How can I tell my best guy friend that his girlfriend isn't treating him right without him getting mad? She flirts with any guy with a pulse and even leads on another guy telling him how her relationship won't last much longer and that she really likes this other guy. Sh... (141 words)

Girlfriend needed a break but still really cares for me. I'm so lost, please help!

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here is my story. i just need some advice. My girlfriend and I have been going out for just about 2 and a half years. When i say that we had the perfect relationship i mean it. we never needed to fight, had the same interests, great sex life, we would never want to ... (263 words)

My bf is insanely jealous about my past, what can I do to make it better?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I saw some posts about the same issue, but thought I'd ask again since my story is slightly different.. So, me and my bf have been together for about 5 months. We fell madly in love as soon as we met and kind of jumped into a relationship, so crazy we were about each other. We ... (555 words)

I need to move on from her but I can't

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I am crazy because I am thinking for too many times about the girl whom I love (she knows it) even though she is in a relationship with someone else. Our story started a long time ago. Last year in April,she started to get involved in my life like talk to me much ... (413 words)

I'm in a relationship, he's married with 3 kids but he's everything I've been looking for!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay... Well... Here's the thing. I met this great guy six months ago who is cute, funny, smart, great personality, everything I was looking for in a guy. The only problem is, I'm in a relationship, an he's married with three kids. He told me he was no longer on the same page ... (412 words)

Seeing a guy naked turns me on but I'm not gay

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - help.Im a teen, age 14, and i just started puberty, and ive been watching porn. at first it was moderate. then i stared doing it everyight.then i saw a gay porn video and stupid stuff like that. i feel so ashamed i know that im not gay. i cant imagine my self in a relationship ... (115 words)

Husband has no interest in having sex with ANYONE!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Seems like the question has been asked before....but for whatever reason I feel my situation is different. I have been with my husband for almost 5 years now...we had a long distance relationship and of course when we saw each other we had sex constantly....th... (431 words)

Nervous and inexperienced about oral sex

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Since my girlfriend and I have been going out, she has given me oral. I want to return the favor but not sure what to do besides flicker her with tongue. I'm kinda nervous and inexperienced. Please help with suggestions or instructions, does anyone have any advice?... (47 words)

He watches porn first then comes to me. I feel cheated!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband comes to me at night after seeing porn videos and images on internet, he is already aroused and when he starts touching me i feel he finds it hard to keep himself aroused. We do end up having sex somehow, but I feel cheated. He doesn't get aroused by my body and ... (84 words)

A dildo for valentines day?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend wants to get me a dildo for valentines should i be mad at that or hurt over it idk what to think of it as?please help... (28 words)

Strawberries and cologne..anything else sound good?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I want to get my boyfriend something really cute and nice for him for valentine's day. I'm sixteen and he is also sixteen, we are madly in love. I don't know if it's just teenage love, but I could see myself with him forever. Anyways, back to my question; I already know that ... (97 words)

I'm not sure about the "dating a younger guy" thing

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so I'm sophomore in high school and I'm about to turn 16 (!!). I've been talking to this one guy a lot lately. I mean..200+ messages a day (they are real conversations, too). We talk a lot in school and we both run indoor track and we always partner up for speed drills and ... (171 words)

I want a boyfriend so badly and have no idea how to get one

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 13, almost 14 and i havent had a boyfriend before. i want a boyfriend so bad and i have no clue how to get one. im skinny, people think im annorexic, im taller than alot of people in my school, and people say i could be a model, so how can i get a boyfriend??... (56 words)

The minute I start asking questions, he disappears!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is he gay? My recent ex was caught Googling a website called, "Sucking Cocks". When I asked him about it he claims that it was to watch the women doing it. Googled it I saw a lot of Gay porn. I'm not Gay Bashing, just stating the facts. The sex in our relationship bec... (146 words)

Having problems with prickly hair down there

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 24 and have been shaving my girl parts since i was 13 and my boyfriendand i are having trouble due to me shaving my "prickly" hair hurts him if i dont shave every day or ever other day but if i do shave every day it hurts me. it hurts him like a mans facel hair hurts females ... (88 words)

How do I plant the seed that I am interested in her?

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I like, we'll call her April. April and I have known each other for a while (about 6 months). I'm good friends with her roommate and that's how April and I began to hang out. Last week we had a couple days of classes cancelled because of the snow... so what ... (286 words)

My girlfriend and I are starting to take our physical relationship to a new level for the both of us.

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are starting to take our physical relationship to a new level for the both of us. I am 19 and she is 18. The last couple times we have made out it has come pretty close to stripping and skin on skin feeling. She says that she feels that we've been going... (118 words)

Is it all in my head? Does he like me?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this boy in my class and he is very quiet.. He always glances at me [[ Sometimes stares. ]] But then when i look up at him, I catch him staring.. And he quickly looks away. and and One time I herd him talk about me to his freinds.. and and He smiles ... (140 words)

Since hearing of her with this guy, I've been with 2 girls myself, only becuase she did

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - After 4 years, i broke up with my girlfriend. We'd been rocky the past 6 months. She slept with a guy far beneath her within 2 weeks. I knew she's a slut, we slept together the first night we met...but i thought after 4 years and the genuine love in our rela, she might have ... (223 words)

I know nothing about sex but want to have it with him!

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months I know People say it is not long but we are in love I love him and wouldn't trade him for the world I really want to have sex with him I'm a virgin he is not I don't know how to tell if he wants to have sex with me and ... (83 words)

But I haven't been able to stop liking her, which isn't helped by the fact she flirts with me all the time

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I met a girl about two years ago, and initially i wasn't really interested in her. But as i spent more time with her i became more and more attracted to her. Last year, late summertime, i went to her house. We were sitting in her room talking and we ended up kiss... (430 words)

The last couple of years of my marriage have left me feeling rather depressed, and I wonder if I should take a walk on the wild side with the new guy

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 30 years old, and have been married to my husband for four years, but with him since I was 19 years old. We do not have any children. We are great friends. The problem has been our sex life. He has forced me to do things that I have not wanted to do, never kisses me, or ... (453 words)

Is it okay if my boyfriend licks me all the time?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps licking me is it ok ? I'm 18 he's 23 I do love him and he likes doing it. He licks my stomach my neck and my arms and I do enjoy it but I wanted to know if it's alright . ... (45 words)

Complicated relationship! I'm trying to make it work, but I don't know if he feels the same.

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy summer of 2009 and we live in 2 different places. I live in the U.S. and he lives in lebanon. when we met I was 18 and he was 3 years older. I usually go there every summer. He is friends with people i know, and i know his family, and he knows mine. When we first ... (1419 words)

What do guys think about little breasts?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright here it goes: so i don't have the biggest breast in the world. There close to a B. Big breast do not run in my family at all. I mean my mother is an A36. I just want to know what guys think about little breast. ... (47 words)

Should I try to move on and forgive?

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11 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I met him during my divorce and his divorce.We both have 2 kids from our marriages.We got serious immeditately.He moved us in after 6 months.Sex was constant and phenominal.Our kids got along fabulously.Then he found FaceBook and old crushes and new crushes.He suddenly and ... (191 words)

My girlfriend wants a week break' And she's posting all this on Facebook!

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11 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so my girlfriend wants a break after we celebrated 11 months together. My girlfriend that night told me some personal problems she had and i was shocked that i didn't know about. We spend around 3-4 nights together and it has been fantastic until after xmas.I lost mt job ... (411 words)