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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm getting married soon but I can't stand looking at a naked man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i get freaked out when i think about sex.... it might sound awful, i cannot stand a naked man, it freaks me out.... am not a lesbian,,,,,,,,help i will be getting married soon and its a big problem for me..... i don't want to mess up... (49 words)

Does he like me or is he playing match maker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am not the most popular 9th grader girl but I am the most fashionable and pretty cute. I have reason to believe that (lets say his name is James) James likes me but I am not sure, please help. We have math together and I often catch him glancing over at me. I was with my best ... (233 words)

I can handle 1 kid but 3 kids is too much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well the other day my boyfriend, me, his ex wife, her two kids, and the one child they share went and played frisbe golf which was fine but it was soooo hectic with 3 hyper-active kids and then i felt really awkward it felt like i had a chaperone with us on a date. i felt ... (104 words)

He broke up with me but is he warming up to me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ok like my ex and his girlfriend just broke up..and like today in class my friend said she heard him say my name to his friend and they both looked at her and turned around and said not to be so loud..and like today no we didnt talk but my friend said he kept looking at me and ... (108 words)

Finding it difficult to cope with a LDR

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5018 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - am in love with this guy,but the problem is that it is a distant relationship..... finding it very difficult to cope, we trust ourselves... we don't see each other....is there anything that could eliminate these??... (37 words)

Boyfriend cheated and now says he can't get over her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of three years cheated on me for two months. We agreed to stay together after I found out on the condition that he is not to have any contact with her again. Since then, he's broken up with me four times, telling me that he can't get over her. It's only been a ... (71 words)

I don't understand his sudden loss of interest. I can't get this man out of mind!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy, one who appears to be the perfect man. After a week of talking on the phone, we met. In my opinion, it was a nice weekend. After he left on Monday, we had a good conversation, but not as great as it was before we met each other. By the end of the week, the ... (163 words)

Proof that I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i prove to my boyfriend that i can trust him?... (12 words)

Should I go out with my best guy friend? Will it ruin our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - There are rumors going around my high school about me going out with my best guy friend. They think we are going out because we are mostly always together, but we don't flirt with each other or anything. Everyone says that we would make such a cute couple but I don't have any ... (89 words)

Do I meet up with this guy one on one even though he knows I have a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - This boy I know asked me out for a drink to say thank you for something I had done for him. I asked my LT bf what he wished for me to do and he said he didn't mind if I went. He's now asked me to go out again one-on-one. He's knows I have a bf. This may sound v weird to you. ... (135 words)

Unhappy with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there! I'm 17 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. But, I'm so unhappy, I can't talk about anything I enjoy with him, only his interests. I also can't have 'deep' conversations with him, he also has poor personal hygiene and manners. I've (in a nice way!) po... (229 words)

Boyfriend is almost a foot taller than me and it makes me uncomfortable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well I'm 5' O" and my boyfriend is 5' 11". We've been dating for 1 month but known his for 4 years. He says he has no problem what so ever with my height but it feels so awkward when we hug and when we kiss. I'm a lil lower than his shoulder :/ We're going on a doubl... (102 words)

My boyfriend no longer helps me clean house and he's lost his sex drive. Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I just don't know where to begin…Okay I have been with my boyfriend almost 1 year. I do love him and I know he loves me. But is that enough? He lived with me for a while, but we decided it was best not to live together. I have 4 kids, and I was married for 10 years, divorced... (299 words)

Can I stay with my bf who, at 45, is terrible at money management and always in a financial crisis?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf always seems to have a financial crisis. I met my bf for over a year now. Few months after we were dating exclusive, I noticed that he was always anxious about money. Though, he doesn’t make lots of money but he works full time and make around $1700 per month. He is sin... (701 words)

My gf hates when I talk to my friends! I can't take it any more! What do I do?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys I'm 26 and my gf is 20. We have a two year old daughter together and had one hell of a relationship. It turned ugly a few times and had to get my parents to come help us out and referee it. We live together and we tell each other i love you. But deep deep down im ... (318 words)

My ex changed his number on me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my recent ex boyfriend really really love each other and have a very intense attraction and chemistry, but we just can’t seem to get on and he gets aggressive and violent. We have been on and off for over 6 months now since we first split up and we recently got back ... (99 words)

I fell for my girlfriend's best friend!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello readers, I am glad to be able to find support here.. Because I have asked numerous questions about numerous issues and have gotten strong and wonderful response which has led to me being able to grow so much stronger in my relationship. So what happened is, my g... (348 words)

Should I text him first if he doesn't text me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, So I'm 19 years old and I'm gay. Anyways I'm just in the process of coming out of the closet, most of my close friends, cousins, aunts and uncles know, except my parents, but well I'm planning to do that soon. Anyways, a couple of weeks ago I posted an ad on a gay dating s... (431 words)

What should I do about my husband's friend's wife? I can't stand the woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's friend's wife is a pain the wrong place. She is a bitchy person and can never have a good word to say about anyone. She is super fake and is all nice and pally with everyone though. She bitches to me about everyone else, what is the guarantee she does not do the ... (206 words)

Wife still dependent on my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my partner for 2 years, he is still married and has two children. One child accepts our relationship the other child doesn't. We have lived together for 18 months but he has recently moved into his own place. This is for his children. The issue I ha... (268 words)

In what time frame does a guy know if he wants a relationship or to keep it casual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok. I am wondering about my situation. I have been casually dating this guy for about a two months. We talk on the phone..not everyday, but 3 to 4 times a week. I mentioned about a month ago, my birthday was coming up and on my birthday he called just to wish me a happy ... (122 words)

If he makes a move on me, how do I stay faithful to my boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - a year ago, me and this boy i liked kissed, but we didnt go out, and stopped talking after a while. now i have a really lovely boyfriend, but this boy has come back into my life again. he's got a reputation as a bit of a tool, and he's really popular and in the year above. i ... (107 words)

We both admitted the spark is gone what do we do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been with my boyfriend for a about a year now, but the last few monts have been very tough as weve had a few break ups, then got back together! He has a 3 year old child whom he see twice a week as his ex is a bit of a handful. Just before new year she told me that they had ... (136 words)

I have feelings for my ex's best friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I was dating a girl and lets say her name is....Brittney. anyways we never talked. well after having a falling out we decided to end things but me and her best friend keep staring at each other in class and we do talk ,but I dont want to mess up her and my ex's friendship ... (56 words)

Is there such a thing as a bad kisser?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - is there such thing as bad kissers? i have never kissed anyone and im really scared and nervous. i have been seeing this and he always trie to kiss me but i refuse. im scared im a bad kisser, i dont want to tell him i've never kissed anyone. any tips or suggestions?... (57 words)

My boyfriend doesn't want to meet my parents because of our age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months officially but it's difficult for me to see him all the time as I'm 6 years younger than him and he hasn't met my parents yet. Because of the age difference I lie to them as to where I'm stopping which is causing a strain ... (75 words)

How to pave the path to the U.S for love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am ManUnderEarth, my situation is really lil typical. I am of 23, and I am in love with a women of 35. and I am in India, she is in US. So I am really mad in her love. My problem is my family will never except this relation. and I feel, I should move to US. But ... (132 words)

Any good moving on advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my LDR boyfriend of 3 years left me around 3 weeks ago. We had a fight and he never came back. I thought everything was okay with us, I've went over chat logs to try and find out where things went wrong and he seemed really happy, even the day of the fight before it ... (230 words)

I found incriminating messages on my boyfriend's Facebook!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - ive bin with my boyfriend for about a month officially but have been seeing him for about 4 and a half months. we dont have a future as were of different religions and are both aware of this and are just happy as we are at the moment. hes always trying to make me jealous ... (305 words)

Have not heard from my ex in 2 months and out of the blue I get a message!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - ok I have not hear from my ex in over two months and all of a sudden he sends me a message because him and the girl he is with are having problems and he tell me things we so much easier when he was with me that he misses me thinks of me at times and still love me Help ... (71 words)

Why can't my bf give me an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey aunts and uncles, I've been with my bf for almost a year now. He has not been able to make me have an orgasm. He expressed it to me that he feels so sad that he can't do that. I've made him cum quite often, but sometimes he used his hand to help... I don't consider t... (244 words)

Should I give up the love of my life for his happiness?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'll start off with a quick background story, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half, I love him more than anything, he got me through a really rough patch in my life (the death of a friend and illness in my family), he's always there for me no ... (337 words)

My bf said one day I will realize I am too good for him. What does he mean by that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I've got a few relationship questions, and I'd be grateful if you answer at least one of them! We've been together for 9 months. He is my first real boyfriend. We're pretty comfortable around each other and can talk about almost everything. In the beginnin... (295 words)

How the hell are people able to break up and not get devastated??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - OK so it has been a week since this girl I was in a relationship and I stopped speaking. I initiated it because she was lying and hurting me and we talked about it for weeks before and I know it was the best thing. BUT...it is killing me!!! It was my first serious relation... (144 words)

The perils of a blind trust.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - When I met my boyfriend online in August 2010, what we found out about each other was that we were both Christians seeking a committed partner and shared a lot in common. Though we had differing views sexwise (i did not believe in pre-marital sex and he does), we tried to ... (355 words)

How should I read all of this complimenting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - OK so I am 16 years old (and please excuse the english of mine, it's not best) i can't say i'm strikingly beautiful, but i'm not too ugly either so, my best friend is an amazing guy. he is smart, kind, sweet, athletical, and he's really hot! (appearance doesnt matter to me but... (175 words)

My boyfriend wants to sleep in my bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age - This is the problem. My boyfriend and I already decided to get married. He just informed me he would like to sleep in my bed but it isn't a must cause he has slept alone for so long. Should I be concerned?... (45 words)

Guys help me out, why does my boyfriend still check out women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (?) age - My boyfriend is a huge flirt and he works in bars as a sound guy for bands, so he's around lots of women. He also admits he would rather talk to women, it's more fun... Not sure he would actually cheat on me, but not crazy about this or comfortable with it either. Mainly, I'm ... (106 words)

He sort of cheats with dirty talk with girls fhrough emails, what should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All, I've been with my boyfriend for about 9months now. In this time i have caught him chatting up girls via email (randoms and old friends). We got through this and all was fine and i thought he had changed but recently he left his email account open and being curious ... (319 words)

Is there a problem here or am I over-reacting in the situation??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel confused and very very jealous and the sad part is I never consider me the jealous type. This feeling of insecurity happened a few months ago when a couple of picutres were tagged on my facebook by a friend that they thought were a little inappropriate of my husband and ... (349 words)

How do I deal with her, I love her but she does not want to get serious??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't know when to say "I love you" to her...but there is more to it... To fully understand I need you to give the full story. last month I began dating one of my old best friend whom I have very deep history with. I've known her since the 7th grade (in college now) but been... (603 words)

Do I just tell him I want to wait for my birthday to have sex??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. I am 15 almost 16 and he is already 16, he suggested us having sex, I was quite weary as to do it or not, this is because i weigh quite a lot and have very large breasts that could put him off. I do sort of ... (79 words)

Any couples who have the type of relationship as we and succeeded?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5015 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a gay man who just turned 40 years old. I have known my lover since he was 17. He is now 21. We are artists and collaborate on large scale paintings. I initiate ideas for a photo shoot and he models for the photos. Then we blow up the photos on large canvas on which he ... (440 words)

How do I attract the boys who I am like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - First off I am 15 going on 16 in a couple weeks, and I'm weird when It comes to the 'type' of boy I like. I either like Tall, lanky kind of boys or short-ish chubby boys. Oh, and they must have decent taste in music, and have a sense of humor. I love dirty jokes(don't judge me... (108 words)

Why does my partner lose his erection during intercourse without ejaculating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner loses his erection during intercourse without ejaculating? Why? I did not have a this problem with my previous partner! ... (21 words)

I'm gay and falling for my straight best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My name is Phillip and I am gay. This whole situation is going to get a little complex so bare with me. In November 2009 I told my friend Cory that I love him and since then he has avoided coming anywhere near me. I wasn't hurt because he was straight or that he could never ... (1288 words)

I am 15, 5'4", and weigh around 114 lbs., would this be normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal to be 15, 5' 4" and weigh 113-114.5 lbs? I was reading some articles, and most girls my age and height, weighed 120-130lbs. Am I underweight? I don't even look that skinny! I have a small stomach and med-thick thighs. My aunt even told me that she thinks that ... (77 words)

He left me for another woman while I was pregnant. I need advice. Has this happened to others?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel like am going through an emotional hell just now and any advice would be welcome. I am 20 weeks pregnant and my ex broke up with me just when we found out. To cut a long story short, we have had a very close friendship for over a year. We started seeing each other an... (1111 words)

What does it mean when a man gives you a drawer?

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age - I have a man I'm seeing long distance. We started this relationship in early November We are two hours apart... we email and talk on the phone a few times a week... I go to visit him since he cannot be around my dogs. I have been up to see him overnight once in December... (203 words)

I'm am taking medication to gain weight, but I need support, as well! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year old married female. I've always been thin just like my father. He has trouble gaining weight and I now am having the same issues. I'm 5'5 and weigh 97 pounds. My ideal weight is and was 120-125. I try to eat as much as I can, but my body just can't keep the ... (160 words)

I still love her, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I have like a female friend for about 6-7 years already. Initially, we only started texting each other but we progressed to talking on the phone everyday. This happens everynight after school(we are classmates). Eventually we realize that we love one another and we got ... (148 words)

Sex has never happened for me and I'm worried I will end up an old maid!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Looking for some advice; I'm a 23 year old female, and I've never had sex. It's not a question or beliefs, or prudishness- it's just not something that ever happened. In highschool and university I hung out mainly with other girls, and I never really seemed to find a niech in ... (166 words)

I keep cheating on my partner with my ex! I know I am hurting others and myself, so how do I stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I had a baby, she is 2 now. We really never got along, but when we did it was great. About when my daughter was one there were more problems between us- just trying to get situated with all the changes. I ended up sleeping with a guy from highschool. I told my ... (217 words)

He cant marry me because of his parents......

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in an on/off relationship with this guy for many years now. We always break up due to one problem, his parents. Our parents come from the same country and religious background, however he strongly believes that his parents will never accept me because my parents are ... (203 words)

Is he cheating because he doesn't want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I really want my boyfriend to have relaxed sex but hes always too serious! He goes for about 2 minutes and then says stop being childish, I have to get rest. I'm thinking of breaking up with him because hes been not wanting to have sex, "working" late, not been as ... (69 words)

How do I get him to notice me more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really want this cute guy to notice me but hes the hottest guy around and always has his friends around him. I think he likes me but we are both kinda shy. It feels diffrent than any other crush I'v had, every time I see or even just think about him I feel like I'm in ... (82 words)

What do I say to her to get her interested in going out with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - on satuday night one of my female friends had a birthday party and before i only knew 2 people who were going because they were my friends. i had a great night and met some really nice people girls and guys. but there was one girl who i thought was really cute and when... (233 words)

Why did my wife get upset when I saw a topless sunbather on a beach?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - This may be a funny question to ask but my wife got so mad on a trip we took to Mexico when we saw a woman laying out topless. Why is that? I am not the guy who makes comments about other women or takes long stares at them; I have always been very careful how I react to seeing ... (184 words)

Boyfriend of two years breaks up with me, saying he only sees me as a friend now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend of two years couldn't get alone better. We have so much in common and being together is when we were at our happiest. Now, this was online dating but we had been good friends before he asked me. He lives about two hours away, and we were going to start ... (511 words)

My girlfriend and her slutty drinkin buddy......

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - This is just as much a general question as it is specific to me. So here are my thoughts. I've been seeing this girl for a couple months now. It's not long enough to be something too serious, yet it's moving fast. It's safe to say we're exclusive, theres sex, and cuddles... (497 words)

I am dating my ex's friend, is this wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there can anybody give me some advice please? I started seeing a guy last year, he is of different religion to me and within a few days i could tell he was a jealous person and trying to gain control of me. He didnt like me going out with friends, talking to my own son and ... (509 words)

Addicted to running but injured and having to watch my partner train, can we survive this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm currently seeing a psychiatrist for an addiction to running. Sounds silly I know but it's a huge problem for me. I'm injured at the moment and can't run for about 3 months more, it's been 2 already. Problem is that my partner is a runner too and I have to watch him ... (161 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me because he said I pointed out his flaws

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So the other day I went to see my boyfriend and he had some weird bumps on his lips and I pointed it out and ask him if it was a cold sore because it could be herpes and you should go check it out. So at first he was playful with it and after I left he started texting me ... (107 words)

How do you make yourself last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfried gets mad at me whenever i cum quik and it kinda make feel so diverstated. Pls, how can i make myself last longer when making love? Thanks ... (30 words)

3 times we've had oral sex but he's only cum once. Is that normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this guy have been dating 3 times we both are virgins.but we did oral sex....what matters me is that when we do this he masturbates only once. is it normal that he did ejaculate once out of 3 times having oral sex and holding each other naked, or it is cuz he doesn't ... (76 words)

I want to know how to be a better kisser, not what not to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Could someone please help me with this? All I keep reading is what NOT to do, but rarely do I find suggestions on what TO DO. I've had no shortage of practice but my kisses are still just so so. I had one girlfriend who was a phenomenal kisser. We weren't kissing, I was *... (133 words)

I want children, he already has 2. Do I believe him when he says we could have more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend has 2 kids from his previous marriage, I don't have children but would like to. He doesn't want any more children, but he says he will consider it if we get married. Do I take him at his word and hope he changes his mind if we marry or accept that he doesn't want ... (83 words)

She wants to hear from me but I think she still loves her ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i want to date this lady who jst came out of a 4 month relationship which did not work out,we've been talking on fon for two weeks now n the respond has been great.i told her how i feel abt her bt she said she likes to hear from me bt she think still loves her ex,bt she wants ... (79 words)

How do I tell her about my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - i love one girl since 7 years .i didn't tell her about it,i am afraid to tell her,i can't even face her,how can i tell her about my feeling?... (29 words)

Everyone is trying to break us up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i am seeing this boy we have only been together about 2months now and its been so hard as everyone is getting involved in our business. for the last 2 weeks we have been arguing all the time because other people keep sticking there noses in. first it was his ex gf she kept ... (150 words)

Must I move on with my life rather than being with someone who doesn't tell me he loves me?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend are going out for 5 months he sometimes dont call me for 3 days and he does not tell me he loves me not even if i ask him,he only says im special to him last weekend he did not call should i call him? must i move on with my life rather than being with ... (71 words)

He's quite shy and I prefer the man to make the first move?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've started seeing a boy, but we're not going out... yet. He's quite shy and I always prefer to let the man make the first move, which means that our relationship isn't really progressing. I do want to be with him but I'm not too sure what to do to ensure that this actual... (66 words)

A not so jolly holiday. I don't think he is right. Any opinions?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 1 year has 2 children from his previous marriage. I invited them to to our family Christmas dinner. He came along with his children, but didn't accept the invitation for certain until a few days before Christmas. He was very upset that my parents and brother ... (203 words)

Have we broken up? Something is different this time.

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i been in a long distance relationship for about two and a half years. i text him eight weeks ago but didn't reply so i gave him space and couple of days ago i text him again but he hasn't replied.i dont know wether to give him space or should i ask him if it means break up. we ... (130 words)

I want to wait for the right one, afterwards, will there be any changes in my body?

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year virgin boy . I am University student .I believe that I should lose my virginity to the girl who I will LOVE . IS it right . I have not find my love girl yet . Also tell me if there are any body changes in boys after first time having Sex . Thanks... (64 words)

My life turned upside-down as people consider me as an attractive girl and I was rejected by a not so good-looking person.

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have met this person in my university. He's not in my institute but still we met in the university canteen where he was campaigning about some event. We met twice or thrice. At first, there wasn't anything but after some time I felt something for him. I kknow it's strange but ... (498 words)

Can you believe an ex-cheater when he says he has changed?

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend left me because i did not come home, and she thought i was cheating on her. I have cheated on her in the past and she found out but we worked through it. Is there the chance i can prove to her that i have changed , or have i caused too much harm? Can you believe ... (67 words)

How do I get over him if I don't want to get over him?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So im still having the same guy problems as ive had for like a year now. I havent spoken to him in like 2months because he hasnt been answering me. I finally got hold off him the other night when i was drunk, i pretnended i was ringing for someone else, and when he turned round ... (220 words)

Should I end it with my long term lover(A), despite his objections, so I can be with (B)?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for the past 5 years with (A). There's always fights and no understanding between us. It was a type of compromise. Even though we were planning to get married. A few months back one of my close friends (B) suggested a relationship. As we are clos... (95 words)

Am I separating love and sex? Or just being slutty?

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22 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Hi there! Been with my boy for a long time: he'll soon move in with me and we'll get married in a few years. Love him with all my heart and I feel my future is with him. Still, I've recently started an affair with a super seductive and sexy man who really blows my mind. Th... (184 words)

Girlfriend says she can't perform oral sex because she has a sore throat! For 12 months???

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi - I have been with my girlfriend for about 2 yrs. However, during foreplay (or anytime) she will not perform oral sex on me. She has done on a handful of occasions in the past, and I perform oral sex on her regularly because she enjoys it, just the same as me. Recently I ... (101 words)

I'm not sure if she's my girlfriend or my best friend?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im bi. I been with my girl for a while she's my 1st officially girlfriend. I like girls Alot! But sometimes I feel like I'm confused about going out with her. I feel like breaking up with her because sometimes I se her more as a friend. Im sometimes confused about her if I ... (67 words)

Lack of trust has caused my boyfriend to have tight grip on me!

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long-distance relationship with someone I truly do care about. We talk about the future, and he makes it clear that the our bond is not about sex. Unfortunately, in the beginning of our relationship, when it began to bud from a friendship into more, I did a few things ... (236 words)

My sudden awareness of my love life has made me feel I need to date every girl out there!

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been looking at how to go out with girls lately, as I feel my love life has been kinda non existent. Ive gone through a ton of articles and asked for advice through websites such as this one and im wondering if its normal to suddenly feel like every girl i meet I should try ... (197 words)

Should I meet up with my birth mother?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hello i am 15 and i have been adopted sence i was 2 becoz my mum could not look after me and she did not know my dad or my brothers dad and my brother so my nan and grandad decided to adopted us. my mum used to come a visit me and my brother every 2 weeks for a few years up ... (219 words)

Why does she persist with this behaviour when she knows it is a conflict trigger?

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - What is my wife's game? Hi myself and my wife have been married for 3 turbulent years now. After numerous bust-ups I moved out on new year's eve but am still in daily contact to help out with our 2 children. In the past when we have rowed my wife has always sought to hurt me ... (392 words)

Should I get divorced or revamp my married life

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I m a 28 year old female, tall, fair and good looking. Right from my school days I have been into various relationships, college, and at work been involved with various men emotionally and physically with almost al of them. May of them were affairs and then for some reason or ... (326 words)

My boyfriend doesn't include me in his life?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, he's almost 22. We are both in college. We have been dating for over a year now, though we did break up in October and got back together the end of December. We broke up because he had completely shut down on me. It got to the point that I was the only one who ever ... (590 words)

I love my husband but want to keep the friendship

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i have a vvery good male friend which ive known for 27years. since met and married my husband i have been banned from any form of contact with him. it hurts me so much and i do miss speaking to him. my husband is worried that there will be more than friendship if i ... (126 words)

I know I am the number one person in her life, but I just have no idea at this point anymore about our status.

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I posted on here awhile ago - about a year and a half - about this girl I met in class and she had a boyfriend but we got really close. Long story short, we hooked up a few times, her boyfriend didn't know, we talked about being together and now we are very close friends. ... (467 words)

I satisfy my husband, but he doesn't satisfy me

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it fair that I always do oral sex to my husband until he gets to the climax without even asking if I want him to do it to me too or have the real sex either. I don't directly ask him to do it because I feel like he should have known it as a man,that he must satisfy his wife ... (98 words)

My husband doesn't show affection and only lets me contact people he chooses

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i have known my husband for three years and married just one year. i am entrily fed up of my situation. he used to be romantic and take the time to please me. but now he nearly speaks to me. i am a stay at home housewife. i do everything for him but am only allowed contact ... (155 words)

Does my girlfriend likes someone else?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I been with my girlfriend for 8 months already. I feel like she likes another girl. By the way I'm lesbian. I feel like she likes this girl who is much good looking then me and I'm scrared of losing her. She's always bring up her name and making up a conversation to get her ... (126 words)

I've been with so many girls but can't find one to hold on to. Can't tell if I get bored easy or I just will never love again?

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - im 19 and have slept with 16 different girls/women but no matter what i can't seem to be content with just one. ever since my ex of 1.5 years and i broke up, i can never feel that "love" again with somebody.after about 1 month with a girl, i lose interest and start looking ... (96 words)

Did I mess this up? Or is he afraid of being hurt?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Here is the background: I met this guy who's different than anyone I've ever known. I feel lucky to have met him. We both really like each other. We appreciate each other's humor, interests, differences, etc. We also have amazing chemistry. We complement each other. The ... (427 words)

His jealousy led to a "break" -- how long do I give it?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I've been dating this guy for almost 2 years now and so far its been great. I've never met anyone like him. we were best friends before and ever since we started dating, we would act different than most couples our age (were teenagers). So basically I love him but he's ... (535 words)

I want to talk to my mother about going on birth control pills. How do I ask her?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll be turning 17 in just over a month, and I've stayed a virgin for the fact that I'm waiting for the right guy. The older I get, the more difficult I find it to keep my virginity. So, I'd much rather be safe than sorry if anything were to end up happening. I want to talk to ... (266 words)

Do guys always have a back up girl if they can't get with you?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Do guys always have a back up girl if they can't get with you? I met this guy at a cafe and we talked and we hit it off real good, we kind of dated but we were never in a relationship. However, the last month he's met another girl at the same cafe. He told me about it, but ... (97 words)

Scared I might get taken away from my parents...help!!!

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have p.o and she’s threatening to take my sister and me out of our homes (cause we don’t live together). I don’t have a good relationship with my parents at all. But I have heard horrible things about foster homes and teen detention centers. I don’t know what to do because ... (121 words)

4 years and I don't think I can stay any longer!

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my little girls dad for 4 years now. Our baby is 11 months old and I have a little boy that is 7, from a previous relationship. My boyfriend constantly looks at porn and pictures of naked girls. He even looks at girls when we go somewhere. We arent intimate as ... (216 words)

Why cant I get a date and have fallen for someone who is taken?

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - well i will soon be 21 and i cant feel worse about myself i havent even had my first kiss yet not that i havent had offers even for sex but im not into sex without being in a commited relationship and im only attracted to ceartin pple (not shallow they just have to have a ... (220 words)

What do you do when a guy only wants you for sex?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi this is my first time on here, what do you do when a guy only wants you for sex, and leads you on and plays games with your head. idk i think there should be an explanation for this, but im not sure any ideas or opinions???... (48 words)

I'm stuck between picking a girl or one of my best friends

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok this is my problem. Im in the 9th grad..nd i have this frnd who was datin this girll i never met her till after they broke up..nd he said he dont give a crap bout her ne more.he is also one of my best friends.but wen they were goin out he was super protective of her..like he ... (152 words)

American Dad, Canadian Mom.....Baby in the middle

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a Canadian citizen who recently found out Im preganant with my American boyfriends child. After discussing the pregnancy with him he has expressed that he'd like the baby to be born in the US however because Im not a citizen the matter of health insurence bothers me. In ... (175 words)

After all these years I can't forget her!

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I have like a female friend for about 7 years already. Initially, we only started texting each other which became so often and enjoyable for both of us that we started talking over the phone. This happens everynight after school(we are classmates). Eventually we realize ... (121 words)

Does the wife have someone else?

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - A guy I know talked to me the other day about his relashonship. He said that his wife hasn't slept in the same bed with for six months. He said he hsan't had sex for 2 months. They can't talk to each other. My girlfriend says she thinks that his wife has someone else. Any ... (58 words)

Am I "undateable"? Suggestions appreciated!

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like I am not someone who a attractive and successful man would be interested. I graduated college but I still work in the mall because it's hard to find jobs right now. I don't have a ton of friends, but I am nice, funny, attractive, genuine, shy, very laid back, soft ... (224 words)

Older man is paying for everything with the girl that I love

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been into a relationship since 1yr and it has rlly pull me down. my girl was disvirgined by a man of 40 and she was 18 then when i met her, i advise her to quit the relationship which she did.She likes given her phone number out to guys and she like material things.Her ... (249 words)

Decided to have sex with a friend, but kinda want to wait for the other guy

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my best guy friend decided to have sex. He's been kind of hinting at it for a while, and for a while I thought he was starting to like me. I've liked someone else for 3 years and still like him, so I wasn't interested. but 2 nights ago we were hanging out watching a ... (139 words)

Long Distance romantic or sketchy relationship?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to boarding school for three years. I have taken yoga out of those three years at school. The last year at this school and yoga I finally noticed this guy who has been there for three years. We never spoke if we did it was only about small things. I graduated this year ... (263 words)

Pretty sure she's cheating, but need to know for sure before I can move on

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So i have a bit of a problem. my ex and i have been trying to get back together for about 2 months now. The thing is she is about to move away for college and we will not see each other anymore since shes moving all the way to the other side of the country. We both want to be ... (577 words)

Does he just have cold feet, or is the 'break' a huge red flag?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - i and my fiace's been engaged since sept 2009.(been together since sept 2006). He's 27,soon to be 28. I am originally from japan and there were some time we were in the long distance in the past. I moved to australia to be with him about 3 years ago.He's just called off our ... (293 words)

My ex wants me back, I still love him

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm so confused and don't know what to do. 4/5 months ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. We'd be dating for a year. I really, really liked him, but we argued. After we broke up, I still loved him, and I still do now. I know that he's had two short relationships, both in ... (202 words)

We broke up, but it seems like there's potential

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I just got broken up with and I'm really ambivalent. I was seeing my ex for about 4 months and it was like the love of my life. He sought me out: asked my number, initiated the dates, said he loved me first, and seemed to be in the relationship for the long haul. Things ... (526 words)

How can I be there for him without getting his hopes up

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with a guy a while ago for about 4 months we got on well and seemed fine, but he then told me that his ex girlfriend was going to have his child. This was too much for me and I broke it off with him, lately we've been back talking and its all going ok. Hes going through ... (178 words)

She's broken up with me twice

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I had an affair with a girl 1 years older than me who happens to already hv a relationship 3 years long. Weve been seeing each othr romanticly for more than 14 months now. She broke up with me a month ago for reasons i still dont know for sure. But i kept my cool and kept my ... (256 words)

Poll on breast size

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok guys and girls if you want to, are very small breasts and very large breasts a turn off if so what cup sizes are the 2 barriers?... (28 words)

Birthday gift for my b/f?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid....my bf who i've been with for 6 months, his birthday is coming up. Im so clueless when it comes to gifts for that special someone. Can anyone please help me decide what to give my bf? Any ideas will be appreciated :) Thank you... (46 words)

Does he really love me and would he ever cheat?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - so things with my boyfriend and i are fantastic! we have broken up a few times but then got back together he does have a lot of female friends and i have a lot of guy friends he does have a past of cheating on an ex girlfriend but he told me that he wouldnt eve cheat on me bc ... (572 words)

Getting over forbidden fantasies?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married. My relationship with my husband is comfortable. Almost too comfortable. We only have sexual contact a couple times a year. We never fight about anything and have a very strong platonic relationship. People who don't know us think we are brother and sister ... (291 words)

He's saying sex will make our relationship stronger, but something about his words doesn't sound right

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've recently got together with a good friend who is a bit of a geek and has always seemed a innocent fridgit. He says he wants to have sex but I don't know whether this is him competing with my ex or trying to prove he's not a little boy anymore. He tries to ... (115 words)

Husband agreed to counseling until I made the appointment. Then he backed out...help!

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out that my husband has been on sex webcams and been getting erotic massages and spent over $200 in 8 days. I confronted him and to my supprise he did not deny it or blame me and agreed to go to counseling. Well I made the appointment and now he is furious, he is back ... (111 words)

Am I involved in a possible triangle here?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, We're in a group of friends and I'm going out with one of them. I feel like one of my friends might have a thing for my boyfriend but that she will never admit too. Plus he used to like her, but he swears blind he doesn't have any feelings for her now. Which seems comp... (97 words)

How to feel more secure with these large breasts?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a young girl with very large breasts and to be Frank I don't like them. I am slightly bigger than the other girls height and width wise but I still consider myself quite slim, it's just in my year the girls are all sticks. I am a 34E when my size came up in the changing ... (139 words)

Is it possible to turn retroactive jealousy into a turn-on?

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22 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm yet another guy struggling with my girlfriend's past. Please try to bear with me. I couldn't get to sleep a few weeks ago when I was at her house, so went to use her computer to surf the net for awhile. I noticed she had not logged out of her email account, and I c... (598 words)

He said C*** during sex! Should I be bothered?

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22 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend hav just celebrated our 6 month anniversary and are very much in love, and he is also the sweetest guy ive met. Last night while we were having very intense sex after drinking a bit, he said the c word. Now he didnt call Me that name, rather he called m... (136 words)

I don't know how this other man snuck in but I can't seem to let go of him

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22 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - Please help, i am playing with two peoples heart one is my partner and father of my daughter who i have been with for 15 years. The other a man I met when I went to england for my mothers funeral. I have become a different person since my mum died and allowed myself to develop ... (363 words)