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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I will not compete with her 'relationship expert' sister!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My girkfriend moved out 3 weeks ago. We were in the process to see if we could work things out, everything was going smoothly even last night she said she loved me and would talk to me tommorrow. Her sister was over this morning and must have gave her some bad advice. Now she ... (101 words)

Why do I love someone who treats me so badly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i got myself into a relationship when i was 17, i am now 20 and im still not over this. It is only the last month i ended it for good.it has been a rollicoaster of emotions from day one. the boy i fell for was not your average guy. He was known to be the cocky, arrogant class ... (212 words)

I've fallen for a guy who's in a 6 year relationship... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i am 21 years old and i am really attracted to this guy, but he has a girlfreind.. i know all of you would be like forget him, he is committed i agree and i have tried not liking him but i cant.. i am drawn to him every time i pull back.. this guy lets call him kyle.. so ... (199 words)

Needy dad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I live with my father and I'm beginning to see how needy he has become. I go to college and he's been a great help to me right now. I don't have to pay rent, he bought me a car, a new phone, pays for food, bus fair, etc. He really is great in that aspect. He's als... (186 words)

I'm in love with my best female friend's daughter, Help?

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Help! I am falling in love with my best friends 23yr old daughter. My best friend is female. Her daughter and I are really close. I am WAY older than her daughter, but I am falling in love with her. We sometimes hold hands or put our arms around eachother. She puts her ... (134 words)

How can I choose?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - When two boys wish for you to be their girlfriend how does one choose?... (14 words)

Am I being naive, or does he really feel the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I need to know the opinion of someone who doesn't know me or anything about the people involved in this situation. So I'm going to explain this entire thing from the beginning. This summer I met a guy who was so different from any guy I'd ever met. He was unique, sweet and ... (358 words)

How can I stop feeling like this, when I see him often?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. I posted on here a while ago about the fact that I've completely and utterly fallen for my best friend, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-really-dont-understand-what-he-is-thinking.html. Anyway he doesn't feel the same way which is hard to deal with but obviously I ... (228 words)

Can someone advise me on how to do it right please?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I got this beautiful girls phone number friday night at a club. I called her saturday evening but she didnt answer, I would have left a message but her voice mail isn't set up. When should I call her again? and should I text or call? ... (46 words)

Whats does this guy mean, what sort of fun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy i know, who has a gf i might add, text me and my friend the same night, something like "we should meet up soon ;)" my friend called me the next morning and told me he'd text her and i told her he'd text me too. I never replied but she did she said "you have a gf and i ... (79 words)

She takes advantage of me, but I can't let her go. help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - im sorry for the bad grammar but im kind of in a hurry to get this posted and im sorry its long but its kind of a story and if u do end up reading all of it and try to help me i would really appreciate it i really need some advice because im struggling alot with this proble... (422 words)

My mate orchestrated our breakup to get with my man. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Please forgive me if this is long winded, but i'll try to cut it down as much as I can. (not used their real names, but its easier to understand) My friend Nikki (not anymore) told me last week, that she wanted to be with Dave, who i was seeing, She had actually introduc... (1365 words)

I wish I was with her please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - MOD NOTE: OP's own title. Hi I've got a not really a problem but just a spot of bother on my mind the thing is I've started college for my second year and over the summer I had these developing feelings for a girl and as soon as I accepted them I told her but this isn't the prob... (215 words)

Will her vagina always be blown out?

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife was married to a man who stuck dildos in her for many years. I'm not small, but I don't compare to some of the objects that are out there. So, I'm wondering if all those years of having large objects inserted in her has made her vagina too large for me? Does a vagina ... (62 words)

What is this guy playing at???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - hey guys, im 15 years old and VERY confused. There's this guy, lets call him bob. He's the kind of guy who likes to always have a girl there to hug and kiss, he dates, but he usually just likes to go around and make out with girls. well i text him sometimes and so... (328 words)

He's not that into me! Really?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I'm new here and stumbled on this site while surfing the net for answers. I really hope you guys will give me good advice. I've stopped dating about 3 years ago (fyi and btw, I'm 30). Boyfriends are overrated... don't you think? Anyway, after 3 years of dildos and occas... (340 words)

I lied... should I tell him the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm fourteen and me and my boyffriend's relationship is getting serious. The other day he asked me if I've ever had sex and I lied and said no, should I tell him the truth? ... (35 words)

Grandma dilemma!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I have a big problem. My mom is going out with friends on saturday. And I have to go to my grandmas all night. Earlier on Saturday I am going to hang out with my dad then he drops me off at my grandma's house. But the problem is that my grandma HATES my dad. She ... (127 words)

Does this "straight" guy like me?

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - Well here's the dilemma, im a bi male who has never been with a guy before... to make a long story short I have a straight guy friend that I think wants me but claims to be straight. When we are together its like we are a couple or something, he treats me like his gf but i dont ... (174 words)

I feel like I'm missing out on things!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a long-term relationship (5 years) with a guy fourteen years older than me. We started dating when I was 16. I love him so much and he loves me. But I have been feeling lost lately - like I don't know who I am or what I want to do with my life. I feel like I've ... (283 words)

We both kissed different people!

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this guy (both 19) been seeing each other for 8 months(we not together tho and he isnt a slag) we get on so well and really like each other but dont see each other very often as we would like we live 30 mins apart but he drives and we always meet in town which is ha... (168 words)

I'm 24, she's 16. Is it okay to have sex with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a quandary, I have met a girl via the internet, to have a sexual relationship with her. Originally she said she was 18, it turns out she is only 16, she had sex with an older guy ( i'm 25) and older female. I have never had sex. She wants sex but i'm not sure, it right? ... (61 words)

I kept breaking up with him, and now I've lost him for good!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been having relationship problems. I keep screwing up, him and my best friend used to date but it only lasted a week. and now they cant stand each other/hate each other. My boyfriend used to be a loner. didnt go out much, didnt go out anywhere unless it ... (393 words)

How do I tell my girlfriend that I want sex with men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, this is going to be a little awkward. Currently I'm going out with a girl a year or so younger than me- the first girl I've dated- and have been for nearly a year now. We sleep together regularly and enjoy it, but somehow I don't think I'm satisfied with sex between two ... (213 words)

Will I always have to tolerate porn?

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19 September 2010 (F) age 36-40 - I hate porn, will I always have to tolerate it being in a relationship? I mean, I only had one boyfriend, and we had sex, a lot. Of course, it bothered me he looked at other women naked. I didn't look at other men naked, because I knew it made him feel bad, but apparently his ... (927 words)

My husband has become impotant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5169 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) age - I want to see ,if there are other woman is in my situation,and I really need help, for acceptance of my husband. He has a chronic erectile dysfunction ,what started years ago. But the doctors didn't find anything wrong with him, and they have no clue ,what is this problem.... (174 words)

I want to have sex with my cousin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5170 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - well i dont know what to do im 14 and my cuzin is 15 and well we want to have sex when we txt thats all we talk about and plus we have send each others pic of use naked what do i do do i do it with him or what he dosent have a gurl friend and well i dont have a boyfriend yet ... (70 words)

I don't want my boyfriend to touch me or see me naked!

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't want my boyfriend to see me naked! He keeps telling me that I'm beautiful and that he'd love to see my body but I'm really self conscious cause I was made fun of for my body and looks for 3 years. I was depressed and anorexic and bulimic and I cut myself. I don't do any ... (212 words)

How can I get over this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy I've liked for 2 years. We see eachother every year at least around the same time. He has a girlfriend and is quite unavailable. Every year, I talk myself out of liking him and when I see him again i want to be with him. How do I get over this guy?! I really try ... (80 words)

Can a "dog" ever change?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i've been told by people that a guy i know is a "dog" etc... i think i know what that means, do guys who are "dogs" ever change? Would they still act like a "dog" even if they have a girlfriend?... (42 words)

Holiday romance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy on holiday and we had a holiday romance. We kept in touch for a couple of months. I wasn't naive, and I knew that barmen like him chase lots of girls, and I was just another on his list. I liked him a lot, but I didn't expect him to keep in touch the way he did. ... (221 words)

Husband won't give me any money!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey my husband say we got to save money but we have money and he don't give me none at all what should i do ... (48 words)

Hello..goodbye..should I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. We were in love but lately has been arguing with me. the arguiment been going on for a long time but I always try to take it easy because I wasn't planing to fight with him. He came to me and saw me cause we are long ... (133 words)

Should I keep supporting my ex girlfriend, and is it irrelevant that she is seeing someone new?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - I dated a woman for about a year, she is a single mother of two, and I am a single father of two. From early on, I fell madly in love with all three of them. She was struggling to get by when we first met, because she is a single parent, but also becuase she gets stressed out ... (466 words)

Girlfriend interested in someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend we met online and in the beginning our love grew quite a bit but lately she's been getting distanced and pushing herself away from me. How can you tell if she's interested in someone else and what would be the best way to ... (55 words)

Do you heal after anal sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - After anal sex if you noticed your butt whole is stretched can it heal back down to its original size please help I am freaking out here!... (27 words)

I'm 14, is my penis going to change?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, i am a 14 year old male and i want to know if my penis going to change. first of, it crooks a bit on the left. how can i fix this, i just want it to be straight, also my foreskin is too big? i don't know it just dont show my "head" i see only the skin and a bit the ... (122 words)

I don't know if his interest in me is just sexual

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - After months of chatting online expressing our sexual chemistry with each other, this guy and I met up. Our desires for each other were very strong but I didn't let anything happen. He didn't force it either which I'm glad because I don't know how much resisting I could've ... (312 words)

The guy in my science class

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Does He Like Me? Ok so there's this guy in my science class. *he stares at me *he trys to make me smile when I am bored(which makes me smile) *he always waves to me in class *stares at me during lunch does he like me? Be honest. Thanks :)... (64 words)

I do everything now with man I have cheated with because I'm afraid!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my hubby dnt have the best marriage. I have been married for at least 7 yrs. I decided to find a friend that was much older b/c I thought that wld make my days easier. I thought if he was at least 30 yrs older (which he is), I wld b ok. My friend is just a friend. ... (267 words)

My interracial relationship does not go over well with my parents!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - the guy i love is black and i am white and my parents are completely against it.not only that he just had a baby girl by his exgirlriend.i love him with all my heart.its just hard dealing with everything.what should i do??... (42 words)

No longer in love with me, can I hang out with her as friends to change her mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated a girl who loved me more than I loved her for two and a half years. We broke up because she was hurt by this, and afterward I realized how much she meant to me. She shut herself off from me and says she is no longer in love with me. She says I wasted her time. My ... (101 words)

Married 12 years and semi unhappy, please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I've been married for 12 years to man I truelly love, but feel so uncared for. I have expressed my need for some attention, but things never change. He was never very good at verbally expressing his affection for me, but it showed in physical affection. The past 5 years ... (315 words)

He says we are just friends but friends don't do these kinds of things!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, a guy friend of mine who i don't really see much as he lives a few hours away, has, for the past few months been flirting with me. He has a gf whom he's been with for about 10 months, i know guys flirt, but he's asked me to send him pics of myself and talking about sex ... (90 words)

My wife accuses me of not in love with her anymore and needs a divorce

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I have been married for 8 years now. We did a church wedding and my wife was a virgin then. We had agreed for one kid only but over time she has cheated me and now we have 3 kids. This is one of our constant conflicts. Secondly is that she is never neat right from the... (244 words)

Will I find an honest man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age - I am 56 and thinking about getting a divorce, is it hard to find and honest man?... (17 words)

How do I show her I care and I understand her?

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - hey.. Ive been in a relationship for just over a year with an amazing girl that i love so much but everything has just gone mad and she's blaming it all on me and she's never happy with me anymore. I dont know what to do, she says i dont care or understand her but i doo, how... (69 words)

Do guys mind if their girlfriends talk to their friends about the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, do guys mind if girls talk to their friends about what's happening in the relationship? Like, I'm dating a guy, and am really excited about it, so have been talking to a friend about it, but he found out about it today (sent him an email meant for her by mistake, didn't ... (106 words)

Every time I see her walking around it kills me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5149 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is a tough one. I met this girl at uni about a year ago, within the first few days of getting to know her I really liked her. We grew closer and closer friends, untill almost every moment awake I would spend with her. All our other friends were convinced we were in ... (290 words)

Is this just his way of finishing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age - About 5 weeks ago I received a message from my partners saying that he had to deal with major issues in his life and since then I barely hear from him. He says he needs his space to sort these things out. He tells me that the relationship is not over but at the same time he ... (143 words)

My ex is mad because I told his girlfriend the truth

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and i have been talking hanging out and trying to get back together again. We met up one night even though we hadnt talked for a year and started kissing and walking on the beach after that he said he was going to break up with his girlfriend but he wanted to... (606 words)

I believe he's keeping me till something better comes along

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I really need some unbiased advice. sorry, its complicated! I have been with my bf for over 3 years now, living together for most of it. we began to clash about his mother (who has criticised my appearance a lot) and the way his 5 year old girl treated me at weekends and ... (1090 words)

I feel awful for cheating but cant stop thinking about this other guy. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost one and a half years. I love him but hes needy and doesnt have many friends and no family so im the only one hes got. Hes very jealous and quite possessive but im very independant and have my own life. I have not let him control that ... (230 words)

On the pill and I keep getting thrush!

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been on the pill for 2months and i keep getting thrush now. a was just on it because of i had really heavy periods i havent had sex in about 6weeks and my periods have been normal should i stop being on the pill? or should i go to the doctors and see if they could give ... (65 words)

I never thought I would be the other woman!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok. Im lost. I need help here. I have tried to get around this on my own and just seem to be shooting myself in the foot every time I try. I never thought I would be the other woman. And I never once thought I would be attached enough to someone to be agonizing over s... (745 words)

I've only got myself to blame!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5162 days ago

19 September 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I have been in a LDR, me in Scotland whilst he is in the South and a while back I was having doubts about my boyfriend and about how I felt for him, I didn't think I felt the same. Also I was feeling rather unsettled in myself too and that probably contributed towards me not ... (510 words)

LDR--I'm worried I may fall into depression

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age - Hi, I met this wonderful woman on a russian dating site,we met this summer and I totally fell in love with her and she with me,but the missing we feel when we are apart now is unbearable at times,often I not feel good...and cannot concentrate at work or anywhere else. S... (172 words)

15 year old guy and 27 year old man, what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I have a really bad problem. I'm a 15 almost 16 year old guy and I'm in love with another 27 year old guy. I met him when I was on holiday and we became really good friends but on my last day he just kissed me and I never thought I was gay before but now I'm really c... (284 words)

Could this mean he wants to date me?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone and thanks for reading this. I have a question. i am studying at college as mature student and for the last two years had a teacher who has always been very helpful and supportive. now i do not have him anymore as his subject is not in my semesters from now ... (116 words)

On the pill and feeling sick alot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I started using the contraceptive pill for the first time last month. I was taking them for 10 days (So my body could get used to them) before having sex with my boyfriend - he used a condom but didn't ejaculate. My problem is that, since then, my breasts have been really sore ... (118 words)

Realising my ex is the one for me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I recently broken up within the past week. She thought that our relationship, being a long distance relationship, and her being older then me by nine years had no future. She also believed that we both lived two very different lives in order for either of us ... (99 words)

It makes me angry that I can get past my fears to have sex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunties... My girlfriend of a solid (And might I say AMAZING) 3 months and myself are talking about sex every day she comes over. Now, being a 17 year old male, my body wants me to have sex, a lot of sex... But I (as a person) dont. The reason I feel this way is because... (250 words)

Will this ever work between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a while now. We met at college and he has been lovely to me all this time, but I have been finding it hard to trust him as he is best friends with a guy that had lied and used me in the past. I met up with him a few days ago and he left himself ... (307 words)

In love with a European!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have known this woman for 6 months now. I first met her at a work event where all the sub offices around europe came to the UK to provide us all with an opportunity to meet with our colleagues around Europe that we liaise with at work daily. I was introduced t... (505 words)

Having trouble going below his belt line!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 weeks and I really do love him and he loves me too and he tells me all the time. We are both virgins and havent gone very far and I want to be able to please him sexually so we talked about me giving him a handjob and i feel like i ... (90 words)

Pain in stomach after pleasuring???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm abit embarrassed to ask my friends this question because it is a bit personal so i have decided to ask you lot. Well i am in a wierd relationship with someone and been feeling very horny over him. Due to this i have been pleasuring myself a lot more than normal and ... (116 words)

Too tight for sex for be pleasurable for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay.. im 20 years old and have just goten into my first relationship with a 24 year old guy, whom i love completely. The problem is that he goes soft when we having sex and he says its because i get too tight and it gets too 'painful' for him to continue sometimes... but is ... (248 words)

My head is going round in circles as I don't know whether he likes or doesn't like me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - ok guys at cupid How can u actually tell if a guy likes u ??? I really like this guy but 2 scared to say anything just incase he doesnt like me and i feel like a twat saying it 2 him i have slept with him before, then he ended up getting a gf after we slept together... (309 words)

Since our break up I feel so alone. I know he still loves me so how can we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5176 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a mess, me and my ex were together nearly two years, were engaged ready to move in together, had found a flat but about 4 weeks ago he ended it. We had been arguing for a while over small petty things but as we are both stubborn the rows would go on for longer than ... (365 words)

So afraid my feelings for this man are obsessive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Long story. I have been with my bf for 11 years now. We have 2 children, beautiful and healthy, lights of my life. Our relationship has never been ideal, I have my flaws, and he has his. But in the past 3 years things have happened that have little by little amounted to me... (356 words)

I don't think this woman is as innocent as my b/f thinks she is!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

19 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - I hope you guys can help me, i'm drowning in my own am i paranoid question.. I met a colleague (A) from a different country 5 years ago. We had this connection and both of us felt it as we discovered 2 years ago when we met again. Anyway i told him that i'm currently separate... (427 words)

My girlfriend and alcohol is a bad combination!

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I got a little problem over here... I'm since 1 month together with my girlfriend now. Everything is just fine with her; she is the best thing that happened in my life (you know what I mean right? :) ). But as soon alcohol comes into the mixture, everyth... (266 words)

I've fallen in love with my brother's wife

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I am totally confused right now. My brother and I have always been great friends, but I seem to have fallen in love with his wife. All three of us have been good friends for more than 7 years now and I have always liked her a lot, both as a friend as a potential lover. She and ... (208 words)

I want to keep my friends but don't agree with their lifestyle

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My friends- girls and guys- love to party but I think it can really waste time because I have goals and I want to make sure I am spending my time on those, doing my homework, exercising, eating right, and sleeping. What do I do? I want to keep my friends?... (56 words)

Mom breaking into our phone conversation made things weird with me and ex

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19 September 2010 (F) - i was talking to an ex on the phone who i am trying to get back with. I have no privacy at home and i am in my mid twenties so you can imagine how horrible that is. My mother must have known i was on the phone and knocks and i knock back giving a hint that i am busy right no... (383 words)

I've never had sex with anyone but my ex

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a little embarrased by this but I don't know if I should be. Let's start off like this: I am a 25 year old, single mother of two beautiful kids. I was married for 6 years to my kids' dad. I have been single for almost two whole years and have yet to seriously date. I've ... (196 words)

Did I make a mistake with this conversation with my ex?

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19 September 2010 (F) - my ex and i have been talking on and off for a year..he knows i want to get back and i think eventually we might actually see each other..i called over a week ago and asked if he wanted to talk more often and maybe get together soon and he said he had no problem with that..he ... (832 words)

I'm Clueless When It Comes To This...

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a senior and I met this new guy on the first day of school. We've been flirting back and worth now for two weeks and I really like him. I only get to see him 5 minutes a day except wednesday because we are in a voulenteer class and our locations are different. I want to ... (137 words)

How do I convince my girlfriend to go topless?

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - my girl frnd is a shy type. how can i convince her to get nude or topless or even braless in front of me. she is indian and u know that most of the indian girls fear to expose and a little conservative type. please suggest how to convince her. she has a great figure with all... (64 words)

Pictures found in her computer tell a different story than her story!

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with my Girlfriend Nancy for over a year.She wanted a deep relationship and pure love. Things were going fine, with no problems. I have asked her to go out for a trip outside of hometown and that I will pay for all the expenses, and she came to me that she cannot g... (493 words)

I do not like him like that! Now what do I do?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry, this might be a little long but I need help! So there's this guy that does marching band with me and has made it quite clear he's interested in me. The other night on the way home from a competition I sat next to him. The section that we were in decided to play ... (266 words)

Was I a bitch to abandon him or was I right to end the friendship?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - I was with my ex for 2 years and when we broke up we agreed to remain friends. I went back to school and while I was in school we kept in touch by phone or through MSN. He drove me crazy.....he made a fake account on a dating site i was on to check on me, he got his brother to ... (555 words)

I am surrounded by ex's and liars

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so this situation is a little complicated but I really need help. I am in love with my ex lets call him Austin. My best friend who is also an ex of mine and one of Austins friends told me he is trying to hook me and Austin back up lets call him John. He knows I am still in ... (268 words)

Is he in love with me?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I need help!!!! I have been in a relationship with someone I thought I could spend the rest of my life with, however I dont beleive he is interested in me anymore:( Over the last 2 years it is very rarely that we are intimate. I understand that sex doesnt make a relation... (99 words)

Facebook hints please

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - facebook hints if a married woman's page on facebook ( i got to know the page by chance) didnt show her full name or a particular picture of her and the most important didnt show her martial status meanwhile in the interest she mentioned that she in interrested i... (108 words)

My world crumbled when I heard about his former lover

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, I have been married for the last 4 years and am having a child aged 2 years recently i had a talk with my husband and came to know that he was having an affair before marriage and he also had sex with her on listening to this my world came to a standstill the p... (127 words)

True love, puppy love or lust?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I love him. I always think about him, I'm always wanting to be with him. When we're together, I feel like nothing in the world could go wrong. When I see him, I have this feeling in my heart, I get butterflies in my stomach and I just want to go to him. I want to be in... (129 words)

He truly believes he did nothing wrong talking to old g/fs on FB

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19 September 2010 (F)

age - I have been married for 18 years not all good but there has always been love and respect. We were partners in life. About a year and a half ago my husband went onto facebook and found an "old friend" they emailed and spoke on the phone for at least a month before my husband ... (578 words)

Why is this guy not texting me back?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a fab guy while on Spring Break with friends. The guy and his friends were cool, not sleazy and wanted to do daytime stuff with us like lunch, coffee etc. In fact my friend is dating his friend and its going really well. It really felt like me and this guy gelled on so... (216 words)

Why is she such a hot and cold friend?

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19 September 2010 (?) age 41-50 - I had a best friend for almost 8 years. We did everything together and were friends since high school and college. She then started to change a lot and we seemed to drift apart. It seemed she would purposely disagree with me about every thing I said, picking arguments with me ... (285 words)

He broke up with me, promised to get back together, but I'm worried..

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend had been going out with each other for atleast 2 weeks and a half. When, he brought up the question "Should we break up?" I was shocked he would ask that. I was hurt and was about to break down in tears. He told me, he was only doing it to get the family ... (360 words)

Freshman wants to go out with middle schooler?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Would it be okay if a freshman maybe went out with an 8th grader? Cause I'm a freshman and I really kind of like this 8th grader I do community theatre with. Idk if I should, cause I'm not sure if it'll work out.... (44 words)

Ever since he broke up with me I've been more depressed than I ever was before I met him

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello aunts. I'm in a situation that I can't seem to escape and let go. I'm 17 and I was in a gay relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years. Our relationship was perfect, we were there for each other, we did everything with each other, I thought we were soul mates. Even ... (246 words)

I want to allow my boyfriend a three way but want to hear feedback on how it will affect the relationship

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 51-59 - Sex with my boyfriend has been lackluster. I love him deeply and would never cheat or leave him. I think he feels the same way about me but the sex is not the reason we are together. We both agree that our bond is deeper. The reason I'm writing is because I've begun to ... (201 words)

How to get over my bff obsessing over her first boyfriend!!!

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, I am 13 years old. My best friend has her first boyfriend and I am really happy for her, but she doesn't stop talking about him!!! He is in like every conversation we have. I get that she is happy and everything but it makes me feel bad because I don't have a ... (127 words)

My fiance wants me to meet her ex, and I see it as a recipe for disaster

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19 September 2010 (M)

age - My fiancee has stayed friends with an ex lover. He lives in another state. He contacts her every now and then. She has told me how their relationship quickly morphed from lovers to friends and the lovers part was just a mistake. She insists that they have this "connection" ... (191 words)

He's clingy and angry -- should I just end it?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend lives in Pennsylvania, while I live a state over. We have been dating for 3 months. We have yet to met and he expects me to call him every single day and when I don't, he yells at me for not calling him. Not only that but he over reacts to EVERYTHING!!!!!!! And not ... (173 words)

Could this scatterbrain move have offended him?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - I've done something stupid! Been asked on a date by a lovely guy from work. He's organised it, told me it'll be outside, hands on, and a new experience. Asked him for another clue, and he said "you'll have to take responsibility for a situation". I sent my friend a text ... (128 words)

I fantasized about my straight boyfriend being with a MAN.

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello all, thanks in advance for reading this. Me and my boyfriend have been in this relationship for a long time and it's been great. Our sex life is full of fantasies and excitement. He is very open minded, just like me and we always try new things. Anal included, even fet... (250 words)

It bothers him if I hang out with my friends, but he hangs with his

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately i have been feeling like i am more "Go with the flow" when it comes to my boyfriend doing the things he wants to do. I feel that i am restricted to doing only the things he feels is alright for me to do. Since i was little i'd always been a tomboy and just one of the ... (121 words)

We get along well at work, I'd like to ask her out, but heard she has a b/f

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 36-40 - There's a girl I work with - she's been at the company longer than me, and for the first few months after I started we didn't really speak much. I'm a bit shy, she works on a different department and the company is very strict on chatting during working hours, so I didn't ... (283 words)

Did fingering injure me?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend fingered me and I think my vagina ripped a little into the space between my anus and vagina. What do I do and how do I know if its really ripped?... (34 words)

Is this how boys break up?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, please help me I feel so bad right now.. ok, I've been with his guy for six months now but I've known him for four years, he was my BF in high school, so six months ago he said he wants us to be together again because he just can't be with another person b... (192 words)

How do I know what my ex boyfriend wants?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex boyfriend and I have been seperated for 9 years after being together for 2 years. We have a nine year old son together. The reason we split was because he was 19 and I was 22. He was immature and not ready to be a dad. My ex has a girlfriend who he has been with for 9 ... (401 words)

Had sex with my boyfriend once but he now wants to wait till marriage!

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and my boyfriends 19. He still doesnt want to have sex and i do. We did it once but he doesnt wanna do it again till he is married. I want it so bad all the time, its all i think about when im with him. I just want to do it. I need help to stop thinking about it..... (63 words)

I still love my first boyfriend even although I accepted this other man's proposal!

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so worried.. i have two options.. when I got my first i was so happy but he left me after 3 years.. he ditched me for a girl.. so after that i got a new friend.. he became my best friend.. he proposed to me many times but i refused.. then when he proposed to me a 3rd time ... (101 words)

Trying my hardest to get out of this relationship... help!!!

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 41-50 - My question to all of you is how do I get out of my relationship? History: me and my girlfriend have been dating for going on two years now, we dated in high school and now in college. the problems started over a year ago when we first went to college. She flipped on me, she ... (507 words)

Is he trying to flirt with me or what?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, i need your advice on this. i recently dyed my hair blonde, as it was dark brown before, and i put it as my status on msn that i had dyed my hair blonde, and this guy i like said " blonde is not my favourite colour, but it's still sexy lol " . do you think he was trying to ... (118 words)

What is my next line of approach?

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19 September 2010 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this girl at school and i don't know what to say to her I haven't had a girlfriend in a long time and i don't know how to talk to any girl to start a relationship My cousin told her that i have crush on her and she didn't say she didn't like me.... so i ... (130 words)

Do I just give up on him?

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19 September 2010 (F)

age - Was in and out a 5 year relationship. It ended 6 months ago, been trying to make contact, he starts to talk to me then stops. I try calling, but he will not answer. What should I do?... (41 words)

My teacher is creeping me out!

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19 September 2010 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, im just a little confused. One of the teachers at our school acts really weird around me. He just sees me in the hallway, stops me and starts asking questions about my life. When i walk past him in the hallway he says hey really weird to the point people just seem to stare ... (87 words)