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30-35,
*attn714
writes:Here's the basis of the background story: I transferred schools (from public to private) my sophomore year in high school, first day of school I saw the most beautiful girl I had ever seen and ended up having three other classes with her and instantly getting a crush on, I didn't ask her to homecoming that year because I had plans from a while back to go to a concert for my fave band who I had not seen live yet, the crush continued through sophomore year into my junior, I was going to ask her to HC then but I'm shy and did not end up asking her and she ironically ended up not having a date, in the spring this crush had been going on for 18 months and I built up the courage to ask her to prom (due to the size of our school prom was for juniors and seniors) and she said yes. prom was amazing and we continually kind of dated but not really for about a month afterward. It ended because I misunderstood something her friend told me and as a result we didn't really speak after that for a few months, and I had to go back to public school for financial reasons.Now its been almost two years (will be this March/April) since the climax took place, and while she has obviously moved on as she has a boyfriend, I still dream about the two of us being together. I feel like I am over her, so I don't know what is going on. My friends have just told me to shut up about it and get over it, which I think I have, but then why is there this part of me that still has hope and the dreams. I've liked other girls since, but for some reason my mind always compares them to her. I haven't seen or talked to her in over a year, the only connection we still have is via Facebook, but she is rarely on (I know when she is when I open chat and she on my list of online friends) plus, the only time she appears on my news feed is when she is tagged in a mutual friend's photo or note, which is rare to begin anyway. I've also tried to just think of flaws that I find and her, and other things like that, but can never find anything. I really just don't get it.
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reader, Leodjoneluv +, writes (3 February 2011):
 just be real and straight forward with her. ask her to speak to her. Tell her how you feel. She may be happy with her situation or she may be interested in you. Take a chance and see what happens. If not, move on
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