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What do you do when you're both sexual virgins?

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Question - (2 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *osh999 writes:

My boyfriend and I are both virgins and want to remain so until marriage. While we are very adamant about this decision, we still have another 3 years before we want to even think about marriage (college first, then marriage). Both of us are very sexual people and we've been dating for 9 months now. We do enjoy doing things to each other and have good self-control on not going all the way. While we believe that oral sex is not wrong as virgins, anal and vaginal penetration is off-limits until after the "I do." My only problem is that I'm worried that we may get bored with each other before the 3 years are up. What can we do to make sure that we don't, but still remain virgins?

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A female reader, Rose22 New Zealand +, writes (20 February 2011):

Rose22 agony auntplay cards.

im just joking. take things slowly, do them at a slow pace and get to know each others bodies.

good luck!!

redrose

xxx

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (2 February 2011):

TasteofIndia agony auntGirl, the creativity is endless. Dress up, maybe use scarves to tie up or blindfold... 69ing is always fun. There is NEVER a lack of new things to do. Try doing things in new locations! Me and my fella are super into board games & card games and we turn every one into a sexy competition - we both make bets on what we get if we win and in the end, everyone is happy! It is totally fun, maybe you guys would find that kind of thing fun too.

The possibilities are ENDLESS. Have fun and enjoy, sweet thing!

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