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writes:Facebook related question.So me and my bf made a new friend last month but my bf met him the day b4 and i met him the day after. i only have ppl that i know or rememeber on my list and dont add new people if i dont know who they are.this new friend added my bf first a few weeks back i wasnt bothered. then a few weeks later i got the friend request but i didnt rememeber his name until i saw his pic. so i added him.now my bf asked why i added him if i dont even know him or only met him one time and my bf gave me attitude and cut the call!he gets ppl adding him and they only met once and he accepts. people dont really add me. but my bf knows i dont accept random requests.should i delete this new friend coz it seems like my bf is not liking it but i did nuthing wrong. i had a good conversation with the friend when i first met him but now my bf is being cold coz i usually dont add ppl and this friend i did only because i did talk with him and do rememeber him but forgot his name and my bf doesnt get it.did i do sumthing wrong or should i not ever accept ppl that we meet together or ppl that were friends with him first? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): You're silly when asking yourself should you delete that friend. I myself think even we're in a relationship, having opposite sex friends is nothing wrong if we know the boundary. On the other hand, lover, family and friends are all important in life. Plus if he trusts in you, he should not forbid you making friends. And so a true relationship needs trust. Finally me thinks you should have a talk with your boyfriend, share more what you both think because that's how a relationship works.
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