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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My girlfriends ex is still in the picture. Why would she lie?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - We have been dating for a few months now and things have been going great up until now. The other day we were having a serious discussion and she told me that she still hangs out with her ex boyfriend. In the past she told me that she cut all contact with him, other than ... (326 words)

Ex calls and mentions she is single again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my gf 6 months ago. We were together 3 years and very much in love and best friends. I ended the relationship as I felt confused and that I had never been to experience single life as an adult having met her at 18. The break-up made both of very sad as we were ... (222 words)

He said he would and he did! I feel very hurt now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. Last night he was clearly drunk and he told me he was going to walk to the store to get smokes. I told him I would take him 5 times he said he and his brother were going to walk. He knows beside it being agents the law ... (163 words)

What should I do about my marriage?... I love him but I hate him at the same time.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know if i should stay with my husband. We have been together for 6 years..married 4. He has been pretty horrible to me through our relationship. Calling me names, telling me i dont do anything, and controlling. Things got really out of hand when we had and argument... (164 words)

I ask him what he wants and he says don't spend a penny on him

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - hi (: so for valentines day i really want to et my boyfriend of 1 year 7 months a gift . but thing is i don't really know what to get him because he hate hate haaaates when i spend money at all - he literally will NOT let me pay at all. which i think is really sweet (: so i ... (215 words)

I reached a point of not caring, does that mean that her past doesn't really matter or is something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - (Really sorry about the long post, but it should set the mood) Hi guys, I've been reading this site for a while now and I think I should say what's on my mind. Im 25 (had 3 partners in 7 months before her) and my girl is 28 (she had 14 in 6 years before me). weve been in lo... (1015 words)

How do I get over this "bad boy" who I have a crush on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid. theres this boy ive been crushing for about a year now now i realise that me and him are not to be. i need to get over him. hes a badboy and im the sweet innocent girl i no what hes like outside school. a low life but when im alone i always think of him. ... (82 words)

Is he genuine or just a charmer?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - i've recently got close to a man that i used to work with. it started with a text to let me know he had managed to gain some payment that he had been owed for a long time and from there we have started to text chat and then phone calls, he rings me day and night and the ... (179 words)

Why does my husband lie about my age to everyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My husband and I are very far apart in age. He is 15 years my senor. I am 30 and he is 45. We are very happy together and are going to have a baby now. I've never had a problem with his age and we are quite compatible. But, everytime he meets people he lies abo... (142 words)

I want to run away I've had enough!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - i wont to run away i have had enought of life i don't know y i feel like this i have 4 kids and scared i don't know y i am feeling this way is there somethimg wrong with me ... (43 words)

How does a couple get out of this vicious cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - What do I do in this situation? I have been with my boyfriend off and on for about 5 years. The reason for that is because right after we got engaged at the very beginning, he changed. He got scared of committment. He went on a 2 month vacation, etc. Naturally, I became ... (334 words)

I love this girl but she has a bad boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (?) age 26-29 - Hello everybody! A while ago, i posted this question. I got a very helpfull message back, but i have some new information now so maybe someone can help me even more :) I have a strange , very frustrating problem. So there is this girl, one year older then me, (btw, next year... (583 words)

Is this strange?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - well i had a boyfriend and we broke up. We started to date other people and after some time we started talking again and we stopped dating other people. we are not back together yet, we just go out to see if we should give it another shot. When we weren't together he slept with ... (107 words)

Help me move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently split with my boyfriend who i'd been in a relationship with for 18 month and im finding it hard to let go and move on but i really need to as he cheated on me. any ways, songs anything to help me move on? ... (46 words)

Wondering about the appearance of semen from different men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i got with a guy when i was 15 and was with him for 4 years, i lost my virginity to him and remained faithful to him, i never cheated on him and so i had only had a sex life with him, obviously when your sleeping with someone and have been together for a long time you ... (196 words)

Secretly I would want him to make a go with things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My lover and I split up just after xmas due to not seeing eye to eye with things etc..we were together 2 years, anyway after no contact for a month he emailed me again saying he was depressed and feeling stressed out and that he wanted to see how I was doing? I said I was ok ... (180 words)

Female Orgasm Questions

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ladies, this question is obviously for you. I just have some basic questions regarding the dynamic of female gasms. Please take the time to read and answer the whole question 1. Can all women experience G-Spot orgasms? If so, do some women simply require something as r... (249 words)

I don't want a static relationship! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - After dating my bf for over two years it has all become static and will be now for 3 years to come because of his job. He won't live with me until then and nothing else can progress. I don't want a static relationship. What do I do?... (48 words)

I love him and I don't want to lose him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 year old girl and i really need advice on my life situation. in shorter terms - 4years ago i had a beautiful daughter to the man i once loved we sadly lost our daughter to heart disease and it left us devastated it slowly teared us apart and he cheated on me with ... (657 words)

Pain from a past betrayl getting in the way of a good relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I should have moved on by now. How can I make the pain go away? I was in a relationship with a man who lied to me about being married. We lasted a year and a half and not only fooled me, he fooled my family, my son, my friends, he hurt us all. I trully loved him and it was r... (179 words)

Spicing up sex for that extra "wow"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm looking for simple ways to spice up sex with my boyfriend. We have a wonderful sex life, but I'd like to put some extra 'wow' into it as he has been so amazing to me lately when I've been very stressed. We've been together nearly 2 years. I'm not looking for anything ... (87 words)

My trust issues are gettting in the way of our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone i realli need some advice on my relationship with my boyfriend. Im 23year old girl. Recently i have been very jelous and my feelings have been all over the place i have constantly been accusing him of cheating on me with a girl at his college(who i believe likes my ... (451 words)

Did he say everything because he was drunk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so there is this guy, A. We went to middle school together and then we both are in differnt high schools now. Right after 8th grade he texted me saying how much he liked me, and wanted to be with me, and I was rude to him and told him no, because he had a girlfriend at ... (310 words)

How can I feel more sexually confident?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

- How can I be more confident in the bedroom? The only time I am confident in the bedroom is when I've had a few glasses of wine but I don't want to have to drink to feel sexy and confident I'm 20 years old and I want my man to go wild. He wants me to go to his in heels and a... (114 words)

I want to commit but I don't think he does!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

- Hi everyone, hope you're all doing well! So here's the thing me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months, not that long I know but I'm ready to settle down now I've done all that playing the field and so has he so I was hoping he would be ready to settle down too.... (270 words)

I'm sick of all her lies! Am I right to wait until April to officially end things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of about a year and half recently broke up with me and I am so sad. I honestly believe that she was my first love and she was the love of my life. It was more than a physical attraction, I had a deep emotional and attachment to her. The worst part is that we ... (395 words)

She gives away the gifts I give her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice... Well my wife doesn't appreciate the the things I give to her, I have bought her many items and later on I come to find out she gives them away. Recently I found out she had given away to her sister a very expensive watch I had bought her it really bothers ... (141 words)

How painful is bikini-waxing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (?) age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, i'm pretty sure that this question has been asked on here before, because i know a lot of girls who are trying to figure out the exact same thing. i'm looking for hair-removal methods for the bikini area...BESIDES shaving. i currently shave, but i don't real... (206 words)

Do you think it will last or will he want something more serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

- Hey everyone, I just need your opinion on something I've had on my mind lately, whether you think I'm being paranoid or not. ...I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months he is 31 and I'm coming up 21, so this guys 10 years my senior and in his life he's had all sorts of re... (195 words)

He's hot then cold, he's Jekyll then Hyde

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry in advance for this long question. But there is a lot to my story. Just over a year ago, I met my boyfriend (who is 5 years older) we were both blown away, not just by how physically attracted we were to each other but also how well we got on. We started official... (532 words)

Need to tighten my pelvic muscles, any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

- I need to tighten up my pelvic floor muscles I'm not really loose down there but I want to be tighter, however I've tried to do my PVM exercises but I don't feel as though I'm doing them right and find them difficult to do and I can't afford to buy a kegel exerciser at the ... (60 words)

Help! I'm putting on more weight than before!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cherished readers, I'm a girl of 20 years and my boyfriend is 23 years of age. I have no problem with my boyfriend and he also has no problem with me but, an issue bothering my mind is that this days, i can look at myself in a mirror and see that I'm really putting ... (180 words)

My LDR blocks me and unblocks me at random

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Why does she block me from calling her and then some thimes she unblocks me? Like yesterday I tryed to call her and it rang then I texed her by the end of the night saying. Dont forget to block my phone number. Then she texed back saying "Who is this?" I did not send a tex mes ... (90 words)

How do I learn to squirt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I always seen girls squirting on porn movie and never knew what they were doing i always thought they were peeing lol but i want to try and i would really like to learn how its done i don't ave a vibrator and i want to do it alone then i do it with my partner so i am wondering ... (77 words)

I'm dating 2 guys.... I cant pick between them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help..... Ive always been in a realtionship and have been single for a year now had loads of fun but now I have met 2 great guys and I dont know who to pick!!! They are both great in differnt ways but I cant carry on dating the 2 of them its not far on either of the... (233 words)

Confused about ex girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My ex and I were dating for two years and I took her for granted and didnt treat her like I should have.A few months ago we had our first serious breakup.This lasted about a month and I found out that there was another guy involved and he had been for a few months before the ... (141 words)

Be friends but dine me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Oh dear, I text-killed my date! So I meet this girl through Internet dating, we text for a few weeks then decide to meet up. We get on so well, she even says people would find it hard to believe. Eventually she asks me to kiss her and we're kissing for like an hour or more. All ... (378 words)

What do I do if she won't sign the divorce papers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age - i've been seperated for 8 1/2 yrs. me and my ex have 3 kidds(2)by marriage. we all get along, however i'm about to file for a divorce but i don't think that she'll sign the papers, what do i do?... (40 words)

Are there good guys out there? The ones I've found so far aren't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I have started going to a counselor because of these “mini-depression episodes” that I have. This term “mini-depression episodes” is a term that I use to describe the times that I am uncontrollably sad, irritable, and hopeless. I feel that I let everything bother me ... (942 words)

Was I prudent, or prudish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So a question I asked earlier ignited another one in regard to a previous but brief relationship. It was only the second time I've ever terminated a courtship, and both times I've felt bad about it. Anyways, I had started seeing a younger woman. She was only 20 and I wa... (647 words)

How to help my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I scared my friend and made her cry because I yelled at her . What should I say to her ? She is my best friend and I love her and I didn't mean to yell at her but she made me mad. ... (43 words)

Should I contact my best friend, even if she may be in a serious relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - For those who may have noticed my avatar, it is of my best friend and I. We have such a long and incredible story, and love each other very much. But for many reasons, all of which are a matter of geography pretty much, we ultimately aren't together. Although you... (478 words)

Why does he want to keep all of these pictures of her and them together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for very nearly a year. We got together only about 2 weeks after his last long term girlfriend ended their relationship which is a fact that I only recently found out. That wouldn't really bother me (as I've been with him for a year now and ... (253 words)

How can I just forget about men for now and concentrate on living in the present?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I'm 18 and single, and I'm happy with that. I've never had a boyfriend and I don't want one. I'd only want to be in a relationship if it was serious and I knew he was the one for me. I don't feel ready for that now and I'd rather wait a few years. But I seem to be obsessin... (151 words)

She wants to take a "Mommy Break". Would getting her a weekend by herself for V-Day be unromantic?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Would it be horribly un-romantic for me to book a beachfront room for my wife to take a 2-day getaway by herself, as a Valentines Day gift? She has been talking about wanting to take a "mommy break" as in, get away for a couple days to relax, read, go to the spa etc and have no ... (173 words)

How can we get over this petty fight that all started because of an iPod?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok people I bet you will laugh and cringe equally when you read this little issue I'm having. Last night I asked my boyfriend if I could use his ipod at the gym this week (because he never uses it when he's there). Much to my surprise, he said no. Considering I le... (493 words)

Is drug addiction a disease, or is it a choice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F) age - Is drug-addiction a disease, or is it a choice? I had terrible tragic experience with drug addiction. Two of my kids got into it, and it destroyed the whole family, and one is dead now. He was the loveliest boy. And me and my husband never used any drugs, or alcohol. Yet,... (131 words)

I've got the French maid costume, but what do I do after I put it on?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has told me before that one of his fantasies is for me to dress up as a french maid. As we are at different universities we hardly see each other at all any more, so I thought I'd surprise him when I go to visit him next. The thing is, I have no idea how to act o... (96 words)

My ex is giving me x's and o's, but he's got a girlfriend! What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - A few weeks ago I started to get close to my ex boyfriend, A. We're just friends at the moment, but he keeps giving me hugs, and sending my two kisses on the end of texts to me. We get on really well, and I think that he might like me, but he's got a girlfriend!!!!! What should ... (74 words)

Now that he's ill, I want to tell my HS crush that I liked him. Good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I tell my high school crush I liked him? We are 2 years into college. Back in HS, Junior year, we stared at each other everyday in the hall. I really liked him, and I had the feeling that he liked me, but we never ever talked because he was the 'bad boy jock' and I was ... (203 words)

How can I flirt and keep him interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy, I wanted him in my life and eventually I managed to get him in my life and now I don’t want to lose him! As well as being very close friends now, we lead a definite Love-Hate thing. We aren’t both players but we just cant help flirting with other people, ... (399 words)

He spent the night, but now thinks he rushed things? What does he mean by all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay everyone i need a little help with something that i dont understand. okay so my boyfriend and i broke up for two weeks because he said he wasnt happy but then he would try his best to fix things and everything he tried alot to get us back together but i didnt wont to so he... (187 words)

She wants to be FWBs, and I suffer from Premature Ejaculation... how should I let this play out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - A female friend and myself, who seldom see each other, have been texting each other quite often for a while now. In recent months the texts have got more and more flirty until the other evening the subject of sex cropped up when my female friend suggested that we become f*ck ... (131 words)

Do these actions mean something? Are they coincidences or fate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys i need your help. so there is this guy at school and i really like him. certain things have been happening which i don't know if i should call them coincidence or destiny/fate: 1. i went to open the fridge at school in our kitchen and at the same time he came out of t... (350 words)

My friend can't have kids? Can she carry mine?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend just found out she can't have kids . She's very upset and she's 16. Can my friend carry my baby even if she can't have kids?... (29 words)

How do I face her now, after I upset her and she moved on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently upset a girl whom I love and she knows it really badly but she has chosen to date another guy instead of me. After ignoring me for two weeks and received two apology letter written by me. She had forgiven me but somehow I have no idea how to face to her now. I ha... (199 words)

Should I be concerned after a bad proposal?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been dating for 20months. I have a long history with him. We were friends before we dated for about 8yrs. I love him very much and have been wanting him to ask me to marry him. He actually proposed to me two days ago. It definitely didn't go as I had imagined... (537 words)

Does he not trust me because of what he is possibly doing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, thanks for reading, and helping. My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years. There's always been "trust" issues on his behalf. I've told him countless times trust is vital in a healthy relationship. To give some history he's been divorced almost 3 years. Was mar... (323 words)

I want to give him a BJ, but he smells and tastes kinda funky...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I want to give my boyfriend a blowjob, but I can't, because he smells kinda bad down there. He's clean, he takes daily showers, but his penis still has some funny smell. I also tasted it once and I wanted to throw up - it was very salty. I just don't know what to do,... (109 words)

Was he not attracted to me? Was it nerves?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi ladies I had my first date with a guy I met a few weeks ago. He invited me for dinner at his house as he wanted to cook for me. We had a lovely evening together and he was very polite and didn't make any moves. We had a little kiss and cuddle on the sofa and we stayed u... (184 words)

My girlfriend doesn't trust me... I can't even go for a beer with friends!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys i need some advice. I have been with my gf for about 3 years now. We have a 2 year old together. Life is tough. We used to fight ALOT! I used to have to call my mom and dad and tell them to come over to our place and referee it it got so bad. But we overcame some obs... (261 words)

I want out. How do I end this cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have been in an 'implied' dating relationship with a guy for six months. Initially, we were just 'kicking it' but now we behave like people in a relationship without actually saying we're in a relationship. The problem is every time he feels we are getting c... (147 words)

I just don't think I love her, and while I'm still in love with my ex I don't think I ever will!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I'm having a bit of a crisis in my love life right now, and I've reached the point where I feel I need some impartial advice, so here goes: I'm currently going out with a girl who I've been seeing for about a month. The relationship has progressed quit... (804 words)

He was shocked that I would end it, saying we are meant to be together. Why wouldn't he end it with her?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey people :) I just need a bit of help to not be so confused really :( I met a guy from Germany a year ago (im from the u.k). he had previously lived in the U.S.A for 5 years for University.I met him and things were casual at first, but then started to get VERY serious.... (486 words)

Why is it that every time I'm with a guy, they tell me they like me and the second I start to really like them back they decide that they just want to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is it that every time I'm with a guy, they tell me they like me and the second I start to really like them back they decide that they just want to be friends? This has happened to me with the last couple guys I've gone out with.... (49 words)

How can I get him to comfrot me when I feel sad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night I started to cry because I had a bad dream about my boyfriend but he wouldn't comfort me when I was crying. He wouldn't even talk to me. How can I get him to comfort me when I feel sad?... (42 words)

How can I live without sex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a male 21 year old virgin.. Really want to have sex... have a girlfriend but feel ill have to keep it private, and that will cause guilt inside me.. so that is an issue.. Sex after marriage is ok but before that some issues. But its about 4 years time for my marriage... (93 words)

Am I being played by an older man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 19 and I have being seeing someone for the last 3 months. He is 26 and has a really good job and is always busy with work. We live really close to each other like a 5min walk. We met over a social network site, although we live close I didnt know him. He used to inbox me... (386 words)

My mother is interfering too much in my life. I need advice badly!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Readers. I am feeling very anxious about my Mother's interference with decision making in regards to my daughter. This has been an ongoing saga for the last 5 years and has affected my relationship with my daughter in a detrimental manner and affected my life in terms of... (808 words)

I feel he's emotionally blackmailing me to stay with him and I don't know what to do... Please help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive posted a question here before about a possessive, controlling boyfriend. good news i said i needed time out - thats lasted a week. He found out his friend dies yesterday and i went to comfort him as i do still love him and care for him. Long night cut extremely short ... (193 words)

Is my boyfriend 'into me' for the long term or is he the one getting cold feet?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm pregnant by 5 weeks - totally unplanned. Bf and myself haven't been v long together and the couple is still v much new although he has been great and totally supportive so can't complain. Yesterday tensions mounted over the phone (I can't even remember how as I was tired) ... (497 words)

My crush on an older man...

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had a crush on an older man for many years now and i dont know how to get over it. If any of you ever had a crush on an older person, how long did it last and how did you get over it? ... (47 words)

I am going to confront him... right?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing this man since Nov and I have been thinking for a while now he is a player and that things are not adding up. I only seem him on the weekdays after 8 pm. We never go out on any dates. We sit at his place and watch movies etc. After doing this for 3 months ... (650 words)

Help! In love with a married man and he doesn't love me

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all. I could really use your help! I have been involved in an emotional affair (never any physical contact) with a married man. I am also married. We both have young children. This has been ongoing since last spring. We would see each other at different functions which ... (781 words)

My daughter is causing me so much stress just now...

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I posted on here recently regarding problem with my daughter and her BF who is here 2/3 nights a week. I got some really helpful answers regarding him paying his way. However since that time, another serious problem has happened and I would desperately welcome any ... (653 words)

Do I see him as my cousin??? What should I do?

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7 February 2011 (F) age 30-35 - I have never seen my dad as a dad as he has never been there for me or my brother. After about three years i have got back in contact with his nephew and he has changed so much, in personality and in looks, I am afraid that i might be getting feelings for him. but do i really ... (79 words)

Ex betrayed me, why did everyone take his side?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've posted here before about my ex who dumped me out of the blue, by phone. Then insulted me by text. I never heard from him again. He poisoned everyone and probably told lies to everyone. Why did everyone take his side? I'm the one that got betrayed and yet I have to find new ... (87 words)

He's messing with my head!!!

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's my situation. My boyfriend - now ex boyfriend broke up with me way back in May. We were together for 4 years. His reasons; he needs to be self-actualised as in he needs to find out who he is. A hard feat even when you are pursuing it. He also doesn't know if he ever ... (232 words)

How can I learn to open up more?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been feeling really alone, especially now that Valentine's Day is coming up, and it seems like it's just not possible to get past two or three dates with anyone lately. For some reason dating feels so forced and artificial, like people are just doing it for the sake of ... (457 words)

How can I forget about her?

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I have loved this girl for three years already even though she had rejected me right from the start (and I'm pretty sure it's love and not a crush). I have promised her time and again that I'd work on becoming friends with her (since that's what she wanted) and I've broken that ... (145 words)

One time, at band camp, we had this connection....Does he possibly like me?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - A couple of months ago, I started crushing on my senior in our school band. He was the one who taught me how to play my instrument, but when we first knew each other, we didn't talk at all. Back then, he would look at me coldly and ignore me each time I said something. I rem... (578 words)

Should I wait for this guy to ask me out or should I just move on?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I know this really great guy who I really like and knows likes me too. But, he just doesn't seem to want to commit. He is slightly older and may be looking at long term options like marriage. Problem is that he seems to give confusing signals all the time. ... (165 words)

Am I really crazy???

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi all im in need of a little help, my hubby says im crazy n that its all in my head but im sick n tired of being out with him n finding him looking at other females, i wouldnt mind if he did when we weren't out together but i find it personally humiliating and degrading on my ... (93 words)

I want to forget my Sister as she is taking me for granted. I miss her badly.

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Well... it started when I was in 11th Standard. I had a few friends but because of some differences between us, I had to leave them. I had lost faith in friends. Somewhere I heard that your family persons are your best friends. I looked for some attention from my family b... (1221 words)

Should I be aiming higher? IS the grass always greener?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm wondering... do any of you suffer from the Grass Is Always Greener Syndrome, like I do? I have a typical office job, where I work 8-9 hours a day, five days a week. I don't HATE what I do, but I'm not exactly passionate about it either. It's a place to earn ... (709 words)

I thought he liked me but he asked someone else to be his Valentine!

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - i really started to like this guy and i thought he liked me too.he would always looks at me and hes always nervous and fidgety.he would even smile when i laughed or he copied my mannerisms!! and now he’s even worked up the courage to talk to me more.Everytime i say hi or ... (294 words)

While on a break, my BF met his ex, she straddled him and exposed her breasts! Now he's unsure about us together!

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend asked for a break to clear his head.. on the break he told me he went to see a girl he's slept with before and she straddled him and took off her top showing my bf her breasts and told him how much she wanted him. But my bf said he told her he's got a gf and ... (324 words)

Not able to be in love?

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it possable to not be able to fall in love when i go out with friends they all look at girls and say how hot they think they are but when i look i just see another person no diffrent from the rest i have never seen a girl or guy that i have had any thort about what so ever i ... (132 words)

Drunken make-out...should I mention it again or just keep quiet?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Myfrnd french kissed me while we were both drunk, and i think she was on black out, she touched my private parts and i enjoyed every beat of it....we were interupted just when i was about 2 respond back, when she left i sent her a naughty sms but now she doesnt mention a thing ... (73 words)

Will having sex with my friend help me get over my ex?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't get over my ex but I'm good friends with a guy who treats me like a queen and wants me to be his girlfriend and wife one day but I'm still messed up in my head about my ex. If I have sex with my good guy friend, will that make me get over my ex and have a clear head and ... (75 words)

What should I write to my wife's ex to make him leave her alone?

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7 February 2011 (M)

age - after 25 yrs of being with my wife,an ex has re-entered her life by text and email.At first my wife was open about this.He is married and lives in australia.It soon became obvious by her changing behavior,( hidden new phone and secret number,getting up in the middle of the ... (131 words)

I'm not sure I can wait any longer...

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Just would like to get a male's perspective on this... though women feel free to share the advice =) I have been with my guy going on 5 years. Its a definite pull push kinda thing. He gets close... he pulls WAAAy back then I kinda start moving on then he pulls me back. ... (439 words)

I've had enough of her childish behavior!

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 20 months (1 year, 8 months) and our relationship has really been going down the crapper lately. When something doesn't go her way, like say she was wrong in a discussion/argument, she crosses her arms and will look away from me, or... (648 words)

Should I keep my ex in my life as a friend?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my boyfriend of four months broke off with me 2 months ago. We work in the same company but different divisions. It's a large company and we don't have to see each other everyday. We have no work relations too. But we do hang out in the same clique about once or twice a ... (569 words)

Why can't he tell me if I'm his girlfriend or just a friend with benefits?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been seeing this guy for 2 months and weve been having sex for one month but whenever i start talking serious about a relationship or ask what i am to him he freezes up. why cant he just tell me if im his girlfriend or if im just a friend with benefits? ... (57 words)

Room mate refused to help clean up when moving!

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Interacting with your housemate is a kind of relationship, right? My housemate and I are moving out. So we have to clean the place up thoroughly to get our bond money back. He's been living there for 10 months and I've been there just under 2 years, so he thinks it's only... (492 words)

I can't get over my ex! Is it because I wasted some of my best years with him?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age - almost 2 years since i broke up with my ex. were together 8.5 years. i broke up with him 6 to 10 times per year during our last 3 years. dramatic time with his ex wife (over 5 years before we met) an is dramatic kids. i feel better that i don't have the trauma and constant ... (230 words)

Why can't I move on? How can I get over him?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So, me and this guy have had a "thing" for over a year now. Last July i told him i was falling in love with him. I know it was strong to say, but i had to tell him. He didn't say anything. We kept our "thing" going after i told him. Its still going on to this day. He is also ... (220 words)

My friend wont get over her EX, how much longer do I allow her to mope?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend is really depressed after her boyfriend broke up with her. It was her first relationship and she is in her 20's. He left her a few days before New Years. They had been going out for a little over 2 years. She wont get over him, she mopes all day and complains about ... (131 words)

How do I fend off personal questions from others?

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm back. I have relatives, acquaintances, and friends who ask me inappropriate questions. They ask things like "Do you want a girlfriend?" Then if I say "not at the moment", they start to fire more questions at me. They ask if I'm gay, or why I don't want a girlfriend at... (124 words)

Whatever happened to holding hands and watching the sunset?

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - So, alot of things have been hard to adjust to since I got out of the Army. Not the least of which has been dating, or...not dating, I suppose. I like to think I'm a nice guy, outgoing in public, but private at home. I own my own house, and cook and clean and do all the t... (367 words)

Protocol on going to strip clubs

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello guys, do u think is it ok for the guys while they are in a relationship and want to go strip show club either with you or his friends and let u go with your female friends too? and also i asked him if he go to striptease club before and told me yea and asked the reason... (71 words)

How can I trust my bf and quit having negative thoughts?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone i really need some edvice, i always think negative and im a huge worry wart. my bf and i have been dating for ten months and in the first two months he texted this girl naughty mess. and i found out and contronted him and he told me the truth that yes he did. wel... (263 words)

My wife is always postphoning sex

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, I m 30yr with 2kids,I love my wife too much, she loves me too and she says 'I can't live without you' but when it comes to sex she is not that ready,she always postpones it and I am very much interested (at-least once everyday but it is not even once in a week) what to do ... (94 words)

Broke up with partner who was using escorts, and I feel more relieved than sad. Is this normal?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 42-year-old woman who just found out that her partner of 2 years has been visiting prostitutes. I ended the relationship yesterday afternoon when I found solid proof that he had been lying to me about his internet porn use, but got the final nail in the coffin last night ... (1040 words)

My boyfriend always think I'm flirting and can not accept that I am bisexual

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm female and I am bisexual. My boyfriend knows it! I don't deny it and I never will. He hates the fact that I am and he even told me so. I make it clear to him as much as I can that I love him and no one else. However, everytime we are with my friends, male or female, he ac... (237 words)

In love with a man whom I dated in school. The catch: He's married.

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - Why do women fall in love wih married men? This is my situation. After 22 years, I got back into touch with this guy that I date in middle school. Back then, we were really close. We lost touch, because my family moved from one side of town to another. After I graduate... (328 words)

Boyfriend says he doesn't know why this dating website sends him emails

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all! Some of you posters have been really helpful with my last situation... so I'm hoping you can help me with this one! I recently found e-mails (for updates, it seems) from Lavalife in my boyfriend's inbox. Normally that kind of stuff wouldn't concern me, but a few mo... (169 words)

Why don't I get pleasure from sex?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my boyfriend have been having sex and I'm just wondering why I don't get pleasure from it. He's on the big side and when he takes it out it feels great but I can never come and I don't want him to feel bad about it. So what positions will make it feel better for ... (62 words)

How did my boyfriend know that I was having my period?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - this is a really awkward question to ask, but my boyfriend today asked me if i was on my period.. when i asked why he just said answer, my first day was today so i said yess??? and he said i knew it! I was like oh was i being moody? and he said oh no not at all i can tell in ... (89 words)

How to split when you live together with no damage done?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months we broke up 6 months ago and got back together a month and a half later and moved in together. But he is so controlling and such a hypocrite I can't take it he want me to qit my job so I got a second job just to spite him.. and for the ... (145 words)

Just experienced heartbreak with 20 yrs older man...going through difficult time...

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - 15 months ago, I met with this man casually in a business meeting (he was newly joined the company and became the major contact since our 1st meeting)...he started to SMS me everyday, and we grew closer to each other. Since he is 20 years older, I didn't realize or I should ... (572 words)

Am I needy or is my boyfriend a prick?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help deciding whether my anger at my boyfriend is justified. I live in Florida. He lives in Texas. I go visit him about once a month. In November he and I agreed that next weekend, Feb. 11 and 12, I would visit. I bought the plane tickets. $400 for whatever reason.... (510 words)

I love my boyfriend, but having sex with him isn't as fun as it use to be. What should I do?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - When my boyfriend and I have sex. It usually is extremely amazing and leaves me breathless. However, lately, it's becoming like a routine, we have sex almost every day. But it's getting boring. I don't really get turned on by him anymore. Most of the time I have to fake it. He ... (77 words)

My girlfriend became a prostitute during our relationship

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend became a prostitute during our relationship. I knew about it but did nothing as she said she was feeling depressed and this helped. She made me feel bad about asking her to quit. I absolutely hated it. Its still eating me up inside even though she quit 2 months. I ... (87 words)

If you live together first does it hurt your chances for marriage?

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7 February 2011 (M)

age - I'm separated, soon to be divorced after a long term marriage and am just beginning to date again. A lot seems to have changed since I was last single. One of the things I don't understand is that at lest where I live, it seems that everyone wants to live together before or ... (263 words)

Is she bored? need a friend? Or like me?

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, to start off. I would like to say that she does look at me an awful lot. Not to say she wouldnt be looking at anyone or anything. (As she is new to the job) But she tends to stare at me as we walk past eachother and she'd give quite a smile to top that off. And i'd smile ... (308 words)

How do I stop thinking she's doing something that she probably isn't?

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - This may be a mix of me having trust issues and being the jealous boy I am, but my girlfriend and I are very serious about each other. She trusts me, and I "trust her". For some reason, I always find myself sitting here in pitty thinking my girlfriend is cheating on me when ... (139 words)

What went wrong between us? Why does he act this way?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this really sweet funny guy a couple of months ago and at first we never talked to each other but we were facebook friends since we were a part of the same organization at our university and i always thought he was a really nice guy. I was very surprised when one day ... (398 words)

My boyfriend calls me the most beautiful girl in the world, yet flirts with other girls!!

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7 February 2011 (?) age 41-50 - I have no idea why my boyfriend does this but it is driving me insane. I am not very jealous, but my boyfriend purposely does things that are disrespectful because he knows I don't like it. For example, last night we went to dinner and were waiting for our table at the bar. Our... (340 words)

I'm losing my guy friend (not bf) because of this other girl who's cheating on him. How do I deal with it?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - So my best guy friend(i'll call him J) who I love like a brother is in a relationship with a girl(i'll call her X) whose controling and has trust issues. At a basketball game X went through his gym bag to get his cell, which was wrapped in his boxers, so she could go through ... (246 words)

Does positioning make a blow job feel different?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, i'd love some advice from guys and girls about initiating a blow job for my bf. When we have had oral sex in the past, it's always been lying down, in bed or on the floor. I've never given a blow job with him standing and me on my knees, and wondered if that kind feels ... (98 words)

What do I write in his valentine's card?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - So I'd love some hints and tips on what to write in my bf's valentine's card please :) We've been together 5 months, and have told each other we love each other. He's great, kind, thoughtful, gorgeous, sexy, funny, smart...I feel so happy when i'm with him and hope we carry ... (101 words)

Got out of a long distance relationship where all I've seen of her are 2 pics..yet I want to get back! Knock some sense into me please!!

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I was involved with a girl for two months, and we broke up. The reasons why aren't important. What is, is that I'm still not over her, and I really need to convince myself that she's not right for me. -She's 15, I'm 18. -She lives in Florida, I live in Arizona. -It wa... (227 words)

Why would a man with a low libido reject his wife for sex, yet go and pursue and put effort into getting it elsewhere???

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband of 10 years has always had a low libido since I first met him. At first I thought this was good because I didnt want to be pressured into sex all the time by a man with a strong sex drive. I accepted this about him. However it became upsetting to me over time and ... (505 words)

Should I kiss her on the first date?

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7 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - I just asked this girl out and she said yes. I dont want to go to fast, so should I kiss her now on the first day or wait a little bit? ... (32 words)

Should I leave him? He makes me more sad than happy

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyrfriend, we have been togather for almost 2 years. i dont know what to do anymore, weve been fighting for about 3 months straight about a lot of stuff. first he ignored me, and i bitched about it alot. we broke up twice in the same 2 weeks. that was all about a ... (643 words)

She says she is going to break up my boyfriend and I. How do I handle this situation?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, quick question. I am a 16 year old girl, with a very good social life. I'm very popular, have lots of friends, and even have a sweet, caring boyfriend!(Yay!!) At the beginning of the year, I made a friend, let's call her Nicolette. Lately, Nicolette's been coming on to my ... (186 words)

What can I do to motivate my husband to help us improve our sex life?

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone. so i have a question and issue, and looking on the internet, there are tons of questions and answers about this, but mine is slightly different. my husband and i have been married for 4 years. we have been through a lot together, both financially and emotionally,... (638 words)

What did I do wrong? He's playing happy families. But not with me

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay here I go... Please understand I am judging only my ex and his mistress in this, but I am trying to make sense of this all. I found out my (now ex) was cheating on me (for 4 1/2 months, confirmed by her). He ended up transferring back and moved in with her (he lost his ... (531 words)

I'm confused as to my sexual orientation... am I bi???

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7 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im a female, and im straight, and im very attracted to guys. When i was younger i had a incident where i made out with one of my best friends. But from then on i never looked at woman with an interest. However, i have a friend who i find to be very attractive and pretty. I ... (177 words)