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I broke up with her so shouldn't I be the one who's ok?

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Question - (2 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2011)
A male Canada age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What the dickens is wrong with me? I broke up with a woman 16 mos back but I'm obsessed with keeping tabs on what she doing. My obsession is taking over my life. I half a** eat, condo's filthy, don't go out. I feel like I'm married to my laptop and binocolars. I'm gutted.

She's not down in the dumps anymore. I broke up with her so shouldn't I be the one who's ok? What's causing my obsession with her and how can I stop myself? I'm depressed and wake up in the middle of the night crying like a woos. That's a hell of a sap to my manhood. I can't get her out of my braincells. Why???????????

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2011):

Not only did you lose her but you lost your self respect dignity and integrity. Suck it and clean up your act. She's moved on and you need to do the same thing especially since you were the one who ordered it to begin with.

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A female reader, Julliet Canada +, writes (2 February 2011):

Julliet agony auntI can't help but laugh...you expected her to do what you're doing but she didn't...you're doing it for her...or you want her back...do you? If so, you were brave to call it off be brave and tell her you made a mistake...y did you break it off anyways?...and stop with the whining and spying;I say get out there and mingle with people...YOU NEED TO GET OUT THERE AND MINGLE!!! Best of luck...:)

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