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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

There must be something I can do...???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid the guy i liked has ruined his life. hes missing to much school he never got into collage he leaving to do nothing he drinks to much smokes to much does drugs why i have the crush on his because the boy behind all of that is the same i remember. my prince cha... (116 words)

What shall I do with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently I fancied a very female friend of mine. We used to talk a lot and once time I discovered that she was upset due to another guy, who was not asking her out but they both like each other. I went up to her and listen to all those things that happened between her and that ... (396 words)

Having an affair with a married man...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a daycare teacher and currently having an affair with one of my parents. I know it's horrible but I'm enjoying every second of it. Every morning he drops his child off we chat but don't flirt to not make it obvious. But we know deep down we want to just jump on each other. ... (121 words)

I want to be noticed!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - When I am with one of my best mates I am never as involved with doing stuff with girls, he is regarded as very good looking and quite popular how do I get more noticed and respected?... (37 words)

I don't know what my ex boyfriend wants now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I and my ex bf been together about 3 months and we were broken 3 weeks ago. Initially, i dumped him but after i tried to see him and get back him again but he rejected. He told me he needs time to think but it's been long times already. First 2 weeks i was crazy about get back ... (784 words)

How do I start to talk to her and will there be a future relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I like a girl but I had never spoken to her, how do I start the conversation and then eventually be her friend then finally get the courage to ask her out?... (32 words)

Facebook agony

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I want yor opinions if you think I'm being crazy. I met this guy on Facebook. In fact we grew up in the same place and we got chatting. We met up and i really liked him says he is crazy about me etc. Floating around in a dream world all week enjoying the feeling. Then... (119 words)

Friends taking the piss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My friends always take the piss when one of us gets a gf, no matter who she is. What can I do to stop or deal with this?... (28 words)

Scared of rejection

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old and i am very scared of rejection, I have never directly asked out a girl but I am an ok looking guy but I am not particularly popular. however I seem to be attracted to girls that are out of my league not just because of their looks. How can I get some ... (64 words)

Wife meeting up with her ex... how do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been with my wife for 5 years. Our relationship started off very passionate and exciting. We used to be very touchy and sexually intimate. Over the last 2 years or so, this spark has significantly died down and now we're rarely physical. In many ways I feel... (347 words)

Breakup on the horizon? Partner won't communicate - or move out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So after almost four years together I am now trying to figure out if I want to be with her. I am in a same sex relationship (female) and it's gotten to the point where I am becoming very depressed and upset with the way things are going. She doesn't seem interested in me... (357 words)

Big trust issues...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1750 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, don't know where to start and don't normally do this but here goes.... I am having a bit of trouble in the love life department :) I am going out with my boyfriend for the past 4 years and we have had our fair share off ups and downs.. At the start he was a bit of a playe... (281 words)

How often do girls check out guys packages?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4410 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - How often do girls check out guys packages? I know guys are always looking at cleavage and bootys, but I want to know how often chicks check out a mans package. I sometimes feel chicks are checking out me package as I walk by.... (45 words)

I am left feeling a little empty today and am just wondering what this sounds like to someone else out there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello :) I met a guy in November of 2010 and the connection was wonderful. At the time he was travelling in Ontario and after Christmas headed back to BC and promised to come back in six months. Watching him leave was terrible and stirred so many emotions within me. It wasnt ... (429 words)

My annoying best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - My best girl friend who says I am hers too never hugs me or shows affection she does though with other guys who aren't apparently her best friend. I am 14 by the way, she has liked me a lot of times and we have a long friendship history but why doesn't she show me affection.she ... (61 words)

He uses a lot of tongue and it gets kind of sloppy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I just started dating this guy. We have a lot in common and he's attractive. I thought I liked him but now I'm not sure. I dont know if it's just me though because I dont like dating very much. and he's a bad kisser too :/ He uses a lot of tongue and it gets kind of sloppy. ... (183 words)

I like someone I've never spoken to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi I am 14 quite young I know for relationships but I know of a girl who likes me but I am not attracted to her and there is another girl who I have never spoken to but i am definitely falling for her I even had a romantic dream about her please give me some advice.... (57 words)

Boyfriend shuts down on me!

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Why does my boyfriend shut down on me and ignore my calls and text messages when he is angry? We have a long distance relationship so I hate when he ignores me.... (32 words)

I think his plan is crazy. What do YOU think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - i have another problem my mate wants to undergo this plan but i don't know what to do. the plan is for him to go out with my girlfriend for a day and if she likes it they go out and she dumps me but if not it stays the same as it was help, what should i do?... (59 words)

What is the best time/day to call a guy in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy in a bar/club and we really hit it off. He added me to facebook but hasn't replied to my text a. I think the reason he isn't calling is cos he still thinks I'm in a relationship (forgot to update facebook). I know he'll be busy during the day 9-6 with school ... (102 words)

HOW can I get to relax?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently started going out with my ex boyfriend. The reason it didn’t work out before was because we were both super shy and neither of us had ever been in a relationship before so we found the whole situation really awkward and agreed to stay just friends for a bit. It’s b... (456 words)

19 months together and now I have doubts, I think I want to end it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and an half. We never fight and he is a marriageable guy. Only problem is i'm only 19! I am not ready to be tired down. I love him but everything is just to set! It is like we are already married, and he just never makes me happy ... (223 words)

I just want us to be fair, and have freedom and I want a healthy relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help, I am a bright eighteen year old girl. Mature, and respectful. Hooking up and dating were never things I'd partake in. Right before starting my first year in art school, I met a guy who instantly charmed me. He would call me every day, and we would have hon... (1100 words)

Need advice on how to talk to her about this or what to do

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17 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys I have a question and need help. I have been in my relationship for almost one year. I started out great and now it has become one sided. I have looked up the meaning of a one sided relationship and i fear i am in this position. I have known her for a while and don't ... (96 words)

We don't want a relationship but want to get close!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boss are very... very close, as in sharing a bed close. we cant tell anyone about us as then one of us will have to leave. (there are 7 years between us) then there is his friend who i literally just become close to, i slept in his bed but we didnt have sex but i th... (210 words)

My boyfriend moved away, now I'm feeling very depressed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4769 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I met the greatest guy in my life 6 months ago, and we moved in together for 3 out of the 6 months. We're both in Medical school, Im in my 2nd year, hes in his 4th year. I knew in Feb he was moving back home which is 6 hours by car from where I currently live. IT is a good tim... (148 words)

Why wont he commit to me when he still wants to spend time with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi I have mate a guy abck in sept on a dating site and we have been going on dates ever since we got eacher christmas presents. I have tried to talk to him about were we are going and commitent but he wont talk about it just say I should be happy to be young free and sinlge but ... (125 words)

I feel I need more from him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so erm heres my situation ive been dating this guy for bout 5 month hes dead nice and im really into him the thing is he doesnt let on how he feels and i have the feeling hes seeing other women but when im with him he refers to himself as "ur boyfriend" (meaning my ... (165 words)

His mum keeps inviting my boyfriend's ex round to the house!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Agony Aunts, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now (seeing him for 6) and everything was great at first. Also, I got on well with his Mum. Not long after we got together, his Mum's Grandma died (my boyfriends great grandma) and I missed an important exam t... (144 words)

Is it likely that a thirty three year old man has never had a girlfriend, slept with a girl or even kissed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it likely that a thirty three year old man has never had a girlfriend, slept with a girl or even kissed? This is what my partner says.. Especially if he doesn't seem to have any problem opening up sexually with me aside from a little nervousness? We met through the ... (79 words)

Why did he disappear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so hurt. Back in October I started going out with this guy. We were on the phone every day and went out almost every day. About two months later we slept together. But It was a bit of hot and cold after that, we didnt become a couple but kind of felt like friends with ... (384 words)

What constitutes as being good or bad on top in bed? How can I be great on top?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were talking last night about sex, and he told me that "you're not that good on top. But I can help you. But I'm not saying you're bad also." I'm glad he was being honest about it, but I'm not gonna lie, it did hurt a lot hearing that. But what I don't ... (271 words)

I feel as though the whole world is against me, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really down about everything in my life right now. My best friend is spending more and more time with this guy who she's shagging and isn't even her boyfriend, and I feel like she's forgotten me. I started my A-Levels in college in September, and I've hated it since I... (218 words)

Still have very strong feelings for my ex...

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and I've been dating a really great guy for a little over a year and a half now. I am in love with him and he loves me very much too, which he always lets me know. If things carry on this way much longer we will probably be married within 2 or 3 years(as ... (615 words)

If he truly wanted out wouldn't he use this as his out???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been involved in a relationship for 17 months with the most amazing man. We talk daily, see each other minimum of once a week and I'm totally head over heals for him. Here's the issue, 3 moths ago I discovered he is married. He admitted to it. I decided after much ... (153 words)

I sent her a Valentine's card and she hasn't replied?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Long story short, met a girl in Uni during the first week in a club. Flirted a LOT, danced to the point we were practically f*kin on the dancefloor. We were SO comfortable with each other it was unbelievable. I told her i liked her when we were both drunk during the final we... (189 words)

All we do is fight and I can't take it any more... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do about my relationship! Okay, well me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a year and we use to be so happy together and we never fussed or got in fights now the past month that's all we've done and I can take it anymore. Like it's a every ... (96 words)

How in the world do you forget and move on after a bad relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I'm just wondering, how in the world do you forget and move on after a bad relationship? My ex used to hit me and push me around and also accuse me of being into other woman. She left me and immediately went into another relationship. She seems really happy with her new guy... (75 words)

Super bad periods HELP!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey girls, so I have no idea what is wrong with my periods! They use to be super slow, like I went swimming for 6 hours and only change it once. I also NEVER had cramps. Now, I have horrible cramps and I'm starting to get sick like throwing up. Also my flow is so heavy! I know ... (118 words)

Has he filled my head with false hopes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently a man i am desperately in love with has moved to the other side of the world for two years. Before going he came to visit me at college and told me (when drunk... :/?) that he loves me and i'll be his one day. now he's gone and all i can think about is being with him... (165 words)

Should I just leave well alone... or does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - The week before valentine day my school was selling suckers to give to your bf or gf or secret admirer on valentines day . I got one and it like just had to me from this person last name on it. So come to find out this guy had his brother buy it cause he told me he was to shy ... (268 words)

Did her hug or the way we hit it off mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my band just played at a open mic night at a local bar, and there was this girl that i went to school for a year with. I dont actually know much about her... I started realising how gorgeous this girl was so i tested the waters, for example, i asked her if she would go for ... (149 words)

Ashamed at being a 20 year old virgin...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and a virgin. I have never had a long term relationship and the people i have been with have cheated and treated me very badly. Im not the type to have a one night stand and the fact i was still a virgin never use to bother me as i felt proud of the fact I ... (97 words)

73 years old and want to leave my husband!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age - I am 73 years old. my husband has always been verbally abusive to me, We have 5 of a family all left the house now, its just me and him, his god is money not that he gives me much, he has 2 businesses and has 1 million pounds invested, me I have nothing I worked in a nursing ... (292 words)

Lost my girlfriend to a Turkish guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am from the Philippines, and had a girlfriend for the past 1.5 years. Our relationship has been very good. Last July 2010, she left for one middle eastern country to work in one top-notch hotel. Her contract was suppose to be for 2 years. Before she left, we discussed ... (393 words)

My husband never wants intimacy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) age - My husband never wants intimacy. It started a few years ago, and I wanted to leave, but it is a 20 more year marriage, with children. It's not easy to throw it away, especially we have lots of problems too with children too. So it is not too happy anyways. So we went to therapy ... (128 words)

I'm caught in the middle here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) age 41-50 - I'm caught in the middle here! I've had an amazing boyfriend for over 4 years now... he's been talking about moving in together and eventually getting married for a while now. I love him dearly and I'd never cheated on him. Met this other guy, 10 years older... he made my ... (214 words)

How often should couples do things together once they are living together?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How often should couples do things together once they are living together? I moved in in December and things have been pretty rocky. Lately, he hasn't been inviting me out at all, and he goes out every night these days. When we do have plans to go out, he is already drunk ... (201 words)

I want to leave my husband, not for this other man, but to get out of a miserable marriage.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 8 years to a sweet and sensitive man. As with any relationship, we have had our ups and downs. We have a 5 month old son and I love my boy more than anything and he comes first in my decision. About 4 years ago we started having problems when my... (207 words)

I overheard something I shouldn't have...

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have a friend and her mum came over the other day to pick up some washing my mum washed for her while here washing machine had broke. My friends mum and dad are split up though and while i was in the room she told my mum something about what her dad did. I got told not to ... (197 words)

Am I just overthinking things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I separated from my ex 6 months ago and we have a 2 yr old Son together. Since our separation I've got myself back into my pre-baby weight, been doing great at college, dating and generally getting my confidence back. The other night I went out with a group of close f... (452 words)

He kissed my best friend! How do I trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, okay so here is my story/question. On New years Eve I was hanging out with my "best friend" and my boyfriend and my boyfriend's best friend. We were all drinking and having a good time. I went in the other room to do something, and came back and everything seemed ... (217 words)

She said she loves me as a brother!!! What gives???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I had girlfriend, we started off on a very fast pace wanting to do everything in the shortest possible time. I thought that she was the girl i needed until i realised that she did not care for me like i cared for her cause she could not text nor call me if i dont do it ... (212 words)

I just realised I am unable to give real love, and why.

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Being alone paralyses me. I was with a really great guy for 6 months, but he wasn't the right guy for me. Things were going wrong but I didn't have the courage to end it. I could see the potential in us, and wanted to keep going. I thought I loved him. But I also didn't want to ... (478 words)

Ex is avoiding me... why do men act scary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ex is avoiding me... why do men act scary? Well my ex is currently married with kids and recently I expressed to him that I did have feelings a little only b/c he kept contacting me whenever he signs online. (Occasionally so I started to catch feelings again. Is this normal? ... (357 words)

She wants to ask out another guy and doesn't know how friends will react.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend b was totally in love with her bf a, but she kept thinking he was avoiding her... she finally go so sick of it and asked him what the matter was... he told her that he wasn't used to dating only one girl that he wanted to see other ppl to. so he dumped her and she was ... (129 words)

She wants my help... but not my love.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - What do you do with a girl who is always telling you her problems and asks you for help with things, like with favors or for advice, and yet doesn't want to be involved with you romantically and is interested in other people? Is it wrong to want more and to say, look i can't ... (71 words)

We are getting married in 8 weeks and had a huge wrench thrown into the situation this week.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 40 years old and about to marry an amazing man. We both have had small issues to work through and I feel we have really done this right. We are getting married in 8 weeks and had a huge wrench thrown into the situation this week. His 18 year old pregnant "Foster" daughter... (151 words)

Could a girl would have sex with another guy she is familiar with in an attempt to forget a man she loves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I really need some feedback, seriously. I'm 39, male, just divorced. My ex and I created a company some 13 years ago, right after we started our relationship. She is lovely and smart and loves me very much in the past 12 years. We got married in 2003. Our marriage wa... (480 words)

Is it wrong for me to feel hurt by her moving on so fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - After our on and off relationship got rocky (once again) for the first time in our 2 years together i broke up with her. (she admitted shes been out of love with me for a while, I still feel/felt very much in love and didnt see the point if she wasnt as seriouse as I was/am) ... (191 words)

Anyone have any pointers how I can get her out of my thoughts???

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17 February 2011 (M)

age - I'm a married guy who had a crush on a single, unattached co-worker who's since left the company. Nothing more than emotional attachment on my part ever happened, and she never knew about my feelings. I was devastated for months when she left, and now I've learned she's in... (159 words)

He should have been talking to me, not my worst enemy.

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I love my husband but we have been together only 3 years and for the first year he couldnt let go of his ex, I dont think anything sexual happened but they talked daily 20 times while he was working, for hrs at a time and she always called at 11am, I found out about these calls ... (142 words)

My Bestfriend is flirting with my Boyfriend.....what do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - My Friend BH has been flirting with my boy friend a lot lately and I don't feel very comfortable about it. I don't know if he has realized it or not but he is not stopping it and I don't wanna say anything because I don't want him to think I'm the jealous type. My friend B... (168 words)

What does this man want from me?? How do I stop caring?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Last year I moved to a new country and met a man whom I really liked and dated for about 4 months. During those 4 months, I had caught him sending 'flirty/sexy' text messages to other women and had confronted him. He apologised but then I found out that he was actually mee... (547 words)

Would have I been better off if I had had a girlfriend years ago? Be honest.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I'm back. I would appreciate an honest answer to this question. I like feeling sorry for myself and blaming God for everything, but to do that, I need amunition. I need proof that what I'm complaining about is fair enough. I have always believed that I would have ... (148 words)

I want to take revenge on him for making me feel this way!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm going to make this a brief question,but I really hope you guys can give me some helpful advice. My ex and I broke up last friday night after a bad argument and he sorta lives about an hour away from town. I'm so angry inside because I sacrificed a lot with having ... (118 words)

Looking for the best for my daughter but things aren't going the way they should.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Readers, I have a serious problem here that I feel I just can't cope with any longer. My daughter is at Boarding School at present. She won a Scholarship at an Agricultural College worth normally $18,300 per year. My daughter was not happy at the last school she went ... (682 words)

Does he want a break up so he can play the victiim?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5000 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with this guy for about 3 months now. Things were good at first we had our petty couples quarrels but other than that we respected each other. But lately my boyfriend has been getting vicious with his words and the things he says to me. He posted our ... (267 words)

Our sex life is almost non existent and its really making me feel badly about myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

17 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiance have been together for almost four years now we have a beautiful daughter together. I just don't know what to do anymore I love her with all my heart but something has to change, I'll put it like this my gf makes me scared and nervous of having to try to come ... (480 words)

Should I allow my husband to have sex with other women because of a fetish for huge boobs?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i let my husband have sex with other women because of a fetish for huge boobs? My husband and I have been together for 4 years (married for almost 2) we have a 1 year old little boy and our second baby is due in june. He has a fetish/attraction to women with ... (396 words)

Will I ever conceive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Am 19yrs old i was married immediately i completed high school,my marriage is now one and a half yrs old,since i have been trying to conceive but it doesnt work i recently went to a doc he examind me nd said that i am okay, my husband is very patient with me saying that u will ... (101 words)

My boyfriend avoids kissing me because I have yellow teeth.

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - my teeth is all colored by a shade of yellow which was caused by the type of drugs my mum took while carryin me iin the womb bt the 2 front teeth are more affected.i tried doing something abt them bt all the dentists i went to told me dt the pigmentation is in my root canal ... (116 words)

To all Freelance writers or small business owners - I need your help!

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Attention all freelance writers and small business owners out there.. I need help. I'm a journalist whose desperate to get out of the rat race of being a reporter - writing about things I'm not even interested in - to start up my own freelancing business. Freelan... (196 words)

Boyfriend listening to his dad and now saying our baby isn't his!

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17 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - So i'm 17, my bf is 18 we've been together for since we were in middle school, I was 12 he was 13 to be exact. Anyway, we have a 7 month old baby girl! So a few days ago my bf's dad was talking with my bf and brought up our daughter and said that she looks nothing like him. Now... (132 words)

After the breakup I am always angry!

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ever since i was betrayed by the guy that i love, i'm been in a foul mood...i tried everything; not to think about him . . . we don't talk much as it is. I was played...he just wanted me coz he wanted to get laid...luckily i did not have sex...and he lost interest... ... (111 words)

I don't want to become a homewrecker so what do I do?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love and it's for the first time. and to make matters worse, he is in a relationship with a friend of mine, and it gets worse he told me that he's in love with my to, but all so with his girlfriend. I don't what to be come a homewrecker, my question is how do i get over... (72 words)

Why am I so tired and lack energy?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age - I am always tired and lack the energy to do anything, even basic household chores or exercise! I wake up in the morning tired and can't wait to get back home and sleep, I spend all day in week struggling to stay awake (and I find myself nodding off at my desk!) and even ther ... (269 words)

I'm so preoccupied with my partner being attracted to others.

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help - I'm so preoccupied with my partner being attracted to others. Not attracted as in finding someone else pretty or goodlooking, that is fine. But what I am most scared about is the possibility of him crushing on someone. That would make me die inside. Even though I... (173 words)

Is being a 24 virgin male that bad?

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17 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 yr old virgin male i try to live by the bible standards am nt perfect thats why i say try, some girls find it strange that a handsome guy at my age is still a virgin. Am waiting for marriage my girlfriend is a virgin and we both want to wait. My friends think am crazy ... (88 words)

Shouting at my girlfriend caused her to break up with me! Help!

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17 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Can anyone offer me ANY sort of help please? Yesterday, me and my girlfriend were having fun like normal! Having phone calls, chating about absolutely everything! Then we started messing around with those new Facebook page banners! She set one on my page that said "I 3 Gay ... (173 words)

What's up with this girl?

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17 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - there is this girl that i like and i know she likes me too. we often text or call and we have a date next week.but.... first she accepted my friend request too late on facebook and after we arranged for date she deleted me off her friend list!!!(also she didnt delete my wall ... (63 words)

Family problems! Should I be more wary of them?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone.... Though I'm old enough to know better, you'd think I would know better than to feeling defeated. My family consists of my parents, my sister and her husband and kids, and me and my fiancee. I am educated and a hard worker and a volunteer at church. I'm a go... (1597 words)

Porn video sent to me, how will g/f react?

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17 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - ive been with my girlfriend for over 1 year and 6 months and she wanted me to give up p*rn after we first had intercourse which i understand but i failed about 4 times breaking her heart which made me relise what a twat ive been about it and for over 1 year i havent done ... (86 words)

Mixed signals and I don't know what I am to him

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, so, i have been friends with this guy for 5 years, over the years we have become closer. in the last year and a half we have been spending lots of time together as he broke up with his girlfriend so i was there for him over that time. we got so close that we we... (380 words)

I would have left this married man if I could!

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old girl madly and helplessly in love with a 35 year old man who has a 3 year old daughter and an 8 year old son from a 9 year marriage with a 34 year old woman he dated for 5 years before marrying her. i liked him at the word go and so did he. i have been wit... (150 words)

While separated, my wife got more action than me and it makes me mad!

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17 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife and i got back togather after a year i had sex only once. she had sex with two guys the first one she says she kick off the other guy she was in a relationship with and had sex many times but says she was not in to it or didn't like it. she would always come to me for ... (88 words)

Is my husband just using me to make his life complete?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,help me,tell me if am wrong but i think my husband is controlling or he is just using me to make sure his life is complete....recently i attended my best friends wedding and he refused to go with me even for the evening party only to go home and he threw me with the baby... (222 words)

Should I just calm down and not expect too much from it but see him anyway?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I texted this guy and asked if he wanted to get together sometime. He apologized for not getting to me sooner and we met. After the date I texted to thank him and he answered back 2 days later??? Not good! Since then he texted me every weekend to meet once(it has been 4 ... (187 words)

Friend's Ex and Me.. What to do?

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17 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's the thing... About 2 years ago, one of my former friends was dating this girl for about a year and a half. I say former friends because he got away from me and the other guys because of drugs and whatever. This guy I'm telling you about got his girl pregnant, they'r... (189 words)

Seeing my ex again is jumbling up my feelings about my husband

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am married, and we get along and everything is going good but before I was dating my husband. I had this relationship with a guy that was older than me he was like 20 yrs older than me, and we were together for like 2 yrs but I had to leave him because I knew my parents ... (372 words)

I'm confused about this boy and its impossible to know what he is thinking

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Most of the time I only talk to guys at school. There's one, though, that I don't talk to much at all. He's around sometimes because I talk to his friends, but we never really talk to each other personally. If I'm sitting there by his friends and he's talking/telling a story, ... (940 words)

My mind is trying to convince me to break up with my boyfriend. Why?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been dating my boyfriend well over a year now. We go to separate colleges and see each other if luck, two times a month. Next year im transferring to his school. I currently hate the school im at and am upset and emotional almost all the time. I've started to go home ... (390 words)

Is it weird that I want to meet the guy my girlfriend cheated with?

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17 February 2011 (M) age 41-50 - My girlfriend cheated on me 7 months ago and at the time I was only able to deal with it by pretending it hadn't happened. Now I feel I will never be able to move on in my mind without knowing who this guy is. Is it wierd that I want to meet him? I know the bar where he works ... (70 words)

How can I find out if boyfriend is watching porn?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Other than the history, how can you find out if porn is being viewed on the internet? or webcams being viewed? boyfriend vows that he hasn't been watching it anymore, but how can I be sure? He lives with me and uses my computers, I have thought about putting some kind of ... (88 words)

How do I tell my parents I'm bisexual?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've always likes girls. Like, when I was younger I'd spend my alone time with girls kissing them. Right now I'm in a "I want to be with you but I don't know what my parents would think." relationship with my best girl friend. She likes me and she said she'd wait for me, but I ... (189 words)

Is he cheating on me as he appears to be hiding something? Please help!

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i dont where to start ..well i have been with this guy for about 5 months now.I love him very much and he tells me he loves me too.I am kinda a jealouse person so when i see something i am start thinking alot. 5 days ago he turn on his fhone after so long so when i need to ... (241 words)

How do I get him to flirt and talk to me again... but at the same time play hard to get?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i make him want me again?. please help me i met this guy a few years ago i went to chicago and met him at a wedding the place that i stayed at was on of his friends house and he was there 24/7 and his friend told me that his never over that much. we had fun but didnt ho... (241 words)

Why did boyfriend lie about watching porn when I was open to it?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my BF for over 4 years. he always had the stand that he didn't get into porn and it didn't do anything for him. I was open to it, I had my own collection. I tried to introduce it into our relationship at one point and he couldn't "keep it up" so i turned it ... (372 words)

Will my feelings for my husband ever come back?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have read so many posts, and even though most of them have similarities to my situation none of them fit perfectly so I will try to convey my story and see if someone can give me some insight on what to do! I am 30 and married 5 years, and have one child. We have c... (612 words)

What is his problem.... He is acting extremely odd with me?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 28 year old lady. I am having an ongoing situation. One of my friend, a married guy (about 42 years of age), and his wife who was good friends with me for few years. Thought of them as parents. They use to talk to me, laugh, and ask me a favor or two. Now suddenly... (1598 words)

After everything he says we should focus on friendship?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a 6 month old son with a guy i met and after constant arguing and him contacting his ex that he cheated on me with in the beginning he said we rushed the relationship and we should focus on our friendship. what does that mean?... (47 words)

I cant seem to get over him......

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm 13, soon 14. i broke up with my boyfriend in november (we only lasted a month but liked each other a lot) and now its february. we didnt break up cause of relationship problems or anything, its cause something else not really important. we kept liking each other for about ... (139 words)

Husband says he loves me and that should be enough!

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been trying different things in my marriage to make things better and I am tired and just do not want to deal with more rejection from him, so what do I do? Here is a little info on our relationship... We have been together for 6 years and married for 1 and a half years. ... (373 words)

I can't change her mind but it seems like my actions are not getting results

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17 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and mother of our to children moved out four weeks ago. The reason as far as I know is that I wasn't there for her. I've been trying so hard in the last four weeks to show that I'll do anything to right the wrongs in our lives. I know the mistakes I've made. I'm ... (192 words)

Why does he ask "are you finished?"

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - what does it mean when a guy asks "are u finished" when dry humping?... (14 words)

He asked for photos, I sent them and now he doesn't talk to me

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so there is the guy i've liked for over two years. We went out for a little bit last year, but we broke up for multiple reasons. We still had feelings for each other, but he moved an hour away. We still keep in contact, but i haven't seen him in a while. We were texting a ... (96 words)

195 pictures of porn stars in his phone!

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i am very saden with my baby's dad recently i wanted to surprise him to make a picture collage with the pictures that he had in his phone with my little girl and for my surprise he had 195 pictures of naked women specially with porn stars and i asked him and he told me that ... (81 words)

I want him to like me, not her!

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I thought my guy friend liked me and i really like him but it turns out he likes someone else and is going out with her, How do i get him to like me instead? And also, since im his friend, he talks about her all the time and asks me for advice, how do i get him to stop doing ... (62 words)

Still living with my ex, now I've had a dream about him, what does it mean?

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17 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I had this dream last night that I was lying in bed. I woke up from my bed and went into my home office and opened the door leading into the backyard. I noticed that the deck was gone and it looked like someone was starting to build a bridge connecting from our house. I looked ... (325 words)

She's distant but just says she's busy. what do I do?

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17 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I was dating this girl that I met for 2 months and everything was going great. A couple of weeks ago she started school at night and works during the day. She doesn't text as much now and when I ask her what's up with everything like why is she distant she says she is busy. ... (78 words)

I have to chose, both of them will be hurt

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Im so confused. I met this great guy and there was instantly a connection. Things went really fast and we are already living together. But he is so hot and cold. Sometimes he is the sweetest man on the planet other times its just like we are nothing more than roommates. ... (346 words)

I was rejected because of my height

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17 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - A girl i liked rejected me because of my height, i am 5'7 and i never thought twice about my height, it hurt because i cant change how i was born.my question is are all girls that way? I was very good to this girl in every way.... (48 words)

He texts her because he feels bad for her?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. we get a long very well we hardly ever fight. the only serious fights we get in is when i catch him texting this girl that i have been insecure about for about a year now because she likes him and they text and he knows it ... (173 words)

Dating and he says I should be happy to be free and single

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - there is thhis guy I real like think I am falling in love with him been going on date with him since sept but when I try to talk about commiting he wotn talk just say I should be haapy to be free and single but told him I dont want that he still wont talk yet he still want to ... (71 words)

What does "you almost melted on me" mean?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I am wondering when a guy says "you almost menlted on me" to you what it means. It was said because I said to him I liked him kissing my neck and rubbing my back.. and he said something like ya..you almost melted on me... (46 words)

He was having a text affair with the cleaner because we had a row?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with my man for 5 years, in this time he has photographed his penis and himself in my bedroom on the adult friend finder, i was 7 mths pregnant at the time, ive found various other women photos on his phone which he down loads from facebook, recently he was having a ... (167 words)

How do I hold hands with my shy boyfriend for the first time?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two months now, and we haven't held hands and we've only hugged once. We are both very shy, me especially, and he's very hard to read. I would really like to hold hands, hug, or cuddle with him; but I'm not sure how. What are ... (103 words)

He flirts with me when she's not around but ignores me when she is around

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i like this guy but he likes somebody else who knows i like him and flirts with him all the time to annoy me and it works. she just seems to lead him on and isn't actually intrested in him. i dont know what to do he sort of likes me and flirts with me when shes not there but ... (73 words)

I snooped through my boyfriend's facebook and I wish I hadn't!

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've done something really stupid. Something which I've emphatically discouraged people from doing on DearCupid so many times because it only ever turns out badly. I snooped through my boyfriend's facebook and surprise surprise - it turned out badly. He had told me he's onl... (437 words)

Circumcision :- to do or, not to do. That is the question

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17 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - well here goes I am an non-circumcised male and love making has never been a problem but i recently happened to be with a girl who does not get wet well enough, is a virgin as far as penetration is concerned and has real tight vaginal walls, tried oral sex she had orgasms but ... (136 words)

Does my crush like me back?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Does my crush like me back? i have a huge crush on this guy but i dunno if he likes me back or not. Sometimes ill see him staring at me and hell look away fast or just keep staring, or sometimes ill think hes staring at me but hes looking somewhere else?? and sometimes when my ... (125 words)

My heart is well and truly broken.. and it doesn't get better ....

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How can i get over this broken heart.. its been over 3months and i am still in pieces. i was with my girlfriend for ovre fourn a hlf years. we met at college, were in the same class . we became so close like best friends. i told her everything, we did everything toget... (1005 words)

Sex life not what it should be and I am struggling to be content

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over two years now and a life without him seems bleak. Before I met him, I was in a very dark place, but he rescued me and made me happier that I ever thought possible. However, for the past 5 months or so, I have been struggling to re... (240 words)

What does he mean he's in his shell?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I started to feel for a guy friend after months of us hanging out and having him stay over, i admitted my feelings and got knocked back which hurt. After a few weeks things went the same, hanging out together and staying over. I told him again that i still had feelings,He ... (99 words)

He has a girlfriend but says he loves me back?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - OKay so there is this guy i am in LOVE with, and he knows it. But he has a gf, but he says he loves me back. And im obsessed with him and i cry everynight and i need him. any suggestions??... (42 words)

How can I boost my confidence about my body?

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months now and I enjoy every waking moment with him. I losy my virginity to him after 3 months but he didn't know I was a virgin. It wasn't even like actual sex. We just sort of had a quicky in my friend's washroom. I'm worried he won't ... (109 words)

My boyfriend won't barely kiss me anymore! Why??

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17 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So here's the story... My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months, and we are both 15. We have kissed before, but he really doesn't ever make out with me. I personally love and really enjoy kissing, but I don't think he does. I would really love it if he kissed me more, ... (273 words)