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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My best mate loves my girlfriend. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i have a dilemma. it is that my best mate, he loves my girlfriend and and he is pressureing her. I've tried talking to him but it just doesn't work. What do i do.... (36 words)

How to comfort my best friend ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend just started crying because she's thinks we're gonna leave her, we're not, she's too upset to talk about it. How should we comfort her? She cries all the time. Me and her cousin and his friend and her boyfriend are staying at her house and she's afraid of being alone ... (55 words)

Images of my girlfriend keep popping in my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - images of my ex girlfriend keep popping into my head at random times does this mean I still have feelings for her? it has been about a year since we broke up because she liked her friend more than me.... (40 words)

Is he kissing others to make me jealous or does he like me?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I met this boy last summer through my friends and we immediately got on. We were friends and had a laugh and I loved spending time with him when I went out, and then it got awkward. I started to like him after I caught him looking a few times and he would stare in my eyes ... (416 words)

My love of breast milk! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age - Hello All,I am a middle age man and since my youth I have been obsessed by human lactation and breast milk. When I was 12 my mom was nursing my little brother and she did for about a year, during that time I was very envious of him since I am the one that would have liked to ... (175 words)

Did I break the code of men? Am I a terrible friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Back when I was in college (about 6 years ago) I had a good buddy of mine that was broken up with by his girlfriend of a few years. I got to be good friends with his girlfriend when they were together and she was someone that I truly enjoyed as a friend. About a year after ... (277 words)

Love her to bits but she says no sex before marriage and it's frustrating me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm 28. For the first time in my life I think I am truly in love. My relationshiip with my girlfriend of 4 months is fantastic. However, she does not believe in sex before marriage because she is christian. I am not religious but repsect her beliefs. I, on the other han... (158 words)

How do I meet a crush I haven't even spoken to yet.

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I'm a 16 year old girl. About a week ago I saw this super handsome and very tall (about 2 metres?) guy at my gym who plays tennis. Anyways, I've developed a huge crush on him because we have crossed paths often and I feel like he's seen/looked at me on more than one... (174 words)

My girlfriend's libido!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so when my gf and I get intense she loves it. She definitely gets satisfied each time, I literally make sure of it and give it my best effort. Over time I've learned how to get her off and I can do it most every time for her now. She tells me she loves it, that I'm great, ... (156 words)

I feel mentally exhausted after falling for her. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - After falling for two girls, I felt mentally exhausted. I spent 17 months on the first girl and she was my first love, so I didn't really know what love is. Obviously, she chose another guy instead of me which was heartbroken. Later, I spent 3 months on the second gir... (234 words)

I'm stressing him out and he wants a break. I want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - For all the virgo man on this please help! I am a Pisces women and I Love My Virgo boyfriend very much and he has told me he loved me to.I do everything he wants me to I changed almost everything for him but as soon as there is a problem I have with him it gets him so angry. I ... (125 words)

I never told him how I felt... and now he's gone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so there was this boy who i met in Year 7, when we both started new at the same school. (we were both in the same boarding house btw, so i saw him lots every day) I automatically fell for him, I just loved everything about him, he was funny, cute and SO nice to everyone... (390 words)

Does he basically want me for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! So basically i am 16 years old and i am your average 16 year year old i drink, i go into town (clubbing) i know quite a lot of people, im not popular or anything i just know people in my town becasue its quite small! Anyway last summer i was out in town with my freinds ... (345 words)

Split up because of his drinking problem... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Help! I've just split with my boyfriend after 3 and a half years. We have had some great times and are really compatible together. However, he has a drink problem - not during the week, but every 6 weeks or so he has a major drink binge. He doesn't just get a bit drunk, but ... (357 words)

Giving a V-day card to a crush???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl in one of my classes that I am interested in. We had a class last semester, so we know each other a little through group activities, but not much beyond that. I got the courage to ask for her phone number to study for a class. But I don't know if she was just ... (120 words)

What are the advantages/disadvantages of the implant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it true with the implant you have like year period or something? what are the disadvantages?... (20 words)

Is pullling out with a condom safe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend and i want to be the safest we lke can so if he pulls out whilst wearing a condom will that reduce chances even more?... (29 words)

My boyfriend seems to forget I exist when we're apart. Should I end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 and live in South Kent. My boyfriends 25 and lives in london, and because he lives quite far away from me we hardlt ever get to see each other, maybe once a month if im lucky. The thing is, I really, really like him, but he doesn't seem to even remember that I ... (128 words)

My boyfriend likes swedish looking blondes however I am a bi racial black woman

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay to cut a long story short my boyfriend was telling me about a woman he used to know he said if he could of gone out with anyone it would of been her because she was attractive sweet and beautiful. He also added she was blonde and swedish looking and said he found that very ... (150 words)

Please help! Should I tell him how I feel?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help deciding whether or not ill tell my crush I like him. He is a very sweet guy and I've known him for 2 yrs now. The issue is that somtimes he acts as if he likes me and sometimes I feel like just a friend. For example, the other night around midnight he came ... (284 words)

Someone diagnose me please!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know wether im Bisexual or not. When it comes to masturbation i like to fantasise about having sex with girls, and watching lesbian porn, i also like to watch guys masturbate and stuff. But I walk past guys in the mall and think Ohh hes hot, (as we all do! haha) bu... (93 words)

Where do men go when they are looking for a good woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age - where is a good place to meet a good man at . have already try church an it did not work for me . so i know they has to be places men go that are looking for a good women ? ... (42 words)

Boyfriend says I am fixated on him and he wanted a break

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi My bf of 1 year told me today that i am kind of fixated on him, so he needs to take a break and stop talking to me for about a month and see how it goes. I really do love him a lot. I cant bear the thought of not talking to him for a month. He is not picking up the ... (80 words)

I am so sick of my boyfriend of five years not stepping up and marrying me!

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12 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. I am so sick of my boyfriend of five years not stepping up and marrying me, (we've been engaged), and him saying that he spent thousands on my engagement ring when he didn't, he only spent 2K, i saw the receipt! So, because i am so mad about the whole ... (293 words)

I want to pursue a relationship with my best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to pursue a relationship with my best friend. The problem is that we know virtually everything about each other (including number of sex partners, abortions she had, former relationships, and personal hangups....Not to mention she used to date my other best friend!) We ... (84 words)

Me - the promiscuous girl. A fatal flaw - cheater til the end?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a lusty college sophomore, and I have cheated on my last two boyfriends. Both were not really serious, the last one was about 3 months and the one I'm in now is at about 3 months. I told the last guy that I cheated and broke up with him because I felt bad, it was an LDR so ... (287 words)

Can I get my ex to want me again by fully moving on from him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5060 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend and i broke up in october of 09' a month later he was dating another girl he left her for me about 3 months into their relationship then went back to her. He then left her for me 6 months into their relationship and then went back to her again. Then again at 11 ... (633 words)

Now she's willing to chill, but before sought a rain check when I asked. Why would she be more willing now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, Jor-El here after 3 months of being away. Before I asked about my Bio-Lab possibly liking me. Last semester we got closer, which is good, but when I wanted to hang out with her, she'd use the words "rain check" a lot, but this semester when I ask to chill with her, it's "... (166 words)

Sometimes even after a few hours this guy can't finish!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been sleeping with the guy that I am dating for a few weeks now and in general it's great. The one problem is that it takes him forever to finish and sometimes even after sex for a few hours, he just can't finish. Whenever he does finish it's through oral and while I... (217 words)

I am married and shamefully think of this man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I am married without kids and he is single as I know of. met this person 3 yeas back. We met through an undesirable formal environment and I never liked him in the beginning. But gradually I began to like him and respect him and now I admire him. Say (fictitious) he works in a ... (427 words)

Do I go to a bar and act like a bar fly? Or just let him go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 51-59 - My problem is I want to get even with my ex lover who dumped me for a younger transvestite. It is not that I am all that old, 45 today. He is 50 and his new thing is 25. It is not that I am unattractive or out of shape. I still wear size 8 jeans and treat my body like the ... (225 words)

How can I be more social and outgoing with my old friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I dated an immature way too old for me jerk for six months two years ago and had again during the summer. The only reason i went back to him was because i was afraid i wouldn't find another guy. I make straight A's and try my best to be nice to everyone, but during middle ... (195 words)

Whenever I use my toy I bleed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - When ever i use my "toy" all most every time when im done i find blood on it is that normal? The toy isnt that big either its only alittle wider and longer then my index finger. Im still a virgen though but does that mean every time i have sex il bleed to? Thanks.... (55 words)

I am losing the man I love because of the mistakes I've made

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been officially together for 2 years, but we have been friends/lovers for pretty much 5 years. We used to be madly in love but as the years passed, things of course died down. We still loved each other and we've lived with each other for a year or so. ... (206 words)

I want to use my 2" thick dildo but I can't because it hurts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 17 and I've been exploring myself for a year or so now. I really like masturbating, but I can only fit 1 finger in, and I want more. When I try 2 fingers, I am actually able to get them both in, but it's really tight and kind of hurts when the skin on the left side ... (105 words)

We lied about how we met to our parents!

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i'll be meeting my boyfriends parents in April. and my mom wants to get to know his parents before letting me go. but the problem is that we lied about how we met to our parents. what do i do to make this work? thanks ... (51 words)

14 and still waiting to have a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I have a bit of a problem. It may seem insignificant compared with many of the other questions on this site, but I really would like to have a boyfriend. Ever since pre-school, when I had a 'crush' on several boys in my class, I have dreamed of having a boyfriend. I am ... (491 words)

He's my friend on facebook, but how do I make him a friend (or more) in real life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So, it's been 6 months since my ex and I broke up after being together for two years. And while I have met and hung out with some guys, none of them have really stood out to me. Well, I know this sounds ridiculous, but there is a guy who works at the mall in town who I think is... (219 words)

I am ashamed of my living condition, and now my friend wants to come visit!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - help ! i really need advice. im friends with a guy-just friends ! and recently hes been asking to come to my house. im ashamed of the condition its in-it needs a lot of decorating and some of the floors are bare ! also i havent been totally straight with him as he thinks i rent ... (156 words)

Can I stay friends only with my married lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi.. I have been having an affair with a married man (co worker) for 2 years. I am married aswell. We are both in unhappy marriages and here for our children only. We have had many ups and downs in the 2 years. On Wednesday we went away for a couple of days. We wined and d... (314 words)

Dating for 4 months and no idea what to get my guy for V-Day

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, Valentines day is just 2 days away, and I have absolutely have NO idea what to get my boyfriend. We are both 15, and we have been dating for 4 months. The thing is, he doesn't really like anything in particular. He isn't into video games or cars, he is allergic t... (122 words)

My mom doesn't let me date anyone except my boss and I don't want to go out with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - How to begin... Im 25 and living at home with my parents. Im going to school (graduating in May) so i havent moved out bc my parents are helping pay for school and i pay no rent or anything. Bc of this tho, my mother whom is very strict will barely let me out! This goes for... (251 words)

Lonely on valentines day

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13-15 and ive been singled for a year and only had one boyfriend. im not the prettiest girl around but not that ugly either. valentines day is coming up and i need a boyfriend. how do i find the guy right for me. help. thanks... (47 words)

How can I better manage social situations? Can anybody relate to my lack of social skills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I've recently turned 33 and over recent years have experienced an increase in people enquiring about my love life status. This in turn forces me to assess my personal circumstances, specifically my lack of social skills. I have always struggled with informal group situations, ... (146 words)

Shouldn't my girlfriend consult with me first before making plans?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years now. It's a long distance relationship. Everything was going so well until I realized we don't have much to talk about on the phone. It's the same old stories, so our conversations don't last long. Another thing is, doesn't ... (152 words)

If I leave, I will bring shame to my family, and they will break all ties with me! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone, I am a 24-year old girl from Bordeaux. My family comes from Pakistan and we are quite a traditional family with close family ties. They do not allow me to meet my friends and my only occupation is staying at home and doing my house duties (such as cooking ... (928 words)

My last girlfriend cheated on me. Will I ever find a another love who I will be able to trust?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently, I was cheated on by my girlfriend. I loved her so much and trusted her alot too, but she proved to be contrary to what I thought of her. Do you think I will find another girl whom I will love and trust? The problem is that I have totally lost the trust. Can I regain ... (99 words)

My roommate keeps breaking "house rules"! How can I approach her about this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone!! I hate it when people take the Mickey! I am a student in my 3rd year at uni. I live with my boyfriend and another couple who we were friends with last year. We all live in a flat that my parents bought and we rent from them. Ever since the other couple moved in, ... (348 words)

I'm a confused and lovesick teenager. I need help getting over this boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I turn 16 tomorrow, and for the past year I’ve been romantically involved with a guy from my year at school. Since I liked him for so long, when he asked me out it was amazing! However he did inform me that he did have a "thing" with another girl from a posh private school, but ... (1492 words)

I want a way out of my marriage but feel trapped...why cant I get myself to walk away?

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12 February 2011 (F) age 51-59 - ok ... here's the deal. I have a lot going on these days (more bad than good). I'm in a unhappy marriage, but I seem to tough it out for my kids. I have basically told my husband of 13 years that I'm not in love with him... somehow, he doesn't seem to care and will still st... (292 words)

Does my college lecturer have feelings for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and my teacher started being ... (320 words)

Can one person fall in love with two people?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to be in love with two people?... (10 words)

I know he's busy but doesn't he even have time for a brief message?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, Let me try to summarize the whole story really quickly. (for more detail on how things started, read "I want to show him I care without scaring him off". This is a followup.) I met a wonderful man who lives in another country not far from mine. We clicked, we talked... (1242 words)

Boyfriend was flirting with another girl but I'm the one who messed up by getting into an ugly fight with him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf of 1 year started heavily flirting with a girl recently. We already talked about this and he said nothing is serious but i doubt that girl is falling for him. Yesterday again he started flirting with her and i got so pissed off, we had a huge fight. I told... (102 words)

If a girl has been with a big guy how does she feel about sleeping with a smaller man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone i have a question mostly for the girls but i dont mind having different point of vues. if there is a girl who is used to have sex with Big guys ( if you know what i mean ) . how would she feel about sleeping with an average size guy or even smaller ?! honestly... (68 words)

There's always a reason not to have sex with my wife!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - So I am having trouble approaching the lack of sex that my wife and I have been experiencing. I am in the mood almost every night (except if I masturbated 1-2 days before, in those cases I could take it or leave it. Or if she is wearing her big chunky flannel PJs ... ugh, I ... (401 words)

Do people really fall out of love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Im 29 and my girlfriend is 25. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. Just before Christmas we had been going through a rough patch and arguing over stupid stuff and calling each other names. She said she wanted some space so I moved out and back in with my folks. We ... (188 words)

Mixed feelings, trust issues, an LDR, and meaningless fights...What should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Ive been with my boyfriend for almost three years now. He is 25 and I'm 23. Recently he went to live to another city to study. We were living together for almost two years and had built a wonderful home. Our relationship is not the passionate crazy love for e... (590 words)

Bisexual, in a relationship but want to experiment more...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm bisexual and I've known since I was young, around 12/13. I watch lesbian porn but to me that does not determine my sexuality or anybody else's for that matter. but what I do want to do is experiment more with other girls but I'm already in a committed relationship ... (90 words)

Intense urge to have babies...and I'm only 15!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I want a child, but I am too young; what should I do? I am only 15, but I feel very intense urges to have many children. I have been able to have a child for 5 years, biologically, and I have been in puberty for half my life, but it is only in the past two years I have these ... (194 words)

Boyfriend says he doesn't know how to show me love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I live in different states so that already is putting a strain on the relationship. Earlier tonight he got angry with me for post a face book status because I was upset with him for not talking to me and not paying enough attention. I know this sounds selfish, ... (120 words)

My girlfriend has a very low sex drive and its extremely frustrating for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am now 20 years old and started dating my girlfriend about 3 years ago. during the first year or so of our dating we has sex on a regular basis for the most part with no less than twice a week, anytime anywhere, it was fun and we were happy and getting a long quite well. a... (244 words)

How do I avoid feeling down on the most romantic day of the year?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - You probably get this question every year but I couldn't find any previous examples, so here it goes. I'm single and the love of my life left me for someone else. What can I do to avoid feeling down on Valentine's Day? I'd be very grateful for any advice, but I'd prefer c... (95 words)

I'm unsure about my sexuality...am I gay or straight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i am in my twenties. i find myself wondering about my sexuality. Since high school i have jumped back and forth between the sexual identities of straight, bi, and gay. when i look at porn, i tend to drift towards gay, or group (multiple guys, on one girl), but when i masturba... (158 words)

I think my online girl is cheating on me--her stories don't add up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I think my girlfriend is possibly cheating on me. I am really confused....she really seems sincere, tells me she loves me all the time, but certain behavioral patterns really bother me. Though our relationship for now is strictly online (thats how and where we met) she says ... (736 words)

How can I change my self image, so that I can find a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello dear cupid, i just found this site by accident. I figure since im here i can give it a try. you all seem to be fairly good and answering questions. I am a 22 year old guy. i am single, and have been for going on 5 years. people always tell me to "just find a girl, and... (204 words)

Trying to make our relationship work after a break...with no help from my girlfriend!

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12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - ok sooo my girlfriend of two years and I broke up about two weeks ago but we continued talk and came to an understanding that we both wanted to get back together. Her only condition was that she wanted to take it slow and not have an official title but still act like we are t... (136 words)

Why is she avoiding having me meet her parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with this girl for 5-6 months now. I like her a lot and she likes me too. My friends and family know about her and she has met them all. But she has not told her family and friends about me and they do not know that we are together. I do everything for ... (126 words)

Valentine's Day is making me reconsider getting back with my sweet, sweetheart!

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - last valentines i found out i was pregnant and my 2 year boyfriend abandoned me. my son was born premature and a few weeks after i met an amazing man. but he was divorced and was in the navy for 2 years. everything went great but we found out we are sooo different. so we broke ... (215 words)

I have an efficient boss, but her husband who works with us is a complete nuisance...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

12 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - why are somepeople so confident and seem to think they are on top of the world. while others seem not to think they are great at all. sometimes i see people who are the former, but if you look at what they do and how they live it is hard to know. I work with this guy who bign... (362 words)

I don't know if he is just blowing me off!

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been seeing this guy for a month. Things were great. He's really nice always wanted to see me and spend time with me. So two nights ago I asked to hang out, he had already made plans but asked me to hang out the following night. Well the next day rolls around..I ... (173 words)

Please any parent who has survived a teenager, what have you done to survive a teenager and have a healthy relationship? I feel like I am in a battle zone.

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, I admit i'm not very good at standing up for myself. I try to stay out of trouble and not upset anyone. My daughter 15 is just the opposite. So i have to stand up to her from time to time. If she is rude to me then there is a consequence, such as a refusal to allow he... (580 words)

Where has my sex drive gone??

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance for 4 years and we have 2 beautiful kids and my youngest is a year old and for some reason i have lost all sexual desire.i dont understand why, before our daughter was concieved we would have sex all the time about 3 to 4 times a day and now i dont ... (87 words)

How do I avoid becoming my co-worker's next victim?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I work with a girl who stirs up a lot of trouble behind people's backs. Most of the time I try to avoid her. Always, I respectfully nod to her in the lift. Recently she tried to get another girl sacked, but she failed in her effort to do that. But I never want to get on her ... (282 words)

Girlfriends male friend is always flirting with her!

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12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - This guy is always flirting with my gf. I want to kick his ass but he's her friend. He didnt start flirting with her till they were good friends, and i cant do anything to him without her flipping her shit on me. I love her more than anything in the world. I really want this ... (74 words)

He has my number so why hasn't he asked me out?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've recently met a boy, who is my age. (I'm 20) We have hung out in a group three times We have each others phone numbers, although he hasn't asked me out. But he hasn't asked me out yet. There is intense eye contact each time we hang out, as in i'll look a... (94 words)

My boyfriend used his sex toy to masturbate AFTER having sex with me!

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - The other day my bf woke me to have sex. We did it and it was very good and after we both took a nap. When we woke I needed to run to the store for a few things. When I came back I noticed the bed comforter was pushed all the way to my side. He masturbate with this thing called ... (216 words)

Guys--Have you ever given oral sex just because you loved the girl, not because you liked doing it?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I hate to obsess about this but it's really bothering me. I know there are tons of questions out there about certain boyfriends not wanting to give head to us girls and I have a similar one. It used to not matter to me, but my ex was obsessed with going down on me and I ... (266 words)

Why is his death affecting me so badly?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A week ago one of my friends commited suicide and totally turned my life upisde down. We don't know why he did. He was a very smart happy kid. Everyone loved him. Anyways this isn't a relationship question. But I need help. When the teachers at my school told 7th and 8th ... (313 words)

Faded love and I feel used

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for five years.we have a daughter together shes two. Its been really hard this past year. And am really starting to question our relationship, we have sex like maybe 2 to 3 times a week...when we use to do it everyday to every other day. ... (122 words)

I am afraid to receive oral sex.... Is this normal?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - It might sound a little strange but I'm afraid to receive oral. My boyfriend and I will be having sex for the first time very soon (we're both virgins) and I told him that I was afraid of receiving oral, he giggled at it... It's not that I'm afraid that it smells or will i... (73 words)

Pregnant, extremely unhappy, terrible boyfriend and still not over my ex!

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - what do i do? i am 14 weeks pregnant and in a very unhappy relationship. my boyfriend treats me like shit he has hit me since ive been preagnant and pushed me he dosent do anything special for me sinc i found out i was pregnant. honestly he has made this a horrible experience ... (181 words)

Does this make me a bad person, knowing that he has a gf and still talking to him and wanting to fool ARound with him?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I work at a fastfood place and my coworker likes me and i like him but he has a gf but he doesn't know that I know he has a gf. He's super cute I gave him my # and I gave him a hug. I wanna get to know him better. I also wanna do "stuff" with him ( I have these urges)I don't ... (105 words)

I am pregnant and my boyfriend doesn't want me to have the baby.

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 4 months pregnant my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion and I don't want to. Me and him have been fighting over it every night. When I first told him I was pregnant he was happy but now he doesn't want it. He said when his child is born he's gonna kill it ! I don'... (71 words)

I wish he hadn't told me! Boyfriend's best friend gave him oral sex!

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend once told me a couple months ago that several years ago his best guy friend kissed him, and he said that he wasn't gay or curious at all and knew it was wrong but he let him. And I didn't really care, whatever, shit like that happens. We were having an in depth ... (158 words)

Should I go for marriage or wait untill I fall in love?

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12 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - I am not in love with anyone now,but bit hurry to get married, as lust has bit more in me. should i wait untill i find a girl to love and marry or just go for an arranged marriage. would u plz advice me on this? ... (48 words)

Should I stay with him even when he slept with someone else in our bed?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Was with him for 3 years. Split up for 3 weeks and he slept with someone else in our house and bed when we broke up. We're together again but I don't know if I can handle this. Should I stay with him? We also have a son together. ... (51 words)

I am obsessed with getting pregnant!! Is this abnormal?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, i'm just wondering how normal it is for me to desperately want to be pregnant. ever since i was young ive always known i wanted to be a mother, there has never been any doubt that i want children. i am currently living with my fiance and we have decided not to have ... (227 words)

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend won't stop talking to other women!

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Right now, I am 7 months pregnant by my boyfriend and we've been together for 2 yrs. My problem is that we made an argreement that we would both stop talking to other men and women. I've held my end of the deal, but I see that he is having a hard time holding is end of the ... (178 words)

Is it wrong of me to continue my affair with my first cousin?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently having an affair with my first cousin. We love each other enormously even though we haven't been together for too long. We have a big age difference. But to us that doesn't matter. For my part I would do anything to be with him and I know he would too. We're ... (89 words)

Should I be friends with a girl whom I want to date?

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12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - The girl I went on a few dates with turned out to like me only as a friend. She is now onto the next one and asked if I would go with her tomorrow on a date with this new guy. She is 15 and he is 19... jail bait? I think so. I found out that she wants me to go to make it ... (491 words)

How can he tell me he loves me, and then leave me for someone else?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I was 16 he was 19. When we broke up, he found a new girlfriend straight away. People tell me that I'm heaps prettier, and she's really annoying and unsupportive. I was happy because I hoped he would come back to me, but it’s been 2 months since they have been together. I'll be ... (178 words)

My husband had an affair which ended, we decided to work on our relationship and now I'm pregnant and having second thoughts about us!

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I'm quite uncertain about what to do about my relationship atm. My husband had an affair 3 months ago. It ended and we decided to work on our relationship. I got pregnant (accidentally) but we are both excited. My problem is, now I am having doubts about us and I ... (352 words)

How do I avoid the Friend Zone???

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12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've met this fine girl in my class this semester, and I built up the courage to ask her to hang out. We got lunch together, and it seemed like we got along great. I've never had a girlfriend before, I'm 19, but I've been placed in the friend zone before and I don't want ... (82 words)

Is 19 too young to get engaged?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are almost at a year in our relationship,happier than ever, each day feels like the first. We have been friends going on three years now. We are 19, sophomores in college. I was just wondering, in anyones opinion, is 19 too young to get engaged. We will be 20 ... (120 words)

She gone's cold. What do I do?

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12 February 2011 (M)

age - [Mod Note: The OP's 2 questions have been merged into one.] Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and sex was outstanding now she has gone right off sex and being affectionate, she says she still loves me and doesnt know why she is like it she says the feelings... (433 words)

How do I forgive him for his "fun"?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. So my boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. Last year, I found some posts he made on craigslist looking for some "fun". Obviously, I was extremely upset and confronted him. He apologized and cried and all that good stuff. I'm still with him, but it's really ... (105 words)

Why would she suddenly lose interest?

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12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I should first point out this girl doesn't drink and party on a regular basis, she's very close to her immediate family and definitely a family person, loves kids and is going to be a teacher, and due to a 2-year long relationship ending badly for her nearly 2 years ago, and a ... (411 words)

Should I push her into a relationship with me?

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12 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - i like this girl, we have a lot of fun together but she does not want a romantic relationship right now b/c she is still getting over her ex. i want to know if i should push her into a relationship? or just take it slow and just be there for her. dont know how long should i ... (60 words)

Is he a flirt or is there something more?

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12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - OKAY, just to let you know... I'm gay. :) I'm really happy with my sexuality, but I really like one of my guy friends. Lucky for me though,he's bisexual. He's only ever had relationships with girls, but he HAS made out with a fair few of guys. Now, let me just explain our frie... (523 words)

Why does my boyfriend think it's sexy?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been trying new things in bed and a few nights ago I joined in with him fingering me. He said it was sexy and he loved it. And I asked him why and he couldn't give me a straight answer. I don't understand why he liked it so much. I've tried thinking of a ... (84 words)

We're going to get married, but I don't know about his past!

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been with My Fiance for 3 years now and I dont know anything about his past relationships or the other girls in his past all i know is that he was a bit of a player before his car accident he never likes to talk about that part of his past but im curious ya know. Is ... (88 words)

I feel like my boyfriend still has strong feelings for his ex wife

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a serious relationship with someone I've known and have been friends with for many years. I know he loves me and I love him with all my heart but the problem is this. He is still close with his wife. Neither of us are legally divorced from our spouses but they... (304 words)

I care more about my kids then I do this asshole!

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some suggestions/ i really am not happy at all with the person i am with right now, but weve been together for 3 years and we live together. we moved to a new city and hes the only person i know. hes becoming abusive. i mean he doesnt hit me or my kids but he hits the ... (188 words)

I don't know how to act or what to do around this bully!

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Right, well, I have this 'friend', he is a lad and a while ago we had this whole thing where we both liked each other but nothing really came of it and then we didnt talk for a while. then a few weeks later he tried something on but i told him no.. since then he keeps hitting ... (126 words)

Is he developing more than just being a friend to me?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I'm a little confused right now! I noticed a boy in my grade 4 years ago, in 6th grade. I usually saw him in the carpool line or from the bus window. I felt attracted to him for a long time, and he ended up in my Language Arts class in 7th grade. I used to be rowdy and ... (305 words)

Always the friend... never the boyfriend.

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12 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old, and well almost my whole life i am alone. I have some friends, but they are just talking to me when they need something to be explained, mathematics,... I tried to find girl but i always failed. They all say i am a good friend, but nothing more. I just can... (159 words)

Does this girl like me? I'm a girl and we're teens?

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12 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Let's begin with I'm a girl, and she's a girl. We're both teenagers and she's in the year above me. I joined this new school last year in september and since then she keeps staring at me, I mean I was in that shook since I was 3 but I quit and then came back. The staring wa... (251 words)

What do I do to get rid of this insecurity I'm feeling?

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12 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hey! in a six month relationship! my girlfriend previously exited a 17 year relationship with two children ive met her six months after the break up! first three months was the best then all off a sudden she died in our relationship quite abit i dident know what to do! was it ... (216 words)