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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I break away from him and this whole situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and a guy had a fwb/buddy thing going on last year, this ended when he got a gf. He asked if we could stay friends to which i agreed at the time. A few months later he asks if we could meet up for a drink as friends so we did but we end up having sex, which is where ... (351 words)

Will I ever fall in love truly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I been wondering, if it's possible to be in love with the person through years if everything comes easily when love is mutual. Won't it bore you both with time? Or if the routine will ruin it? I always been looking for something more than usual routine, love with no limits, ... (243 words)

How do I tell her after I leave I just want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a gf of 10 months. We really like each other. I visit her house every day for at least 6 hours. The problem is she wants me to come daily without gettin late no matter what and if i dont she gets all psyched. how do i stop doin that? Now, i have taken a job offer in a... (155 words)

Why doesn't he want a title on our relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - why doesnt he want to have title after two months of sex, me cooking for him, meeting his mom, him meeting my mom, and countless dates, and meeting his friends, hed rather not call it anything... (36 words)

Why do I keep dwelling on her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - i am in love with a woman i met last november on a dating site and just have a problem about something in her past that bothers me and wondered if im just being silly?so we met and i took her out to dinner and she was incredible rite from the start.no woman had ever made me ... (718 words)

I think I'm losing my sex drive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - well, im 16 and i haven't had a girlfriend, i have kissed and snogged girls but never been in a relationship but the big question is that I feel i'm losing my sex drive. I never want to masturbate and porn doesn't stimulate me at all any more, i'm quite worried, is this due to ... (89 words)

Am I the only one who hates the smell and taste or sperm?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age - This may be strange or maybe this is common...You tell me. I can not stand the smell or taste of sperm! I freely give my husband (of 25 yrs) BJ when he wants, let him cum on my chest and he has even rubbed it on my face BUT it makes me gag! (silently) HE tells me that its not ... (165 words)

How do I accept myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, great, i thought i wouldn't come back ask for help or ask questions but truthfully i really need advice. This time it's over my health, i was diagnosed with a disorder years ago when i was only fifteen. I have taken notice this happens to me a lot, and it frustrat... (351 words)

We all have flaws so how do we learn to accept it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Im finding it hard to accept the girl in the mirror. Im not the type of girl that has self esteem issues, Im actually a very confident individual. But lately I really hate myself. I'll be honest as much as I like to think Im attractive in my own way, I think Im really u... (319 words)

Is he attracted to me? or does he just want a friendship?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not sure what to do. I like this man who is 20 years older than me. I'm 26 and he is 46. He winks at me everytime he sees me, which, by the way, i haven't seen him do to anyone else, just me, and he always gives me a kiss. He has also said that he thinks i'm gorgeous, and ... (501 words)

Why have I not heard from him? does he just not like me as much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I like this guy and we've sort of had a bit of something "going on." I normally hear from him every day. Just one question.. I went away on holiday recently and every single day, he'd text me asking how I was and just to generally have a chat. He's been away on holiday ... (129 words)

Have I done something wrong, it always seems to be just me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Do i keep doing something wrong? One of my mates seems to have this problem with me but he never says it. He barely speaks to me, sometimes he will, like ask me the odd thing or how im doing but theres no effort to strike up a conversation, he wont sit with me when we are all ... (385 words)

He is playing mind games, but I still like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy ive been 'seeing' is messing with my head he has never said we are boyfriend n girlfriend every time he wants to link up its cos he wants to have sex or something and a couple months ago i was just ignoring him and started to hate him so much because he wasn't a... (223 words)

He cheated on me 5 years ago and I just found out! what do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi ive been married for 12 years this was my second marriage i had alittle boy and he had agirl from his previous marriage when i met him i knew he was my soul mate even after 12 years when he looks at me my heart still beat faster when i was pregnant with my third child five ... (237 words)

Will the same thing happen in this relationship as what happend in my last one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've started dating a guy from work, and so far, it's going great :) He's handsome, thoughtful, funny, kind, sexy and we just get along really well. He's told me he feels giddy around me, like a kid, and I feel the same about him. He's arranged some amazing dates for us, and ... (395 words)

Second life is real life to my boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been involved with a man for 7 years. In that 7 years I have found that he lies to me many times, changing his stories and says that I am remembering things incorrectly (which I know is bull). Because we live apart and neither of us makes much money we only could get t... (253 words)

Still care for the ex-lover from the affair & wonder why I still care for him & it hurts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been having affair with my business partner for the past 5 years. We have separated since this year month March after he finally yelled at me saying he doesn't love me anymore after so much lies and I found out that he actually started another affair with another ... (1310 words)

Hate that my husband is a crossdresser!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of 17 years has been cross dressing since before we married. I didnt think much of it 19 or so years ago when it was minor and more of a naughty fettish of sorts, but now...... Over the past 10 years, it had gotten crazy out of control!! It has progressed to... (441 words)

I'm having trouble letting myself go and letting him have control!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now. He knew I was a virgin so we took things slowly. We didn'thave sex until the 6 month. Recently, he's expressed his wanting to perform oral on me. But I just can't imagine or let anyone kiss me down there. Am I ... (84 words)

I want to sleep with my husbands ex wife!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - So the thing is my husband and I have had a 3some with my friend. No issues came from it and everything was fine.. Well, I have been keeping a secret from him that I finally just told him. I want to have a 3some with his ex wife...Yes I know Im nuts but I really want this. ... (97 words)

My boyfriend and this other girl!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been having problems lately because he's going to be moving back to his hometown which is like 5 states away. and I don't know what to do. but to top it all off, I saw his messages and he was messaging this one girl who I think is his ex and he told ... (217 words)

How can I becomes friends with her so we can potentially have a relationship later on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone i started college a couple of weeks ago and met some new friends who are guys. we went on a trip with college and during the trip my friends introduced me to one of their friends from their school and i thought she was cute. the other day we met again an... (187 words)

I'm having trouble with my orgasms! help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, I'm an 18 year old male, I starting masturbating when I was around 9 or 10, for a few years my orgasm stayed pretty much the same, but in the lsat few years my orgasm has been diminishing and getting worse and a couple of months ago it got to the stage where I don't have an ... (164 words)

I will not love until I am with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey. I’m a 23 year old guy, and I think I’m perfectly normal. However, I’ve been having abnormal feelings about a girl for the last 7 years. Basically Im in love with her. All I think about is her. All i want to do is be with her. She keeps saying no, then dating other guy... (91 words)

I don't want to loose our friendship by mentioning us maybe going further into this relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age - I am a 65 year old divorced female. I have found online "dating" awful. Recently a man I have known for a good length of time socially, and I have begun a friendship. We have attended movies and gone out to dinner, and he invited me on a walk to raise money for a charity. ... (396 words)

Is our relationship ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I really need answer for this. I am 17 yr old boy and my girlfriend is 14-15 yrs old. Is this relationship fine? Will she like to have a french kiss with me? (She told me that she has dedicated her soul to me and she had already given a kiss to my cheek and vice-versa).... (57 words)

Reconsidering getting married...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys! Im about to be married in less than a month but having doubts... I love my fiance and his family with all my heart but there is only one thing holding me back...he's really bad about feeding into the attention other women give him. At the beginning of our ... (336 words)

Our sex life is zilch!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) age - We have a very stressful life with lots of painful issues about our children. Mental health and chronic drug addiction. And many other what is more ,than an average family can handle. My question needs a little longer time, but I try it short version So my husband developed a ... (250 words)

Help! Why is it so hard for him to understand that I won't jeopordise our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. We found each other (you can say) at the same job. We work together constantly side by side almost every day from the time we start work till when we get off and still spend time with other. Our hours of work are from 1am till ... (480 words)

Does it matter what girls look like when sucking?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Question for guys (though ladies can offer their answers too!) I desperately want to give the guy I'm seeing really great head. But I'm incredibly insecure at times - not just as most girls are, it's a little deeper than that apparently- and contorting my face into awkwar... (212 words)

How can I tell my friends to butt out and mind their own business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, im just going to jump straight into this lol, im fed up of people calling and making me out me be all this bad person. im 20 years old and i admit i used to be "easy" and really didnt care what people thought of me and just had fun, (well what i thought was fun at the time... (140 words)

Why do I still talk to him, see him and listen to his crap?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met and dated this guy when I was 22. I truly fell for him and a few weeks later found out he had a girlfriend. We were always off and on regardless because i wanted to be with him. He always had girlfriends but never could choose to be with me but i was a fool and would ... (263 words)

Can a guy get morning sickness on behalf of his pregnant girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - dear dearest friends and family please help me with the needed advise that i seek, i am 4 days ago me and my girlfriend had an unproted sex but just right befor the moment i pull out, i am sure of didnt ejeculate in her but i think my semen might have got incontact with her ... (190 words)

Can't afford a boob job, how else to get bigger boobs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. i am 18 years old and very unhappy with the way i look. i am a bigger girl, a size 14-16, but my breasts are a small B cup size. i look odd; although i know that B isnt completely flat, it just looks strange with my bigger belly. im sure you can imagine how that looks, ... (295 words)

I want out... but I need some encouragement!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My story is i have been in a relationship for over two years. I live with him and he is a great person. But, for the last year i would say i have been thinking of leaving him. But, i don't do it. I don't have the guts to do it. I almost left him once when we were having ... (398 words)

Not in love anymore? Break up after 8 years? What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I'll cut to the chase. Im a 29 year old male, been with my girlfriend for 8 years, going on 9. She's 27. We've both had our ups and downs and have been through some devastating situations, trust issues, etc. I love her dearly, she's my best friend, but late... (513 words)

Getting married soon, virgins and no urge for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a problem and I am confused. I am 27 and a virgin. I had always stopped myself from having sex till I was 22yo. Coz i thought it would affect my studies in school and college. I started viewing porn in college and was really deep into porn, spending full days in it... (240 words)

His love for his mistress ruined our marriage!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi guys I am 37 years and have been married with my husband for 14 years. About 3 years ago he cheated on me with another woman and the relationship lasted a long time because of his drinking and drug abuse. He left me in 2009 to move in with her and they only lasted for 5 ... (649 words)

How can he change his feelings so quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age - I was with my ex for 7 yrs. and engaged for 2 of those yrs. We had plans to marry July 4th weekend 2010 but, 1 mth. before that my ex broke it off with me only stating that he was not happy and needed a break. I of course pleaded with him to change his mind (big mistake I ... (586 words)

I could use some gift buying advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me(16) and my boyfriend(17 almost 18) have been on and off for 4 years now. Now that we're older we have been together for 11 months straight! :) He always gets me the best presents, but i have no idea what to get him for his 18th birthday! He is really sweet and always knows ... (86 words)

My usually unemotional partner just blew up at me and broke up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all. My partner is so laid back i want to wind him up sometimes like a clock. lol. He does not gripe about anything or get annoyed only about the payments to his ex wife now and then. Will not discuss any problems or issues, just carries on doing what he is doing and ... (267 words)

I'm caught between two guys! How do I stay with the right one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid.... I'm dating this guy who I realy like...we have been dating for 4 months...we broke up after the first 3 months...and dated again... then we broke up, because he kissed another girl in a club...but he said that it wasn't his fault..."she kissed him and he pulle... (169 words)

My best friend just dropped me! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have a friendship problem this is going to be quite long so please bare with me. i have been best friends with my best friend for 12 years we have been like siseters she was part of my family. i have been in a relationship for the past year with my bf and one day out of ... (370 words)

Is this headed for a breakup??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been in my relationship now for about 5 months. Things were good in the beginning, but it seems that we have been arguing the whole 5 months. When I first met him, I just got out of a terrible and painful relationship. I had many trust issues, as well as emotional issues. ... (220 words)

He left me with nothing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago and took everything with him, money for bills and all!! i cried like hell because i loved him so much and i did so much for him, how could he do this to me if he said he loved me!! the reason for him leaving was that he was not ready for ... (274 words)

I introduced her to my friend and now neither of them talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to be friends with this girl for about 6 years, we always went out shopping, clubbing, she helped me pick clothes and how to style my hair and wear make up. We spoke about boys and bla bla bla, things girls do. I have introduced my other friend to her, and they got so c... (172 words)

I'm thinking of leaving my husband, insights please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I am finally getting up the courage to leave my husband who I have been married to for 17 years (I am 38). My husband has never made any solid plans for us as a couple during our marriage, has just drifted along on the personal side of things, leaving me to push things along ... (448 words)

Should I be worried about my boyfriend and his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Boyfriend and I started dating 2 weeks ago. Sometimes he brings up his ex (they broke up August 24th) which kind of bothers me. His ex blocked him on FB but added him yesterday. I can't really complain b.c my ex and I broke up a month before they broke up and are still FB ... (105 words)

Message from my ex has made me restless.....what should I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear people, I'm angel, currently 23 years old. I was in a relationship for almost 4 years during my engineering graduation. we had a very cute kind of a rapport, we were very good friends to start with as he was my batch mate and then fell in love with time. he is a very ... (703 words)

Should I tell my partner that everyone at work knows about our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have started a new relationship with an ex colleague. I told a few of my closest friends at work and asked them to keep it to themselves. One of them has spread the news all over the office. My new partner has mentioned coming back into work to see old colleagues. Should I ... (111 words)

Do I stay and live a perfect life with someone I don't love? Or do I risk having to struggle in life in order to have another chance at love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Years ago, as a child I began to develop feelings for a boy in my grandparents' home town. By the time I was 19 I fell in love with him and we secretly dated (my parents have always been very old fashioned and I never had a boyfriend so I was scared to tell them anything) when ... (874 words)

I feel like I am the only one without a boyfriend, husband or child!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone Im feeling very lonley at the moment, i seem to be the only one out of my group of friends that hasnt got a bf, married or has a child, and im begining to feel really down about this even my younger brother has gf and am jealous when they are togehter most of... (233 words)

Should I go and see my friend regardless of how his girlfriend feels about me? I don't want to cause any trouble!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My best guy friend "Aqim" just got out of the hospital and he's feeling very lonely and depressed. I bought him a few gifts but I hesitate to go and spend time with time and give him his gifts when his girlfriend hasn't. (She went away on a roadtrip). He is like a brother to ... (196 words)

Why did it hurt her self-esteem when I was not able to 'get off'? Is she just being silly or is this a deeper issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Why do girls feel insecure or why does it lower their self esteem when they can't get men off. Recently the last couple times I was sleeping with my gf I was not able to get off. This is because we came back late and I had a several alcoholic beverages. Regardless, the next ... (96 words)

I'm jealous of my new flatmate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm jealous of my new flatmate at university. We've been at university since saturday and already he has a girlfriend. He's so far spent all of this week doing nothing but drinking, going out and having sex. Meanwhile, nothing has really happened for me yet. I've been doing ... (143 words)

He was convicted for theft! Should I ask him about this or just stop replying to his texts altogether?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Found out my potential new boyfriend has a criminal conviction for theft!!. I met him online and have been chatting for over a month on the phone. We got to really like each other and planned to meet on Friday for the first time but I googled his name and the town where he ... (172 words)

Why don't my boyfriend's friends like me? And how can I make his birthday special?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend's friends do not like me and they always do something wrong .. if he comes to meet me ,they tell him to go out to some place . They do not want him to spend more time with me .. i dont understand why ? i want to do the same thing which they do . But i want a... (93 words)

Erections from behing happy, not from sex arousal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - This is something I'm not used to asking other males or females who have had relationships with males. Has anyone ever noticed or gotten erections from non-sexual happy thoughts, or just simply being happy? I used to think arousal only occurred during thoughts about s... (67 words)

Does he love me and want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i need to know whether i am mad! i have taken my boyfriend back twice but the second he came back to me, he was in love with this girl and yet he came crying to me and said he wanted to be with me, yet now he says he loves both of us but he wants me even though he doesnt ... (73 words)

Why do I always keep running back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - argh! basicly, ive liked this guy A LOT, for like 4 years, when i was in year 10 at school, (i was 14) the school did a production, and he was the backstage man doing light and sound, id seen him around school and thought he was gorgeous! and my friend one lunch time decided to ... (405 words)

I don't want to be with any man anymore, not short or long term, just never.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am reading all the posts here and get kind of jealous, that people go through all these strong emotions. I don't understand whats happening with me lately, but i don't want to be with any man anymore, not short or long term, just never. I am still a young attractive woman... (654 words)

Girlfriend too tight

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months now and she's a virgin, age 22. We try to have sex, but she's really sensitive "down there," much more so than any of my previous girlfriends. Even when she's really wet I can't get more than 1 finger in, which already causes ... (144 words)

Not sure how guy I'm dating is going to feel about my daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been talking too this guy for about 2 years and we have been dating and seeing each other regularly for about 8 months. I have a 2 year old daughter, who he has never meet and really wants too but im scared as im not sure kids is what he really wants and all his friends ... (103 words)

Does my internet date like me or not I'm confused!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - hi hope to get some advice as im confused about a guy i met on an internet dating site. we exchanged a few emails on the site and for 3 months have been chatting on the phone once a week, we finally met up and it was fantastic! he held my hand all night we exchanged a few ... (230 words)

Will my girlfriend get bored of having sex chats every day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - will i bore my girl for sex chatting with her each day? she likes it but am afraid i might bore her... (22 words)

He told me to go blow my brains out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with this guy for 2 years and we used to live close by eachother.I loved him so much but we started fighting all the time and he has a huge temper and anger problem so I moved away from him and also broke up. I also realized that our relationship wasnt moving foward at ... (381 words)

How do I prove it to my boyfriend that I'm not having an affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

22 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - im 15 years and my boyfrend is 20 years. i broke up with him some months before and we again joined. during that time i had another Bf . i didnt know how end the relationship with him .. When i wanted to break up with him my first Boyfriend didnt allow me to do so .. And no... (106 words)

Confused about my brother's feelings for me.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I told my brother that I'm in love with him 5 months ago. and that I wanted to make love with him. he get very angry and didn't even want to see me again. and we had no communication at all, till yesterday. he came in my room and we were talking. and than he kissed ... (236 words)

How can I make my cousin have sex with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2793 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years of age and my girl cousin is 15 and a want to have sex with her so badly but i dont know how to ask her, or what to do to make her have sex with me!! I have been trying so hard since 14-15 to have sex with her and i dont know if she wants to but damn is she HOT!! ... (200 words)

How do I break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a long distance relationship with a girl for well over a year now, and I think it's time that I break up with her. We are both Americans and first met 2 years ago while studying abroad in Germany for a semester. We are quite different people with very different ... (562 words)

How do I start talking to him to get this started? I'm not used to making the first move!

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A couple weeks ago my best guy friend went out to a bar with one of his friends from highschool who is pretty hot I suppose (we'll call him drew). At the bar drew had asked my friend if he had a chance with me. The news got back to me and I was pretty excited about it but im ... (154 words)

My cousin is in love with me but I don't have any feelings for him!

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - i am presently single. it so happen that one of my cousin has fall for me. he also proposed me but i refused him because i don't have any feelings for him. even though he continue running after me. he is always sending me text messages with ' i love you'. whenever i am at his ... (218 words)

I know he is cheating on me with another girl but I cant let go of him, especially after we lost our baby....

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22 September 2010 (F) age 36-40 - Hi im a 24 year old girl i met this guy in varsity, we were friends for a year and on our second year we started to have sex until i bcame pregnant. he told me he wanted nothing to do with the pregnancy but the child did not survive. he came back we did the same thing found out ... (124 words)

Online relationship strain

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello guys, i need advice with an online relationship and i would appreciate your opinions. I have been involved in an internet relationship with a girl for about a year, we met in a chat room and began talking as regular people but quickly realised that we liked each other... (615 words)

Is it important to find out why they broke up with their ex?

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I hate long distance relationships and i promised myself not to have one again.. this one was unexpected and i plan to move hours away to be with her with quitting my job in the process.. We've been talking for a year now and have met a few times. She has 2 children, 2 and ... (233 words)

If I stay over with him more often will it eventually lead to sex? He promised we would not have sex until marriage but I'm worried he wont be able to control himself!

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been staying over at my boyfriend's hostel room like every once a week. And each time he will rub his penis on my vagina although i am still wearing my panties. I would like to stay over with him more often but I am afraid if that continues... will it lead to sex even... (97 words)

Have I been fooled by him? Or am I taking this too seriously?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ahhhh, I feel decieved... and dissapointed in myself for letting it get to that. Was he a professional slimeball, or did he have feelings? I had known him for 4/5 years. Met on a night out, but we lived in different countries. I got a boyfriend anyway for 3/4 years, ... (454 words)

What to do in a sexless relationship?

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - ok here goes, me an my partner met 3 years ago she had just had a child and things worked perfect. as time went on we became closer an closer an the child even calls me dad as her real dad is not around. ok so basically we both have no real family so this restricts the one on ... (156 words)

My ex has taken away my self esteem and I feel disgusted with myself

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - This may be a bit long.I have been in a relationship with a guy for 3 years.We actually started by having a fun physical relationship while he was dating another chick (she obviously didn't know and she was the types that would only sleep with him after marriage but he wasn't ... (357 words)

He promised to marry me but now it isn't happening?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,i m jyoti.i have a physical relationship with my boy frnd.i want to marriage with him.he promised me for the marriage.but he do'nt.i m very disturbe.plz help me.... (28 words)

We are cousins married to others and cheating

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22 September 2010 (?) age 51-59 - dear cubid: in love with close cousin i have been in love with my close cousin ever since we were young. we are now married to different people and have children but we have failed to break up. unfortunately for whatever reasons, we are now enjoying each other more than eve... (65 words)

I love him but my parents are totally against him

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - i m 23 years old.i m bramhin girl.my boy freind neither belongs to my community nor to my caste.we both r from same profession.he is briliant nd s very gud boy.we hd a reltn of 1year.he s ready to acept me in any situation.my parents r compltely against of it.bt wn i think of ... (83 words)

I think my nipples are too big

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so I have a pretty embarrassing question. I have fairly small breasts, barely a B cup but my nipples are pretty large and dark. They haven't been too much of a concern to me in the past but I now have a boyfriend that I would like to start getting intimate with and I'm ... (107 words)

Isn't that what college is for? To experiment and have fun?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and this is my second year in college but my first year AWAY at school. I'm really starting to enjoy it, but I'm kind of worried of how I'm putting myself out there. I've been here for about 5 weeks now and have had sex with two guys already. It was both protected but ... (79 words)

If he wants to end it, why can't he tell me?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, I have been dating these guy for 8 months now and he has even expressed interest that he would want to marry me and asked to see my parents. Last month, no quarrels or anything, he just stopped picking my calls or returning them and even messages too. I went to ... (185 words)

I had a bad experience with a sex-worker. What should I do now?

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - It is very important that I remain anonymous for this question. I had a bad experience with a sex-worker once (some might say I got what I deserved) and I doubt that I want to have sex ever again because of this. I was feeling vulnerable and I'd had too much to drink, and I ... (264 words)

My b/f doesn't like it that I added someone to my friends list--should I not do that?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Facebook related question. So me and my bf made a new friend last month but my bf met him the day b4 and i met him the day after. i only have ppl that i know or rememeber on my list and dont add new people if i dont know who they are. this new friend added my bf first a f... (260 words)

Only 3 more weeks to win her back, what should I do?

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I'm going to leave out a lot of detail here because I don't want it to distract from the main issue. I have 3 more weeks to win this woman back, I originally put her off because she saw me as being needy when I really wasn't. (I mentioned joining a load of clubs that sh... (249 words)

Changes after giving birth.......

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hey there agony aunts.im a bit shy asking this but i realy want to know.my vagina lips got smaller after i gave birth and it was by ceasar so im surprised.can contractions make vagina lips smaller?i was in labour for 8 days before i got her.has this happned to anyone before?... (51 words)

Why did my best guy friend push me way, what did I do?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well lets call him (A) well me and A have been friends since the beginning of 8th grade and the last day of 8th grade we were friends. actually we were in class together listening to music together and everything you know just the best of friends and we talked over the summer ... (215 words)

Id rather live this fake life than know no love even fake love. what do I do

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - im lost i am young married two kids and lost i dont know what to do all of my friends have left because of my jealous husband i had so many but now i have two and we are not even that close i had a best friend but she just tucked tail and ran because i let her live here and ... (225 words)

I'm scared to put myself out there because of my height!

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Well anyways im 6 foot 11 and 19 years old around 180-190 pounds to be honest quite skinny. ive only had around 4 girlfriends and im scared to put myself out there mainly because of my height. any suggestions or comments would be appreciated on what i should do or what ever? i ... (83 words)

Difference in being friendly? and being interested?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I tell if someone is interested? I get the random texts asking how im doing and how my day is going from time to time, i recently got invited to a sporting event with some of his friends and had a great time. And he seems interested in hanging out in the future as well. ... (77 words)

Why is my husband so secretive?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,my name is amrita.I am married for 6 months and i am now pregnant,but when i ask my husband questions,like whats his monthly payment or whats his password for yahoo he dont wanna tell me these thing.I gave him my password to my yahoo cause i love him and i dint want him to ... (68 words)

Not seeing each other enough...busy schedules

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf and i met in college, did the long distance thing for almost 2 yrs, broke up, got back together, broke up agian and are now back together for a yr and going strong. talking moving in together, marriage and all the long term things. however, i just started working as an ... (136 words)

I don't know how I could live without him but everything just feels like a lie.

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a horrible person. I cheated on my husband who is a wonderful man whilst he was away working. I was out of control and do not know who the person is that I became over the past 6 weeks. I had been drinking a lot and met someone, there was no sex however there was ... (208 words)

Are we friends or something more?

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22 September 2010 (F) age 36-40 - So my friend I reconnected after so many years, we went out in high school for like a month, purely innocent. So now, we have gone out to the movies and dinner twice he has treated and he is such a gentleman. But, we text like 24/7 and tells me that he doesn’t text much, but ... (219 words)

My 1st cousin and I want to be together. How do we tell the family?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 26 years old with 2 children from previous abusive and abandoning relationships. I have recently got back in touch with my 1st cousin. Someone I use to be very close to. We loved each other and cared so much for each other during our younger days. We have discussed it and ... (173 words)

I don't understand where the relationship is going?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy about a year ago we hit things off really well he was a bit rude at times to me it was just a casual thing and then i started falling for him so I asked him the question is this going anywhere? he didnt reply could not give me an answer so i left it at that. Then ... (218 words)

My ex took my kids out of my life

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - i m very depressed my ex husband took my kids out of my life he still wont let me go on with my life he loves to fight with me i m remarried i been married for 12 years i l love my husband but he will not let me go on with life im really un happy right now myex will not let ... (110 words)

He doesn't like my annoying habit and doesn't think we can go further because of it

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Okay I'll try to keep this short as it's nearly 5am here and I need some sleep. So I'm currently seeing this guy and it's really only the 2nd time that we have met physically prior to this we met online and then we e-mailed then we talked on the phone then we webc... (925 words)

I'm worried about our future since our communication seems to be a little off. Am I right to worry?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey Dear Cupid, My concern is about the communication between my fiance and I. We seem to have our differences and not understand each other or see each other eye to eye at times. And our communication is off balance. I feel our minor differences now which make us become a... (304 words)

Can things work out if neither person is sexually dominant?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - If two sexualy submissive people wish to start a relationship... how would that go...?... would things work out ok with out one or the other being dominant?... (27 words)

I don't want to call him 1st but feel he should call me

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I met someone online and we met briefly for a quick introduction to each other. During that time we expressed interest into seeing each other again. At the end of our conversation he asked me if I was going to call him later in the evening. I replied by saying: "oh I'm supp... (137 words)

My online guy now wants to meet, I agreed but now having doubts

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - So after breaking up with my ex, i created an online profile on plenty of fish because I was lonely and it a stupid thing to do thinking back. I mean, if I was in my right mind, i never would have. But yeah, a lot of the messages I got were from freaks so i stopped signing ... (213 words)

Why I like older girls than me? am I normal?

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, Would you plz help me that what the hell happen to me? I dont know why but i like be with old woman. when i have sex with same age or younger girls, i am not feeling satisfy. but when i have sex with old women i am feeling very very satisfaction. Last 2 year i have par... (176 words)

WMW Threesomes

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - [MOD NOTE:OP'S OWN TITLE] I can't be the only one...right? My and my husband are looking for a girlfriend to spoil, and enjoy all together. Am I too open-minded??... (30 words)

I really like him, how can I find out if he is gay?

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this one guy but I am not sure he is gay? Can anyone give me good advice on what to look for?... (25 words)

How do I be the best dad that I can from prison?

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Last May I got arrested for GBH - serious assault. I already had a 2 year suspended sentence for something similar and go back to court next week to be sentenced so know I will be getting 2 years anyway. My girlfriend has stuck by me through this although i didn't think she ... (275 words)

I hate my mom's family! Am I a bad person?

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22 September 2010 (?) age 26-29 - Hi, I have more of a health question than a love question but it does pertain to my relationship. Agony Aunts please help! I'm a young woman who's been having periods for almost three years and they've been so irregular lately, with terrible cramps two or three days before h... (1483 words)

In love for years... is my timing off?

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - [Mod Note: OP's Original Title] I am not sure what to do... Since I was young (11-12) I have felt a strong connection to my cousin (distant cousin), who is eight years older than me. She was in college when I first met her when she came over to our house for a holiday dinner. ... (713 words)

I need my girlfriend to grow up!

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm with this girl, and I don't say girl because she's a child, but because she's immature. We have a child together. Even before the child she was immature. We also JUST moved into an apartment together. We've been together for about 2 years as well. Now that the bas... (340 words)

Am I wrong to want to leave?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I just got back with my bf a month ago,were out on the town,I lay my phone down to go to the bathroom and he reads a txt! It was the ending of a txt from a guy I had been dating before me and my ex got back together! My bf gets mad starts a huge fight,he snatches me to the ... (106 words)

I proposed but she broke up with me!

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - i had a relationship with girl,I have loved her more than any one can imagine,the greatness of that love has suffered me even i was with her, it was a love out of control,i can not really descirbe how it has been.I told my parents about fiancing her,i was blind becz of her ... (479 words)

How do you decide you must seperate?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - [Mod Note: OP's Original Title] I'm a confused woman married for 15 years with 3 teenagers. I don't know which I feel for the most about my husband hate or love. He's an alcoholic (not a violent type) and I'm tired of being second to his alcohol. I'm also tired of the example ... (214 words)

Help! I think he gave up on us too easily!

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, my bf broke up with me recently, but I don't think he made the right choice. Here's the thing, he's been selling a lot of his stuff, trying to find a new job, and new apartment, has been cutting off connections with old friends, etc. To me, it seems like he's going through ... (146 words)

My boyfriend's ashamed of me!

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a gay guy and have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months ago. I am out to friends and family, and my boyfriend isn't. I am really falling for this guy and he has met my friends and family, but I am finding it really hard because he is not out and therefore I ... (164 words)

Why does he always have his bags packed?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - why does my boyfriend always have his bags packed? and when I asked he says thought you might need your space! or maybe i you don't want me here. Then he comes back in and say's "if I'm not welcome her I would like to know instead of you avoiding me." and "but I know I'm welc... (77 words)

Should I dump my boyfriend for this guy?

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - well i have this boyfriend and we just started going out.. and he is a good looking guy.. but at my job i have this fine ass dude that works there and he wanna take me out to lunch but i know how i am i would do something that might hurt my boyfriend... what should i do... ... (83 words)

She's lying.. right?

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I met this girl who's 16 she claimed she has had sex with 7 girls, but I can fit 3 fingers in her and 4 which she says hurts so I don't bother. To me this sounds like she's lying as everybody lies about how many people they sleep with. ... (51 words)

Recent breakup

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22 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend recently dumped me and I thought we were doing really well because she never said anything and we were very happy, but all of a sudden our relationship was over. And I just found out that she broke up with me because she wanted to date another guy! This really ... (73 words)

Husband doesn't like the looks of me. We have sex and then he watches porn!

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband watched porn after we had sex the other night. before we had our son we i always used to ask him sometimes argue about the fact that we dont get intimate.he would say so what big deal if i watched porn all men do it. i have always initiated everything. he never has. ... (381 words)

Troubled relationship and now she won't see you!

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - You're a 34yr old guy and you've been seeing a soon-to-be 19yr old for 7 months. She's only met three of your friends (who were from out of town and spoke no english) and that was months ago, she understands when you tell them you're her tutor. You spend a lot of time with her, ... (190 words)

Mixed signals from ex!

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22 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep getting mixed signals from my ex-boyfriend. There are some days in a row where we are acting like we did when we were dating and then one day he will give me the cold shoulder. We have talked about getting back together. He said that he wants to, but he is unsure if we ... (113 words)